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IMJ I am sick and tired of the prostitues in this place. The fact they work here does not bother me, I do not care what they do, it is just that most of them are from places near my home country or actually from my country and to everyone I am the same, which I really do not give a s.h.i.t. about, what pisses me off is that it is sooo f!@#$% hard to find a place to stay with normal girls from back home, what is wrong with them all, why it is impossible to find a regular girl from my home country who works at a regular place, NOT some night club. I have not been stressed like this since I got here and I feel like my patience is going to die soon. I never had to stay with any strange ppl back home and I really do not mind doing it now, it is an experience for me, however, I want to stay with someone who has a good job not with those night butterflies. I am not really posting any question, just needed to spill it all out.
Liban What country are you from? ajoy if you are single... u should have a separate room for yourself and you shouldnt get bothored if they arent bringing customers home.. if they are.. its better to leave the flat or move in to some place with a family.. or may be with your bf.. :) XRW-147 J, I think u should also try to understand that some people end up feeling as though they have no other option in their current situation. I don't imagine these girls are 100% proud of what they do nor enjoy going to 'work' everyday. IMJ
I am from a former USSR, Kyrgyzstan.
Replying to X, I understand they did not have a choice, or some of them do not know the language to work here; bunch of reasons for them to be working at night clubs, but I am just getting desperate, you would not believe, the place I was staying at for the last 4 months was a small family apt., girl-Russian, also from back home, Uzbekistan, I suspect she used to be a prostitute, then later a girl from my home town arrived, they are friends-tenant and the new girl, so, she was a night club girl, they both started telling me to go with her to the club may be earn some extra money, when I would say, I did not want to do that, they would be like, ok, may be you can find a rich hubby there, I was like, I do not want to find a rich hubby, whatever I need in my life I would try to get myself, meeting a guy who I would wanna be with is good, but it does not matter if he is rich or not. And not going to hunt for men. For those girls all of my views were kinda weird, one even said, - "I have never met anyone like you, you are strange". Guess I am weird to them, lol
I do not know, I am so frustrated, I wanna cry. I have not felt this way for a long time, I was hard to get bothered or worried; now I am just getting so upset. IMJ
hard to get a separate room in the area where I want to stay in. And here I do not even make money I used to at home, so, I cannot afford most of the places, hopefully it is only a present thing, future will bring good changes. Palkid7 well why don't u try to share a place with some Arab girls, or maybe other nationalities. Try ur friends at work, maybe they will be able to help or know someone to trust to share a place with. See never give up hope in this place, cause if u do, it will kill u, specially if u r alone here ! :cry: xibit
try looking for a place in sharjah its cheaper and the ruler is nice and conservative u wont find any prostetutes , clubs or bars any where in sharjah, you wont even find women with immoral clothing in shj
every one knwns that dubai is a frekin whore house of the middle east.
