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I am Fed up ... Sep 15, 2005
Hello there..

Since 2 years .. i am looking for a girl... a nice decent one.. i am looking at the places which i assume are the right places.... i am trying to avoid all the "fishy" places and make it a respectful manner coz am serious about what i am looking for.

Why all the good girls r very much hidden here in Dubai... or its only my eyes?!! :) or is it because i am looking for a life time partner ?!! its really confusing me :?


i know its a sad-desperate question .. but...would anyone plz tell me where?

Thanks

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Sep 16, 2005
my advise is take 3 pills of viagra and grind the first gal u see. Courtesy of Liban and his desperate gay group........ :lol:
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Sep 16, 2005
Just stop looking and live your life.
Go to a salsa class.. yoga, climbing.. go for a vacation somewhere..
You will find her.. or she will find you. :)
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Re: I am Fed up ... Sep 16, 2005
Since 2 years .. i am looking for a girl... a nice decent one.. i am looking at the places which i assume are the right places.... i am trying to avoid all the "fishy" places and make it a respectful manner coz am serious about what i am looking for.


First be honest with yourself and think" do i deserve a decent girl?" Guys usually get serious after depriving dozen of gals from virginity. How do you define fishy places?

Finding a wife is different in East. In West usually girls and guys do ". Unlimited trial before wearing engagement ring". Even some people produce couple of kids before deciding about marriage .

You sound like typical Muslim hehehe :P Just use your network and try to find a girl ;0) !!


Why all the good girls r very much hidden here in Dubai... or its only my eyes?!! :) or is it because i am looking for a life time partner ?!! its really confusing me :?


Thats problem everywhere . Man lot of tears are flowing across my eyes ,you are throwing salt on my injuries (crying wink) .


i know its a sad-desperate question .. but...would anyone plz tell me where?


Ask major pain !! to provide u pain killer or sad killer tablets .You should use them 3 times in a days with warm milk . Try to avoid eating Fish or other stuff , which adds fuel to fire at nite hehehe.

Just relax,God ll do better . Have you ever seen anyone , who was died before marriage? No ,look so many ugly people got married even Liban :P then why not u ?
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Sep 18, 2005

hi there...
im just looking for nice people
im latinamerican, friendly, and good person
tell me more about u if u want...
jazzytu@hotmail.com
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Sep 18, 2005
catarinasabina wrote:hi there...
im just looking for nice people
im latinamerican, friendly, and good person
tell me more about u if u want...
jazzytu@hotmail.com


Mostly Troops come from USA in middle east but now girls.Congratulation Man ,at-last someone appeared here for u :P.Add her to MSN ,call her and show her around.
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Re: I am Fed up ... Sep 18, 2005
Hmmm.. well... :oops:
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Re: I am Fed up ... Sep 30, 2005
Thanks mate for the kind response and sorry for the late delay.. it was crazy at work.

First be honest with yourself and think" do i deserve a decent girl?"



[color=green]to answer your question, yes i do deserve that :) not because i am a super perfect man, but because i know i do :)

Guys usually get serious after depriving dozen of gals from virginity. How do you define fishy places?


Never mate, its not my style at all :), although i know many girls around me.. but i hate to start jumping and doing the typical male behavoir.. i am trying to control my self to and to be a true man :)

Finding a wife is different in East. In West usually girls and guys do ". Unlimited trial before wearing engagement ring". Even some people produce couple of kids before deciding about marriage .


thanks dude for the clarification, thats right and i do understand that, i have friends from Europe and US and some other place and .. ;)

You sound like typical Muslim hehehe :P Just use your network and try to find a girl ;0) !! [/color]


Yes bro i am a muslim :), but even in a place like UAE the concept about a true person has been changed by money, time, and many other factors. it tends to be more materialistic and superficial .. i am sorry guys .. no offence please :).



Thats problem everywhere . Man lot of tears are flowing across my eyes ,you are throwing salt on my injuries (crying wink) .


hehe . its funny and painful at the same time.


Ask major pain !! to provide u pain killer or sad killer tablets .You should use them 3 times in a days with warm milk . Try to avoid eating Fish or other stuff , which adds fuel to fire at nite hehehe.


[color=green]LOOOL, Man... i have been there for quite long time ;) stuff like panadoll is no longer working for me.... :P

Just relax,God ll do better .


Thanks mate... its a precious reminder :)

Have you ever seen anyone , who was died before marriage? No ,look so many ugly people got married even Liban :P then why not u ?[/color]
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heheheh ... Poor liban.


