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my g/f broke up with me after longterm relationship


Bleakus i agree with bushra, they are alot of women around now in dubai than before i dont know where they all came from all of a sudden but yeah......so dont worry about it
bushra21
i heard its an aphrodisiac(sp :? ) Bleakus
your fired bushra ;) Bleakus
yes sure it is, trust me ;) memo514 my story was with a girl that broke my heart twice so far she broke up with me before and she came back again so i took her back , and now again she left and i have a broken heart that kills me i feel like i'm gonna die sometimes , i still love her so much and every day her love grow more i don't see her a lot and i try not to call her , but sometimes when i feel that she forget about me i go crazy and i can't stop thinking about her . i don't know if she really loved me or no but i know for the fact that i love her more than i love myself and i can't live without her , but i'm kinda sure that she is not going to come back this time and that is killing me i feel like running away from dubai , or sometimes i feel like i wanna kill my self. i don't know what to do should i forget or should or what . please guys tell what should i do..... i need help :cry: Bleakus
its all good dude, the best thing i can tell you is just forget about her......it would take a while but its worth it..........trust me dude. You can try to kill her but you gonna get into trouble.......so you gotta make sure its worth it...which it aint
so its takes time and effort to forget a longterm relationship but No Pain No Gain memo514 i'll never be able to kill her or anything, in the way i'm always worried about her , and i don't anybody to hurt her because if she got hurt i'll blame myself Corcovado
why did u 2 break up? memo514 i don't know , we fight togather one night and she told me that she is not happy and she wants me to change myself , and she said that our relationship is not working so i blame myself because i was moody sometimes but i was doing everything i could do to make her happy but i don't know Corcovado then if its not working out , khalas move on ..if u were truely in love , u wouldnt leave each other .. thats how i understand ..or u will do whatever it takes to save ur love ..so move on and find another girl that deserves ur love

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memo514 but what about love , i still love her and i can't live without her i think that i can do alot for her Corcovado
tell her that , ask her back ... prove that u love her and if she loves u , she will take u back and u will live happily ever after 8) ^ian^
Man it hurts... but everyday it gets easier. If she doesn't love you then move on. Get out and about with some friends and do things, try and take her off your mind.
I recommend bowling. memo514 i told her that but i don't know i guss that she doesn want to come back because somebody is keep filling her head with bad thoughts about me i guss and this was the reason she left me so i don't know how to forget , i want to but the problem that i can't stop thinking about her Corcovado
go and see her and tell her ... :idea: St.Lucifer hey boy.. can i have some clarifications.. Whats your age, what do you do, and how long have been your relationship with that girl, how old is she,what does she do... i may able to help u .or someone will b able to help u out only after knowing all of these i guess. Bleakus
i know what you mean dude, but dont be so selfless like this...you will only harm yourself. you know what i mean? memo514 well i'm in mid of 20 so she is , lol i know i should be stronger than that but love can do more than that i set with her and i told her that she means life for me and my life stopped when she left me i told her all of that i told her that she should give me another chance but i don't think that she wants to do that i think she got to the point that she is done with me , but what is killing me that how could she after i've done alot for her i gave up my life for her i gave up my family and freinds becuase i was doing somthing wrong in thier opnion in this relationship with her .... last thing that she said that she want me to be her friend and she want me and her to work on that Corcovado
then Khalas Entaha ...Khalas El hob ... in english ... the love is over and when its over this means u should salut and move on looking for new oportunities love might be round the corner .. i dont believe in friendship with the ex .. let her go and fly away
AnnaSvensson
No!
Do not do that!
If she decided to leave and left, do not irritate her cause it will do things even worse.
I agree with the majority of people who advised you to get her out of your head.
The most importand, and perhaps the most difficult ,thing to do is to persuade yourself to forget her. You just do not want to do this.
Go out, have fun, and meet new girls!!!!
Good luck to you!!!!
:) AnnaSvensson If it is not a secret, what is your nationality? MaaaD
best advice ever.

also, where is Doc Love when you need him ;) memo514 but you know when you are in dubai it's not very easy to go out by urself and find new girl most of the places in dubai will not let you in by urself and one more thing if i go out with my friends we go to the same places that i used to go me and her so everywhere i go i keep thinking about her and that hurts me more and more i forget to tell u that the first time we broke up it took 1 year to get back to each other after no communication for the whole year untill she called me and told that she is moving out to dubai to be with me and i forgived her and got her back. memo514 no it's not secret but why do u wanna know and wht is urs Bleakus
in another words "Game Over man, Game Over"
i always wanted to say that ;) Bleakus
MAN I LOVE THE WAY YOU THINK ;) sara_uk i know it easy said than done but try to avoid even thinking about her. Do something new to distract yourself. Let friends help you but whatever you do if she does not care about you as much as you did, it is not worth it. Try to move on and find something new to do, also have clean break up. No friendship after love it mess things up. Good luck Bleakus
dude, dont be friends, im sorry about this but for your own good, DONT BE FRIENDS, its gonna mess with your head again
Fight the power man memo514 thank you very much guys i'll take your advise and i'll try to do my best to forget about her , cause i think life is like that one day for u and ten against you so thank you very much friends and i really apprciate your help Corcovado
she is playing with ur feelings ..let her go to hell sara_uk
We do not know the full storey. We only know one side so do not wish something bad for someone not even here to defend themselves Bleakus
anytime dude ;) Bleakus
good point Bleakus
:roll: :roll: yeah ok Loving_Winter
we came from Heaven :) Mi Ange mi Demon
Let me tell you something Memmo,if she really loves you she will come back at least she will call you ... in this case, and sorry to tell you that, she seems to play with your heart .
