Melika's thread about relationship phases leads me to think of this topic:
Who's really more compromising in a relationship?? Men or Women??.
Generally speaking, that is!!!
I tend to think it's men.
When the string is pulled too tight and about to break, men usually let go. Men, more often than not, walk away from the fight. Why??... Because they think with their heads. They know they could do more damage…. if the fight escalates.
Women, on the other hand, usually get taken over by emotions and stop thinking rationally, and when that happens, they really can do some crazy things. Ask me!!! We men know that...... That’s why we walk away.
At least that’s my experience!!
But at the end of the day, for a relationship to last, it has to be based on give and take. You can’t take and not give, or you can’t give one and take ten!!!!
It would be nice if we can have it our way…. all the time!!! But....forget it, that will never, ever happen!!!