panaghoy
I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
BobbieMasoner
- panaghoy wrote:
I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
sincere guys?
Import them ;)
cadmus
i know a guy who is very decent...if you want i can give u his contacts ;)
Pumpkin Escobar
Find an American :wink:
BobbieMasoner
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
Find an American :wink:
aren't you smooth :wink:
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
I think they are not afriad to fall in love, they just don't want to be in love.
panaghoy
i beg to disagree FeiPo. i know somehow, somewhere deep in our hearts we wanted to be loved and be in-love. just that everyone is so afraid to fall in love especially here in Dubai... btw, have u found a serious relationship here? if u have, then maybe im wrong =)
FeiPo
Besides, if you want to find a good man, the best way is not to try hard! Take it easy then you will see a good man. Telling everyone you want to find a sincere bf was a bad idea! Posting your picture was a bad idea <--- if that is you in the picture. Acting desperate will only attract bad guys who want to take advantage of your desperation!!
What I am trying to say is when you are looking for a bf you will start to compare the guy against your standards... and really you can't find out everything about this guy in only a month or 2, so b4 you can see his good things you already bad list him cause you already dug out all his bad things (in your own stardard list). But when you are only meeting a friend then you don't really care how he looks, what he does or his age etc... <----- then eventually you will see one of you friends around you actually is a good man for you.
Take your time, next time when you meet a guy, treat him like a normal friend... hang out a bit maybe with other friends as well. Try to find out more about him b4 you start dating him.
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
i beg to disagree FeiPo. i know somehow, somewhere deep in our hearts we wanted to be loved and be in-love. just that everyone is so afraid to fall in love especially here in Dubai... btw, have u found a serious relationship here? if u have, then maybe im wrong =)
Yes sure everyone wants to me loved... but there is no need to try hard... acting desperate will scare guys away... even if my bf talk about family having baby and getting marry now, I will pack and run <----- that is because I met him only for a couple months, we should not think about getting marry or family b4 we even know each other.
Yes I am in a relationship and I am sure I love this guy and he loves me. Yes I met him here in Dubai but to me I am not sure what you mean of a serious relationship... if you mean getting marry and having a family. Then I think you need more time than 7 months. To me me and my bf is serious enough.
panaghoy
Chill Out FeiPo! What is wrong with u?? the only reason that i signed for this site is becoz i wanted to express my thoughts and somehow find someone who can relate to what i feel... how can u be so naive??? have u ever been in love before?? perhaps not! becoz obviously u didnt get what i mean...
and with my picture being posted on this site, whats wrong with that?? I WANTED TO GIVE IDENTITY TO PANAGHOY not like someone whose not sure about him or herself and instead using other people face and worst using animal picture like urs =) duh?!?
hey, i just wanted to connect... if u get what i mean?? im sorry if i offended you but it will not hurt if u OPEN your mind.
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FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
Chill Out FeiPo! What is wrong with u?? the only reason that i signed for this site is becoz i wanted to express my thoughts and somehow find someone who can relate to what i feel... how can u be so naive??? have u ever been in love before?? perhaps not! becoz obviously u didnt get what i mean...
and with my picture being posted on this site, whats wrong with that?? I WANTED TO GIVE IDENTITY TO PANAGHOY not like someone whose not sure about him or herself and instead using other people face and worst using animal picture like urs =) duh?!?
hey, i just wanted to connect... if u get what i mean?? im sorry if i offended you but it will not hurt if u OPEN your mind.
I am chilled...
maybe you are right i have never been in love b4, I don't know how to love someone <--- I guess.
I guess nothing wrong with posting your own pic on the site, but if you are posting your pic on the site with a question of "where can you find a sincere man?" then people like me (maybe just me) will automatically think you are looking for a date here.
I also think nothing wrong with my picture, or using animal pic. We are in the internet, we are talking to everyone here, you for example, I saw your post and start talking to you and I don't even know you. I think I feel more comfortable not letting everyone know my face. You don't just talk to eveyone when you are on the street right? same principal we are alll stranger to each other. I have met a couple people face to face after we got to know each other more.
panaghoy
i know what u mean with the avatar thing... well probably thats how u are. in my case, i dont have problem posting my photo as long as it fits my taste... i mean nothing porno or violent. like i said i wanted to give identity to panaghoy i dont wanna use animal photo.
and i think people have different interpretation... its a matter of relating to other people's mind. if ur seeing it differently, then maybe we will not get along. we are 2 different person, we have different way of life. and i dont have problem with that. its u, not that i dont give value to anything u said but i am sure about myself... other people might have same level of thinking as urs and bad men might actually try to hook me but at the end of the day IT IS ME WHOOSE GONNA ACT UPON IT.
BobbieMasoner
mieow girls :?
let it go
panaghoy
so Bobbie, what do u think?? do men doesnt want to fall in love or afraid to fall in love? please enlighten us...
