BDSM_Dubai
I am waiting and accepting the angry answers of all the moralists, but I ask anyway:
Many people (male and female) are working in Dubai for a certain amount of time. If they are married or not, engaged or not, have a gf/bf or not – if the “better part” of the relationship is NOT here it will be (it is!) a boring time.
Everybody in this situation is searching for some companionship, of course most of us from the other gender. Doesn’t matter if it ends up under a blanket or just walking hand in hand on the beach after a candlelight dinner, dancing in a club or just doing something together. That’s what human beings want. Being/feeling not alone!!
But the problem starts at the first date: ”Are you married?” What is the better choice? Lie or say: “Yes, but my wife/husband is some thousand kms away and the next time I will see her/him is in 6 month!”
So here comes my immoral question: Why is it important for 2 adult humans to know if one of them is married before they can have a good time together??? (again: must not include s.e.x.)
Lupo
raidah
u answered urself.
and i think u want more than just walk and talk...just don t want to admit it. and ull also not admit ur married to those with whom ull go out with.
so forgive my frankness, but i don t see the point of this post of urs.
Dubai Knight
Honesty has got to be the best policy. If either one is married and is looking to play away from home, then morally it is up to them, but there should not be any deception. If both people are still cool about it, then there is no reason why they should not seek each others company.
As long as no-one gets hurt...where is the harm?
Knight
alexandra
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
I am waiting and accepting the angry answers of all the moralists, but I ask anyway:
Many people (male and female) are working in Dubai for a certain amount of time. If they are married or not, engaged or not, have a gf/bf or not – if the “better part” of the relationship is NOT here it will be (it is!) a boring time.
Everybody in this situation is searching for some companionship, of course most of us from the other gender. Doesn’t matter if it ends up under a blanket or just walking hand in hand on the beach after a candlelight dinner, dancing in a club or just doing something together. That’s what human beings want. Being/feeling not alone!!
But the problem starts at the first date: ”Are you married?” What is the better choice? Lie or say: “Yes, but my wife/husband is some thousand kms away and the next time I will see her/him is in 6 month!”
So here comes my immoral question: Why is it important for 2 adult humans to know if one of them is married before they can have a good time together??? (again: must not include s.e.x.)
Lupo
oh man, why can't u be honest and say that u r married...tell her from the begining so she wont get her hopes up thinking u might be searching for a serious relationship? be fair and speak the truth, i am sure that there must be women that will go for an adventure or just a one night stand!
i am not a moralist but just i wanna ask u: would u like if ur wife would do the same??? what goes arround comes arround; keep that in mind!
Liban
whats up with your name??? :shock:
BDSM_Dubai
First of all:
Knight you are perfectly right! I wonder why not everybody agrees with us, that’s why I started the threat.
Alex: you got me wrong!! I NEVER said that I would hide being married! I said: why is it (most of the times) a drawback if you are honest?!?
Lupo
alexandra
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
First of all: Knight you are perfectly right! I wonder why not everybody agrees with us, that’s why I started the threat.
Alex: you got me wrong!! I NEVER said that I would hide being married! I said: why is it (most of the times) a drawback if you are honest?!?
Lupo
sorry if i got u wrong! :wink:
BDSM_Dubai
What is it with
Your name? :roll:
Carol_eyez
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
First of all: Knight you are perfectly right! I wonder why not everybody agrees with us, that’s why I started the threat.
Alex: you got me wrong!! I NEVER said that I would hide being married! I said: why is it (most of the times) a drawback if you are honest?!?
Lupo
i guess its a drawback coz then they know your playing around if your married, nobody wants to waste there time on such thingy...and basically i feel however your try to control yourself if your into a relationship one of youll are bound to fall in love...so play safe hahaha
BDSM_Dubai
You hit the point!! But in the opposit direction!!
but I think "playing around" is if you are NOT honest! I think it is NOT a waste of time if you spend a good time together! Or is it wasted time when you go out with someone of the same gender??
Is "spending a time together" meaning to have expectations?
I think every relationship in Dubai is a relationship for a certain time, doesnt matter if you are married or not. One day you will go home or to the next place...
Lupo
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Liban
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
What is it with Your name? :roll:
My name doesn't promote disgusting acts like BDSM....
arniegang
I totally agree Liban. The name is most disrespectful in our forums. You gonna pm Andy or moi buddy ??
:wink:
Liban
Sorry dude, not sure I follow... PM you for what? :oops:
arniegang
i agree with you regarding the name BDSM.
I dont feel there is a place on our forum for such a username. You agee?
Liban
- arniegang wrote:
i agree with you regarding the name BDSM.
I dont feel there is a place on our forum for such a username. You agee?
Fully.
We have children here (as seen by the maturity level of some posts) and this name clearly is not inline with our family values.
XRW-147
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
but I think "playing around" is if you are NOT honest!
So if you are honest you are 'having a good time' and its only cheating and fooling around if you lie? :roll:
- BDSM_Dubai wrote:
I think it is NOT a waste of time if you spend a good time together! Or is it wasted time when you go out with someone of the same gender??
Did watching Brokeback raise some confusing feelings?