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Why is it easy to get girls ?


MaaaD Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ? And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?
bushra21 well seeing as how i am a girl in dubai i dont really know how i should answer that question. noni I wouldn't say its okay to generalize the whole population of Dubai females, because a large amount of girls are very decent..... but I think it is much easier for a guy to get laid here than in a lot of places. And I know a few guys who can attest to this. I do think generally in a club setting, where alcohol is involved and people are on the prowl it is very easy to hook up here. Some girls are easily impressed if you have a car, nice mobile, apartment...etc. Some girls are just easy and looking for a good time and that works perfectly for men. I don't mean to be blunt but I have this not so good looking guy friend with a lot of money and a nice car and he seems to score the hottest chics...and trust me it is not his personality. Guys are up for getting laid 24/7 and I guess in Dubai it is just easier to stumble on those.... My advice to the ladies...raise your standards for yourself and don't give in to those sleezebags. In terms of your second question....don't want to be in a relationship where the man is tempted so easily by some skanks....I would only feel uncomfortable if the guy can't control himself...and that is a whole new topic... :wink: valkyrie
A yes or no would suffice
I think it's a double standard that men who sleep around are considered players and women are skanks, trollops or scalliwags :lol: :roll: noni Agreed...men who sleep around think they are the sh*t and are thought by that by there peers.....but women are sluts otherwise. This is how society is....driven by these double standards. kanelli It seems to me that the single men are just as easy as the single women - so what is the problem? The married and committed men and women are the ones are at home or out with their partners - so perhaps they aren't the ones fooling around. If all the single folk are bedding each other - it sounds like personal choice to me. Each one is jumping in and out of bed easily for either pure enjoyment of s.e.x or hope that it will allow them to hold onto the person for a longer-term relationship. Each person is trying to get something from the "relationship" - so what is the big deal? The men should not be held to any different standards than the women. Don't you agree MaaaD? nosoup4u Kinda simple really.. Back in the US Girls are street smart so they know what to look for and don't settle for just anyone. of course that does lead to a lot of divorces because men/women in the US are so independant. Over here, Women tend to be more protected, as in, they're not taught street smarts or given the chance to learn. Thus, they become dependant and thus Easy. nismo they are kinda easy ,, you are definately right but i tend to loose intrrest realy fast with most of the women i meet in the UAE... they tend to be kinda on the chldish side thats my opinion anyways , i dont need anyone here going on their period for me kanelli But the guys are just as easy - so what is your diagnosis for the slutty male syndrome in Dubai? nosoup4u
guys are just that easy? lol.. the MALE species is no rocket science. Ask a guy to close his eyes and make his mind blank and say the first thing that pops into his brain, 90% of the time, you'll get a "girl" "woman" or no offense, some part of a woman..
guys are not easy, they're stupid. yes, I, a male, am saying men are stupid. I mean, wear a mini skirt and come in front of us and you have us.
So in conclusion, I agree guys are easy but we're not sluts, just err.. men. Ask a woman what she wants, she'll give you a list of things that'll make up a novel an dyeah "men" will be somewhere in there
Ask men what they wants and there's one answer.. "Women" :P
Its simple fact and you know it!
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kanelli First date - A girl asks a guy to go to bed with her and he says yes. That means he is easy. First date - A guy asks a girl to go to bed with him and she says yes. That means she is easy. So - they are both easy. That is total bullcrap to think that men are the only ones who want or need s.e.x. Women like s.e.x. too and if guys are expected to go and hunt women for s.e.x. then women should also be expected to go out and hunt men for s.e.x. too. Watch the double standards guys! You seem to keep perpetuating it and it makes no sense. Men are far easier than women - they just think they are entitled to it and like to label women as sluts if they behave the same way. Wake up men! nismo
i think majority of guys in the UAE are weak , they buy the woman what ever they want , they take them and spend $$$ on their clothes , food , cinema , they become slave of the p*ssY
notice how many big headed chicks are here in dubai ???
i would never spend a cent of a chick!
i believe in equality and sharing the responsibilites nosoup4u
I agree. men are far easier than women, thats why you can't label a man as just "Easy".. it doesn't sound right.. Maybe errr.. Effortless. yeah thats it, men are effortless when it comes to women picking up men.
They don't have to do any work to get us.
On the other hand, Women are easy but men still have to put in some effort.
how about this
A Man Would Say: Women are Easy but not Effortless
A Woman would Say: Men are Easy and Effortless :P kanelli Well, you likely won't get any women if you insist on calling them chicks. :lol: Some beautiful women in Dubai know they can wrap a man around their little finger. There are lots of weak men in this world who only get self-esteem by having a beautiful woman on their arm, even if they have to pay through the nose to get that. They want someone to show off to their co-workers and friends. So the women are the smart ones in this case - picking out the weak targets and exploiting them for financial gain and a comfortable lifestyle. Then you have men who can also pick out the weak women who try so hard to keep a man they will go to bed with them easily. So these guys promise that they really are interesting in a relationship and then dump the woman after they have had their fill of s.e.x. So - men and women seem to be using each other. Why complain? Just mind your own behaviour and choose your partners carefully. If you are weak you will be a perfect target. Just don't complain after because you are partially responsible. MaaaD
Kanelli i agree, but this thread wasnt really about easy men .. feel free to start your own thread about why men in dubai -or in general- are easy :D nismo
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
maybe thats my flaw
im too confident and stubborn
i should act weak,,, hehehehehehehehehehe
hey ladies , one desperate weak guy here
i got lotsa money , help me
pleeeeeaseee
hehehehehehehe
this hsould be easy
:twisted: kanelli Actually, you can't have a fair or complete discussion in this thread without discussing the fact that the men are just as easy or more so. Afterall, the premise is that the women are easy - but in order for the women to be easy, there have to be easy men propositioning the women in the first place... It is only logical. I am sure many men reading this thread have a hard time accepting that they are just as slutty as the women they think are slutty. :D PrettyPenny Just for clarification ... are you suggesting Maaad that women in Dubai are easier than in other parts of the world? Or are you suggesting that women are easier than men? I think you're referring to the former ... ie women in Dubai are easier than they are anywhere else in the world. It may be a number of things: 1 - A lot of the people that move to Dubai have moved this far away from home, family, friends, culture, and all things familiar for the first time in their lives. It may be natural to reach out for a soft place to fall. 2 - There is a subsection of the women here who have a very odd concept of living on their own .... going back to what someone said about women who have street smarts, there are a lot of women here who are doing this sort of thing for the first time. Applies to men too. Give a bag of candy to a kid, he may finish the first bag but he's gonna end up with a tummy ache and probably not feast on the second bag. 3 - Dubai allows people to be pretty open about what they do or don't want. And there's no one to judge. If these people were in their home countries (applies mostly to the middle east and subcontinent) they would be a lot more discreet. So you may think there is less of it going on in another country but it may just be better concealed. Well thats my 2 cents. noni PrettyPenny made a good point concerning that Dubai is one of the most liberal places in the Middle East. So...you can speculate that some families might send their daughters to Dubai for school or work...and once they are in this atmosphere, start going out, and having all this freedom they weren't allowed for before...end up going out of control. This certainly isn't everyone. And I agree with Kanelli that men are def just as and more easy than girls.
