URGENT HELP NEEDED! PLEASE HELP!

Topic locked
  • Reply
URGENT HELP NEEDED! PLEASE HELP! Mar 30, 2005
My sister is stuck in Dubai, she has admitted to me that her boyfriend has been violent towards her, and when she told him she wanted to come home he attacked her even more viciously.
She moved to a hotel yesterday, hoping he would not find her there, but he has, and has threatened to do everything he can to stop her from leaving the country.
We have managed to book her a flight home to the UK for tomorrow, but are very concerned for her safety in the meantime.
If anyone at all, would be kind enough to escort her to the airport, to see that she gets on the plane safely, or if anyone can offer any other advice as to what help is available to her in Dubai, I have already called the british embassy who said there is nothing they can do.

CHT2635
Dubai Expat Wannabe
Posts: 6

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
6 entries found for Police.
po·lice ( P ) Pronunciation Key (p-ls)
n. pl. police
The governmental department charged with the regulation and control of the affairs of a community, now chiefly the department established to maintain order, enforce the law, and prevent and detect crime.

A body of persons making up such a department, trained in methods of law enforcement and crime prevention and detection and authorized to maintain the peace, safety, and order of the community.
A body of persons having similar organization and function: campus police. Also called police force.
(used with a pl. verb) Police officers considered as a group.
Regulation and control of the affairs of a community, especially with respect to maintenance of order, law, health, morals, safety, and other matters affecting the public welfare.
Informal. A group that admonishes, cautions, or reminds: grammar police; fashion police.

The cleaning of a military base or other military area: Police of the barracks must be completed before inspection.
The soldiers assigned to a specified maintenance duty.
Fatty Melon
Dubai Forums Frequenter
User avatar
Posts: 109
Location: Dubai/Southampton

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
Hi
We have already contacted police, they havent really been of much help. She does not want to have him charged or arrested, she just needs somewhere safe to stay and an escort to the airport tomorrow to ensure she is able to get on the plane safely.
Thanks for your response though!
CHT2635
Dubai Expat Wannabe
Posts: 6

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
Somewhere safe to stay? Isn't she already in a hotel?

And...
What are the chances her boyfriend knows what hotel she is in, when she is leaving, and what time her flight is?
Fatty Melon
Dubai Forums Frequenter
User avatar
Posts: 109
Location: Dubai/Southampton

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
He already knows which hotel she is in, and she has no money (neither do we) to move her to another. None of the staff in the hotel really speak english, so despite her telling them she does not want to receive guests, they have been letting this man come to her room, and he has attacked her there.

She is not safe, she is a young woman on her own in a foreign country, needless to say she is also extremely distraught and in pain as he has really hurt her wrist, she has no money to even get a taxi to hospital.
CHT2635
Dubai Expat Wannabe
Posts: 6

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
How on earth did he find what hotel she is in? Your sister must have told him. There are over 200 hotels in Dubai. Also, what hotel is she in where there is no one that speaks English? Just move her to another room in the hotel. Shouldn't cost anything.

You're making a big issue out of something so simple. Phone the police: 'BLAH BLAH attacked BLAH BLAH'. I really doubt the police ignores assaults. F**k her if your sister doesn't want him arrested. As harsh as this may sound, she would deserve this for being such a retard if she doesn't report him.
Fatty Melon
Dubai Forums Frequenter
User avatar
Posts: 109
Location: Dubai/Southampton

  • Reply
Mar 30, 2005
You making some very rude and harsh assumptions.

First of all this man is quite powerfull, he knows alot of people in Dubai, and she has no idea how he found her so quickly, but he did.

Second of all, she has contacted the police, and they werent really able to understand what she was saying.

We have had her move room, she has no money to change htoels again, she does not even have enough money for food or taxis, we are in the process of trying to wire her some, but she does not even know how to get (or where there is) a local western union, the hotel she is staying is practically a hostel, it was the only one she could afford.

I am here to kindly ask, that if there is a british person, willing to spare some of their time to drop her off at the airport and see's that she gets on the plane safely without being harrassed by this man.

If you cannot help, or have not got anything nice to say, please keep your opinions to yourself.

try if you might to muster a little compassion for a young girl, who has found herself being beaten up in a foreign country and left with no money or anyone to turn to!
CHT2635
Dubai Expat Wannabe
Posts: 6

  • Reply
Apr 02, 2005
I moved the funny part of this thread to Fight Club.
We don't allow naked photos in general chat forum cause we will get banned.

Now regarding the girl, lets try and be more compassionate.
I didn't hear the word husband here so that's plain and simple why the
British girl can't go to police. It's not allowed to live together in
Dubai if you are not man and wife.
I know similar stories that happened to people I know so help
may be indeed needed.

But there is a possibility that the lady did something wrong(like
stealing something) and the helper could get in trouble, so be careful
if you want to help.
Andyba
Dubai Forum Admin
User avatar
Posts: 827

  • Reply
Apr 02, 2005
There are many ways she could have avoided that issue.
She could have just said that the guy who hit her used to be a friend.
Fatty Melon
Dubai Forums Frequenter
User avatar
Posts: 109
Location: Dubai/Southampton

  • Reply
Apr 02, 2005
our thread has been murdered!
Glory
Dubai forums Addict
User avatar
Posts: 368
Location: A better place

  • Reply
Apr 03, 2005
i ponder...

why would a guest (non forum regular) find it be the best way to help this person by randomly finding this website (probably through google) and posting to complete strangers (half of which aren't even in dubai) about a situation without giving any real facts or substantial information.

:?:

my two fils worth.

Cheers,

D
smartd
Dubai Forums Vice-Admin
Posts: 595
Location: Dubai

  • Reply
Apr 03, 2005
My post has vanished into thin air... :shock:

Well thin air for me 'cause i ain't got no access to dem fight forum.. Oh well, I'll get there soon... :walk:
Liban
Dubai Forums Zealot
User avatar
Posts: 4683
Location: Dubai, UAE (Part of the Arab Nation)

  • Reply
Apr 08, 2005
I would have flew to Dubai to get my sister out, if this happen to my sister.

Good luck for her
FeiPo
Dubai Expat Helper
Posts: 562
Location: Dubai

  • Reply
Apr 09, 2005
Yeah...she's probably dead now....in a gutter....decaying...
Glory
Dubai forums Addict
User avatar
Posts: 368
Location: A better place

  • Reply
.. Apr 10, 2005
The lastest information is that they managed to get her out safely. She has flown out about a week back. The guy has been arrested and sentenced to 200 lashes.
sa4877
Dubai Forums Talker
User avatar
Posts: 196
Location: Dubai

  • Reply
Apr 11, 2005
8)
HAPPY ENDING!!!!
FeiPo
Dubai Expat Helper
Posts: 562
Location: Dubai

  • Reply
Apr 18, 2005
powerful guy = connections = bribe = 200 lashes with arab chick hair bet wont feel it. kekekeke :lol:
sniper420
Dubai Forums Zealot
Posts: 3723
Location: On Mother Earth with love

posting in Dubai General ChatForum Rules

Return to Dubai General Chat


  • Related topics
    Replies
    Last post