Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare!

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Dubai relationship & Dating nightmare! Jun 11, 2013
Hey guyz,

I've been in the UAE since I was a kid, I do have a lot of friends, an excellent social network, I recently moved to Dubai, infact I was so excited to make new friends and find a girlfriend.

But what made my story turn from ambition to disappointments is that people are very distant, they don't smile at all, if your there its like you don't exist, and I find them quite picky like what the **** do they think they are coming from to be picky!!

I was one of the guys who used to say, (by socializing making new friends will be possible), but it seems like a fairytale and nothing is true. I went to greec, Sweden, Germany and US, I made comparisons, sorry but hell no it was much easier there, even girls were easy going, but in here its more like they are expecting a Porsche description to fully fill their requirements, I'm sorry but what make you think you deserve it, have you forgotten that no expat here came from royal families?? we are all working under the permit in UAE??!!

I'm sorry but are you interested to be lonely for the rest of your life!??

I'm I suppose to be at bars and night clubs every single day, with piercings ,tattoos, the celebrity style looks, and blow up my money getting drunk to meet people ?? that's pathetic and stupid! however not all of us could be that good looking, no one is perfect! for reference my rating in looks is 7 out of 10, and I do find it difficult to meet a girlfriend!

this topic is only for serious talks not for foolishness, its not even for dating.

Women's respond would be a great advise to share experience.

masterking
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jun 29, 2013
I actually don't find anything wrong for girls being picky, after all you guys would sure pick the girl of your interest. Ladies though might be protective from those guys with dark intentions, and you can't blame us for that, it's quite normal for ladies who doesn't want to get played on. :roll:

Besides, you guys should tickle our interests plus making a girl smile (laugh better yet) from a frown is a big point. Share a smile even if others won't, you'll never know who could be falling for it, and it won't harm anyway :D
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jun 29, 2013
He is right it is difficult to find someone who is realistic and down to earth. It is possible they are protective, which is reasonable, but it comes back to the same problem it is difficult to find right people in Dubai for whatever reason.

"Besides, you guys should tickle our interests plus making a girl smile (laugh better yet) from a frown is a big point."

Players are better at that.
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jun 30, 2013
Well yes, it's really hard to find the right person in Dubai. But tickling interests and making someone smile is better done by players? I disagree with that, ask any lady if she'd want to be approached by a blank-faced, clueless man, or a serious harsh-faced guy. Though winking, BIG NO NO.

Ladies are kind of observant. By that sense we tend to see/hear what turns us on/off. Well... smart talks always catches us every time.
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jul 05, 2013
Misssss wrote:blank-faced, clueless man, or a serious harsh-faced guy.
I didn't had that in mind, it is not that bad lol.

But usually players are good at approaching and the things you are saying, they have more practice.
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jul 09, 2013
many a true word misss, us guys should respect your protective attributes, the world is a changing place. It is sometimes hard to meet ladies but a syou say a warm smile, even on your own, radiates warmth and intrest and we should take more time to tickle ladies interests. Its about that spark, being unique and interesting, so I agree with what you say. I think playes can often me spotted by a well tuned woman..

Maybe ill go to the Creek tonight...

Paul - Business Bay
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jul 11, 2013
I think it's all about expectation, if you set it too high you'll get dissapointed.

I've been to europe several times, social life there is way better , i dont drink or smoke but i had fully amazing social life there.
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Jul 12, 2013
VanDamme wrote:I think it's all about expectation, if you set it too high you'll get dissapointed.


Exactly. Don't be blinded by the fact.
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Re: Dubai relationship & Dating nightmare! Aug 12, 2013
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Re: Dubai relationship & Dating nightmare! Aug 27, 2013
You need time and good luck!
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Aug 27, 2013
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Aug 28, 2013
Umm ... Guys ? Can't you get it yet ? It's plain and simple .

Dubai was never about love in my openion . It's about business only .

You want love ? go find it in your home country , Then bring her back with you .

Not trying to be raciest her but Western nationalities have the best chances of finding " LOVE " in here more than any one. For obvious reasons. POWER.

Now you see there are 2 Types of people who live in Dubai :

1-Managers, CEO's : The real money makers. Mostly from North American - England - Australia etc. Walk in the park for them to find ladies.

2-Non-Mangerial Employees : The working Class, Shared accomodations ,Middle Eastern or Asians They may look good sometimes but the love finding costly life style does not fit with thier budgets, so they either settle down with same nationality lover here or overseas back home or they simply hook up with other nationalites from the same working class , East Europians are working class too but it's not easy bonding with them in a relation. Because all eyes are on them due to their amazing looks.

There you have it . you can thank me later.
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Aug 28, 2013
Haha Neph... you got it in one...

or some one can hope for the best and place an add on here with there number looking for love you just might get a brit or an american haha.

well to be honest im a british asian (so they call it) educated born n bred in UK, ive never had a problem and its not about power or money... if thats the type of lady you going for then you not looking for love or relationship you just want a lady who can spend your hardearnings. there called gold diggers.

a real woman wont care much is she likes you... its not about where your from its how intelectual you are and how you hold yourself together.

theres plenty of woman out there who are damn right stunning who just want a decent guy... simple... but then again it does depend on your looks at time.. but maybe your aiming to high... haha
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Aug 28, 2013
LOL @ Bugs

I like to aim high otherwise i am not satisfied for some reason :D it's a big mistake to generalize ofcourse but in the same time , What i have said about relations in Dubai , Gold diggers or not , seem to be the rule rather than the exception . I know i look good for an Egyptian man. I am fit and in shape . I am outspoken and things between me and women happens very naturally. But i have said what i said as a message for the new comers to Dubai : Don't freak out :D what you see is what you get and what you don't is better yet :D

Off topic : which part of asia do you come from ? ( you know , before England ) :D
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Re: Dubai Relationship & Dating Nightmare! Aug 28, 2013
Im from yorkshire.. born n bred there, other Afghan.... never seen it never been there but have been told that i have a plot there somewhere...
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