and the best place for rusian, east european and central asian women to make money IMJ sharing with other nationalities is another story, lol. My office is full of Indians and a few Philipinas, you guys know how it is, they all wanna share with their own crowd. And the ones who are here by themselves share a room with 5 ppl, I do not think I wanna do that. It is very upsetting, I have not met yet one girl from my home place or a neighbouring country who would have worked a normal job here. I even started thinking to tell my parents not to tell ppl where I am at now, lol, coz after talking to these "working" ladies, I realised that in everyone's mind (former soviet union ppl's minds) whoever comes here came here to work as a prostitute, lol, u cannot be anything else according to them. This is just crazy. I do not know anyone in Sharjah, all my friends are here, I will go nuts driving there and back every day. thanks for ur advices. What is men's point of view about this whole prostitution thing. This is crazy how it is all happening in a MUSLIM country. Ppl are out of their minds. Liban I agree. Its crazy and quite disgusting. They really should clamp down on this but they don't and thats a shame that you feel the way you do now because of the situation with your countrymen. All I can say is hold your head up high and be proud of yourself and your country and try to be positive. You know where you come from and you know where you are going. You are in control of your destiny. Keep searching and you will find what you need. :)

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XRW-147 Like I told u before you can't control the actions of others and getting upset by them is even more senseless. Bad things exist and will happen in any part of the world, muslim or not. That is a sad fact of life, but its up to you whether you let it eat away at you or bring you to a 'better' place. IMJ Of course, I will not let anyone or anything bring me down, I just broke down today morning, when the girl I have just moved in with came home when I was going to work. I was too spoilt before; had all I needed, so, guess now it is time to see the real life. Thanks Liban and X. arniegang IMJ I think you are being a bit unfair to yourself. You are obviously concerned what other people think of you. Dont! As long as you can hold your head high, do your normal job, pay your bills and live how you want to live with dignity you should be proud. In all reality those other girls who work the clubs are envious of you. Like X says some of them dont have the same choices you have. You may not earn as much as them, you may not have as many or as nice possessions as them, but you have something they cannot have and cannot be bought its called DIGNITY. XRW-147 Actually Arnie, back in Indo and I think I saw it in KL as well there was this label called... Dignity ;) arniegang I'm lost X :? :? :oops: XRW-147 Clothing brand mate... as in the kind of Dignity money can buy. arniegang gotcha constantine IMJ liban x and arnie spoke from the heart...you are fighting your own fight and frustrations come in many forms...and the fact that you are dealing with it and not ignoring it is a great thing...anyhow you do drive...which is good...i do not want to probe into what your budget/situation for rent is...but there are places(big villas/by the beach if u r lucky)in jumeriah which are rented by 4/5 people from different nationalities(about 3/4 k a month).....also places towards springs/greens which go for about 2/3 k a month......and its more of a flatshare "friends" style situation...have you tried they have a lot of flatshares going...worth a look if you are me... arniegang great advice constantine IMJ i totally agree with Cons, i mirror what he says in that you actually recognise your problem and situation. You now need to deal with it in a logical way. You need to channel your energy now into looking for alternative accomodation.
IMJ
I think everyone misunderstood me here.
I really do not care what ppl think of me when I tell them where I am from, like once, when I just got here, Liban said something like, oh, u r from one of those post communist countries, so, u r probably a prostitute, I am not bothered by it, I know what I have, I know what I am doing here, know what I am and I am not trying to change this damn society, prostitutes, fine, what can I do about it, nothing and I am not trying to, they have their own stuff to deal with. It is just that, I had to move out of the place where I was staying for last 4 months and I get to a new place and the girl turns out to be a prostitute, which I did not know, she asked me what I did, in my turn I also questioned her about it, she told me she was in Travel Agency, and she looks like a decent girl, talks properly, no stupid stuff. And, last night I came from the dinner pretty late, she came in the morning when my alarm went off, this is just something I do not want to have in my life, do not want to be in that crowd, well, I am not, but it still is getting into my life.
