saracen wrote:single unmarried ladies are hard to come by for certain people looking for wives. lets be honest...would a single guy really go for a single mother of 3 kids? this lady is one hot mama he adores.
would you sacrifice to have a legitimate married life? this is more like the traditional or conforming to accepted rules and standards, as opposed to a life with a person such as someone mentioned above.
being married is not a sacrifice (my own point of view). there is the compromise like in all the relationships! depending on how much u have to compromise and if u r willing to compromise. sure it is more difficult to back out from a marriage then from a bf-gf relationship and kids make it more complicated.
there r lots of reasons why ppl run away from the marriage: for some marriage is the end of love, like they say and for others it's the natural NEXT STEP to take in the relationship. for sure a paper does not keep the one u love tied to u, but making it official and legit it's more to follow the ideea of a family. a marriage certificate is not to inssure love and respect between parteners but when it comes to kids i think it's better to keep them safe from bad comments.
as for the ur q. why wont a single guy go for a single mother with 3 kids? when u love someone u accept and love the "luggage" atham come with it as u accept the bads and goods in their character!