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Too old to be a virgin?


checkerscom2000 I am a 26 (turn 27 in a few months) year old male and I am still a virgin. I have never even kissed a girl. Please don't laugh. I am still a virgin because it is against Islam and I fear the punishment, but I would like to get married soon. There are so many attractive girls and it is hard to be a virgin especially here in the west where temptations are really high. I live in Canada where there are many beautiful girls, but can't find many Islamic ones. Has anyone on this board been a virgin past 30??? or what age where you when u first did it? Is sex overated or is it that good??
d3vilish_ang3l_88 i dont knw wht to anser about ur question cuz im jus 18 .. but its realii wierd that ur 26 n didnt even kissed a gurl ?? :? im not mockin or anything im jus shocked.. i know ppl who r like 14 n already had their first kiss :shock: checkerscom2000 well the thing is, i have never ever dated before, so who am i gonna kiss d3vilish_ang3l_88
yeah..good point :? boomtown Yes it is that good. mraph33
That's why you have cousins Jamal
its underrated homie .. cause its more then being that good ... s e x is hmmm how should i say it ..... its the closest u will get to tasting paradise on earth .. belive me. Nick81
:lol: :lol: :lol: gtmash
Man, if you are truly following Islam, then stop whining based on Western culture. Because you see teens in Canada screwing left and right doesn't mean you have to do it too, if your faith is strong. It is normal in Islam for men, and some choose to get married at 20 for this, while others wait till 30 so that they are ready for a family. MaaaD please refer to masturbation thread.