You know, these girls cannot even have a decent conversation, they all talk about money, and honestly right now, at this point of my life I do not want to think about earning good money, saving it, investing it, I ran away from all of it, here I do not get paid as well, but I like the experience and I am learning a lot, seeing things I have never seen (working girls, lol, jk), for once I wanna live today, u know what I mean. Anyway, this is getting too long of a post. XRW-147 J, u don't need to defend yourself. Bottomline, do what you must to make things better for yourself. If you have to move from place to place until you find the right one, as troublesome as it may be then so be it. Just don't let what others choose to do with their lives affect you in such a negative way - each to their own. IMJ
should we buy clothes from that brand and give out to " working ladies" out there, lol Liban Smile, look up, take a deep breath and thank God for what you have. Then and only then will you feel truely good. A day at the beach changes things for me :) geraintindxb It's nice post. I also have seen some prostitutes from my country in Dubai. I am not happy to see them run around for their "work". but sometimes you should try to understand. coz of their situation. probably you will do the same if you were in their shoes.:) I have a colleague(the only one who is from the same country as me in my company). she has done very good job to live in the country. everyone respect a lot in company. XRW-147
Maybe if I was a pimp who cared about 'worker' morale. XRW-147
Likewise, very calming sitting on the rocks and listening to the waves crash and water chops. IMJ
may u should think of it, "everyone needs some extra money", right? IMJ
hey, guys, I am not judging anyone here neither I am trying to say I am a nice girl here, no, all I want is a normal girl who is from somewhere back home (coz rest of the nations here refuse to share with us-crazy soviets, lmao) who I can share a place with, lol, this is like MIssion Impossible here, lmao, I am at work and I getting a bit hysterical now, wanna laugh and cry at the same time, lol :laughing5:
I guess I have lost it. geraintindxb one day an indian pimp asked me to get prostitutes in street. maybe it's good idea, if you know some prostitues.. just as she said: make some extra money!!" :P XRW-147
Money doesn't mean everything to everyone. IMJ
really? :roll:
jk
hard to explain that to ppl here in DUBAI. IMJ
I can meet so many just going to any disco here, when I go to WC, those girls would ask where I am from, when I tell them, they would be like - ' Oh, there are a lot of girls from there in this club' meaning ' working ladies' lol, I am just happy to show my ID at the club entarnce when they check. katy Easy on yourself girl. You are not the only one who has such a problem because of such 'generalizations' of the world. Here in Germany you find girls coming from Eastern Europe to work as prostitutes and others to study and attain high degrees like Ph.D's. You know what changes ppl's general view towards these girls is when they see other girls from the same country NOT living as prosts. So while being the ''good'' girl u are, u will be (and i hope more of ur country) giving ur people a better image/reputation. And you will definitely find friends around. maybe not from your country, but until u meet someone like u from ur country, try mingle with other nationalities. I know how hard it is to live in a foreign country with no friends who share ur language and culture. I've had this experience for years. it could be frustrating. but as we say in German: "Kopf hoch!!" ( it means cheer up, but literally translated= 'head high'!) IMJ Vielen Dank, Katy. I have friends, thanks god, it is hard to be without them here. I do not have friends from back home here, may be a couple that are just ppl I know, not friends, though. Anyway, thanks for cheering me up. onetickin If you feel so bad now, how do you think these girls feel every night? Why don't you live with your friends? Airmedic i have been accosted by many prostitutes in hotel bars in abu dhabi. i dont care how often they open their legs as long as they dont keep disturbing my valuable beer drinking time :twisted: alaghbar Dubai is full of surprises; I guess you had to be careful IMJ "
I did not know I was responsible for them to end up in this situation.
All of my friends have apts.
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i have been accosted by many prostitutes in hotel bars in abu dhabi. i dont care how often they open their legs as long as they dont keep disturbing my valuable beer drinking time
Airmedic
I never said I was against them doing it or anything close to it, but have you ever stayed with them in one apt.? If not, may be you should try and you will see what I mean here. onetickin My point is stop bitching about things, when others are worse off than you. Pick yourself up, and stop feeling sorry for yourself. IMJ
thanks, but, I did not feel sry for myself or was bitching, if u see it that way, do not read posts that irritate u, lol Wafaey Can anyone tell how the hell whores are everywhere and it is very hard to have a nice club with decent ppl in it, i have only been here for 2 weeks and went out to a couple of places and every where i look i see them it is annoying and freaky :x :x IMJ
they are everywhere Wafaey
I have to alot of places around the world and had never seen anything like here. I have to York a couple of days ago and I couldn't believe my eyes :( :( fayz
Dude if you’re sick and tired of seeing working ladies maybe a novel idea would be stop going to brothels, let me guess the other bar you went to was cyclone???
