long distance relationships

sweet mary [color=blue]My friends reminded me that long distance relationship is impossible to survive here in UAE. Is that so? :roll: [/color]

FAKESPIKE nothing is imposible is you care enough to try. but if hte distance is more then a year. i very very very strongly recommend against it. UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM the only key is communication, it must never die out... yorky500 It really depends on the two people involved and how long you have known eachother. If you have not met them for long before you come out, it is very hard as there is no "strong bond" between you. If you have been together for a while, then you should be OK, but there are a lot of temptations here in Dubai. Also, it's not easy being here when things happen as you have no one to talk to face to face. Over the phone is OK, but it's not the same. Good luck whichever way it goes. megabytes2004 If you can avoid "long distance relationship" then its good. But if you cant really avoid it then you have to be prepared. Anything can happen, specially if your relationship is new. Im not saying something will happen but anyhing is possible. Just dont stop your good communication. Cheers!!! Megabytes2004 :D UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM

yorky500 wrote:
It really depends on the two people involved and how long you have known eachother. If you have not met them for long before you come out, it is very hard as there is no "strong bond" between you.
If you have been together for a while, then you should be OK, but there are a lot of temptations here in Dubai.
Also, it's not easy being here when things happen as you have no one to talk to face to face. Over the phone is OK, but it's not the same.
Good luck whichever way it goes.

True,...
but sometimes its not how long you stayed or have known together,.. its rather how you understand eachother, and how you guys parted, and how is your arrangements, but then again even how much you wanted it to las or strive to keep it alive, shit happens and all efforts would just be at lost...
my suggestion:
Why not make a nutral agreement, like while your away you'll be friends, then if time comes that you get together and you still feel the same way and both off you are still single, then you can get back together.
GOOD POINTS,.. you go home, and find that he/she is still single and get to live happily ever after...
BAD but STILL GOOD POINT,.... if you or him suddenly decide that you wanted someone new... YOU LOST A LOVER ... YES ... BUT IN THIS CASE, YOU GET TO SAY GOOD BYE TO YOUR LOVER WITHOUT CHEATING, HUMILIATIONS AND FIGHT. (VICE VERSA) SO AT THE TIME YOU LOST A LOVER ..YOU GAINED A BEST FRIEND.
EXTREMELY BAD POINT: HE/ SHE DIDNT LIKE THE OFFER OF AGREEMENT AND DECIDED TO LEAVE YOU,... AND NEVER CALL YOU AGAIN
WELL IF THAT HAPPENS ... LEAVE THE BITCH/BASTARD CAUSE IF THEY CAN GIVE UP ON YOU FROM A SMALL SACRIFICE WHAT MORE WHEN YOUR MARRIED?... SO ... ITS STILL NOT BAD CAUSE YOU GET TO KNOW THE REAL THEM .... EARLY ... GOOD RIDDANCE.....
WELL IF YOUR ALREADY MARRIED ... THEN YOU HAVE TO GET HIM/HER A JOB HERE CAUSE AS WHAT YORKY SAID ON THE FONE IS GOOD BUT ... ITS TOTALLY DIFF IN PERSON.
good luck!!!!!
:) M.S.L :) sweet mary

Why not make a nutral agreement, like while your away you'll be friends, then if time comes that you get together and you still feel the same way and both off you are still single, then you can get back together.