FeiPo
- BobbieMasoner wrote:
mieow girls :?
let it go
we are only having a discussion... ... that's what the forum for, people giving their opinions/ ideas!! :D :D :D
FeiPo
Panaghoy, is that you too in the pic? I think I like the other one better!!
panaghoy
so boobie, since ur the only man here... tell us what do men thinks??
panaghoy
hey Fei, im getting some piece of ur advice... that is if its ok with u?? :)
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
so boobie, since ur the only man here... tell us what do men thinks??
i think boobie is not a man
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
hey Fei, im getting some piece of ur advice... that is if its ok with u?? :)
sure :wink:
panaghoy
i mean bobbie... ooopsss! sorry!
hey Fei, where u at now??
castellano
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
Find an American :wink:
i think she ment americans by being afraid of falling in love ,,,loooooool
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
i mean bobbie... ooopsss! sorry!
hey Fei, where u at now??
I am at home... at home everyday .... why?
BobbieMasoner
- FeiPo wrote:
- panaghoy wrote:
i mean bobbie... ooopsss! sorry!
hey Fei, where u at now??
I am at home... at home everyday .... why?
:roll: My name is BOBBIE. and i'm not a man.
Pumpkin, abs, liban, sniper- they're all guys.
Pumpkin Escobar
- castellano wrote:
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
Find an American :wink:
i think she ment americans by being afraid of falling in love ,,,loooooool
ok-k-k-k-k-kay :?
Pumpkin Escobar
Americans are much sweeter and we spoil women....just ask Bobbie :wink:
BobbieMasoner
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
Americans are much sweeter and we spoil women....just ask Bobbie :wink:
i've been spoiled rotten :wink:
Pumpkin Escobar
Good Ol' southern charm never hurts :wink:
BobbieMasoner
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
Good Ol' southern charm never hurts :wink:
i'm gonna sine yo pity on the runny kine!
hahahhahahaha
and you know why?
because you're Rick James (bitch)
even I dont know waht my point is now :roll:
Palkid7
well panaghoy, all I can say 4 u is that men (as) me are tired of the love game , why , b/c it seems to me , after experience that most of the people don't deserve wasting feelings on them !! that's why most of us are afraid !!
what do u say guys, do I hear a ya !!!
Chocoholic
Hey hey hey hey!
Ok - to answer your question bluntly, there are very few sincere guys in Dubai!
Because the place is so transcient with people coming and going all the time, many folks just don't think it's worth getting involved in something heavy, so they just F*** around while their here then disappear.
To say that most blokes don't want to find love, is just silly! Every bloke I know is looking for Mrs right, it's just finding that special person.
And as we've discussed before, the best places and ways to meet people here are through mutual friends, for quiet drinks out or social gathering - pubs, clubs and parties are not where you're going to find Mr nice guy.
Plus remember there are far more women here than men, so the nice ones are usually taken and competition is fierce, put it this way, my girlfriends when they find blokes that are new to Dubai it's like "OOOoooohhhh FRESH MEAT!" says it all really doesn't it!
FeiPo
Just not try to find one, let the destiny goes to you!! I beleive there are a few sincere guys in the world not just in Dubai. Everywhere is the same, you have to be careful if you don't want to get hurt.
algren
- Chocoholic wrote:
Hey hey hey hey!
Ok - to answer your question bluntly, there are very few sincere guys in Dubai!
Because the place is so transcient with people coming and going all the time, many folks just don't think it's worth getting involved in something heavy, so they just F*** around while their here then disappear.
To say that most blokes don't want to find love, is just silly! Every bloke I know is looking for Mrs right, it's just finding that special person.
And as we've discussed before, the best places and ways to meet people here are through mutual friends, for quiet drinks out or social gathering - pubs, clubs and parties are not where you're going to find Mr nice guy.
Plus remember there are far more women here than men, so the nice ones are usually taken and competition is fierce, put it this way, my girlfriends when they find blokes that are new to Dubai it's like "OOOoooohhhh FRESH MEAT!" says it all really doesn't it!
chocoholic!! u lookin for sincere guy??? here I am~~~ 8)
dubaiblue
To be fair ladies...most of the women that me and my mates have met since we got here 3 months ago from the UK, are GOLD DIGGERS! Blokes just don't like that...unless we're in our fifties and thats the only thing going for us! Unfortunately we are all in our mid 20's and dont need that crap!
Chocoholic
HHHHmmmmm interesting, but probably true, it's a bit sad really, although my girlfriends just like a guy for the night most of the time, but that's getting a bit boring now and trying to find a decent bloke is finding difficult.
It's OK dude I have a Greek God!
FeiPo
- dubaiblue wrote:
To be fair ladies...most of the women that me and my mates have met since we got here 3 months ago from the UK, are GOLD DIGGERS! Blokes just don't like that...unless we're in our fifties and thats the only thing going for us! Unfortunately we are all in our mid 20's and dont need that crap!
haha... what do you think I am here for?