Do you really wanna be friend with someone who doen't care about your feelings ? I don't think so... you made a lot of sacrifices for her and she doesn't deserve it ... she doen't deserve your friendship too so move on.
You have all the time to fall in love again with the right person! rahul in dxb memo.....life has to go on......a suggestion (which is easier said than done), you need to try not thinking abt her, and just concentrate on something else pal. all the best and welcome to being single again...... memo514 i have nothing else , my job is nothing and i have no friends thats why i can't stop thinking about her sara_uk Come on, man you have to pick yourself up. Love make people so weak and blind. One day you might laugh at this and think how did I think that way. Sometimes there are things which are very hard for us to let go but when life treat us nice, we forget the past and laugh at our self. memo514 i wish that will happened cause i'm going crazy and i don't know what to do i'm just soo depressed and sad and feel like have nothing else left in my life my habiby the only way to forget ur x is find another girl. than after few months you forget about it, don.t try kill ur self or kill her. that is stupid. sorry never kill urself for a girls or boy's. try get soon as possible another girl. good luck. can i tell u something? I know everyone want's me to shout my mouth, but please let me say the true. I have 3 GF, so if any of this girls left me. still I have another one. so in this case I have no stress or try kill my self. sorry guy's. sometime i need tell the true. maybe help memo to stop kill himself or kill someone else. be cool and good luck hippyonhighend dude always remember "THIS TOO WILL PASS" memo514 body inever had 3 g/f i always have one because i'm stupid body and stupid ppl it seems they don't have place in this life . i will not kill anybody or kill myself but lovge kills budy my habiby well , I think you need some DOAA(in arabic we call doaa. it is some writen or Ayet from Quran. you have to carry with you for 40 day's looks 3 angel) if you r muslim this help you get out from this hell. in this case you need go to imam. it is very helpfull. believe me goodl luck. bushra21 i agree with maaad, i hate sissy boys. so stop being one. be the amazing person that you know you are inside. dont let some stupid girl, yes, she is stupid, its ok, you can admit it, ruin your life. there are plenty of girls...disregard that ratio of men to women in dubai, im sure youll find a girl today when you go out...they are everywhere! god knows i see them everywhere bleh...thats a different story, back to you like we were saying, sissy = bad, amazing person you really are = f'n amazing dude (hehehehe bleakus, i stoled your wordsy poo *sticks tongue out* also, you should find yourself a better girl, dont go for the psychos....errr, at least one not so psycho (because all girls are) tins210cd Memo, I have read your story, and it is nothing new in it. It has happened in my life and am sure many have gone throu. this. Okie always remember.. never quarrel with a girl.. have a much better understandin.. Dont show your desperation for the girl.. give her free space.. she will like u for that. Girls are complex dude..It needs experience to understand them. You feel that way cause of insecurity in your self... there is no one in life.. Chill dude. am sorry to say this but she is not comin back,, am suprised she came back after the first break. But dude, know it is hard,, nd painfull,, as the other guys have said,, just carry on with life, and make many friends....it will take time before you turn normal lol... Girls are girls forever.. They wont understand us , but we need tounderstand them haha.. we got to make them happy first in bed haha Yeah i saw one guy before have 3 girls, never have more than 1 ,you will fall in shit,,,wht a girl needs is trust, love and confidence... Hope this should help you.. Your mind is unstable.. tale a chill pillll.....dont worry.. there are many fish in the ocean,, all the best in your fishin lol tc tins weary_heart Memo, Cheer up dude. Life has to go on. I know it's easier said than done. But you have to be firm, you have to love yourself first. Dont do this to yourself. I was in more shit situation than you are now, but I managed to be what I am now - happier than before. 'Happiness is a state of mind. You can choose either to be happy or not. It's all in your hands. Keep yourself busy. Engage yourself in sport, clubbing, reading - whatever that will keep your mind away from her. And remember this, there are many fishes in the ocean... WH my habiby the problem is that mr memo he liks only one kind of fish. he stick to this fish. memo514 you are kinda right and when i love i can't forget my love , it's been long time that i didn have a control on my heart it is always owned by somebody and everytime i try to get it back i hurt it because i don't know how to take care of it leila Im surprised that men like this (memo) exist in dubai, its just another one of those growing pains. dont sleep if u cant, think about all the things u want to think about her, get drunk if u wish to be wasted, get lazy, express urself, pour out your remorse and sorrow, and when u get tired of getting broken hearted and feels that its not worth it. ull move on without u knowing, Keep on breathing. Leila my habiby I know your heart is made from glass (kreystal glass) you have to be very carefull. otherwise get broken. I have experience with krystal hearts. think about ramadan. forget about that. memo514 lila don't be surprised people got born like that and they will stay like that for the rest of thier life and they tried too many times to change but the thing is they think that they have changed but in reality no they will never and situation like that will prove that they will never change AnnaSvensson MaaaD memo you are bieng a sissy. and a girl doesnt like a sissy. So reconsider your hopless romantic ways .. forget that girl who potentially made you a door mat (break up , take back, break up) .. and after you get your act together as a man go out and find yourself another girl and remember dont go all sissy on her ... she wont like it .. or alternatively .. become gay ... alex_fun buy her a box of the best chocolates. keep it nesr her door. if she returns that ,she doesnt love u anymore but if she eats it .then 2 things.she may love u(like u) ,or sshe still doesnt like/love u but she ws hungry AnnaSvensson
If someone, no matter who he/she is, gives me a box of chocolate, I will eat it even thought I might hate a person.
