Eh, As babies we are born sinless and pure, a child born to a Muslim family is no different than a child born to a pagan or Christian family. Everyone of us is born the same way with the same creator with the same patent rights on us which makes belief in one single creator is actually inherent in every one of us.
So until we each reach adulthood god loves us all “unconditionally” (means if we die before adulthood, our place will be the heaven) only because we become accountable after reaching adulthood provided that we are not mentally handicapped.
God is Ar-rahman, al-wahhaab, ar-razzaaq…becouse when he wills us to become a human being in this universe which is out of his love and passion to create, he doesn’t ask our consent..
For his will/love and passion to continue (just like parents’) requires one to be a continues provider and sustainer until death, like parents/animals do until kids leave home or get married and so on. So within this concept, if someone is a disbeliever or believer will make no difference as long as we show some sort of effort to work and stay alive.
I would only say that god is unfair to dislike disbelievers (after adulthood), if only he didn’t give us “free will” as a birth right- which means, instead of leaving us to decide on matters, he would do it himself right from the beginning as he favours, i.e takes sides for some people to be born acting disbeliever and some as believers. Just like when we manufacture certain type of machines to perform certain tasks.. But this is not the case everyone chooses what to believe or disbelieve at certain times of their life(sometimes chancing minds as well), this can only happen within the presence of a mind power and memory to produce intelligence and wisdom to initiate our choices, hence why we have free will..
Even after our adulthood , if our choice is to stay a disbeliever, he will still continue to remain rahman, wahhaab, razzaaq and haleem for 1- he didn’t ask our consent to be created, 2- in the hope that one day due to some sort of reason or for prayers for guidance that we will change our course of actions and become a true believer, God gives us everyone the opportunity as he is Al-Haleem,As-Sabur, means patient enough to grant us respite, so that we use, available knowledge, experience, intellectual capacity and free will to make up our final decision until our abilities start to decline..
The problem only starts when we start to neglect and treat our free will wrongfully otherwise if we stay pure (without external causes to contaminate our nature and toughts) our belief in single creator is inherent and with the help of education and personal will to posses knowledge, everyone is bound to find the right path.
8. Al-Haleem (The Most Forebearing)
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