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Whats your opinion about love making with GF ?

A Sin !!!
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no way not a sin at all!!
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Whats your opinion about love making with GF ?

princeOfAustralia
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Oct 03, 2005
This is a seriosuly dodgy question as people's answers will depend on how you've been brought up and what you believe in. Personally I respect anyone who is willing to wait until they find that special person in their life to get married. BUT with the way global society is changing things happen later as people are more career minded etc. And personally speaking, I don't believe you have to have a piece of paper to show your commitment and love for a person. In many countries people living together for over a certain amount of time are seen to have a common law marriage anyway and have the same rights.

A physical relationship with someone should never be entered into lightly. I think men are starting to get a bit intimidated at the way some women express themselves, but hey shouldn't women be allowed to enjoy themselves as much as they guys, it's a two way thing.
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Oct 03, 2005
I think it is normal to do that. I've been living with my girlfriend for the past 3 years and we finally decided to take it to the next step and tie the knotts..

Girls should also take their time, have the experience, in order to make the right decision at the end.
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Oct 03, 2005
I agree with you totally, after all aside from the falling in love thing, who wants to spend their lfie with someone who's rubbish in bed? No thanks, we're all entitled to good lovin', it's one of lifes absolute pleasures.
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Oct 03, 2005
sex is good !!!!! sex only becomes bad when she gets pregnant and they consider abortion ... NOW THATS A SIN !!!!


or if it becomes the key on a destruction of a family .....


so for all the perverts and nymphs in this forums .. (including me) we should all have sex reponsibly ..... ..... if you cant be responsible you shouldnt be doing it!!!
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Jan 22, 2006
mAJOR pAIN wrote:fun is good !!!!! fun only becomes bad when she gets pregnant and they consider abortion ... NOW THATS A SIN !!!!


or if it becomes the key on a destruction of a family .....


so for all the perverts and nymphs in this forums .. (including me) we should all have fun reponsibly ..... ..... if you cant be responsible you shouldnt be doing it!!!


for u ppls scx is good b4 marriage and can keep gf as well..wow u are all aare true beliver of ur religion....:(
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Jan 22, 2006
Lot of muslims do it and they hardly mind it as long as someone doesnt make love wid their own sisters and daughters :0). We are sorta hypocrite.

Though i had girl friends but my conscience always used to curse me and i always felt guilty ,probably i brought in different culture and believe in different thing. :wink:
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Jan 22, 2006
mAJOR pAIN wrote:fun is good !!!!! fun only becomes bad when she gets pregnant and they consider abortion ... NOW THATS A SIN !!!!


or if it becomes the key on a destruction of a family .....


so for all the perverts and nymphs in this forums .. (including me) we should all have fun reponsibly ..... ..... if you cant be responsible you shouldnt be doing it!!!


using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P
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Jan 22, 2006
emadullah wrote:
mAJOR pAIN wrote:fun is good !!!!! fun only becomes bad when she gets pregnant and they consider abortion ... NOW THATS A SIN !!!!


or if it becomes the key on a destruction of a family .....


so for all the perverts and nymphs in this forums .. (including me) we should all have fun reponsibly ..... ..... if you cant be responsible you shouldnt be doing it!!!


for u ppls scx is good b4 marriage and can keep gf as well..wow u are all aare true beliver of ur religion....:(


Oh please get off your high and mighty horse! I can't tell you how many nationals I know that mess about, paid for women, and guys, so stop preaching, it's getting really boring.

HP, always use a condom! You're protecting your own health and that of the person you're with. Remember when you sleep with someone, you're also sleeping with everyone they've ever slept with and vice versa.

Always play safe.
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Jan 22, 2006
HP, always use a condom! You're protecting your own health and that of the person you're with. Remember when you sleep with someone, you're also sleeping with everyone they've ever slept with and vice versa.

Always play safe.


Hahaha today i love u :) But our people say using condem is same as eating chocolate with wrappers :oops:
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Jan 23, 2006
HP wrote:using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P


Einstein, birth control is not a sin in Islam.
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Jan 23, 2006
HP wrote:Though i had girl friends but my conscience always used to curse me and i always felt guilty ,probably i brought in different culture and believe in different thing. :wink:


so your a sexually furstrated virgin. wow that just explained alot.
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Jan 23, 2006
so your a fun furstrated virgin. wow that just explained alot.