I just LOVE chocholate :P Bleakus
me too, im a chocolate person, although im a guy ;) AnnaSvensson
Psychologists are saying that people who love chocolate are very hot. Inside ;) MaaaD
hmm interesting although i heard that eating chocolate kills your sexual drive .. might be wrong though .. tins210cd buy her a box of the best chocolates. keep it nesr her door. if she returns that ,she doesnt love u anymore but if she eats it .then 2 things.she may love u(like u) ,or sshe still doesnt like/love u but she ws hungry haha....I have a feeling she is goin to throw it out,,,, this is one more of those choices Bleakus
thats it......you got me ;) valkyrie
Man Love Thursday starts in only 1.5 hours! sara_uk
The worse thing to have in a break up is the money involvement. I have learnt my lesson but trying to talk to your ex for money issue it is not easy. I have been there and 4yrs later, iam still sorting out this. No matter how much in love you are, money should not get involved, because it makes things much harder. Loving_Winter
Good luck to you!
:) From London to Dubai I have recently split up with my gf of 4 years, joint mortgage practically married. I changed her lifestyle, gave her confidence, invested so much, and she left me... Went through the stress of separating house belongings, like a divorce, and it was heartbreaking... Things happen for a reason, and you have to turn the negative into a positive and redirect your feelings, anger, drive into something else. You could be in a worse scenario like married with kids etc, count your blessings now that you have opportunity to do so. It's obvious she doesn't feel the same, so don't mug yourself off, you need to move on as life goes on... A year from now you will be laughing at what happened and probably with an upgraded gf. I have now bought my ex out of the property, have resold, made a tidy profit and am moving to Dubai to start a new life and business venture. Be positive... It's her loss and she will realise that once you move on and get her out of your head. From London to Dubai Sara, I totally agree... Were you married? sara_uk
yes i was! From London to Dubai What a load of stress... When do you expect to have closure? Apologies if I'm being too personal.. bear In all honesty friend, the best thing you can do is move on. Beating a dead horse does nothing but make you more weary. I know it's cliche', but there are other fish in the sea. I've loved, and continued to love even when trying to smile through the pain of watching her having the time of her life dating a friend of mine. I continued through her berrating me like a child while I sat there taking everything she could throw at me. I continued loving when I asked her to step out of my life and let me go back to what I once knew. And I still love to this day, but I am not upset or depressed, I am thankful for knowing her, the expirience, knowledge I have gained, and for the fact that she is no longer in my life. It is a long road, but becomes easily traveled with time. bear
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Bleakus 1 : Loving_Winter 0 sara_uk
soon hopefully. weary_heart
i completely agree with you sara that money should never be involved. like me and my ex- we were so happy together in the past but almost end up me sueing him. it's very difficult... :o sara_uk
The only difference in my case that, money was not the cause of our break up but money between us made the break up, over coming the past, the pain and the hurt, much much harder. weary_heart
i completely agree with you sara that money should never be involved. like me and my ex- we were so happy together in the past but almost end up me sueing him. it's very difficult... St.Lucifer And hopefully, u got it back/started getting back . good going brave :) leila
I am not asking u to change, im happy that there is still men like u, who falls in love selflessly. Someone else deserves u right, look for her and she will love u more and take care of u. tins210cd yeah leila.. totally rite,, I thinnk we men have to keep that previous message from her in mind.. Many feel are selfless... bye purplegrape
I totally agree. If you have to let go, cut all ties with her. no communication, etc. You should go out and meet people. do anything to keep your mind off her. Where in dubai can u meet decent people anyway??



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