There Is No Such Thing As "Love At First Sight!!!"

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There is no such thing as "Love at First Sight!!!" Dec 21, 2008
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Love at first sight is nothing more than an instantaneous physical attraction. Nothing more nothing less.

It could develop into infatuation or fascination but seldom into true love!

As a proof, it’s said that virtually all relationships that originated from the so-called “love at first sight” ended up in failure.

So if you think you’ve fallen in love with that person you saw last night, you’re wrong. There is no such thing as “love at first sight.” You were just momentarily attracted to that person, but there was no love in the air!


“Love at first sight” is a fairy tale which only occurs in songs and movies, but not in real life!

Have you ever been in a relationship that was based on love at first sight? And if so, how was it? And to where did it lead you????

I have … when I was in my 20’s. Three times ….in fact!!

Unfortunately, and as expected, all of them were short-lived experiences that ended up in big disappointments!!! Needless to say, I did not walk away unscathed either. I carried through a lot of heartache for a long time!!!

My advice: Look only for true love... and watch out for that false feeling called "love at first sight!!!"



:cry: :cry: :cry:

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Dec 22, 2008
I've experienced love at 3rd sight. :love7: :love10: :lovestory:
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Dec 22, 2008
Love at continuous sight maybe?
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Dec 22, 2008
Lust at first sight? Most definately!
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Dec 22, 2008
Lust at first sight, love at second sight, regret at third sight!

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Dec 22, 2008
Well, if you think the Freudian way, love is nothing but a blocked sexual urge. So there's no 'love' involved in 'love at first sight'. It's just infatuation, physical attraction, lust, or a mad crush. :)
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Dec 22, 2008
Well, if you think the Freudian way, love is nothing but a blocked sexual urge. So there's no 'love' involved in 'love at first sight'. It's just infatuation, physical attraction, lust, or a mad crush. :)
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Dec 22, 2008
Well, if you think the Freudian way, love is nothing but a blocked sexual urge. So there's no 'love' involved in 'love at first sight'. It's just infatuation, physical attraction, lust, or a mad crush. :)
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Re: There is no such thing as "Love at First Sight!!!&q Dec 22, 2008
Tom Jones wrote:***

I carried through a lot of heartache for a long time!!!

My advice: Look only for true love... and watch out for that false feeling called "love at first sight!!!"
:cry: :cry: :cry:


Heartache: We've all been there, but it shouldn't last. You should know that you deserve better than that...
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Re: There is no such thing as "Love at First Sight!!!&q Dec 22, 2008
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Dec 22, 2008
bhomes wrote:Well, if you think the Freudian way, love is nothing but a blocked sexual urge. So there's no 'love' involved in 'love at first sight'. It's just infatuation, physical attraction, lust, or a mad crush. :)


If you listen to Freud, we all fancy our mothers and were never breast fed enough!

Love is not a blocked urge at all; its a full-on, rock your world, total immersion experience. Love at first sight is like getting hit by a thunderbolt...yes its lust, but that is what good old mother nature intended when she designed the whole male/female/continuation of the species thingy...

Vive la difference!

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Dec 23, 2008
Dubai Knight wrote:Love at first sight is like getting hit by a thunderbolt...

There no chance of survival when somebody is hit by a thunderbolt...
hahaha ROFL :rofl:
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Dec 31, 2008
Love: when you feel like licking an ass of a woman, you are in love. believe me or not. am I right ???
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Jan 11, 2009
Boner at first sight more like..
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Jan 11, 2009
I used to be a weather man.

I could look into a girls eyes at first sight and tell wether...

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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There is waaaay too much testosterone round here!

erm people do survive, being struck by lightning you know :roll:
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love at first sight..... Jan 15, 2009
Hmmm i think there is nothing to do with ur sight when it comes to real love...

if thts the case then Blind ppl dont fall in love????

love is abt to have a person on ur wavelength of frequency,,,,mutual understanding and peace of ur soul...
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Re: love at first sight..... Jan 15, 2009
daisy wrote:Hmmm i think there is nothing to do with ur sight when it comes to real love...

if thts the case then Blind ppl dont fall in love????

love is abt to have a person on ur wavelength of frequency,,,,mutual understanding and peace of ur soul...


Good point daisy really, never thought that blind people won't be able to fit in for "love at first site".

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