[color=blue]In that case, where's the COMMITMENT?! :roll: :?: your basically suggesting to cool it off. [/color] UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM Cooling off and BEING FRiends are two totally diff. things ,... when you say cooling off ... as written cooling off!! it means GIVING UP , while when you become friends, your still warm but keeping your doors open, and your love that you feel for eachother would still be there thats why you two should keep in touch... its giving love unconditionally,.. love should not be forced nor does comitment... in this way .... at the end when you find that he/she is waiting then you would know that, that is love,..... remember YOU CAN NEVER FIND OUT if a person's love is TRUE by restricting him/her you would only push that person away,.. while usually in most relationship,.. specially long distance .... it fails because of lack of trust due to the strains of "comitment" where the string would eventually choke you. "if you love someone set him/her free... when he/she returns... then you would know he/she's yours .." and besides.... we have no right to restrict other people of the things they should do.. or feel .... its best to give them a chance to do the things or feel the things you want them feel on their own. (time, self,) but then again ... thats my opinion ..... we all have diff. opinion ... (avoiding a forum debate :) :lol: ) leila just one sentence answer : Long Distance Relationship NEVER WORKS!! sweet mary [color=blue]on my personal view, cool off is just letting your partner to have an ample space and time if they feel that their relationship become suffocating! Allowing yourself to think and evaluate what's happening...On the ortherhand, breaking up is cutting every thread of your relationship.
cool off is just a pause, a comma in a relationship while breaking up is period.
COMMITMENT requires devotion and love. This is the essence of a relationship. You will never feel you are just forced. Cuz what you did is unconditional.
I think it's not advisable to play around and wait for the what if's and how if's... the precious potencial partner might stealed by someone else... who basically believes in commitment...you will never know.
ANYBODY here who has personal,if not inspiring, juz reliable experience with long distance relationship?[/color]

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yorky500 sweet mary, yes, I do, and they do not work. Where is that person when you need them most? At the end of the phone does not cut it. You are out with your friends and there g/f's and or b/f's and you are by yourself! where is he/she? where are they when you have a bad day at work, to share you highs and lows? when you go out and see something, where are they? Sorry, it does not cut it. Love is strong, they may say that "absence makes the heart grow fonder", but sorry, if you have nobody to turn to, where is your other half. Face reality! sweet mary [color=blue]thanks for the sensible opinion. got a good point.[/color] yorky500 sweet mary, let me ask you something. being married is out of this equation, ok. So assume you are not married but in a relationship. You go out one night in Sharjah or Dubai, and you meet someone who you think is really nice and you hit it off with him. You get on great, what about your b/f in the other country? This guy can spend time with you, do things with you, share thoughts and feelings with you! Share your highs and lows, you see where I am coming from? sweet mary [color=blue]you're pretty much understood! I gonna give you another medal as glory did!
nyway,what a scenario!
Well, i think i need to give up if and only if the fire of love has gone. Cuz if you considered yourself COMMITED you can't let go of this invisible tie, the bond which will always remind you that you are already 'TAKEN'. Just wishing my partner thinks the same way.
still i wanna play dumb, lemme ask this question. thinking of those hundred of married peeps having undefined realtionship, those guys and gurls cheating with their partners(bfs/gfs) back home and the broken relationship and promises.... how difficult is it to resist temptation here?[/color] RiFQa [color=red]Desire is Desire....WHEREVER you go....The sun will not bleach it, nor the tide wash it away..[/color]
In my opinion...you gotta live ur life & do what makes u happy. Havin sumone on the other side of the world...can make u happy at times, but when u need that person to physically BE THERE...it only leaves u feeling empty.
LOng distance requires an insane amount of willpower :lol: & i always think "What if im passing by an amazing opportunity or person?" i think its best to just have a clean break before any departure to a faraway place. if you're meant to get back together again...it will surely happen. Also if your in a long term relationship..maybe its a good time to hav a look at what you've been missing. i guess it boils down to what type of person u are..an opportunist? :wink: or are u the type who chills in a comfort zone? 8) ziajaveds DEAR SWEETY I SHALL TRY TO SHELL IT IN FEW WORDS THOUGH PRACTICAL i lost my 10 years love, on being long distance for two years. yorky500

sweet mary wrote:
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still i wanna play dumb, lemme ask this question. thinking of those hundred of married peeps having undefined realtionship, those guys and gurls cheating with their partners(bfs/gfs) back home and the broken relationship and promises.... how difficult is it to resist temptation here?[/color]

Not just here, but anywhere in the world for that matter. here is no different to London, Hong Kong, NY or wherever. If you are moving to a country for a long period and you have a relationship (bf/gf) then it best to break it off if they are not coming with you or planning on joining you later.
No matter what happens, YOU change, the other person does not. You are seeing different things, meeting different people from different cultures, which you bf/gf back home are NOT. YOU change.
OK, here's a leading question: You meet someone who is nice, easy going, sensitive and overall nice, and can offer you a life better than you would with your current b/f. What do YOU do? sweet mary [color=blue]not unless i lose the spark and magic with my bf, and fall inlove with this 'someone' even if i resisted, then I think it's time to break off with him.
Any sensible comments from the ladies' side?...[/color] yorky500 "love is fickle, love is blind ......................."