Man our muslims girl friends hardly give us full rights ,our rights are limited to certain territories :P
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Jan 23, 2006
Chocoholic wrote:
emadullah wrote:
mAJOR pAIN wrote:fun is good !!!!! fun only becomes bad when she gets pregnant and they consider abortion ... NOW THATS A SIN !!!!


or if it becomes the key on a destruction of a family .....


so for all the perverts and nymphs in this forums .. (including me) we should all have fun reponsibly ..... ..... if you cant be responsible you shouldnt be doing it!!!


for u ppls scx is good b4 marriage and can keep gf as well..wow u are all aare true beliver of ur religion....:(


Oh please get off your high and mighty horse! I can't tell you how many nationals I know that mess about, paid for women, and guys, so stop preaching, it's getting really boring.

HP, always use a condom! You're protecting your own health and that of the person you're with. Remember when you sleep with someone, you're also sleeping with everyone they've ever slept with and vice versa.

Always play safe.


Well yeah 40% of nationals are kinda high and h*rny, the rest are decent. Wellm Choco I dont think u have to advise that dump brat to use condoms cos no woman in her right mind would come near that fool even if she is drugged she will get away cos of his strong curry smell..... :lol:
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Jan 23, 2006
Well yeah 40% of nationals are kinda high and h*rny, the rest are decent. Wellm Choco I dont think u have to advise that dump brat to use condoms cos no woman in her right mind would come near that fool even if she is drugged she will get away cos of his strong curry smell..... :lol:


hahahah smell of curry ;0) . Man i dont know how to make curry and second i have lot of perfumes.

I wish people know how hard is it to get girls :0)
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Jan 23, 2006
Liban wrote:
HP wrote:using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P


Einstein, birth control is not a sin in Islam.


Hahaha who said using condom is not sin ? ofcourse its sin...any way leave this issue here....enjoy ur life with fullest...its ur life u are sole responsible for that
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Jan 23, 2006
Right! So it's asin to protect yourself against unwanted diseases or unwanted pregnancy.

Your thinking is totally whack man!

People will have s-e-x whether you like it or not, whether it's seen as good or bad, so I say educate these people to protect themselves if they're going to do it.

Man there's a severe lack of education in this place with regard to any of this and then people wonder why there's a problem.

Use your brain man, oh I'm sorry you don't appear to have one that thinks with any normal kind of rationality.
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Jan 23, 2006
emadullah wrote:
Liban wrote:
HP wrote:using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P


Einstein, birth control is not a sin in Islam.


Hahaha who said using condom is not sin ? ofcourse its sin...any way leave this issue here....enjoy ur life with fullest...its ur life u are sole responsible for that


God allows birthcontrol. Condoms are a form of birthcontrol. Islam allows this. 'Nuff said.

Unlike Christianity, $ex in marriage for Muslims is encouraged. $ex has been said in the Quran to be pleasurable and fullfilling for both parties. The Prophet said, that the key to a healthy marriage is a healthy $ex life...

Thats a FACT.
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Jan 23, 2006
No sin!! If you are not harming anyone why would it make a sin? I would say smoking in public is more like a sin (although I am a smoker), as you are forcing someone to smoke and harming their health. But making love with gf or bf is only you 2's business as long as both party are not being forced to do it.
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Jan 24, 2006
Liban wrote:
emadullah wrote:
Liban wrote:
HP wrote:using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P


Einstein, birth control is not a sin in Islam.


Hahaha who said using condom is not sin ? ofcourse its sin...any way leave this issue here....enjoy ur life with fullest...its ur life u are sole responsible for that


God allows birthcontrol. Condoms are a form of birthcontrol. Islam allows this. 'Nuff said.

Unlike Christianity, $ex in marriage for Muslims is encouraged. $ex has been said in the Quran to be pleasurable and fullfilling for both parties. The Prophet said, that the key to a healthy marriage is a healthy $ex life...

