Aug 27, 2006
I don’t know if this will help?
I have been through the painful emotions that you are going through at the moment, and it is not a nice place! The splitting up process is, in simple terms a form of morning. You morn for the times you spent together and the relationship that has ended, this will only heal over time and can’t be rushed. I know that this does not help you in the short term but if you concentrate on friends, and talking your feelings through, as well as the positive things in your life you will eventually start the moving on process which will allow you to remember good times that you had in the relationship without the heart ach that you feel now.
So Shanya, Surround yourself with friends, activities, and positive things in your life and try to take it slowly, one step at a time. You will see that things do get better. Do not dwell on the fact your x has a new partner or the reasons why. You have to focus and concentrate on you, and getting your mind and heart back to a happy place.
I know that it is easy for us to say these things but hard for you to do at this difficult time. As a few people on here have mentioned they have been through this rollercoaster of emotions and the positives are it will most definitely get better for and you will meet and fall in love again in the future.
good luck and be be strong!!
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