:laughing3: :laughing3: :laughing3: :laughing3: :laughing3:
jordan
- panaghoy wrote:
I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
simpliy me !
mAJOR pAIN
panaghoy ... first im sorry for my prev. post ... i thought your a man / IT .... since choc did point out that you really is a woman ... im sorry for being rude on the other post .. i thought i was still in fight club hahahahaa
anyway sincere guys .... hmm it depends if the woman is equally sincere ... i really do believe on being a mirror .... a gurl show me kindness and sincerity ill give her my all .... but cross me and be unfaithfull ...then bye....
keihl
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
SKY
just look beside you..may be he is just around and waiting for the right time :D
Akasha
Ahhhh that's a nice thought.
mAJOR pAIN
- keihl wrote:
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
damn im such a lucky man !!!!
panaghoy
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
- keihl wrote:
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
damn im such a lucky man !!!!
yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har
keihl
- panaghoy wrote:
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
- keihl wrote:
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
damn im such a lucky man !!!!
yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har
oops.. i hope this isn't a start of another "word-war"... peace everyone..
i am too, is very lucky.. :wink:
mAJOR pAIN
- panaghoy wrote:
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
- keihl wrote:
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
damn im such a lucky man !!!!
yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har
i really do see whats panaghoys problem is anyway ... girl i hope you find happiness ........ SOOOOON !!! cause you are getting a bit annoying hahahahaahahahaha joke peace
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mAJOR pAIN
- keihl wrote:
- panaghoy wrote:
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
- keihl wrote:
to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
damn im such a lucky man !!!!
yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har
oops.. i hope this isn't a start of another "word-war"... peace everyone..
i am too, is very lucky.. :wink:
there was this girl when i was in year 3 of my primary education/elementary where i really hate her from the moment that i saw her!!!, and i used to always play practical jokes on her, called her names, and she did the same to me vice versa,... who started the hate thing i dont know,.. its like we where destined to fight relentlessly!!! that lasted 3 years until we both went to highschool i was here in dubai and she was in manila, we had our skirmishes on my occaisional visit home,.. then we just kinda forget about each other's hate from the time we entered college untill last shopping festilval (eventually she came to dubai to work) i saw her at the creek buying some stuff .... its like magic! all those hate turned into something else.... !!! Now we're engaged to be married on june 2007 ....
no girl its not luck .... its meant to be ... but i still dont know why we hated each other back then ..hahahaha
Youve changed me...
your my reason, my life, my love......
I thank you for being you and
for the smile that you had given me ..
..... thanks because with you ....
i can be me.......
SKY
do you have now an idea of finding a sincere guy in dubai? like what kheil wrote she believe you dont' really have to look for them.. you cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
you can only measure sincerity in the people you already know, or who you are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
i hope this will clear up things with you my baby :D
keihl
- SKY wrote:
do you have now an idea of finding a sincere guy in dubai? like what kheil wrote she believe you dont' really have to look for them.. you cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..
sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..
you can only measure sincerity in the people you already know, or who you are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.
i hope this will clear up things with you my baby :D
hmmm.. so is that a mesage for panaghoy, SKY??? can she find the sincere guy in YOU??? Gud Luck..
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keihl
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
Youve changed me...
your my reason, my life, my love......
I thank you for being you and
for the smile that you had given me ..
..... thanks because with you ....
i can be me.......
i am equally thankful for having u in my life.. and thank you for treating me like no one has ever treated me before, feels great to be the Queen of Pain :) :) :)
Sometimes I wanna give up
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight
And then I see you baby
And everything's alright,
everything's alright
name that tune, anyone???
cmd28bear
Hi, I'm new to the forum, but just read this thread and thought I should reply... not that I am especially a UAE veteran or anything, but I have been here for nearly 3 years now, and I have had my fair share of insincerity come my way (and some downright crazy people too!!)
I have noticed something - it has become almost a ritual in the Dubai singles/dating scene to have a conversation on the first date with someone along the lines of 'everyone here is so ingenuine and materialistic and superficial'... yet after just a week or so of seeing that person, you realise they are really no different to the people they criticise! :(
Oh well... :)
Chocoholic
Ah so so so so true my friend. You meet someone and they seem to be OK, then a few weeks later they show their true colours and just end up being seperficial like everyone else.
Funny problem my girlfriends keep running into, is why are their so many young guys in Dubai, they meet someone they like then a few days later they find out the guy is like 22,23 it's happened so many times, where are all the guys in the late 20's, early 30's.
I told them not to complain about younger guys, but they always worry about the immaturity factor.
I always say, guys never grow up, the toys just get bigger and more expensive.
MaaaD
dude,
cmd28bear post was gender-neutral as far as i can see, how come you turned it to all-guys-suck thing ..
Chocoholic
That's Dudette!
And all guys aren't bad, I was mearly pointing out that this is a bit problem in Dubai.
It's true about the maturity of guys, take in from someone who has always dated younger men, you always have to take off another 2 or so years to compensate for the immaturity factor. That's why I'm now with someone older than me as the young guys just take the p***.
They just don't seem to grow up these days, I'm all fall people having fun, but there's a fine line between being fun and being childish, the latter is just so not attractive.
Pumpkin Escobar
I go down on girls, does that count for something? :D
MaaaD
I disagree with you ..