.... The York ROFLMAO Wafaey
Nope it was the Intercont. bar, I'm new here so I have the right to get shocked don't u think so add to this I would have never could imagine it untill i see it with my eyes :shock: :shock: fayz hehehehe, yes you will discover soon enough that Dubai has alot of things that make you go :shock: :shock: MaaaD The decent bars and clubs that dont have working ladies are outnumbering the other ones. You are just going to the wrong places. IMJ lol, York is the worst one, when i just got here, i was in a taxi and the driver goes, "oh, nice club",showing at York, i thought he meant nice, like a good place to hang out at, so, i went there with another person who did not know a thing about that place, even when i entered i did not realise how bad it was, i noticed there were a few girls i could tell were from somewhere back home, and i knew they were working ladies, by the end of the night i was sure that place was a wrong one for me to be in, that's when i came up to the bouncer and asked him to be around in case something happens, lol, that was an experience, i came to the friends' house, where i was satying at at that time and told them, they were laughing, saying i picked the club with the biggest bar and huge amount of working ladies. Al7Isra HEY HEY HEY, Im from Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan too... I didnt know they have so many prostitutes in Dubai, I live in U.S. But thats a shame, our women can do better than that... IMJ
i know, girl, what u doing here? Al7Isra
here where? I want to move to Dubai... one day.. IMJ
thought u were already in Dubai raidah
there is no such thing as nice and all decent nation and all bad and good for nothing nation. so just cause lots of girls from ur country r prostitues, u don t have to feel bad or humiliated. u need to understand smthing.
1. russian girls r usually known as beautifull and many r blondes
2. this is an arab country where the majority of men are dark skinned and we, white european women represent the major attraction. its understandable. just like that, that for us they r the exotic.
3. all the rich tourist who wanna taste some fresh blonde russian, or whatever girls, come to dubai a lot easier and with much more pleasure than they would go for that to ur country
4. prostitution is the oldest job in the world and there always be people who would put their body on the market for some money. and those girls and so many other know what i mentioned in 1.2.3 and they come and will do their thing.
so act normally and ull be fine Dacus moarte ungurilor! Dacus din Bacau raidah
Dacus wrote:
Toti moldovenii o sa trecem Carpatii si o sa va terminam bozgori imputiti. Afara cu ungurii din tara! Moarte ungurilor!
ill make some translation: "everybody from Moldova will cross the Charpatians and exterminate u stinky hungarians. get out of our country! all hungarians should die!"
u r such a coward pathetic bastard....why not say it in english so that everybody can see, that on a site that was made for expats from all over the world and generally people from all over, there r entities like urself who preach hate, racism, xenophobia and i could go on? hm? because u r coward!!! what did i do to u to talk to me like that? u r bringing shame on Romania and on ppl from there who r normal and decent
and more important-will anybody tolerate guys like this in this forum?
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when im good im good, but when im bad im even better:) Dacus You hungarians are such a hypocrits! you say that you want to have good relations with Romanians but you vote UDMR, a hungarian party who act against Romania. As an example UDMR showed at European Parliament a film where said that Ciangai hungarians from Moldavia are discriminated. What do you say about that? First of all Ciangai wear Moldavian traditional clothes like "Catrinta" and they are Romanian magyarized. You, hungarians act against Romanian state like Jews did it in the past. Communist Jews invaded Bucovina (north) and Basarabia (half east of Moldova) and were Rusian agents who act against Romania. You Hungarians do exact like them and we will do an holocaust against you. Get out of my country! Iron Guard Reloaded Dacus Supporters of the independent University wish to establish ethnic segregation. Leaders of the Hungarian section of the „Babes-Bolyai” University repeatedly declared that they want a separate university only for them! Hungarians made a demonstration at Babes Bolyai and ask Romanians to leave the university. And hungarians are less then 20% in City of Cluj Napoca. This is the real behaviour of hungarians in Romania! Liban Dacus, you have been warned in a PM. Stop now!! Chocoholic Oi Dracus! Go lock yourself in your coffin and stay there! Dacus
