Being materialistic doesnt necessarily mean that one is indecent. Human as we are, we have this worldly cravings to make us enjoy life. Yet, if u happen to always encounter women asking of the things that u have well there's something they up to.
If you are looking for a decent one, you get to know the person well rather than judging her instantly. It's about digging deep into the personality of a person than the first impression.
If your looking for one, dont push too hard. Yet, effort should always be there. I dont buy the idea that you just have to wait. It should be coupled with effort.
I for one is looking for a decent guy to talk to intellectually; anything and everything under the sun, actually. It's also hard to bump with these guys.
Where the hell are they?
Seriously, keep on searching and keep on believing!