Thats a FACT.


i m talking about $ex with Gf not with wife....$ex with gf is a sin....$ex with wife is ofcourse allowed...wife will be sole property of husband...he can use condom or dont use not a matter at all....
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Jan 25, 2006
Nudity During Sex Annuls Marriage, Says Cleric - http://www.khaleejtimes.com/DisplayArti ... eeast&col=

There always has to be someone to rain on the marital sex parade, and this cleric is it! :lol:
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Jan 25, 2006
Ah, so if one tries to write "$ex" here on this forum it is converted into "fun" instead. :lol: I'll remember that for next time! :P
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kanelli wrote:Nudity During fun Annuls Marriage, Says Cleric - http://www.khaleejtimes.com/DisplayArti ... eeast&col=

There always has to be someone to rain on the marital fun parade, and this cleric is it! :lol:


Well this guy is a moron.... His wife probably won't touch him because he is butt ugly so he creates this myth....

A husband has the right to see his wife naked (and vice versa) and all kinds of $ex acts are allowed. Of course sodomy is forbidden and anything that denigrats a woman is not allowed. This is what Islam allows, not this guy's moronic statement.
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Jan 25, 2006
I know Liban, I didn't mean to say Islam restricts sex in marriage. I'm well aware that his is one weird guy with his own interpretation of Islam. There are crazy Christian ministers who also make "rules" about sex within marriage. This was just a recent story I was aware of about a religious high-up who still isn't satisfied that followers are waiting to be married to have $ex - there have to be yet more restrictions (without basis in the holy book). People should never feel guilt about making love to their husband or wife and seeing them how nature/God made them.
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Jan 25, 2006
kanelli wrote:People should never feel guilt about making love to their husband or wife and seeing them how nature/God made them.


Unless they are married to HP... Then they would feel guilty and weird... :lol:
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Jan 28, 2006
Liban wrote:
kanelli wrote:People should never feel guilt about making love to their husband or wife and seeing them how nature/God made them.


Unless they are married to HP... Then they would feel guilty and weird... :lol:


:roll: :roll: HP= horse power or holy person ?
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Jan 29, 2006
emadullah wrote:
Liban wrote:
emadullah wrote:
Liban wrote:
HP wrote:using condom is also sin , in that way you are jst stoping another soul to appear in this world :P major pain ,well come back ,sweetheart ,i was missing u a lot :P


Einstein, birth control is not a sin in Islam.


Hahaha who said using condom is not sin ? ofcourse its sin...any way leave this issue here....enjoy ur life with fullest...its ur life u are sole responsible for that


God allows birthcontrol. Condoms are a form of birthcontrol. Islam allows this. 'Nuff said.

Unlike Christianity, $ex in marriage for Muslims is encouraged. $ex has been said in the Quran to be pleasurable and fullfilling for both parties. The Prophet said, that the key to a healthy marriage is a healthy $ex life...

Thats a FACT.


i m talking about $ex with Gf not with wife....$ex with gf is a sin....$ex with wife is ofcourse allowed...wife will be sole property of husband...he can use condom or dont use not a matter at all....


Er excuse me! But NO a wife is NOT A PIECE OF PROPERTY!!!!!

No human being 'owns' another! Marriage is a partnership it's a 50/50 split, no party has an upper hand over the other person, if you belive that then you're totally misguided and I'd hate to see any girl end up with you!
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Hey Choco...

I read somewhre in the bible that goes like this.... "woman... thou shall leave your family and serve your husband...... "

:-)
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Yeah and that was written how many thousands of years ago?!

In this day and age, no one has the right to treat someone else as a piece of property, trust me if any guy treated one of my girlfriends like that, they'd get a thick ear in no time. I know so many relationships where the women wear the trousers and the guys love it!

In certain societies the men have no time for weak women, you're expected to be tough and to stand up for yourself.
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Re: ... Jan 29, 2006
sa4877 wrote:Hey Choco...

I read somewhre in the bible that goes like this.... "woman... thou shall leave your family and serve your husband...... "

:-)


Islam forbids a woman to being the property of man and to "serve" him. A woman is equal to a man and should only serve The One True God.

Thats it.
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