St.Lucifer May b its just a cliche..but it depends on what u look for. I think its very tough to get someone for a life long relationship here in dubai.. I may b a passe, but i really dont think and believe that short lived relationships would get you anything other than the momentary gratification. I'm not saying that S3)( is bad or something ,i'm not trying to have a neat image, but its just that most of the people here in dubai are only looking for just a quick relationship. I dont know how people enjoy that sort of relationship where there's no emotional values. I agree with pretty penny on the reasons. expecially that the multi racial/ cultural atmosphere and the freedom of being all by themselves. AnnaSvensson
I have a guestion. In your opinion, where the girls are not easy.
In all the places I have been, there are always many girls, who can be identified as "easy". valkyrie
You don't think women are the same way? Trust me, women think about s.ex just as much as men do. They have the same urges, the same emotions as men so why would they be any less inclined to drop their knickers? scarlet Maad wherever you get young singles on masse in a place (that is away from their hometown); Dubai, working holiday locations, backpacking, party islands like Ibiza, Women (and men) will be a lot more "easy". As Some OP said it's about not knowing anyone, having no friends or family to judge their actions etc I am surprised as i don't know of the easy women here but based on my above facts it would seem the ideal ground for it BUT the anomaly is that 73% of the Dubai popoulatrion is male. that's 330,000 women. Lets rule out the marrieds, the too young, and the mostly good arab girl. Why would the remianing women population slut their stuff to a smorgasboard of men? bushra21 if you think the girls in Dubai are easy..... go to Kuwait or even Bahrain or Saudia, lol, the girls in the U.A.E have a bit more self - respect than the other chicki poos NoWoRrIeS girls or guys, they are both just as 'easy'...not just in Dubai. And if you r single and want to have s.e.x. with a girl or guy, why not? Just make sure that if you do have s.e.x. u use protection... nothing wrong with having some fun and exploring to find out what/who u really like. Just out of curiosity Maaad, where r u from where the girls obviously are hard to get? And why r u complaining? MaaaD
This has nothing to do with me personally so lets not stear it that way. I was just opening room for discussion to see the different prespectives, and i wasnt judging anyone. And i absolutely never complained :lol: valkyrie
I actually take offense to not only to the word chick, but to the fact that you think it is sad to argue against people using it.
Do you think it is acceptable to dehumanize a woman like that. Would you use the word bitch. Do you think using a slang name for a black person or a gay person would equally be acceptable.'
The word chick is another male word used to show their dominance of woman. There are no words to describe straight men the way straight men have words like chick to describe woman.
Using words like chick just highlights that woman are still oppressed. The time when woman are regarded as human beings will be the time when words like chick are not used anymore.
And dont give me the shit about, "well none of the woman I know care", because they should care, and when they have become conscious, they will smack you around the face.
Scumbag! Dubai Knight Someone once said: "A woman needs the right mood, the right time and the right place to have s.e.x......a man, just needs a place!" The male is a natural predator and, due to the restricted nature and seperatism of the upbringing here, the male macho value worship ethic and also the fact that many single girls here are getting away from their family restrictions for the first time and want to 'live' a little...its not surprising that this is a seemingly 'target rich environment'...for those that want it to be. It may seem fun, but where is the depth to any relationship based on a purely physical attraction? There is more to life and you will learn as you get older. 8) 8) 8) Knight ^ian^ Especially when the batteries in the lightsaber take longer and longer to recharge between uses :P~ sniper420
:lol: purplegrape
Of all the things happen in this world,most of the the time they blame women....yyyyyy??????? can't men don't realize that a certain thing will happen because of them also? they always think that women doesn't have the right to say no..and even say yes! for example, if a girl agreed with him for a 1 night stand..men will think that "oh, it's so easy" but on the otherhand...why they don't see the fact that almost of the majority..men easily forgot that they are committed and they have already responsibility to somebody else...
it is not good to say that women are easy. It's not that i am being favorable of myself but to think that everything happens with a reason..even if said a while ago that most of the time men could also easily forgot of what they already have..still it shouldn't be treated as one sided... :roll: Palkid7
:laughing8: Bleakus zZzZzZzZ....... nosoup4u
I second that.. :P nismo
HOOKERS?
LOL
MaaD stop going after prostitutes , unless you like collecting different STDs AnnaSvensson
???????
Hookers?????
:?: nosoup4u
I think there's an Echo in the Room.. Can you hear it? :P noni
EEEeeeek I am sorry for the rough times! Cheating is so hurtful! Makes trusting any men such a battle....Stay strong girl... rvp_legend
I think no matter where you go, there will always be some who are not as difficult as others.
Dubai, unfortunately seems to attract a lot of women after material things, but not all women here are like that.
As someone else mentioned (apologies cannot remember) there are a lot of weak men and women here who get exploited.
Also, the sheer amount of disposable income means men will always attract these women... i bet if Taxes were introduced, men had to spend more wisely things would change ;-)
Go anywhere in the world. Where there is cash, there will be women.
Same applies for women. In Turkey for example, rich European women (not necessarily attractive) often go and marry much younger Turkish men....
Money talks. Chocoholic Interesting that question like this always aim at the girls. Guys can be just as easy, if not more so in a place like this. Men out number women here, so we can afford to be picky, so I'd say it' actually the men who're more like sl*ts, getting whatever they can take :wink: XRW-147
There lies the double standard mentality - if a guy says yes, that means he's 'lucky', if a girl says yes, that means she's slutty. Sad really. Bleakus lovely world we are living in aint it? Mint Tulip
I think that many girls in Dubai are easy because of the reasons that you stated. But I also believe that in this place were prostitution is so normal, there are two types of prostitutes: 1. the ones that stand on street corners and 2. the ones that might think that they're not like the street prostitutes but essentially they do the same; go with any guy in order to obtain some material advantage. Many of these "easy" girls might in fact be the among this latter group.
