How To Stay A Long&happy Realtionship?

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how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 24, 2007
i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent

but i think it is still lacking... :cry:

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Mar 24, 2007
my dear, this is all very nice but only theory. im not saying u should not have these things in a good relationship, but all is 0 if u dont have that smthing that keeps 2 people together. what is that smthing? im trying to figure out myself but maybe we all should just enjoy and live it rather then think too much about it.
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Mar 25, 2007
Sounds almost perfect to me....
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Mar 25, 2007
Not_Sure wrote:Sounds almost perfect to me....


what you need to call it perfect? oh,let me guess....a ferrari :P
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Mar 25, 2007
raidah wrote:
Not_Sure wrote:Sounds almost perfect to me....


what you need to call it perfect? oh,let me guess....a ferrari :P


oh dear, why i am too hot in your eyes? :D
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Mar 26, 2007
all about him!!!! nothing for her it takes two for a relation!!!
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Mar 26, 2007
look whos back :)
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Mar 26, 2007
sara_uk wrote:all about him!!!! nothing for her it takes two for a relation!!!


Woohoo... you're back! :D
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Re: how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 26, 2007
gracy wrote:i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent

but i think it is still lacking... :cry:


:D
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Re: how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 26, 2007
gracy wrote:i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent

but i think it is still lacking... :cry:


...Just be natural that s it !
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Mar 27, 2007
gracy wrote:
raidah wrote:
Not_Sure wrote:Sounds almost perfect to me....


what you need to call it perfect? oh,let me guess....a ferrari :P


oh dear, why i am too hot in your eyes? :D


dear, keep ur silly lesbo comments to urself and if u wanna play smartass, double chech the order of the words in ur sentence before posting...u might be saying/asking smthing different then what u intend.
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raidah wrote:
gracy wrote:
raidah wrote:
Not_Sure wrote:Sounds almost perfect to me....


what you need to call it perfect? oh,let me guess....a ferrari :P


oh dear, why i am too hot in your eyes? :D


dear, keep ur silly lesbo comments to urself and if u wanna play smartass, double chech the order of the words in ur sentence before posting...u might be saying/asking smthing different then what u intend.


i read it so well...
just wondering how ferrari came out?
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Mar 27, 2007
I agree with Sara on this one, the list is all about HIM. Where's the bit about the woman in the relationship. A man should have all the listed for the girl too.
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Mar 27, 2007
this things are too deep for me
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Mar 27, 2007
so who is gonna enlightn us for what women want list?
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Re: how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 27, 2007
gracy wrote:i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent

but i think it is still lacking... :cry:


Dealing with interpersonal relationships is a complex subject that is often given inadequate attention by communities. Each individual in a group has a particular and unique personality style that has been shaped by the lifetime of their experience. There are driver types and quiet folk, expressives, analyticals, reserved, shy, reactive and many others. After you have been working together for awhile, an attentive person with training will recognize members personalities and styles and then use that understanding to predict how the group will react to different situations. As the group gets into conflicts, the elements of group dynamics and personality style need to be taken into account by the facilitators of the group.It is important to make, even at a surface level, some determination about yourself and how you are likely to affect the group dynamic. Ask yourself : Do I talk a lot, or very little? Am I confident about myself and my ideas? Do I listen to others well, or am I impatient having to listen to others? Am I empathetic to others or do I care mostly about getting the task done? When others speak, am I listening to what they say, or thinking about what I am going to say? Am I quick to anger? Am I defensive or accepting when someone talks about my behavior? Do I ramble or am I a bulleted list sort of person? What makes me annoyed? What makes me feel good?
As you define yourself as a member of the group you will find your strengths and areas that need improving. A good exercise in community building is to share how you perceive yourself.
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Re: how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 27, 2007
gracy wrote:i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent


but i think it is still lacking... :cry:


Gracy ......... u r soooooooo perfect for me...... mistress in bed seems sooooooo cool...... but u have to do plastic surgery everyday hun :lol:
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Re: how to stay a long&happy realtionship? Mar 27, 2007
sniper420 wrote:
gracy wrote:i have my checklist:

1. Love yourself first.
2. Give him ultimate freedom.
3. Let him be the HEAD of the family.
4. Support him.
5. Respect him.
6. Admire him.
7. When tempted to say something mean, count to 10 or 20 or...
8. Don't expect too much from him.
9. Have a weekly date.
10. Always have a smile for him when he gets home.
11. Don't let yourself go
12. Be a good cook
13. Be a mistress in bed
14. Go out separately from time to time
15. Be consistent


but i think it is still lacking... :cry:


Gracy ......... u r soooooooo perfect for me...... mistress in bed seems sooooooo cool...... but u have to do plastic surgery everyday hun :lol:


as u wish.. i can afford it anyways...
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Sep 15, 2008
Stay true to yourself.. never stray
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I have to admit that all men like your checklist :D I hope we women can reach these objects. However, our men should also devote more energy and love to us.
Mutual respect and trust is the base of a long stable love. Sure we need some minor frictions in our daily life to make our love more interesting and fresh :P
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6600 wrote:I have to admit that all men like your checklist :D I hope we women can reach these objects. However, our men should also devote more energy and love to us.
Mutual respect and trust is the base of a long stable love. Sure we need some minor frictions in our daily life to make our love more interesting and fresh :P


Some of us devote many hours to you...mostly begging!

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Nov 07, 2008
16. Don't take drugs
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why is s3x a blocked word lol
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