I dont think maturity has anything to do with age ..
I have met 13 year old girls who are more mature than 30 year old women.
And same thing with guys ..
Its a personality thing, we should take the time to know the person before passing judgement.
.. age is nothing but a number
cmd28bear
To some extent I agree with Chocoholic...
I think Dubai has many serious demographic problems - although it is of course a predominantly male society given the nature of the economy and visiting workers, etc - this disguises the fact that there are massive gender imbalances (often more females than males) in certain age groups and nationalities I have very few male friends who I would consider to be in my age group, simply because there just are not many around. I have no problems socialising with my (much older colleagues), but I suppose it's not healthy in the long run.
mAJOR pAIN
there goes girls being complicated with their relationship !!!! ...i say ... find someone who you like and have fun with him .... dont complicate things ... if you do ... then your problem starts .. who cares about , age & race if you like some one ... then go by all means ... life is too short to be too picky !!! the only thing hthat is important in a relationship is that you guys ... like each other and you guys can be "normal" with each other ... with no pretentions and no reservations ... if you can say anything that you wanted to say ... vice versa ... when you guys can talk for hours without getting pissed off wioth each other .... basically if your happy with your someone. and both are equality responsible financially and emotionally .. then .. why bother being scared of him being young .... or being on another race .... WHO CARES !!!
we guys like our woman practical, simple, and fun no pretentions .. no BS and no god damn scenes !!! oh yeah ... those who cook good too
BobbieMasoner
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
I go down on girls, does that count for something? :D
hahahahhaa
8)
Pumpkin Escobar
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
there goes girls being complicated with their relationship !!!! ...i say ... find someone who you like and have fun with him .... dont complicate things ... if you do ... then your problem starts .. who cares about , age & race if you like some one ... then go by all means ... life is too short to be too picky !!! the only thing hthat is important in a relationship is that you guys ... like each other and you guys can be "normal" with each other ... with no pretentions and no reservations ... if you can say anything that you wanted to say ... vice versa ... when you guys can talk for hours without getting pissed off wioth each other .... basically if your happy with your someone. and both are equality responsible financially and emotionally .. then .. why bother being scared of him being young .... or being on another race .... WHO CARES !!!
we guys like our woman practical, simple, and fun no pretentions .. no BS and no god damn scenes !!! oh yeah ... those who cook good too
GO DJ!! CUZ THAT'S MY DJ!!!!!
elicec
- panaghoy wrote:
so Bobbie, what do u think?? do men doesnt want to fall in love or afraid to fall in love? please enlighten us...
hmmm...interesting question. lemme answer it.... men aren't really scared at all, most of them just don't have the balls to commit:!:
elicec
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
- mAJOR pAIN wrote:
there goes girls being complicated with their relationship !!!! ...i say ... find someone who you like and have fun with him .... dont complicate things ... if you do ... then your problem starts .. who cares about , age & race if you like some one ... then go by all means ... life is too short to be too picky !!! the only thing hthat is important in a relationship is that you guys ... like each other and you guys can be "normal" with each other ... with no pretentions and no reservations ... if you can say anything that you wanted to say ... vice versa ... when you guys can talk for hours without getting pissed off wioth each other .... basically if your happy with your someone. and both are equality responsible financially and emotionally .. then .. why bother being scared of him being young .... or being on another race .... WHO CARES !!!
we guys like our woman practical, simple, and fun no pretentions .. no BS and no god damn scenes !!! oh yeah ... those who cook good too
GO DJ!! CUZ THAT'S MY DJ!!!!!
GET A ROBOT GIRL:P
Nas7
sincere handsome young man available right here :) dont be shy ladies, i dont bite (unless you ask nicely :3some: )
FeiPo
- Nas7 wrote:
sincere handsome young man available right here :) dont be shy ladies, i dont bite (unless you ask nicely :3some: )
Hi handsome young man!! Are you rich?
magicballs
Same here , but why we cant try each other ;) what do u think :P hey i m really serious .....!!!!!!! i can fall in love .....
BobbieMasoner
- FeiPo wrote:
- Nas7 wrote:
sincere handsome young man available right here :) dont be shy ladies, i dont bite (unless you ask nicely :3some: )
Hi handsome young man!! Are you rich?
FeiPo- subtle as always :wink:
Pumpkin Escobar
I'm hood rich!!! I got a cab with 20in rims.
FeiPo
- BobbieMasoner wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
- Nas7 wrote:
sincere handsome young man available right here :) dont be shy ladies, i dont bite (unless you ask nicely :3some: )
Hi handsome young man!! Are you rich?
FeiPo- subtle as always :wink:
That's me!!!! :laughing6:
Chocoholic
Hahaha you guys are hilarious!
Sincere guys in Dubai? Nope still haven't found many to be honest, I keep looking but just no joy, apart from the boyf of course.