I'm not threatened by the fact that so many of these girls exist, on the contrary. Sara1983 I'm not easy! Those are women who have no respect for themselves, I respect myself & I'm not a piece of cake! This typa womens are definitly "a problem" for other womens who are in a relationship.... Bleakus ^^ the dream continues ;) tsampa
It's not even just rich guys! My ex-bf is definitely not a good looking jerk, who can't even afford to bring me to a fancy restaurant and who drives a sleazy car yet he was able to cheat on me 3 times ( 3 different women)! what's worst those women are on the same company where I work! I had been with gorgeous guys and rich guys but they all cheated on me... so I thought I'd get somebody opposite, then maybe he wouldn't have the guts to cheat. I was wrong. I guess those 3 women thought the same too. MaaaD EDIT: I just changed the topic because i realized my wording was wrong. the new topic is why is it easy to get girls. Pretty please dont take this thread personally and stick to analyzing the situation. Thanks to PrettyPenny, noni, and Mint Tulip for doing just that. AnnaSvensson
When there is demand, there is always supply...... Bleakus
i dont think anybody should take anything personnaly dude MaaaD
interesting, but as scarlet mentioned the demand is WAY over the supply so that argument doesnt explain anything. Sara1983
hmmm, grabs some of those dreamy bubbles & writes "Yo Dream End." :lol: :P :P :lol: Bleakus
why dont you get your dagger and stab my heart!! :lol: :lol: :lol: valkyrie
the plane was shot down, crashed and burned Bleakus
hows it goin Chocoholic Off topic - clearly. NoWoRrIeS
I think a girl could just as easy cheat on a man though...I know lots.. You just need to not even get urself into a situation where it could happen. I think when a guy/girl grows a bit older he/she realizes there r more important things in life than shagging around, and then will become more faithfull. Still to trust someone for a 100% is nearly impossible. But don't let it get to u 2 much if you have been cheated on. It makes the next relationship very fragile if u keep suspecting and calling and fighting over nothing. noni
Money does talk and if a guy has it..he will MAKE SURE to flash it and many money hungry girls will go for it......wasn't that was easy?
So yeah money does talk but only for one night...beyond that you are a lonely lonely man
Must be noted that this by no means applies to all men and all women rvp_legend
I personally think women are more prone to flash the cash than men and their spending habits will prove that, Men stick to fewer goods from a certain market - such as cars.
Either way it can attract the the sort of people who are after a spoil.
Money does talk, and can do for longer than one night - really depends if they can afford it or not.
Every major city is the same. Princess Banana Hammock Well, I'm a single girl in Dubai and I can honestly say that money just does not do it for me. The champagne and flash cars... well, it doesn't even scratch the surface. Some girls like it, and there's plenty of it here in Dubai... I think the term 'easy' can be extremely unfair. At the end of the day, it's generally a preconception. If a guy sleeps with a girl on the first date, why do you automatically think she does that on every date? Maybe she just genuinely likes you and thinks it will lead somewhere. She may be a bit of a sl*t but then again she may be a genuine and a nice girl. Is it not worth finding out before you cast her off? Personally, I've never got my head round a guys mentality. Perhaps they are worried that the girl who sleeps with them on the first date is a bit of a slapper and therefore the guy won't continue seeing her because they are worried that their egos will be dented when she doesn't answer your calls... My advice, don't assume. S.e.x is, generally speaking, a much more emotional experience for a girl. I have had a conversation with a couple of guys this week about how they think girls are easy. These guys are sleeping with a girl (no the same one). They tell her they don't want a relationship. The girl accepts it. Then after, they sleep with her again. WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!!?!? You can't tell a girl you're not interested in taking things further and then sleep with her again!!! Even if she's asking you to!! Have some self control man!! Most girls will be thinkig that they are the ones to change you. They think you'll soon realise what a wonderful person she is and you'll want to date her. They'll think 'well he slept with me, so it must mean something'. Men should think about their actions. They should stop being so selfish. If a girl is, as you put it, 'easy', then why would you take advantage of that? It's almost an emotional state... probably the result of being treated like crap in a previous relationship. Aside from the hookers, I'd say most girls are, even if they won't admit it, desperately hanging onto that bit of hope that the guy will genuinely like them and want to date them and pursue a relationship. End of rant! Mint Tulip To blame men for the perception of some women does not answer why the perception exists. I think that we have to admit that there are plenty of slutty women in Dubai and it tarnishes the image of the city and of soceity to some point - and some people just wonder - what's up with that? (That was the question of this post in the first place). There are plenty of slutty men too, of course, it goes both ways, but in the end sluttiness is not a virture, it's counterproductive - just because it exists does not make it OK. I think that women are more cunning than what is believed by many including women themselves... Woman know what they're getting into and what they want when they meet a certain type of guy. A woman that expects an "instant" relationship for whatever reason, and then complains when/if she's judged by her behavior, should look into herself and the reasons behind her actions. We don't want to be perceived as less intelligent and less capable than men but at the same time many women use the argument that they're men's unwitting victims when it comes to relationships; That they just followed their heart and did not use their intellect, they act out of their ever fragile feelings. Nope, that argument doesn't hold anymore. nismo
i like the way she thinks , id be suprised if you were an arab
if it happens , its happens ... great ,, if it happens on the first date ,, awesome!!!
if the chick is a slut ,shes a slut!! , at least she is having fun and enjoying life.. if the man is a slut ,, well he is engoying life too
what about the image? well f..k it ,, i dont give a flyin fcuk if everyone thinks im a slut ,, its a lifestyle .. you are adults you can decide for yourself
and for those close minded people that like to put others down by calling them sluts , go play with yourself while watching telly tubbies or something rvp_legend
:thumbleft: MaaaD wow you guys thanks for the excellent contributions thats more like it.
Princess your post is a great honest prespective that is refreshing to read on this thread.

What about the girl ? didnt she also know he said he didnt want to have a relationship ? isnt she implying that she is okay with fuck buddy status when she accepts to sleep with him again ?

yes and they are wrong most of the time

Being a male i can tell you what you asking for is nearly impossible. A single man will in most cases take advantage of this situation. PrettyPenny
I agree that men should not take advantage and yet they do .... think about it this way .... if I am not going to take care of myself (by not allowing anyone to take advantage of me) then why the heck should someone else take care of me?? I don't imagine someone else is going to "save" me. I'd rather be the one to do so myself. Sara1983
aww I'm not that mean :( kanelli Again, both are to blame. If a man knowingly tells a woman what she wants to hear to try to get her into bed - should he really be calling her "easy"? I'd call him manipulative. If a woman gives herself to a man thinking it will make him stick around - isn't she just deluding herself? Why blame the man for not sticking around after or using her? She let herself be used. Neither has the right to think that men and women are dishonest and slutty based on those kinds of experiences. Each one was being a fool. If people want a relationship they should actually get to know each other and don't go to bed to quickly and don't buy each other expensive presents or flash one's wealth or status around. If you use your head as well as your heart you can more easily weed out the people who are not good for you and save yourself some heartache and hassle. Princess Banana Hammock Nismo: I'm half Arab, half British.
