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Dubai Rose wrote:

Del wrote:

Dubai Rose wrote:I agree. There are a lot of men in Dubai, but the vast majority of them just don’t make the cut!!

The cut? Please clarify.

I know one lady who throws herself at money men or blokes with high powered salaries - sorry - jobs and she isn't getting anywhere, apart from being shagged left right and centre.

I told her to forget money, go for someone who's OK and hope for the best.

Chocoholic wrote:Well yes, if you're a superficial, shallow person only after money etc then you're never going to find any decent guys are you.

I'm really sad, I had the most amazing date with an awsome guy, got along like a house on fire. Sadly he's leaving Dubai - damn it!

By saying “they don’t make the cut” I didn’t mean they don’t make a lot of money….!!!???

Making the cut is an American idiomatic expression meaning they don’t meet one’s expectations. Just like also saying “they don’t make the grade.”

I keep forgetting that this a multinational community and people here don not always understand American idioms!

The last criterion for me in evaluating any prospect is probably how much money he makes. I make plenty of money myself, with a big salary and bonuses, so money is not, and has never been, an issue for me.
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That's why I said please clarify. I was hoping you didn't mean a guy with filoos.
You still haven't clarified, by the way.

Muscular?
Well dressed?
Knows his wine?
Well read?
Funny?
Flat feet?

bhomes wrote:Being single amongst the people really hurts you. This phenomenon has serious psychological repercussions. Sometimes on get depressive. Even your own self irritates you

No kidding!!!!!

I should be a basket case by now!!!

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It is really frustrating to be all alone. To be an outsider while among the crowd is painful.

Del, how can you clarify, when everyone has different criteria. What I might look for in a guy, might be completely different to what someone else looks for. It's impossible to generalise.

Bhomes, sounds like you need to make some friends.

Chocoholic wrote:Del, how can you clarify, when everyone has different criteria.

Well yeah, I meant your criteria.

Beer gut?
Club Foot?
Ferrari?

Well, one of my single friends in Dubai found it hard to find a decent guy because so many just wanted s.e.x, not a real relationship. Those guys don't make the cut for her.

just having a question, real relationship does this lead to marriage? or just respect and care.
Is it expected to be a life time, or to be ended ASAP, or ended once we find a chance to end it up?
Is it real LOVE?
Does it guarantee the rights of each one over the other?
again I am asking about "REAL".
cheers.
M.

Why does everything have to lead to the pressure of marriage? Plenty of couples stay together and never get married.

Mahmoud04 wrote:just having a question, real relationship does this lead to marriage? or just respect and care.
Is it expected to be a life time, or to be ended ASAP, or ended once we find a chance to end it up?
Is it real LOVE?
Does it guarantee the rights of each one over the other?
again I am asking about "REAL".
cheers.
M.

A real relationship is where each person cares about each other, is in love - not merely lust. They want to know how each other's day went, they want to spend time together doing hobbies, eating etc. They get to know each other and the relationship grows deeper. I know this dating culture doesn't mesh with some other's cultural beliefs, but for others it is essential for choosing who they marry. True, not everyone gets married, but still have a personal commitment to each other like a marriage. The commitment, love and respect is what is important. (Although, when it comes time to have kids I don't know why couples don't get married. Kids are more permanent than a piece of paper attesting marriage.)

I sense a business opportunity here.
Gonna put up my own business in supplying high quality male company for lonely women in Dubai.

The business would only focus on single (succesful) men and women that seek some warm evening of company like it was your spous. Costs of the evening are for the person who brings the incentive or can be shared upon agreement with my (proposed) agency.

Small fee for the agent, thats me for the coupling part and to keep privacy at maximum. No need for stalking afterwards.

Any thoughts on this one?

Wonder what the authorities think about such incentive...

LOL.....Escort Service....give MB a visa!!!!!!!!!!!

bhomes wrote:It is really frustrating to be all alone. To be an outsider while among the crowd is painful.

Who says being single means being alone? Most single people are socially active and have a lot of friends.

But there comes a time in the life of the single person where he or she wants to settle down and starts a family of their own. It’s more acute and pressing for a woman to do so because of her biological clock which starts ticking in her late 20’s.

But she first has to find the elusive Mr. Right.

How to find him is the $64,000 question!!!

Dubai Rose wrote:

bhomes wrote:It is really frustrating to be all alone. To be an outsider while among the crowd is painful.

Who says being single means being alone? Most single people are socially active and have a lot of friends.

But there comes a time in the life of the single person where he or she wants to settle down and starts a family of their own. It’s more acute and pressing for a woman to do so because of her biological clock which starts ticking in her late 20’s.

But she first has to find the elusive Mr. Right.

How to find him is the $64,000 question!!!

I think this is changing nowadays. The human life expectancy is growing every day by our technology driven health care system. So I don't think timing is a problem you have to deal with anymore, regarding having kids.

Doctors still say that receiving a child healthy without the growing risk of complications is optimum before the age of 35. But this consensus is changing rapidly if you ask me. Soon this age will be lifted to 40 maybe 45.