What's with all the wanting cash stuff. I think it's alwasy the little things that count - and no I;m not talking in the trouser department - oh sorry rambling er this wines far too good!
stainless
Modesty is a trait that is learned... if you go out showing off money, women will gravitate toward you, but it is not the women most of us men are looking for. I have a couple of friends that are worth tens of millions and they fly eco class, drive very modest cars (Jeeps, Chevys), live in nice places but not over the top massive places... they don't let people know that they are worth X because they are modest and don't want to attract people that are gold diggers. So the guys are just as much to blame as the women... in a culture that it is the mans responsibility to earn the money, then it is the mans fault for flaunting it thinking he is going to meet a down to earth woman.
But in the case of Pump, well those 12's says enough! U's got to keep u'r bitches in line somehow... But isn't it the size of the nose that counts? 8)
Stainless
FeiPo
To be honest, I can never go out with a guy who cannot afford his own movie ticket or his share for dinner. Doesn't matter how good this guy treat me, I just can't... this is me.
It is ok for me if I have to pay my share (only if he cannot afford my share). But definately not his share as well... not that I will not pay for the dinners or movies sometimes, but he just cannot afford it.
how many girls here will go out with a guy you have to financially support him?
This is the question I always ask myself. If I only go out with a guy who has a job with a steady income and can afford to take me to movies and dinners, am I a material girl? I grew up in a ok family, I have never had to worry about money in my life (not a rich family, but I never stave). I had good educations, good clothes and good food. I think I am not willing to have a life worse than what I normally have. Does it mean I am a material girl?
stainless
- FeiPo wrote:
To be honest, I can never go out with a guy who cannot afford his own movie ticket or his share for dinner. Doesn't matter how good this guy treat me, I just can't... this is me.
It is ok for me if I have to pay my share (only if he cannot afford my share). But definately not his share as well... not that I will not pay for the dinners or movies sometimes, but he just cannot afford it.
how many girls here will go out with a guy you have to financially support him?
This is the question I always ask myself. If I only go out with a guy who has a job with a steady income and can afford to take me to movies and dinners, am I a material girl? I grew up in a ok family, I have never had to worry about money in my life (not a rich family, but I never stave). I had good educations, good clothes and good food. I think I am not willing to have a life worse than what I normally have. Does it mean I am a material girl?
No not at all, you should expect the guy to purchase dinner and movie on the first date, 100% and then from there if the lady offers it is up to him to accept... after a few dates dutch (both paying) can show respect for her to earn income and be independent, while relieving the stress of her thinking that she owes him for always paying for the dates. Another alternative is alternate, and have her plan and pay for the date... this can really become a fun alternative.
In my personal definition, a materialistic woman is one whom EXPECTS the man to pay always and even ask him to go shopping, then turns to him to pay. One whom only looks at the material world for comfort or acceptance. We call these people, "Closet Whores" as they don't ask for money outright, but get it through other means... these type of women don't consider this as a form of prostitution but in essence it is. I have a friend here in Dubai that has a ferrari and his ex wouldn't allow him to pick her up unless he was in the ferrari versus any of his daily cars. She would take a taxis instead!!!?
So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?
Stainless
panaghoy
Feipo, i think u missed one thing important! at least have money to send you flowers, ryt?!
darn! im not feeling well today... after seeing that bunch of roses sent in the office today.. worst part is telling the that delivery man I'M NOT HER.. really make me sick!!
FeiPo
"So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?"
Who can do this?
FeiPo
- panaghoy wrote:
Feipo, i think u missed one thing important! at least have money to send you flowers, ryt?!
darn! im not feeling well today... after seeing that bunch of roses sent in the office today.. worst part is telling the that delivery man I'M NOT HER.. really make me sick!!
:laughing6: :laughing6: hahaha... it's ok!! I have never received even one grass in my life. You will get use to it!! :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4: :toothy4:
Wrissler700
Wow, looks like you girlswoman have same problem like we have.
Why is it so difficult to find somebody to spend time with and enjoy life and maybe more.
Most woman I went out with were looking first from which country I am and second for which company I'm working for (expat yes/no).
It is a pitty that really most of the woman down here are like that, its crazy, why is it so???
Anyway, treating a woman like an angel/ princess that's a matter of course and there is no way around!
stainless
- FeiPo wrote:
- Stainless wrote:
"So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?"
Who can do this?
A friend of mine (no ex) wife married with him for about 2 years when he was going through a transition and low and behold... she divorced him after about six months! This is what really scares the hell out of me... to give you life to someone and think you know them only to be taken by surprise and not really know them at all!
Oh and FeiPo, PM me an address and I will send you Flowers. :D
Stainless
FeiPo
- Wrissler700 wrote:
Wow, looks like you girlswoman have same problem like we have.
Why is it so difficult to find somebody to spend time with and enjoy life and maybe more.
Most woman I went out with were looking first from which country I am and second for which company I'm working for (expat yes/no).
It is a pitty that really most of the woman down here are like that, its crazy, why is it so???
Anyway, treating a woman like an angel/ princess that's a matter of course and there is no way around!
What's wrong with asking where you from and who you work for??? :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?:
FeiPo
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
- Stainless wrote:
"So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?"