Mint Tulip: With regards to your 'That they just followed their heart and did not use their intellect, they act out of their ever fragile feelings. Nope, that argument doesn't hold anymore.' Well it does happen. I've been caught in this trap a couple of times. It doesn't mean I'm not using my intellect. I'm just overwhelmed by emotion and the moment I'm in. However, I don't feel it is enough to call me 'easy' as I have never been with a guy that I genuinely did/do not like and didn't want to pursue a relationship with. I'm not saying you instantly fall in love but you may connect and see yourself falling in love in the future. Guys have told me they generally know whether or not they click with a girl in the first few minutes. I'm pretty sure, generally speaking, it's the same for women too.
And yes, I've been hurt and I have looked at my actions and wondered if they were wrong, irrational or unjustified, and I strongly believe that they weren't. I don't see myself as being 'easy' (I don't walk into bars and clubs and pick up guys) and I don't have an ulterior motive to my actions I'm not after money or arm candy) so I am not quite sure what you are referring to there...
Women in Dubai should not be tarred with the same brush. Every girl is an individual and will have different feelings and emotions to the next girl. I just do not understand what gives another person, the right to judge whether a woman is slutty? Unless you know her pretty well and know her emotional state and what she wants from guys, you can not judge her.
Pretty Penny: I do agree with you but I also feel that on the other hand, what about the vulnerable women? Those who have faith in men and that one of them will sweep her off her feet? You can't always protect yourself 100%.
Maaad: As for your question about a woman agreeing to be a F Buddy. Yeah, it's true on the outside she has agreed to it. But I guarantee on the inside she will be wanting a whole lot more. But again, it's almost a state, wanting to hold on to the little bit of what you have in the hope he'll soon realise...
What I'm trying to get across is, don't prejudge a woman. Don't assume that she is 'easy' until you know the story. Thee are many complicated and complex reasons as to why a girl makes the decision she does. I know because I make them. But I have never ever thought they were the wrong decision. Princess Banana Hammock Kanelli, you are a wise woman! :D St.Lucifer Like i said before..... the satement 'Girls are easy' depends on what kinda girl u are looking for.. it would be never easy if u are looking for a longtime relationship. But on the other hand if its only for the s3xual pleasure, 'Girls are easy' - coz the basic nature of men is to consider themselves above women. Thats the only reason y someone can say that. and for those who said men taking advantage of women, I think that statement doesnt make anysense, Or i should say i've seen women taking advantage of men as well. What i mean to say is, taking advantage of a situation depends on who's stronger in that relationship. When we are in a relationship, what ever kind... there'sll always b the one who leads it and the leader may differ according to the situation but its not taking advantage, its just the nature of any relationship. Men and women have never seemed to fully understand each other. We may never b able to understand women completely n women would never understand us, but still men and women lead wonderful lives together...thats the magic of it. With due respect to the bold women here, lets not make this a feminist issue...lets admit that men and women are made different... and i dont mean to say that men are superior or something, just that women and men are not comparable, they both are meant to be different. I would say women are stronger and much more powerful than men.they can control and manipulate things so easily than a man. They can make people think and believe the way they want.. but the one thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives men the power. We just take it. Mint Tulip princess banana
I hope that you don't think that I'm calling you a certain name, that is not the case at all! My comments, which I stand by, were meant to reflect the general situation in Dubai on this subject - and the way I personally see things.
I agree with Lucifer - I do not like the argument that women are victims of men when it comes to (normal) relationships. And I think that if certain women are labeled as promiscous it's because they are and because they themselves choose to be, not because of circumstances beyond their control, or because they fall into some guy's trap, but because of their own decisions. Stereotyping all woman as easy is the unfortunate consequence of the actions of some...
Also... Everyone makes mistakes. Admitting to mistakes is a virture. Afterall, one is supposed to learn from one's mistakes. Corcovado B-lady what u said doesnt make any sense , the $exual drive is there but it doesnt control people , and i dont think the hot weather has anything 2 do with it :shock: Princess Banana Hammock Not at all mint, no worries. :D It's just something I feel strongly about as I have been messesd around so many times. I'm lead to believe one thing and receive another. Maybe it's the guys I've dated... but I've never ever looked for or desired a casual or short term fling, yet that is all I have ever had. That's not a concious decision from me. I'm not one of these ditzy girls that fall for anything, in fact I like to think I have my head screwed on (most of the time), and when I feel the time is right and I sense the guy is serious from signals they send me I might act on these. However, I have recently found that guys are not always so sincere and that they will say anything to you to get what they want. This is where I agree with Kanelli's statement: "If a man knowingly tells a woman what she wants to hear to try to get her into bed - should he really be calling her "easy"? I'd call him manipulative." And she's right. If I had succumed to it, I would feel used and manipulated. It's not fair to label a girl 'easy' when you don't know the story behind it all. I'm sure a lot of the time you'll find the story is sorrow. Personally, I would determine an 'easy' girl as one who went out looking for s.e.x on a casual basis. But how many girls are actually like that? rvp_legend
Plenty
We live in different times.... But i would call that Normall, not easy. sara_uk It is always about perception and things people set for them self. You should not sleep with someone in the first date!! Does second date make it ok?? I do not get it. Why people have to put do and don’t stuff for everyone to follow. Princesses I agree with you totally, it all depend on the situation, how you feel about the person etc but then if the guy judge you been easy oh well, he is not the right man for you. It is very difficult for most men to hide their lust if they are only after s e x , so that can weed the bad apples easily but how about their perception? How you will know that, I guess that why people follow the rules. Princess Banana Hammock I don't follow rules. 1st date, 2nd date, 5th date, 10th date, 3 months, 6 months, one year, marriage... what difference does it make?? You could be best friends with someone, go on a date for the first time and sleep with them. You might never have met thwm before, get married after 1 month and then sleep with them. Does that make you easy??? I'm sorry... that's rubbish. I follow my heart. So sara, you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, I might get hurt along the way but I know when I find the right guy, I've really found the right guy... I don't care what society saya. I'm a free spirited, well rounded, open person. If a guy wants to mess me around, then MORE FOOL HIM!!!!!!! noni
Good question. I was always under the impression that women had to be emotionally involved to have s.e.x. But after talking to some of my own friends and a lot of guy friends I have realized that this isn't true. There are some women who are just looking for some casual s.e.x after a night out without any emotional attachment whatsoever.
So does that label them easy or just easy-going? Something to think about... noni
u go girl! rvp_legend
I 've mentioned this before, it makes them normal people.
i think women have been unfairly labelled these names over the years and its time they were let go. Each individual should make their own decisions and people should just respect that.