sweet mary lolzz :lol: :wink: yorky500 well, anybody would do the same. We all need some one close to us, not far away! sweet mary :scratch: :scratch: [color=blue] :roll: hmmmmm.... yeah....[/color] leila Ziajaveds has said it all. He lost his 10yrs relationship of being 2 yrs apart, I lost my 6++yrs relationship of being 6 mos. apart. Tried to work it out, but couldn't. World just became different. A bond or committment should not make you suffer of loneliness because you are taken. You need the person to be there, to talk to, to cry on, to hold you and tell you that everything is gonna be alright. It makes a lot of difference. It never really works especially if you already established a career somewhere else. And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken. sweet mary

And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.

[color=blue]would that mean, on your experience there's no third party involved? how come you gave up just cuz of the distance, where you know from the start that working abroad will mean thousand of miles away? So how about the love for 6++ years?! [/color] sa4877 An important reason I visit this forum is to read your one liners!! :-). sweet mary

An important reason I visit this forum is to read your one liners!! .

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glory's avid fan?! :lol: :lol: :lol: [/color] leila Yes, just simply because of that. Kalay Long distance relationships are next to impossible to sustain. but I think if you start from a solid base of friendship when you meet again you could pick up where you left off. Love doesn't die just because someone isn't physically able to be with you. But you have to be realistic -- life can't stand still. You have to be able to live your life in the present. You can't be living for the next meeting or the time you are finally together. its too intense and I think you stand still as a person. I was in a long distance relationship which I ended before I came to dubai. My boyfriend ( I shoudl say ex...) left SA to travel last July and we continued our relationship. i saw him once in October and it was great . But ultimately I couldn't handle the uncertainty of it and the wondering when we'd be together again so I gave myself and him some certainty.... anyway we talk as much as we did when we were officially together. he's still my greatest support even if he's not with me. long distance is not for the faint hearted. even if in this age of seemingly easy communication.... mAJOR pAIN

sweet mary wrote:
- And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.
[color=blue]would that mean, on your experience there's no third party involved? how come you gave up just cuz of the distance, where you know from the start that working abroad will mean thousand of miles away? So how about the love for 6++ years?! [/color]

hi my old friend ... LETS GET REAL !!!!!!! LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP GOT ONLy 10 % chance of success so ... a real peice of advice ..
Leave as FRIENDs ... in that case he/she would be yours forever ....
rather than leave as lovers and fight a loosing battle ... where at the end you know bad words would be given, with shatterd trust and posibly violent reactions.
while with friends ... if all works out well and you come back ... he's or you are still single then you can continue what you've started...
so the Q is ... what he found someone while ur gone....??? accept it and be happy for him. it only means that your not meant for each other.. and i advice you to do the same. and be happy to know that even though he has someone you know that you didnt loose him ... because he's your friend...
now isnt that a prettier picture ....
than going through agonizing 3-4 years of restrictions, jealousy miss trust ... i mean LETS BE real all long distance relationship suffer from this dillema, and 90 perscent of them end up in flames !!!, some call them names they wont even call their enemies, some killed themselves, some killed, etc. etc. ...
another Q' why are they reacting like that ??? because trust was broken.. and they all felt cheated, betrayed... by someone who they love ... trust ...
and pride comes to play to....
so ... if you really treasure and love the guy ... make friends with him ... and see when you come back .... its a win win situation ....
good = you get back together ...
bad = you lost him but you have a friend ...
GOOD LUCK !! mAJOR pAIN