Who can do this?
A friend of mine (no ex) wife married with him for about 2 years when he was going through a transition and low and behold... she divorced him after about six months! This is what really scares the hell out of me... to give you life to someone and think you know them only to be taken by surprise and not really know them at all!
Oh and FeiPo, PM me an address and I will send you Flowers. :D
Stainless
There are many reasons for divorce, when your friend going thur the hard time, he probably gave her hard time as well. Maybe not just because of money. It is not easy to deal with a sad and miserable man everyday.
stainless
- FeiPo wrote:
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
- Stainless wrote:
"So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?"
Who can do this?
A friend of mine (no ex) wife married with him for about 2 years when he was going through a transition and low and behold... she divorced him after about six months! This is what really scares the hell out of me... to give you life to someone and think you know them only to be taken by surprise and not really know them at all!
Oh and FeiPo, PM me an address and I will send you Flowers. :D
Stainless
There are many reasons for divorce, when your friend going thur the hard time, he probably gave her hard time as well. Maybe not just because of money. It is not easy to deal with a sad and miserable man everyday.
Nothing is wrong with asking where a person is from or who they work for... but when it is in the context of, "Oh, your not X nationality or in X position of a job, then you are not good enough for me" is when it is materialistic. Does a man have to have a X paying job or high ranking position to keep a woman happy?
I have to agree with you on the divorce issues, and I am not peeve to all of the facts. And again you are right about being with someone miserable... my last ex always complained about Dubai and its people, only to back home, low and behold, complained about how back home was slow and people are backwards. Always tried to point out the positive about life but in the end, we had to go our own ways.
Now about those flowers... :wink:
Stainless
FeiPo
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
- Stainless wrote:
"So FeiPo, you are not a materialistic at all, but normal. Now the question is, would you divorce a husband of a couple years if he got laid off or stand by his side and even support him during his transition period?"
Who can do this?
A friend of mine (no ex) wife married with him for about 2 years when he was going through a transition and low and behold... she divorced him after about six months! This is what really scares the hell out of me... to give you life to someone and think you know them only to be taken by surprise and not really know them at all!
Oh and FeiPo, PM me an address and I will send you Flowers. :D
Stainless
There are many reasons for divorce, when your friend going thur the hard time, he probably gave her hard time as well. Maybe not just because of money. It is not easy to deal with a sad and miserable man everyday.
Nothing is wrong with asking where a person is from or who they work for... but when it is in the context of, "Oh, your not X nationality or in X position of a job, then you are not good enough for me" is when it is materialistic. Does a man have to have a X paying job or high ranking position to keep a woman happy?
I have to agree with you on the divorce issues, and I am not peeve to all of the facts. And again you are right about being with someone miserable... my last ex always complained about Dubai and its people, only to back home, low and behold, complained about how back home was slow and people are backwards. Always tried to point out the positive about life but in the end, we had to go our own ways.
Now about those flowers... :wink:
Stainless
I am ok with not receiving flowers... thanks for your offer. I have no vase!!!
stainless
- FeiPo wrote:
I am ok with not receiving flowers... thanks for your offer. I have no vase!!!
No vase!!! I thought you only dated the rich ones and not a one has bought you a vase, cheap fu@kers. You should really up you standard. :wink:
Stainless
BobbieMasoner
i'm more of a plant girl myself. :roll:
mAJOR pAIN
- magicballs wrote:
Same here , but why we cant try each other ;) what do u think :P hey i m really serious .....!!!!!!! i can fall in love .....
magicballs are you reffering to nas7 ???? damn ..
FeiPo
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
I am ok with not receiving flowers... thanks for your offer. I have no vase!!!
No vase!!! I thought you only dated the rich ones and not a one has bought you a vase, cheap fu@kers. You should really up you standard. :wink:
Stainless
I think I should... are you rich?
stainless
- FeiPo wrote:
- stainless wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
I am ok with not receiving flowers... thanks for your offer. I have no vase!!!
No vase!!! I thought you only dated the rich ones and not a one has bought you a vase, cheap fu@kers. You should really up you standard. :wink:
Stainless
I think I should... are you rich?
If I was, I wouldn't let you know. :king: So about the vase, or should I offer Bobbie a plant instead?
BobbieMasoner
i'll have one of those curly bamboo things please! they look like fun.
sa4877
Hey it's sad but true.... i have seen several cases where the guy gets dumped as soon as he sees bad days!!.
Sad.
As for me my girl is a cutie.... very affectionate. She always is prudent with my money. She is always arond to hold hands in case of any problem.
As for you Panaghoy.. just hold. Don't look around too hard. The prince may be just arond the corner.
And Bobbie... send me your mailing address and i will send across one of tose bamboo things.
:flower:
BobbieMasoner
haha, thank you, the thought is more than enough :wink:
OH how i wish i had a big strong man to buy me curly bamboo shoots :P
stainless
- BobbieMasoner wrote:
haha, thank you, the thought is more than enough :wink:
OH how i wish i had a big strong man to buy me curly bamboo shoots :P
Wow Bobbie,
Two of us offering you the magical curly bamboo plant is still rejecting us, what's a man to do? :wink:
Ok, how about coffee then?