Whether she sleeps with one or one hundred, her life she makes her choices. Same with the guys. sara_uk
Well exactly, I make my own rules too, I got married after one month meeting my ex, people told me to wait etc, at that time, he was my soul mate, we matched perfectly and time was not going to let me know him any better. We are not together but do I regret my decision? No, things did not work out at the end but I did spend very good time with him for 4 years. I still make decisions and do not listen to rules, I never played hard to get or do not call him first games that girls play. If I feel is right you go for it, no one can set up general rule for everyone. Princess Banana Hammock Why thank you Noni! :D Sara, I totally agree. You can't predict what life will bring. All you can do is follow your heart. That's not to say I don't have regrets. I'd be lying if I said that. But I think by playing games, you attract just that, players. Ok, so my luck hasn't been great so far... (coming up to 23 and never had a bf) but when I find it, my oh my I truly believe I'll find it. Optimism is a beautiful thing. I'd rather say I tried it and it didn't work than 'what if'. Society can be a cruel world. I ask for others' advice but that doesn't mean I always follow it, althouh I always take it on board. I do what I think is right, if it doesn't work, so be it. Label me whatever you want, I guarantee most girls are not as much of a warm hearted person that I am. Not that I'm blowing my own trumpet, but I know I'm a good person and the way I see it, is this is just a test to find the person I am truly compatibale with. Whether I know him already or not... Love is just around the corner... noni With that positive attitude....you will find exactly what you are looking for! Mint Tulip
The thing is that to you and to others this is normal, to many it is not. Even psychologists agree that promiscous people have deeper issues. Some people will justify their behavior or call it normal instead of digging deeper into why they act on their impulses to such a degree. just saying... noni
Do the promiscuous issues apply to both genders? Princess Banana Hammock
Mint, that's a sweeping statement. Do promiscous people have issues? If so, like Noni said, does it apply to both genders? Because boy, there are a lot of guys I know with issues!!! As long as you're not hurting other people, why do you even have to justify your behaviour? Who do you have to justify it to? Society? I'll use me as an example... Those who know me on here will verify... what you see is exactly what you get. There are no deeper issues. So yes, to me, it's normal. And to what degree are you talking about? Again, it's about prejudging people. I'm sure there are just as many virgins with these 'deeper issues' that you speak of as ther are promiscous people. Each to their own. People should not judge others on the number people they have slept with. As long as you're safe, then it shouldn't be a problem. Mint Tulip
Yes of course!
But the genders can be promiscous for different reasons. I remember we had this type of discussions in my psychology class and among the things that were discussed: a promiscous man might have unresolved s.e.x.ual identity issues, or he might be searching for an ideal that he never quite seems to find (control, boundary, place in soceity and self-esteem issues...). While a woman might be using her s.e.x.uality to satisfy needs other than physical ones - she might be afraid of being alone or she might have a strong need to be desired and a strong need for affection/love - and she won't mind settling for temporary and unsubstantial affection.
banana
I'm saying that stating promiscuity should be the norm or is "normal" is the sweeping statement. sniper420 well i have kept quite most of the time but nowI wanna state something...yes the term easy is mostly applied to women cos traditinally even now a man go after women. It also depends what u call it easy - sleeping on first date? exchanging numbers with complete acquaintaince etc. So basically women who are known as easy are called sl*ts, prostitutes so what term is there to describe men? Dubai may be easy bcos dating culture may be not very developed yet and many ppl face restrictions which makes one think this chance is th elast chance so let me go ahead with this guy/girl. P.S If u dont mind me asking I have Muslim freind who told me dating is not allowed in the religion is it true? bushra21 yes that is true. Princess Banana Hammock If a girl really is just looking for casual s.e.x, then good for her. She's probably got the best idea. After all, we now live in a time when as women, we no longer need a man to hunt/provide for us. We are more than capable of earning our own money, fixing our cars, doing our own DIY. In most cases, we probably do a better job. I think the term 'easy' was thought up by a guy because he had been messed around by a girl and he then felt inferior, so by calling her 'easy' it made him look slightly more manly in front of his friends after that ego of his was crushed. Now it's just an excuse for any man to put down woman who are strong minded and open and who do not need a man in their life to look after them. Mint Tulip Sniper, A male slut can be called: manwhore, hustler, skanko.. I think that causal “relationships” are detrimental for several reasons. One being that it cheapens the concept of relationships in general. When relationships are seen as disposable then so are people. Another thing is the ick factor. Prostitutes practice risky behavior (protection or not) hence they’re not considered the healthiest of people. So are promiscous people – they’re more disease-prone, ickier. Princess banana, Women can be strong-minded and independent without necessarily being promiscous. Let’s call a spade a spade: promiscuity is promiscuity: "easy" " slut" are just other words for it. Many women are promiscous because they’re needy, which is not necessarily associated with a strong-minded woman, imho. Also why do you insist on blaming men for this particular label? Why the victimization thing? If "strong-minded" women want to follow a particular behavior, then they should be strong-minded enough to take the heat on their behavior. One can’t eat that slice of cake and have it too... valkyrie
I read that prostitutes have lower STD rates in comparison to the local population. Most prostitutes that are HIV positive are infected from intravanous drug use. sniper420
well for ur info men even today BOast abt being hustler but how many women do u see boasting she is .....? Well princess banana, personally accordig to my expereince I dont like highly promiscous ppl as I found them to be mentally and emotionally unstable. U may have diff opinion but that's my experiece. Ur quote "One can’t eat that slice of cake and have it too.." doesnt kinda make sense to moi.......if u have a cake u already had it eh? kanelli I too think that highly promiscuous people have deep-seated problems they need to resolve, and these are why they feel the need to jump so quickly into bed with others. Usually it is severe low self-esteem, s.e.x addiction, or wanting to be close to people but not knowing the appropriate way to do so. sniper420
i dont think it's low esteem . Many of whom i know are really really brilliant but have very weird kind of philosophy abt life like life is there to enjoy and enjoy it b4......They easily fall prey to depression and other psychological problems especially women. kanelli Some people get their self-worth by being attractive and desirable to members of the opposite s.e.x. They may seem like they have high self-esteem, but really they don't. Society makes women more than men obsessed with being beautiful and s.e.x.y. That is something for everyone to think about and consider when forming their own opinions, or if raising daughters. rvp_legend
Hmmm, By saying normal, i am not saying their behavious is normal - those can have deep underlying reasons why, with each individual having duifferent ones.
Im saying i would call them Normal to overule S l u t , Easy etc. So its more to shake the label off.

I sort of agree with Sniper and Kanelli. i guess it depends on the individual.
