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During Ramadan my children had their job but no work. it was crisis as you all know. I was wondering if the owner of the company where my children work had any difficulties with money and how he would spend Eid with his family... I talked with my kids and since they didn't work at all that month I suggested to them to send their one salary money back to the owner as Eid present.

He never acknowledge that he got Eidia from them, he never thanked or comment. It went just like that as something usual.
We didn't think about that, When you give something just forget it and so we did.

But before the beginning of this month owner or his secretary called my kids and told them that company has no money, can they send their salary to him via Western Union, so that he can pay their salaries on 1st August and have no trouble with the law. Again they just went and sent money without any complain, as we are all highly sensitive on suffering of others (as we did suffer ourselves a lot during life).

Again no thank you. As if that is something their duty! But wait, NEW hire came to work that we didn't know at first, and probably the owner had salaries only for my kids but then took it from them to pay the new hire!!!!

They have only to work with this company until October inshaallah, but I told them not ever again to give money to anyone. You can't be good with wolfs around. They are able to take from poor people just to give to their family members (new hire).
They think if you are good now that you are stupid and you can be used forever.

But they do not know that I turn to be mean to such people. I am good, and I teach my kids to be good, but when somebody return our goodness with exploitation then I turn to be MEAN and I also teach my kids to be mean to such people.
Nobody taught me in life to be mean to bad people, but I learned it eventually through life. It is the only way to get rid of users and evil people.

Habibi I am good, but at the same time I can be so bad if you misuse my goodness.
Now I post him here for the lesson to others. Never be good to people if they didn't ask for help. And help only if you can. Do not be obliged to do good. It is your choice at the end. I asked so many times organisations and institution to help my kids, to give them scholarship, but I never got angry because they didn't. It is not duty, it is just a good will. If somebody don't want to help you that's OK. Just move forward, find help somewhere else.

But never ever let people use you. If they do; punish them. Make them famous just so that others learn from your example.