Stainless
cadmus
can neone tell me what these curly bamboo sticks are...
BobbieMasoner
stainless-- psssh if you'd been paying enough attention you'd know that i'm Scottish- we drink TEA :wink:
cadmus- go to spinneys- they're big and green and curly :roll:
Pumpkin Escobar
"She's ANGLISH!!!!!!!" :D , Pump retorts in his best sourthern accent.
Dj_Ricky
Hey,I tried alright!Its not so easy when u have all loose women around u!
I just got back to Dubai. Its the God damn same everywhere here. Even in clubs! Take trilogy for eg.I really can dance, but then im surrounded by whores! Imagine im dancin with this really hot Chic and then she says we can get it on for a measly 50 dhs.Thats really sad!
Maybe there r no more of them good girls left out there....
Salvation,where art thou!
stainless
- BobbieMasoner wrote:
stainless-- psssh if you'd been paying enough attention you'd know that i'm Scottish- we drink TEA :wink:
cadmus- go to spinneys- they're big and green and curly :roll:
Noticing your Scottish isn't what I missed :wink: Missing the fact that the Scott's drink TEA... I thought tea was a British past time and we all know how much the Scotts loves the British. :o We learn new things everyday!
So about that tea... :D
Stainless
Francheska
''Hey,I tried alright!Its not so easy when u have all loose women around u! ''
Menn around turn women in to loose women. It is not in the nature of the woman to be a prostitute.
sniper420
- Francheska wrote:
'' It is not in the nature of the woman to be a prostitute.
well u will change ur mind once u see choco.. lol jk :P
Chocoholic
Sniper - SHUT UP!!!!
Stainless I think you're a bit confused, Scottish can be classed as British as can English, Welsh and some Irish. Britain / UK is made up of 4 different countries, but it's upto the individual whether they class themselves as British or specifically from their country.
I love Scotland, great place, never been sure about the whole haggis thing, but show me a man in a kilt any day - so long as he's traditional, if you get my meaning!!! :D
sniper420
- Chocoholic wrote:
Sniper - SHUT UP!!!!
Stainless I think you're a bit confused, Scottish can be classed as British as can English, Welsh and some Irish. Britain / UK is made up of 4 different countries, but it's upto the individual whether they class themselves as British or specifically from their country.
I love Scotland, great place, never been sure about the whole haggis thing, but show me a man in a kilt any day - so long as he's traditional, if you get my meaning!!! :D
who the hell is sniper? and what did he do to u?
decent_4u23
#20110
fayz
If the girl says yes will she be lucky enough to wear the shirt in your avatar?
….I’ll give you some friendly advice, although statistically in Dubai being a guy you are behind the 8 ball but trust me there are great girls out there but spending your evenings surfing the web, eating pizza that is slid under the door and posting lonely heart topics isn’t the way to meet them (most people would have figured this out by the replies you have been receiving quite a while ago :roll: )
Captain Sirus Black
what good is it ..
Captain Sirus Black
what good is it ..
rana79
i am here...
orik
After More Than 2 years
And You Opened This Topic Again.
reviewer
- orik wrote:
After More Than 2 years
And You Opened This Topic Again.
Sure sign of desperation ..... :lol: :lol:
orik
Quote:
- Sure sign of desperation .....
Seems So.
But [color=red]Active [/color]Participants Of This [color=green]Topic [/color]May Be Are
Out Of [color=darkblue]Forum[/color].
Or At Least Forgot The Forum.
reviewer
- orik wrote:
Quote:
- Sure sign of desperation .....
Seems So.
But [color=red]Active [/color]Participants Of This [color=green]Topic [/color]May Be Are Out Of [color=darkblue]Forum[/color].
Or At Least Forgot The Forum.
Seems they're out and about when girls log in.....coincidence...
:roll:
Dubai Knight
There's a few of us old lags still hanging in there...
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight
Captain Sirus Black
- Palkid7 wrote:
well panaghoy, all I can say 4 u is that men (as) me are tired of the love game , why , b/c it seems to me , after experience that most of the people don't deserve wasting feelings on them !! that's why most of us are afraid !!
what do u say guys, do I hear a ya !!!
hell ya ..
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
- orik wrote:
After More Than 2 years
And You Opened This Topic Again.
Sure sign of desperation ..... :lol: :lol:
nopes its one way to increase your posts :P
reviewer
- Captain Sirus Black wrote:
- reviewer wrote:
- orik wrote:
After More Than 2 years
And You Opened This Topic Again.
Sure sign of desperation ..... :lol: :lol:
nopes its one way to increase your posts :P
As well as increase you anxiety.....anyone out there........I'm free.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
reviewer
- Captain Sirus Black wrote:
- reviewer wrote:
- orik wrote:
After More Than 2 years
And You Opened This Topic Again.