Some guys are truelly brilliant and do want to enjoy themselves as much as possible till they sign the paper for example. At the same time others do it to prove a point, usually to their peers. noni
Good point Kanelli. For a lot of men and women the only way they can feel attractive, confidanct, s.e.x.y is through the praise and acceptance of the oppoite sex. They may try to come off as super confidant but are really may be searching for acceptance by others because they cannot accept themselves. This once again cannot be generalized to everyone who is promiscious, some just have the "live like it is your last day" attitude...but then again I would think you would want love more than lust in the end of your life...anyway I digress... apl I've just been in Dubai for 3 months now and I wouldn't say that the girls here are easier than anywhere else - it's just that the easy girls seem to be going out more :). During the day I rarely experience the same attitude as in some pubs after a few drinks. I think the % of singles is much higher than elsewhere and the average age in Dubai is younger than a comparable city in Europe as there are fewer people that are retiring in Dubai so it might seem that there are more in the city compared to other cities. The male/female split looks about 50/50 in the nightlife as the biggest part of the statistical male population is spending their evenings in Al Quoz. I've been a male slut before :lol: and I don't say it'll not happen again, but I think the best part of dating is the actual flirting and not the end result on the first night. The "hunting" aspect from the male perspective is only fun if it is a challenge and most girls are simply too drunk to be a challenge and therefore not interesting (at least for me..) noni
That's why the girls who challenge you are the keepers :lol: MaaaD On the subject of challenges and chases, etc .. so last night i am driving down SZR and this lady in her Mazda 6 passes me with her window open and she is smoking a cigarette with henna on her hand .. i look over and she is looking and smiles, I smile back. She then slows down and start giving me an even bigger smile and giggles. I speed up thinking its getting weird. She speeds up next to me and asks me to bring down my window. I bring down my window (mind you this is happening while we are going 120 km/h on SZR!!) and she goes .. I am going to hard rock cafe want to join me for a drink, laughs and speeds up !!!!!!!! .. I am like you gotta be kidding me .. After 3 weeks in the US its good to be back :lol: Palkid7
do did u or did u not go ?!?! this is the question ?!?! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: valkyrie i would suggest it can be explained this way (please, forgive my generalities as obviously not all people can described the same way): -Guys are, on average, much bigger sluts than girls. (i mean "slut" in the the most affirmative, s.e.x-positive, post-christian-morality sorta way, its really neither a good nor a bad thing; nor am i suggesting that all guys are sluts or that its biological rather than social in origin, i would think its much more due to how people are raised.) Given the fact that most guys are very slutty and will accept no-strings-attached s.e.x with people they're not involved with when its offered, when guys act like sluts, they're congradulated by other guys since its an indication that they're desirable enough for people to want to have meaningless s.e.x with them. On the other hand, most girls are not sluts and are unwilling to have emotionless meaningless s.e.x with people they weren't involved with under most circumstances. As a result, the non-slutty majority doesn't want s.e.x to be an expectation before emotional intimacy. Consequently, the non-slutty majority will highly resent other girls acting like sluts, as they're in competition with them for guys and being a slut gives them an 'unfair' advantage...because they figure that if the slutty girls are willing to do things that they're not, they wont have a fair chance, and additionally the more slutty girls there are the more guys will expect people they're with to move faster. So, girls tend to really hate people who act slutty (whatever that is by the local standards), and they're mean and try to make the slutty girls at their school feel really embarrased about it even though they've done nothing wrong, so as to discourage them for messing up the social dynamics in a way that would make the non-slutty girls less popular. When guys are slutty however, girls don't nessessarily think less of them (though certaintly some do) because they just assume that all of the guys would be slutty if given the opprotunity and they're not in any competition with them so guys being slutty doesn't mess up their social groups as much. If they find guys who have acted sluttily more desirable, its not because they're slutty (which, again, is a characteristic they basically assume all guys have), but because other girls found them desirable, and, in general, people are more likely to want something if their friends want it too. Guys don't act the same way because most of them are such sluts in the first place that, since they're all that way, any one of them being slutty doesn't affect the social dynamic in a way that reduces the others chances, so they don't resent it. If they do suggest that a girls slutty (which, honestly, is pretty rare) its more likely because they're jealous and resentful that they're the only one she's not willing to fool around with, not because they genuinely have a problem with it as they'd appreciate it if it were directed towards them. This, by the way, only really applies to fairly immature people in a highly insular environment...its not a big deal when people are more grown up and they're not all dating in the same relatively small group of people. Bleakus wow dude, awesome post val ^ian^
Where'd you read that? the prostitute recruitment manual? XRW-147
Must be a new online course - Turning Tricks 101. asc_26
Val is well read. :lol: bear
I would honestly like to know where these easy girls are. I have never met one. I really hope that your not reffering to the gold diggers here. asc_26 [quote="bear"]
Because..
1. They are being approach by easy guys too.
2. They know that some guys in dubai are easy also.
3. They're both easy.
:lol: :lol: :lol: noni I hate sluts and men who love them...they ruin everything. island_sands DF girls; why do you even care? Know yourself and what you do with your life... what other "chicks" in Dubai do, and what other men think of them is their problem. Let them carry on... This whole post was started to wind you all up, and succeeded :D asc_26 :lol: :lol: :lol: valkyrie
i think one of the most offensive assumptions people make is that when girls have s.e.x and seek out s.e.xual activity they're somehow doing it for the guy, or for some ulterior motive like to prove they're attractive to help their self esteem or to feel loved or something, rather than simply wanting s.e.x. When people hear about highschool students being 'slutty' they don't think "she must be having a great time!" or "good for her that she's so popular with guys and gets what she wants from them" but rather something demeaning like "she must have really low self esteem" or "she must be using s.e.x to fill an emotional void in her life" or some such thing. No one makes those types of assumption with guys.
To me, the idea that slutty girls are doing it not for themselves but for the guys is an incredibly male centered perspective that really dismisses the extent of their agency. Carol_eyez
Maybe coz you live too far...Ajman lol
who says girls are easy...are you looking on streets too much..if you know what I mean :lol: raidah for centuries women were not considered worthy of enjoying s.e.x. we were just a tool in men's hand. reason why men did not do anything for us to enjoy with them, furthermore in some places they did all for us not to be able to enjoy it at all. so if a woman did it anyway, she "must have been going it" for some hidden reason, like money... there have been men than and there are many now who do care and pay attention to their gf, wife. but deep in their subconscious the majority, even those with an open mind, still think we cannot and we should not have s.e.x just for pleasure. well, we can. and a woman can sleep around every night with smbody else and have the control of the situation just as well as men do. actually the truth is, while we want s.e.x just as you guys, there r not too many women who cant say "no" because a penis is around. so in my perception being easy = being without control. and this goes for men, not women. redmatrice
And the easiest is you ;) , :lol: asc_26
Me? Only easy? anything else?
