Huh, here we are!
I posted something on government's forum, and I am not sure that it will be published at all, so I want to write it here.
Nobody replies here as well, but at last I can publish it.
Indeed I have a problem with some women of UAE. They are racists. They think that all white women are sluts who came to steal their husbands and sons.
They talk between themselves, and sometimes tell us as well, that their males marry women from our countries (Europe, north Asia) just to play because we are cheap women.
Seriously!!? How can one muslim woman say to another muslim woman that she is cheap?
Some women of UAE think that they are expensive women because they ask for big mahr! Like; thousands of hundreds.
But hello, that's not expensive in eyes of all women of the world. That is cheap for some. It is as if you put price for yourself and those who can afford you they buy you.
As for us we marry for love. We don't ask for money but for loyalty and true love. Is it our problem that you raised men who play with women? Who have such week iman and no adab with dealing with foreign women?
How they can respect me as a white Muslim if you teach them that all whites are sluts?? Do you know that if you accuse innocent believer that you might finish in Jahanam?? Why it is so easy to say "cheap woman" to your sister in Islam, just because she is white and stranger in your country?
Hallo, it is not my fault, but fault of your sons who works in Government that many bad white women can exist in UAE.
I didn't allow them to be a part of your male's parties. Stop being enemy to all white women just because you didn't properly rise your own sons.
And I am not enemy to any Emirati women. I know that you feel sad and bad because your males run after white women. And some white women (mostly non-muslims - as for us muslims is haram to do zina or to walk toward it), indeed try to get your husbands. But hello, not me, not my sisters who happened to be white!!
If you think that I am cheap just because I don't ask big mahr but true love, if you think that I am cheap because I am white and non-Arab, then lady why do you spend all your mahr trying to make yourself white-skinned. Why do you luck Vitamin D and don't show yourself to the Sun ever, just to be as pale as possible.
What is that in you that makes you contradictory to yourself and that you see white cheap and at the same time want to be white. That will make you crazy! Stop it. Our ummah need stable strong women who will not be afraid of sluts and will not accuse their sisters just because of their fears and depression.
Let's just be friends. Leave racism, leave fears, become strong, be yourself. Don't be afraid of the Sun, it helps your health, don't hide your daughters indoor and stop them from activities and life just because you want them be as pale as possible to marry easier.
Don't you see that you are those who teach your males to love white. Btw to tell you secret: our males are dying for women like you with darker skin, dark big eyes and exotic faces of no big proud noses and high chins.
You see even thou we are not pretending to be dark, to make our eyes bigger, to cut our big noses. We are confident. Even with our thin pale hair. We do not try to put your black rich curls on our heads and walk around as Cleopatras.
I wish you to grow, to overcome your fears, to be more open to others, to stop accusing women of other nations when they are maybe purer then you, just because you see other bad women, of no faith, who run after your husbands.
Don't let them win.
Make a change. But start form yourself. Be proud of who you are, respect others for whom they are and don't judge them for skin colours or for being ajnabiyas!
I will teach my sons to respect women, to respect daughters of yours and never to harm them. I don't care what colour of skin your daughter have, but my sons will have to think of them as queens.
Also you teach your sons to respect my daughter and to see her valuable as a person, as a mu'min, regardless of skin colour.
That is just for overcoming same problems in future generations. They don't have to live your fears, they don't have to have your thoughts, they can be free and strong, confident and proud for who they are and for what they are.
And ask your government to change a little their mood regarding laws. It should be little more protective to you and your children. It is your right!!! Your right is to ask your government to make you more safe and more confident so that you don't earn Jahannam by blaming innocent women for being cheap just because they are white.
if I had your government and your country I would for sure ask for that. How lucky you are to be citizens of UAE where your government helps you in everything and answers all your calls. Why don't you use that!!!
Why to live in fear when you can live as queens. Our religion gave you rights, your government gives you rights...and after all you live in fear and agony...
I wish you wake up, and show your power, and rule over your males. I know you all can do that. I believe in you. Teach them to respect you, to respect other women and to spend their energy on building the country, instead of ruining their families and hearts of their females by running after other races.
Life is short. Run after Jannah. Together is easier. Much easier then to run with enemies all around.
Happy NEW Year indeed.