Thanks man for you time :)

Cheers
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Re: I am Fed up ... Sep 30, 2005
Intimacy wrote:Hello there..

Since 2 years .. i am looking for a girl... a nice decent one.. i am looking at the places which i assume are the right places.... i am trying to avoid all the "fishy" places and make it a respectful manner coz am serious about what i am looking for.

Why all the good girls r very much hidden here in Dubai... or its only my eyes?!! :) or is it because i am looking for a life time partner ?!! its really confusing me :?


i know its a sad-desperate question .. but...would anyone plz tell me where?

Thanks


hey, you sound like one of my friend! My belief is, 'do no haunt for a girl'
just like andyba mentioned. When the time is right, you will find the right person.
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Oct 01, 2005
Well i was in Dubai around August time this year and i wasnt looking for a holiday romance thing but this just happened...someone at the hotel that i was staying at i liked basically the first day i saw him i knew there was something about him...what im trying to say is they could be anywhere around the world and dont search to hard let things just flow and once you see the girl of your dreams then you will know shes the one for you!!! :D
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Re: I am Fed up ... Oct 01, 2005
hey, you sound like one of my friend! My belief is, 'do no haunt for a girl'
just like andyba mentioned. When the time is right, you will find the right person.


maybe you are right.. i am still waiting .. but am afraid that i will run out of fuel and then crash.. hehehe. lets see ;)
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Oct 01, 2005
tinkerbella wrote:Well i was in Dubai around August time this year and i wasnt looking for a holiday romance thing but this just happened...someone at the hotel that i was staying at i liked basically the first day i saw him i knew there was something about him...what im trying to say is they could be anywhere around the world and dont search to hard let things just flow and once you see the girl of your dreams then you will know shes the one for you!!! :D


what a lucky person you are :)
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Oct 03, 2005
I dont feel lucky as Im in UK - London and his in Dubai :cry: It kinda hurts that we cant see each other in person...who knows what the future holds???
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Oct 04, 2005
tinkerbella wrote:I dont feel lucky as Im in UK - London and his in Dubai :cry: It kinda hurts that we cant see each other in person...who knows what the future holds???


MMMMm I practiced some astrology and have some talent. I know what future is going to hold for you........ u are going to meet a guy like HP.. that will b the beginning and end of the story. Love story for 1sec.......

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Nov 05, 2005
I have read a statistic which claims that only 27% of the population of Dubai is female and the rest not. So it is sort of understandable.
The other gender similar dilemma is more difficult.
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Apr 02, 2006
HP, as usual you are an ass. Not all Westerners are promiscuous, just like not all Muslims are suicide bombers. There is also a difference between people who marry of their own choice in a love match, not who select a stranger or whose family selects someone for them to marry. Also, some people don't have money for a wedding and they are the ones who pay for the wedding themselves, not their parents. If some people don't believe in marriage then that is their choice - also if they want to have kids without marrying. There are all kinds of people on this planet with differet pair bonding behaviour. What makes you so special to judge them HP?

Intimacy, it depends on what kind of match you want. If you want a traditional Muslim woman, you might have to find a woman through a family network or introductions agency, or a social group with likeminded people of similar background. If you want to find a love match with woman, no matter what her religion or background, then go join some dance classes, sports clubs, theatre club or whatever kind of club you are interested in. Also, being on this forum could be useful, as well as going to other live social gatherings. Basically, if you get invited to a dinner party or desert safari you should go, because that could be a great place to meet a nice woman from a new social circle.
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Re: contact me and u will find good thing Apr 02, 2006
ABUKHALIFA wrote:please contact me and u will find something very good
i can asure u


Aren't you the same person posting about group s.e.x. and s.e.x in the desert in yesterday's threads? Intimacy is a nice guy who is not interested in any women you have to offer him. His thread clearly states that he is looking for a girlfriend, not casual s.e.x. Don't pedal your wares in this thread any longer.
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Apr 02, 2006
nice point! :D

iNtiMacy, you are a nice and decent man...hmmm...i think :D you will find a right girl for you...just wait for the right time.


Im just like you,(the other way around) i am looking for a decent and a very nice man who can accept me for who i am. but i dont look and haunt for it.. it will come sooner.



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"if you give your heart to a person, there should be no doubts or hesitations." Your heart is your treasure. Make sure it's given to whom it belongs :D
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Apr 03, 2006
Intimacy,

First, Welcome to the Club.