:roll: :roll: :roll:
I never go out dude :pukeleft: and never dream to end up going out with someone who can be my competitor in the long run :lol: :lol: :lol: bushra21
says the gay man who has fallen in love with a woman in less than a month redmatrice
Holla , i see another le%%ian overhere
she deserve to be loved in less than a minute , are you jealous!! bushra21 im never jealous...its beneath me ajoy
i dont find that the normal office working girls are easy to get here in dubai. they are in fact the same as everyone would expect them to be.
any normal girl, in dubai or anywhere else would bed with a guy in
whome she finds a prospective mate and a secured future.
in dubai, especially, some of these girls also are part time whores which could lead to this notion. thats because the girls stay away from their country, parents and known persons and would like to earn a quick buck to pay for the increased expenses in dubai. they are not afraid of getting caught here.
laws of economics prevail everywhere.. laws of supply and demand..
also, some divorsees or middle aged single ladies may just be a bit easy to take care of their biological needs. this is normal for both genders and should not be made an issue of. dave101 well i hope they are not all easy and desperate as im about to move to dubai for 12 months with work, and im just nicely into a relationship but my gf will stay in the UK, i used to be easily tempted, i believe im stronger now, trial by fire huh? sara_uk
oh no!! easily tempted so you will join the rank of cheaters :D kanelli
Why did you use my quote when making your statement. I didn't make assumptions that women always doing it for the guy. Some women do sometimes, but not all. I have stated in a few threads that every woman is entitled to have fun if that is what she wants. The reality is that there are some women who have fun and then regret it later because they wanted love and long term relationships from it, and they didn't even get a call back. dubaimisfit Easy? Maybe... Though I support those who state they ain't all like that. I mean, saw this in some of the clubs - girls & boys get pissed alike, leave together and who knows what happens next. Someone rightly said if you're a bold mofo with a thick wallet, you probably get a money orientated slut in a mater of minutes. But what if you're a bloke who: doesn't look like he stinks cash, doesn't find it easy to just walk up and strike a conversation, doesn't look for a one nite stand but friendship (and doesn't look like that Borat guy from the other topic). What d'you do? sara_uk
poor borat :(
what do you do to make frineds??
wait for the paint to dry :lol: dubaimisfit Well if you ask me - I go out there, trying to wear as out-of-fashion tight pants as possible and a silk shirt with my fur all stickin out, walk up to girls from behind and go "Booo!!!" If they react I say "Yakshemash girl I like you wanna make love come I show you Kazakhstan". Why don't you think it doesn't work? I'm just being an honest & friendly bloke... Seriously - I don't know WHAT to do. Seems kind of hard to just walk up and strike a conversation. I'd rather sign up to an expat forum and try to squeeze some thought from my sun-shrunken brain. It just rained today so who knows? Maybe something will sprout. What do You do? asc_26 Male Forumers, he needs help. Should be in Dubai Expat Help Forum :lol: Kidding :wink: Nick81
Well unless you throw yourself in the water you WILL never know the answer to that question. Getting rejected is normal, the key is not to give up because some chick turned her back on you. It's really a question of practicing it. Just talk to random chicks in random places. It doesn't have to be a bar, a club, do it in a supermarket, a mall, just anywhere. You need to get the fear of rejection, the stress related to starting a conversation with a complete stranger out of your system. In the end of the day it is FUN to meet a new person, even more so when it's someone you're attracted to. Don't take it too seriously, just start talking, make a few jokes, tease her properly and see where it goes. There can be millions of reasons why a chick might reject you, don't try and figure out what went wrong or let it bring you down, just try your luck again! asc_26 ^^words from the master. dubaimisfit, i hope that helps. :wink: dubaimisfit many thanks, guys I don't think it's much about the fear of rejection, as I realise well it's just there, and it doesn't really hurt but you're definitely right - it's about getting that stress out smart one :-) Nick81
Glad to help! And about the stress, the more you'll practice just talking to chicks randomly WITHOUT necessarily any other intentions, the more it'll get easier. asc_26 ^^additional words from the master. :D Dubaimisfit, you got more help today. :D Nick81
:oops: Flattery will get you everywhere with me. Watch it :twisted: :lol: asc_26 I am blind. 8) Nick81
Oh I see, being a smarta$$ now! Remember the rant thread, I am really in the edge now, do you want me to snap?? :twisted: asc_26 This is R Forum....ohh could be Rant Forum too. :shock: As you wish. :D MaaaD Nick are you being called the master of dealing with being rejected :lol: Nick81
I was kinda expecting this one! :lol:
What took you so long? asc_26
:lol: :lol: :lol: You smarta$$! You disclosed it right away. :evil: He was ranting last night so i wanna be subtle...nick, at least it came from MaaaD. :lol: :oops: abdalrasheed It is very difficult to have a girl friend not only in Dubai but all over the world..... It is my personal opinion. Burken Not in Sweden if you are not traditional and have your whole relatives here. Otherwise the society doesn't care for a second. dave101 well ive been here 1 day, just been in a club, wow u werent kidding were you! so many to choose from, i love it, tho i wont touch them as im not allowed! but hey, i like being called 'so handsome' by loads of anonymous girls! camelia i don't think Dubai hosts an exceptionally high nb of easy "people", regardless of gender... i've been single for a long time, and lived fine with it when i was back home, with family and friends around.. here in Dubai, it feels different as we get to face real loneliness, that we try to "choke" with undecent hours of working, to avoid that moment when u go to ur sweet home, and after spotting no thrilling movies/shows, and working still from home, u still have time to kill, and have no clue how.. dubai is a " "singles" bubble" (real and fake singles :wink: ), a small community with a majority of uprooted expats, looking for some company, with or without a hidden agenda... :wink: that's y, in my humble "outsider/theoritical" opinion, i wouldn't call it easy dating but a human yearning for company... asc_26 :shock: :shock: :shock: another posting as "single" on here. (Ian should read this one...and save your arse..kiddin!) :P You'll have your time Camelia dearest. Explore dubai & don't sit there and watch movies (psst...don't follow what i am doin')..go out and meet real peeps. btw, welcome to DF. camelia
[color=blue]Tx asc, u are subtle, but not enough to avoid being trapped in my "fly trap posting" :P u r my first fly.. just kidding.. and for the record, if i knew where to find real peeps, do u think i'd be on this forum keeping u company :) [/color] asc_26 :oops: :oops: :oops: Camelia (aka Ms. Lonely), Mr. Lonely is just around the corner waitin' for yah. :wink: camelia
hey, which corner? S-N-E-W?? i've checked them all out, nada!
btw, what's the shortcut (or even long way :oops: ) to the zenith of bliss?! u lucky one! :wink: alexandra

that sounds so scary :shock: ....just arround the corner and waiting= freack camelia
hey alex, r u the party-poo... or sth? :) just kidding
i was just fantasysing about this Mr. L when ur message popped up!!!
it immediately lowered the temperature.. big time ;-) alexandra
:lol: :lol: :lol: good than...sometimes we all need somebody to take us back to reality :wink:
Mr L is not Mr right...not always
like i saied : a woman is single only cause she chooses to be asc_26
Secret darling... :wink: you'll have your own zenith of bliss, just don't be scared to reach that corner. alex is trying to scare you though.