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rana79 well it can be like this as its up to you when you wana loose ur virginality, as i was virigin too 25 but now i am 27 and i am...not. hmmm
well done man, try to keep it up and wish you good luck for the future.
cheers!!! :) bushra21 whats virginality? d3vilish_ang3l_88
i think she meant by virginity! bushra21
thanks, i didnt even think of that....because those two words dont resemble one another and the topic isnt about some guy who hasnt been with a girl yet... :roll:
so thank you hon, for helping me solve one of the greatest puzzles of all time..i couldnt have done it without you d3vilish_ang3l_88
hehehe..ur wlecome hun !!! **hugs** bushra21 :lol: :twisted: weary_heart
:lol: :lol: :lol: easternjewel "marrige is liscense for s.e.x" (for the believers) just get married dude MaaaD puberty was my license :lol:
easternjewel u mean tool muhahaha :lol: MaaaD lets not start talkin about my tool EJ .. this thread will end up in fight club ;) easternjewel I was talkin bout your charm MaaaD What did you think you pervert :lol: MaaaD righttt .. your innocent .. i forgot that ;) dubailover
WERD :D Scare Face My friend , it seem you are in a bit of a tight place between your religion and you basic need to get LIAD, however i believe its also agianst your religion to STROCK THE WHALE, now if you have done this , which i bet any male over 14 has done then it shouldnt be a issue to try the real thing. zam
:shock: :shock: :shock: weary_heart
they must be right zam - so dont be shock!!!! weary_heart
*double post* zam
elaborate please!!!! :happy1: weary_heart
:lol: :lol: :lol: ask someone else please... I cant... i have wholesome image! Bleakus dude, my advice, get married wait until you get married and then do whatever you want zam
now now now dont turn your back on me!!! this is really something interesting!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: friiident I lost my virginity when i was 16...it was good but i was young :? but don't think that you're the only one! I saw that many guys are still virgin very late...so if you faith, don't change! valkyrie I lost mine at 17...it was ok. The thing with guys is that they just want their virginity gone. Whereas some women will remember the slightest detail about their first time. I was happy that I finally lost it, but it was on the first date with my partner. She had been with like 7 or 8 other guys before me. asc_26 im 26 and still a certified VIRGIN. i am not ashame of it..it's really by choice :-) Chocoholic I have a lot of respect for people that have self-restraint and keep things like this. kanelli If it is part of your culture/religion to get married before having s.e.x, then go ahead and get married. If you think that studying or having a career is more important right now than taking on the big commitment of marriage and sharing your life with another person, then learn to masturbate if you haven't learned to do so already. There is nothing wrong with masturbation if it keeps you from giving in and having s.e.x when you don't want to. I have to commend you for keeping your viginity for your future wife - it is a respectful thing to do if you also expect her to be a virgin. Seems many religious men just get themselves a non-religious woman to fool around with for a while, then drop them to marry a virgin. :roll: And by the way, not all teens in Canada are "screwing left right and centre" as one poster said. I was in my 20's before I had s.e.x for the first time, and many other Canadians have done the same. It is a personal choice when to have s.e.x or not, and you will find a lot of variety - every person is different based on their own circumstances and beliefs. asc_26
Great Insight Kanelli! asc_26
FYI. It's a lady here :-) it's really a personal choice not influence by religion, culture or whatsover...just that there's no perfect timing..but no plans to die a V. bwahahaha... BabyDoll Quite interesting. Just wondering how old these days the girls start to have sex? In Dubai I mean...... asc_26
Staying V and not having S@#Xat this age doesn't mean i dont have FUN...or maybe we have different meaning of FUN. bwahahhaa... d3vilish_ang3l_88
well...im not going to name anyone...but im really shocked about girls i know who are actully braggin about doin it?? ..which is kinda wierd :?
i know gilrs who lost their viginity when they were 14?? 15?? 16???
but theyre not locals....locals girls do fool around..but i dont think they would go overboerd as in to losing thier virginty ! sara_uk or loose it and seal it again. i have seen girls who do that, No one should be ashamed for been a virgin men or women. I did not lose mine until I was married. Unknown Devil well it's relief to hear it. I myself am a virgin and and am 23 and not only that, to keep my urges in it's just music which makes me go on and on for days. Maybe it lame but yet I control it and plus never had luck with females cuz half of the time I act a bit whacked in the head cuz music just keeps pouring in my head 24/7. I might paint my face half black and half white with total white colour contacts to be the freak of nature which most females dont appreciate. If you talk about getting laid then u know u can pay. No offence to any girls in her or anything but other than that marriage if u ask me it's bond between two ppl forever and ever where no matter what happens trust is there on each other where none can go wrong. If u seriously think of commiting to one person then hell yeah go for it otherwise it it's for sex then dont cuz u end up breaking it cuz then there's no point to it and I dont know abt other ppl but as far as my experience goes true love is hard to find so thats why I stick to my music which might not be the best but atleast it's good enough for me!! emadullah
u are just 27 i m 30 working here in dubai, i have dated a girl only at once but i did not kiss her, same i m also virgin. ? so wat is bad on that nothing to be bored when u really afraid of al mighty. bushra21 > One day an old lady went to the doctors because she had an itch in > her crotch. > > She told the doctor her problem and he said, "You have the crabs". > > She informed the doctor that it could not be the crabs because she > was an eighty year old virgin. > > She went to another doctor and explained her problem to him. > > The doctor said, "You probably have the crabs". > ; > "No" she said, "I am an eighty year old virgin." > > Frustrated, she went to a third doctor. > > She said, "Doctor can you help me? > > > > I have an itch in my crotch. > > > > Don't tell me that it is the crabs because I am an eighty year old > virgin. > > > > It can not be the crabs." > > The doctor said, Jump on the table and let's have a look." > > > > "After examining, the doctor proclaimed, > > > > "Ma'am, your right, you do not have the crabs. > > > > This cherry is sooooo old, you have fruit flies." ineedacoolnick :D :D but wat r the crabs? bushra21 http://www.cdc.gov/NCIDOD/dpd/parasites/lice/factsht_pubic_lice.htm p.s. i hope you were kidding tins210cd
WELL DUDE... i read 2 pages of this post and i couldnt read it anymore..
Iam not that religious..but everyones life is different.. You stick to what you beleive in..be yoursel.
Iam different.. i beleive in enjoying the most on earth....get the best of life lol...So far so good... I read someones post as sayin it to be the near to heaven...LOLOL checkerscom2000
Thanks, that makes me feel a whole lot better knowing there are other people too just like me aarif There is nothing wrong in being virgin for a guy of your age. I know ppl who are much older and are virgin and waiting for right partner to whom they can marry. St.Lucifer I dunno.. i'm sorry .., I'm not a Virgin i'm an Aries !! Palkid7 Bushra u r one nasty girl !!! Bad ...... bad girl !! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: checkerscom2000
thanks, these kinda posts help me emotionally abdalrasheed It is not so good being a vergin and also loosing verginity depends...... But I am not vergin .......... Married ...... Twice. bonitta Ok guys, keeping virginity till 30 its.... kind of.... bad for health..and 1 more thing the day u try it u will realize that u lost a lot not trying it before...astaghfirullah (god forgive me) I do respect ppl that have so much self-control. good luck checkerscom2000
Is it really "that good" don't people overate it?? I don't know myself but sometimes i think it might be overated, I guess I will not know until I do it. MaaaD ya good idea, get off your computer and go get laid .. for everyones sake. friday night, your chances are higher than other nights of the week. and ps its NOT overrated, thats what virgins tell themselves to feel better. bushra21
or people who hae horrible s e x abdalrasheed
sex can never be horrible or atleast I think so Legendkiller
pple who say it's overrated...r not doing it right :lol: marine_india well indeed i do have the same opinion of wht u have. lion0009 we live in a better and happier place. gracy
yes, it is possible... i knew one, he is 31 but never been intercourse to any girl because of being scared of disease called AIDS.... :D St.Lucifer
hahahaha n what happenned to him after dat ? :P sniper420
so to replace joys of s*x he strted taking drugs and got AIDS through transfusion :-| gracy
no..he uses his two hands...hahahahah, and i think until now...
:D emron
hmmmmmm. if i say i am not proud of you. i would be wrong.
you are gr8 man. that you could overcome your desires. its not easy.
if you want to reduce the pressure even if it is cultural or societal, just keep one thing in your mind. think about LOVE AFTER MERRIAGE :D
Instead of before, i am sure you understand.
HAVE A GOOD DAY checkerscom2000
Yes, that is also a fear I have of getting disease or something, but more because I fear Allah. The best thing is to get married when you are young. I won't lie and say I don't use my hands sometimes though, it's safer. sabaka no firas regarding the topic about virginity, i think that especially here in Dubai should really give up with trying. Finding a person who is willing to get intimate without the prospect of marraige is almost nil. also, getting a date is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. to all the ppl out there who are still hoping, im afraid u were waiting for nothing. M! cu



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