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bear0704 wrote:If guy cheating on me, my first question will be..what's wrong with me???

Maybe its because you are a man?



Knight

Dubai Knight wrote:

bear0704 wrote:If guy cheating on me, my first question will be..what's wrong with me???

Maybe its because you are a man?



Knight

looooool...

I heard in dubai everybody cheat everybody is this thrue.

Because they have three basic functions; eat, sleep and well you know no really its not that all men cheat its more about trust than anything else. If you think he is cheating he probably is. It also comes down to a womens self-confidence. If your a confident women who knows shes keeping her man satisfied and not just in the carnel way you shouldn't have a cheater on your hands

I think you could say that its a 2 way street as those basic instincts are there in women as well.

We are just driven a little harder by our hormones!



Knight

heh that's a simple one... because we can! Men are only as faithful as their options. We always check out what the other options are!

Not_Sure wrote:because women dont do theyre job right......if they did, we wudnt have to cheat.

If you say so massah.

Since you have enlightened us with why men cheat, please share with us your wisdom and knowledge as to why women cheat. It should be interesting.

Cuz dem be biatches !

Thank you for sharing your wisdom DD and showing us an obvious example as to why a (intelligent) woman would cheat (if she learned her husband was an idiot).

What happened ? Did you fracture you funny bone recently

Hmm, interesting subject.

First of all, I wouldn't say "Cheating on their wives", rather I'd use the term "Satisfying themselves".

I have seen a lot of my friends "Satisfying themselves". The only logical reason I got out of them is, "She doesn't fulfill my desires.".
I suggested them to honestly discuss this matter with their partners in a civilized and friendly manner. Very few were successful and stopped the "Satisfying themselves" business, the rest of the guys popped with "No use." and continued on.

Some guys are @$$holes and always want a new babe after sleeping with the last one. You know what they say... Too much is never enough!
Some find it difficult to explain to their partners what they exactly want. And blah blah blah... (Yawning)... The point is, neither men are perfect nor women... The both sides are equally responsible.

When a guy starts "Satisfying himself", we need to see both sides' stories and only then decide which one of the two is actually responsible for this act.

IMO, sub-continental girls are pretty difficult to convince for making love. So sometimes, guys even convert to gays or break up... Lack of 5ex! lol... (I don't know how much that is true, but I've seen such cases.)

I feel like, there's no true love remaining in this world anymore... In majority, girls keep staring at the guy's wallet and credit cards... And guys staring at her groin or cleavage. Honey the money speaks! LOL

bcz thy are selfish and heartless...
i gess gals shuldnt bothr thm and shouldnt gv thm importance

Why Do Men Cheat ? That's unfair question .... and Do not generalize.... you might wonder why did my ex bf cheat me...!!! it's an individual action for a man. still there are out alot of men r ready to be sincere and honest.

WhiteJade wrote:Why do men cheat?

Tough question
Why does a dog lick its balls?

Because it can.................!?

Hi hun, men may cheat for various different reasons, depends on how much they want to be with that particular girl, how they were bought up, the way they were treated by other women in the past etc…

U should remember though, there are a lot of woman that cheat too!!

Well it depends on what do you mean by cheating?!

Some girls consider a man who date several girls at the same time a cheater, even though the man have not committed himself to a relationship or promised the girl her exclusivity, in this case the girl is just wrong.

But if the man has committed himself to a relationship or promised her the exclusivity and went and dated another girl then that can be called cheating, in this case it basically goes for two reasons.

Either the man is not a man enough and he is not satisfied with his relationship (which can be for several reasons), so he looks for a new partner but as have insecurities about his ability of getting a new partner after breaking up with his current one or maybe a general fear of being single he decides to cheat "test" the new partner to assure he is making a good step.

Or...simply because of attraction, attraction is a very strong feeling that humans don't choose to have and this feeling can make people take decision that is not quiet right to their normal interest, so they cheat on their partner but usually regret it after doing so.

The same reasons goes to women.

[quote="RobbyG"]Some say its the animal spirits. I say its the free market supply... [/quote]

but it's so so so unfair look what gorgeous women you can see at a ladies' night in dubai! what about men? 4 or 5 that still have hair, a wasteline, and clean nails at 40 i'd say the free market supply is in dire need in dubai when it comes to gentlemen.

Agreed, there are very few of us left!



Knight

cami wrote:but it's so so so unfair look what gorgeous women you can see at a ladies' night in dubai! what about men? 4 or 5 that still have hair, a wasteline, and clean nails at 40 i'd say the free market supply is in dire need in dubai when it comes to gentlemen.

Lower your standards, improve your average. The one you reject is the one you'll regret.

Personally I think men cheat because they dont know what relationship means. Atleast most men dont. The point is to have a healthy balanced lifestyle all together. When I say that the fire between a relationship dies. As us being men we practically easily get bored so we need excitement in our lives so what we do is we pretty much look for another female.

Guys most of the time dont make an effort to do something interesting specially when one is in a relationship. And the other reason is if the female is either too boring or either to nagging. Most females require time from their bfs or husbands which usually guys tend not to give because he is too busy with work. Doesnt matter if the female sex is a house wife or office going, they all need time.

And lastly men should work like men and think like women in these cases then probably they might come somewhere.







btw where is sage

It's not only men that cheat... I think women cheat more... and that is the worst one, because women only do it when they are attached to the other person. Basically when they are emotionally involved. and yes, sadly they cheat on their partners more! Men cheat because of their partners! If a woman knows how to keep his partner in her hand or how to satisfy them, he will never cheat on her even though he might think of doing it.. which is normal.. What I believe is that it's usually the woman's fault. Women need to be smart! But there are some exceptions where the guy is such a .... you know... very "bad" person..

Thats all talk to pleasing a man!! Thats like a housewife talking who is emotionally so much keeping the man on top of her head. Because men fail to give time thats why women get the chance to cheat. Men very rarely would go like, honey what do u want or ur wish, men dont go out of the way to please a women but a women does. I dont say it doesnt apply to women also. It does.

The point is every person cannot stand loneliness or boredom. They need the opposite sex to be active as they are most of the time or atleast once in a while, not in a blue moon.

for me cheat means when you break some ones heart intensionally. So guys what do you say ?