(((center))) camelia hey DFers! good to hear from u again well, let's wait and see then, asc .. i've had my moments of bliss.. some time ago 8) alex, u trying to freak me out to get competition out?! :wink: alexandra
who? me :?: :shock: :shock: :shock:
no way girl :lol: asc_26
don't wait and see, don't be lazy in love like me. go out and conquer dubai. :D I wish you happiness.
Alex, why oh why? :lol: camelia
ok asc, i buy the make-it-happen-approach, but it gets tricky...
if i go clubbing on my own, u know what most of the guys'd think... u can get a flavour even from this forum.. am not looking for a one-stand whatever, instead, for genuine friendship, a good conversation, ... and more if "motivated"..
so yeah am utterly lazy, but i know when i need to take charge :wink: it's just that i dont wanna mislead guys, and don't think u can find "romance" or anything genuine out of a club... MaaaD
... and you wont on a forum :roll: alexandra
me is a bad girl :twisted:
:lol: camelia [quote="MaaaD"]
i guess not... i have dif exp from this forum.. i enjoy(ed) it so far
some people hav sth to say/share..
others just miss(ed) the opportunity to shut up :wink:
btw, y r u MaaaD?! abdalrasheed
Its never late. Be a good girl. Every one has good in his/her inside Burken Haha, my god.. naive. bushra21
my thoughts exactly abdalrasheed It is very easy to get bad girls but it is very difficult to get good girls. Not Agreed? Give it a try. Legendkiller
eheh...PLAYER!!!...give us some more advice
:lol: Burken It's not easy to find a good PERSON anyway. easternjewel depends on your defination of good :wink: Burken I guess it's individual. Either way, it's always hard to find what you looking for if you are not stubborn and fastidious about it. abdalrasheed
Yes it is not easy to find a good person but not impossible. But it is more difficult to get it then to find it. easternjewel
well said dubaimisfit Alexa is right - if he's round the corner and waitin' there - he kust be Jack the Ripper I'm around the corner and walkin' - yet still fail to bump into the right one ;-) the_anomaly see, I was debating moving to Dubai, but I think I'm sold. I'm kidding, but it could very well be that most girls lean towards money and cars(in all parts of the world) and in Dubai, they expect all the guys to have both, so they just dish it out a lot easier because they assume that the guy has all that be default.... cavalier_77
I agree with you ..... Phoebe_in_China

I have to say that I am learning way more about dubai from this fantasic forum than everything else Ive been googling!
and then i have to say that its sounding like a really great place to be! :lol:
that many more men than women and the men are stupid and weak and love to spend money on girls.. well looks like ive wasted 7 years in China when i should have been in the middle east. Im booking my flight ASAP.. :shock:
seriously though.. is this really the way it is? and can i ask when talking about the dating scene is it totally diverse and intergrated with foreigners and locals?
forgive my ignorance its just that in Beijing, Chienese people still largely stick to their own kind, i mean the expats all have chiense girlfriends but on a larger scale expats stick together and Chinese do their own thing.
and me being a young single australian girl, what will dating be like? And what are the chances of finding a real relationship? Bleakus the only way youll find out is see it for yourself youll find all sorts of stuff here ;) emadullah
yep i agree wit u....its realy hard to find good person thats y girls r so easy here...:P
hmm in my point of view....guys r here to earn. money working n hard work....similarly girls are here to earn money by seducing guys....they know how to fool guys :D....u guys r thinking that ur gf r honest with u ? no way...no money no honey......she will love u till u have money.... :P
dont mind u girls i m just kidding rudeboy there r 3 types of girls. one who luvs u for ur money :D loads in dubai one who has loads of boy friends n at the end u find out she is one big PLAYA :D (must have learnt how to be a playa from Jamal) some in dubai one who truely loves u these are the rare ones :D in dubai they are rare ok its easy to get girls, cos girls cannt live without us guys and us guys cant live without them girls :D noni if girls in dubai are easy..then I am slowly finding out that guys in dubai are SLEAZY! I mean is creepily following a girl around supposed to be attractive? pitbulero Any place in the world you can find easy man and women and it's not a question if the girl would like the guy with the fancy car and who is rich we all know that with that kind of situation girls wants to date / sleep with the guy because she feels like she's dating / sleeping with the popular guy. Either you accept it or not we guys also tell this to ourself damn that guy is cool his rich, have fancy car and famous we sometimes think of putting ourselves in their shoe, how does that feel? Well the answer is in general we think that if we are the one in that situation rich, famous we will have a bigger number of girl to date / sleep with. Won't you agree? bushra21
apparently f-a-b-i i'm not thinking that you'll become lucky sleeping with many girls. this kind of girls talked about here are not giving you the feeling you are looking for and they are not really taking care of you. in my opinion guys will not be better if they think about this behavior while they are acting like having money. finally its easier for girls than for boys looking for some fun. bushra21
oh your just the pick of the crop arent ya sauron Much this crop has to yield, young Skywalker. cyrix easy people find easy people... a guy who would look for more depth in a woman wouldnt be with a shallow easy going one. :D and of course vice versa! dubai_sale took 6376 posts to get the RIGHT ANSWER in the end :) PTMike
Agreed. Don't know if this has been covered, too many posts to go thru lol. Men don't buy nice cars, houses and materials because we like them. We buy these objects because we know WOMEN like them :wink: :wink: Frodo LOL I AGREE bushra21 what about gays and lesbians? ^ian^
You'll fit in well when you get here Mike. Suggest you check out Trilogy, C-Bar and the Loft.
The reality is, everything I buy for myself, I buy it because I want it, not to please or attract girls.
Then again, I am attracted to women who don't expect their guy to bankrupt themselves keeping them happy. PTMike lol thanks ian, i think :lol: I'm the same though, I think materials are the wrong way to impress a woman completely. It shouldn't be about how much money you have or what car you drive. Obviously this happens all over the place, but suprised to hear it's so common in Dubai. Suprised is probably the wrong word, more like... disappointed. Sounds like I'm going to have to work extremely hard and long hours if I move over and decide to begin a relationship lol anxiousape Most men in dubai are on the extreme edge of metrosexual style, next to gayness. The worst part is women in dubai DIG this. I can only see here. noni
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
any good guy or girl is gonna search for someone who matches that compatibility...cyrix that was great, I loved it: "easy people find easy people"



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