Just look at Ryan & Kate plus 8 !!!
From zero chance of getting babies, to eight in one row. Jippie Ai Yee....NOT

Dubai Rose wrote:

bhomes wrote:It is really frustrating to be all alone. To be an outsider while among the crowd is painful.

Who says being single means being alone? Most single people are socially active and have a lot of friends.

But there comes a time in the life of the single person where he or she wants to settle down and starts a family of their own. It’s more acute and pressing for a woman to do so because of her biological clock which starts ticking in her late 20’s.

But she first has to find the elusive Mr. Right.

How to find him is the $64,000 question!!!

Every girl is looking for Mr Right. You have to find a lot of Mr Wrongs and one or two Mr Maybe's before you settle on the man of your dreams. An evening over dinner or in a club is not going to give enough information and it is a slow process.

Where to meet them? That has been covered here many times. People here can give you advice but not find him for you, that would be like RobbyG's dating service...which would end up with you spending $64,000 and him spending some time in jail!



Knight

Dubai Knight wrote:

Dubai Rose wrote:

bhomes wrote:It is really frustrating to be all alone. To be an outsider while among the crowd is painful.

Who says being single means being alone? Most single people are socially active and have a lot of friends.

But there comes a time in the life of the single person where he or she wants to settle down and starts a family of their own. It’s more acute and pressing for a woman to do so because of her biological clock which starts ticking in her late 20’s.

But she first has to find the elusive Mr. Right.

How to find him is the $64,000 question!!!

Every girl is looking for Mr Right. You have to find a lot of Mr Wrongs and one or two Mr Maybe's before you settle on the man of your dreams. An evening over dinner or in a club is not going to give enough information and it is a slow process.

Where to meet them? That has been covered here many times. People here can give you advice but not find him for you, that would be like RobbyG's dating service...which would end up with you spending $64,000 and him spending some time in jail!



Knight

Having second thoughts over here...
Wait...I'll make it an cross-border service agency. I'll keep the Company registered under Dutch law (everything is possible here with some scrutiny) and you subscribe to me. Then this way, YOU all will be held accountable for your deedzzz

Heading for the Kamer van Koophandel to register my new business.

kanelli wrote:

Mahmoud04 wrote:just having a question, real relationship does this lead to marriage? or just respect and care.
Is it expected to be a life time, or to be ended ASAP, or ended once we find a chance to end it up?
Is it real LOVE?
Does it guarantee the rights of each one over the other?
again I am asking about "REAL".
cheers.
M.

A real relationship is where each person cares about each other, is in love - not merely lust. They want to know how each other's day went, they want to spend time together doing hobbies, eating etc. They get to know each other and the relationship grows deeper. I know this dating culture doesn't mesh with some other's cultural beliefs, but for others it is essential for choosing who they marry. True, not everyone gets married, but still have a personal commitment to each other like a marriage. The commitment, love and respect is what is important. (Although, when it comes time to have kids I don't know why couples don't get married. Kids are more permanent than a piece of paper attesting marriage.)

the 3 words u used are just great, and I wish all the girls now know if her partner do really offer that, same to men some women knows nothing about respecting her man's wishes or opinion..... specially when it comes to shopping
M.

Mahmoud04 wrote:

kanelli wrote:

Mahmoud04 wrote:just having a question, real relationship does this lead to marriage? or just respect and care.
Is it expected to be a life time, or to be ended ASAP, or ended once we find a chance to end it up?
Is it real LOVE?
Does it guarantee the rights of each one over the other?
again I am asking about "REAL".
cheers.
M.

A real relationship is where each person cares about each other, is in love - not merely lust. They want to know how each other's day went, they want to spend time together doing hobbies, eating etc. They get to know each other and the relationship grows deeper. I know this dating culture doesn't mesh with some other's cultural beliefs, but for others it is essential for choosing who they marry. True, not everyone gets married, but still have a personal commitment to each other like a marriage. The commitment, love and respect is what is important. (Although, when it comes time to have kids I don't know why couples don't get married. Kids are more permanent than a piece of paper attesting marriage.)

the 3 words u used are just great, and I wish all the girls now know if her partner do really offer that, same to men some women knows nothing about respecting her man's wishes or opinion..... specially when it comes to shopping
M.

Wait, not too fast.
If you commit to shopping, you commit your wallet son, its a simple as that.

You know the laws of women right? Inexplainable

yea but you know what!!! if you really love her from your soul, you will enjoy every cent she spent .... actually your joy is seeing her happy, but that doesn't apply for nasty women, they are happy spending anyone's money..
M.

Mahmoud04 wrote:yea but you know what!!! if you really love her from your soul, you will enjoy every cent she spent .... actually your joy is seeing her happy, but that doesn't apply for nasty women, they are happy spending anyone's money..
M.

I'm with ya Mahmoud,

LADIES, we have a caring Casanova here !!!
Lock Stock and One smoking barrel waiting to get shopped