I do not drink coffe! Keep it for yourself! Chocoholic My goodness for someone to call himself Dracula and not know what a coffin is? That's truly sad! kensus Hi IMJ, You know the original saying "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference". I have come across a very interesting altered flavour to this which is as follows: "God, grant to serenity to accept the people I cannot change; courage to change the people I can and wisdom to know that the 'only people' I can change is "ME". Obviously, I am not suggesting that you must change yourself to be like your other friends / acquaintances, but you CAN change your outlook, expectations, attitude and views on things & people. YOU can decide that you will live life by your standards and you will NOT let others or others' ways of life to take control of your life. Remember, NOBODY except YOU can actually control your happiness, your mood, your well-being and even your financial goals. More power to you. Chin up! SToRM Dear IMJ, this topic has been going on for years, but i am replying now since its an interesting topic to bring out in this country, i've been here from 12 years and i've seen all kinds of people here, even prostitutes, the problem over here is ... 98% of the females here are FORCED into prostitution, no 1 is doing it because they want to, if they say "NO, I WILL NOT DO THIS", they are threatened and physically abused, there are a lot of reasons to it, some people look happy because they know ..THEY HAVE NO WAY OUT, NO WHERE TO GO, NO ONE TO DEPEND ON, NO HELP, so all they do is COMPROMISE...they begin to think that "this is my life now, if i try getting out, i will die or get killed, so lets be here, do whatever my boss asks me to, and try being happy, even if it means having s*ex unwillingly", REMEMBER GUYS..PROSTITUTION IS NOT A PROFESSION, IT IS AN OBLIGATION FOR WOMEN WHO DO IT UNWILLINGLY!!! Regarding IMJ...i THINK you are living in the DEIRA region, if you plan to move out somewhere else, try bur dubai or karama, and AVOID TRYING TO SHARE A ROOM WITH YOUR OWN COUNTRY MATES, MOST OF THE RUSSIANS ARE UNFORTUNATELY FORCED INTO THIS FIELD! so...SEARCH! and God Bless everyone, and remember PROSTITUTES ARE HUMANS TOO... Hello_Hala
You know all .. if There are no such bitches here, Dubai won;t tbe the way it is now
I think they are a source of tourism
Oh God :twisted: .. I hate them to death.. Wonder how could men do this with justa body Hello_Hala You know what !!
These such kinda of women are avliable every where, every contry, even in all gulf countries
but the difference here is that they have thier freedom here
as you can say allowed & banned at the same time
I swear if there was no 1 russian girl here, Dubia will be a city of ghosts
it wouldnt have been the way it is now
They new how !! :D
but why not ... let then do hwat ever they want ..
Loosers Only go to such bitches Dai prostitutes... an inescapable reality in every country whatvever part of the world you're in. Reason= Poverty Soltuion= Universal prosperity @Storm. Much as i hear you that these women "DON'T HAVE A CHOICE " as you say, you're wrong! They DO have a choice, and that choice is whether take a job to help them get by, even if it would be a hard job or TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT and make EASY MONEY! POVERTY is not an EXCUSE to break the law and to throw your VALUES out of the window. It should have been a motivation! I am so sick of hearing reasons like these that try to make excuses for behaviors as such. Open your eyes and stop romantacizing the circumstances of these women. :!: alexandra
nicely saied :)
btw welcome to the forums Dai
err... thanks, i guess. :) john maxim i know this person absolutely awesome call him and he will set you up, price are great as well; Ibrahim 971508098646 971506760033 bonbonboi I am not into such topics... the prostitution is living on the dark edge of life. many prostitutes get suicide... also many people get HIV AIDS etc after that... many of them get empty feelings inside... i am not with or against... i just do care my business and i don't like to comment or judge any prostitute. everybody get a mind and knows his/her best way to God... smokedawg then why did you comment? KING84UK What part of Dubai does this happen in?



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