Although i'm 25, but my dream was to marry at 21 :D yeah crazy, but imagin you be 45 with a kid in the age of 20. ;)

Anyway, too late now, lets talk real life....

Well, when i was offered the job in dubai, i was well... it is great to start a life there and have someone to support and push me forward, a reason to grow and a reason to be a better person and enjoy my life with, but...

From people who have been here long time, Dubai is not the place to do that, or they think so, I was told Dubai is good for singles, and those who would like to stay single or best thing, have ONLY a GF.

For me, Dubai would be a great place to start a life with a wife.

hey, you sound like one of my friend! My belief is, 'do no haunt for a girl'
just like andyba mentioned. When the time is right, you will find the right person.


EJ,
Well, been trying this for 4 years now... with no luck, but to be honest, it gave me a career boost as i was very focused on my career.
but... regreting it now, i would rather focus in finding my princess than career.

Problem that it is hard for decent guys to meet the right decent gurl they are looking for..... Or so i belive . (don't hail me, i'm not saying i'm "decent guy" but may be Intimacy is)

My experience is, girls see decent guys as "Good best friends" which i hate it because then it is very tricky trying to move from the "best friend" to the "boyfriend/lover" space. You will have to sacrifice the whole friendship telling her your feelings.

Anyway, I'm Fed up Too

I wonder how our sarcastic DF friends didn't kill you till now, but don't worry you are not alone, i'll be tortured with you.

Check cadmus post
http://www.dubaiforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=4715
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Don't worry yshimy, you will find someone. You just have to put yourself out there. Try to balance work and social life so that you do make time to be out in social circles where you have the possibility to meet someone.

Believe me, there are women out there who like kind and sweet guys - and not just for friends. (Was Cadmus's thread about that - I know there was a thread on here about Bad Boys.) In any case, starting as friends first is a much better way to enter a possible marriage - the relationship may have a chance to last longer because it isn't just based on lust that might burn out rather quickly.

Even if you do get married one day, it isn't necessarily easy. Marriage takes a lot of work, and it has its ups and downs.
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Apr 03, 2006
Dude you are 25. You are still young.

In any event, I know some women who you can meet.
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Apr 03, 2006
Even if you do get married one day, it isn't necessarily easy. Marriage takes a lot of work, and it has its ups and downs.[/quote]

Now THERE's an understatement!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

They say that marriage is an institution...but then again, so is an insane asylum! Here speaks someone who voluntarily walked through the door of the loony bin...twice!

Barking mad!

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Apr 03, 2006
woof woof i say

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arniegang wrote:woof woof i say

:lol:


I nearly missed this post, the foam from my mouth had obscured the screen. Must go. Postmen to bite and a fascinating lampost awaits on the corner of the street!

Grrr...

:lol: :lol:

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Apr 03, 2006
giss a bone DK before ya go

:lol: :lol:
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Apr 03, 2006
Yshimy ...

Mate... I dont know what to say.. but i think what you are talking about is something familier to me now..

i really wish you all the best of luck.

I will try to catch up with you soon. :)
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Apr 03, 2006
Liban wrote:Dude you are 25. You are still young.

In any event, I know some women who you can meet.


Liban... i think you should be silent now... you are married dude.

I even didnt hear from you since you came back.

Leave the poor yshimy alone.. 25 is not old.. its the peak time for the man :D


You got married and you forgot about your pals..... wahahah

Dont worry mate.. i really understand :D

Wallak E7ki talaephone ya mo7taram ..
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arniegang wrote:giss a bone DK before ya go

:lol: :lol:


If only I could remember where I buried it...?

:lol: :lol:

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Apr 03, 2006
Kaneli, the New Avatar is cool :D


kanelli wrote:
Believe me, there are women out there who like kind and sweet guys - and not just for friends.

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Are you talking about Dubai?!! LOL Where?!
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Apr 03, 2006
Intimacy wrote:Liban... i think you should be silent now... you are married dude.

I even didnt hear from you since you came back.

Leave the poor yshimy alone.. 25 is not old.. its the peak time for the man :D


You got married and you forgot about your pals..... wahahah

Dont worry mate.. i really understand :D

Wallak E7ki talaephone ya mo7taram ..


Dude thats what I am saying... 25 is not old at all... Its young...

Shoo habibi, we've spoken a couple of times :wink:

Also, since when are you my pal????? :lol: just kidding :D

Ba3atillak SMS al yom!!! Abl al duhr. Shoof mobilak.
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