Sure sign of desperation ..... :lol: :lol:
nopes its one way to increase your posts :P
As well as increase you anxiety.....anyone out there........I'm free.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
As well as increase you anxiety.....anyone out there........I'm free.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
so am i :lol:
reviewer
Where are they when they're needed the most.... 8)
O|DN07
- panaghoy wrote:
i beg to disagree FeiPo. i know somehow, somewhere deep in our hearts we wanted to be loved and be in-love. just that everyone is so afraid to fall in love especially here in Dubai... btw, have u found a serious relationship here? if u have, then maybe im wrong =)
Ummm!!.......... their is a loving person living inside in evryone.. who want's to fall in love or to-beloved by,.. see that love is like a rain... it start's n stop's seudenlly n make's you all wet from head to feet, so keep the eye's on the sky it wont have much time for the drops to touch the earth!....... keep that alway's in mind we love............. Love!!!.............. : )
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
Where are they when they're needed the most.... 8)
they always are there .. just right round the corner .. all you have to do is reach for them .. :)
reviewer
- Captain Sirus Black wrote:
- reviewer wrote:
Where are they when they're needed the most.... 8)
they always are there .. just right round the corner .. all you have to do is reach for them .. :)
Just like Starbucks posted in every block in the city.... :wink:
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
Just like Starbucks posted in every block in the city.... :wink:
depends who is looking .. everything lie in the eyes of the beholder .. :wink:
femme
hey...im trying to look for one...
can you help me with that??????
anyway, im trying to enjoy my life to the fullest, there will come a time that somehow, someday, the right one for me will come along...
reviewer
:wink: Just look above you and you'll see lots of them....pick your choice.....
MC
Or under you. :roll:
But if you are trying to live your life to the fullest you will have a hard time finding the right person. You always need to compromise in a relationship.
reviewer
- MC wrote:
Or under you. :roll:
You got me there mate...
- MC wrote:
But if you are trying to live your life to the fullest you will have a hard time finding the right person. You always need to compromise in a relationship.
It just takes time is a must...
hassan_dxb
Is here any american guy or girls it doesn't matter >>>>> contact me at flyemirates-1[at]
ebonics
hahahaha, he takes whatever he can get, guys or girls
way to go "free trade" :!: :!: :idea:
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
:wink: Just look above you and you'll see lots of them....pick your choice.....
count me out of that list .. relationships sucks .. because people dont want to compromise .. and then why should only one of the partners compromise ..
btw why did you excluded yourself from the list ..
Captain Sirus Black
- ebonics wrote:
hahahaha, he takes whatever he can get, guys or girls
way to go "free trade" :!: :!: :idea:
u missed the point .. he wana improve his english only .. he aint looking for romance or anything ..
reviewer
- Captain Sirus Black wrote:
- reviewer wrote:
:wink: Just look above you and you'll see lots of them....pick your choice.....
count me out of that list .. relationships sucks .. because people dont want to compromise .. and then why should only one of the partners compromise ..
btw why did you excluded yourself from the list ..
Coz, for me compromise is both ways.....for now Im having a time of my life ...so why change it..... :wink:
Captain Sirus Black
that is so bad to have the time of your life alone .. btw being single is better .. one just misses the sex only if they have ever done it .. so i like being single .. :wink:
reviewer
- Captain Sirus Black wrote:
that is so bad to have the time of your life alone .. btw being single is better .. one just misses the love only if they have ever done it .. so i like being single .. :wink:
Not really...dont want anybody looking over my shoulder...freedom is an expensive commodity....
Captain Sirus Black
agreed .. nJoy the fredom while it last coz nothing last forever .. :wink:
reviewer
I will as long as I feel it.....
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
I will as long as I feel it.....
height of sincerity .. ladies and gentlemen .. here is your winner .. a note for the topic creator .. you just found yourself a suitor ..
reviewer
:shock: :shock: ..Nah...Nah....I cherish my freedom......its all or nothing......
Captain Sirus Black
- reviewer wrote:
:shock: :shock: ..Nah...Nah....I cherish my freedom......its all or nothing......
what is all .. what awl are you looking for mate .. :wink:
reviewer
For now living life is about freedom...[color=red]all[/color] aspect of it....
Captain Sirus Black
define freedom ..
reviewer
Boundless, Borderless, Autonomous, with-out restraint, liberty
masrisy
[color=darkred]What do u mean by that, we're all decent guys in here! the question is are u :?:[/color]
quatroporte
this topic is so dam old...
i guess the girl who started this topic is married and have kids by now :!:
and we still discussing it 8)
reviewer
- quatroporte wrote:
this topic is so dam old...
i guess the girl who started this topic is married and have kids by now :!:
and we still discussing it 8)
Would you like me to get the key to lock this thread once and for all.. :lol: :lol: :lol:
quatroporte
- reviewer wrote:
- quatroporte wrote:
this topic is so dam old...
i guess the girl who started this topic is married and have kids by now :!:
and we still discussing it 8)
Would you like me to get the key to lock this thread once and for all.. :lol: :lol: :lol:
you will make us a great favor 8)