Kalay wrote:
Long distance relationships are next to impossible to sustain. but I think if you start from a solid base of friendship when you meet again you could pick up where you left off.
so true !!!!!!!!! sweet mary [color=blue]Yeah right! distance love affair is never easy...
The loneliness we feel when we are far apart with our partners , in most cases, can easily defeat the love. This happens especially when we miss
them(the one we want to share ur life with)and when they are not able to be by our side.
However, I still believed that each mile that seperates 2 person who truly care, can be joined with strong love they have got and the foundation of their relationship.
Having faith with each other,and believing that they do feel the same say,
standing firm with the trust, though most of the time it's tough,for the sake of long lasting relations, this is a must.
Thinking of one another's emotional needs, letting them know that we always care. Not letting the seeds of jealousy grow deep in our heart. Cuz if we let this happened,our relationship will surely be doomed to fall apart.
Being honest to how we feel, and never lead the other one on. It is unfair and irresponsible to play around with other's feelings, and turn around one day and walk away.
Not to give up for the love, and hold on to what we feel from deep
within.
Cuz for me, love that is sincere and strong, will be held together, no matter how apart......... :wink: [/color] yorky500 It was very touching to read that above, but seriously, wake up and smell the coffee. it DOES NOT work, get out of the fantasy world. Again, this will all blown away if you meet somebody else you think is really nice! FeiPo Woooww.... I like this! Looks like everyone has gone thur something here.... Good luck for all of you and I am sure you can find the right person. shakira [color=red]basically im just new here in this forum blah!blah! :?:
anyway this topic caught my attention...
Long distance love affair? will survive or not? hmmmm... it depends...
what kind of relationship ur into..or the truce you made to each other..
it will survive if there is enough love,respect,communication,trust and of course honesty in both sides. :roll: ..definitely IT WILL
But if the foundation is weak...more on just physically involved...i think it wouldnt, :cry: most specially if the other person get easily swayed by some matters...
that person will simply throw away the promises that he/she once made,
after all LOVES MAKES NO PROMISES,AND SOMETIMES LOVE JUST AINT ENOUGH...[/color] :wink: Arabo This topic also caught my attention because i am in a long distance relationship and have been for the last 4 years. We spend all our holidays together and we plan to live together soon. Its very difficult because both partners start to have seperate lives and lose common grounds in the long run, but if both want it / trust each other strong enough It works. Mizz_Fabolous I personally think that long distance relationships are creating Romance out of absence material, which is very hard to do so...
Having said that I myself have been in a long distance relationship my self for 2 years and it�s very hard to keep up to and it could well be a headache at some points.........
>>>>>>>>>>>>...All it takes is a bit of patience and trust to have a stable long distance relationship.........>>>>>>>>> sniper420
- Mizz_Fabolous wrote:
  I personally think that long distance relationships are creating Romance out of absence material, which is very hard to do so...
  Having said that I myself have been in a long distance relationship my self for 2 years and it�s very hard to keep up to and it could well be a headache at some points.........
  >>>>>>>>>>>>...All it takes is a bit of patience and trust to have a stable long distance relationship.........>>>>>>>>>
Mizz Faboulous ur avatar is B-E-A-UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTIFUL! :shock: Talk to moi and I will make you to believe in Long distance relationships! After allLove has no barriers at all :D Mizz_Fabolous Glory was that directed to me>>.>.....LOL :o :o
That is not a nice way to welcome a new member to the forum
Brainless F*** :wink: :wink:
Besides don�t generalise �if you have came across one individual that
Didn�t meet up to your criteria �of whom you might claim to be the elite character. Then that�s your judgment
Not all Queenslander are the Same�..>>>>
And Where is the Better plce you speak of Mizz_Fabolous �Sniper420�

Thx�for the gesture however been there done that
Ain�t my kinda thing�.Long distance thing is tough
I prefer having the person leaving same state where we can have the accessional
Visit and catch up for coffee things�And no boarding plane or anything in that nature and travelling on my holidays� sa4877 long term relationships do work and i have myself been through it for over 5 years. Yes.... the distance makes it difficult and you tend to get interested in other people but I guess its a question of whether you really love each other. At times you need to have omeone with you and tend to get involved with others. We did have our troubles and also had short flings elsewhere (yes yes yes....) and we are even aware of it now. But we are now married... doing fine. and together in Dubai. gugugaga those who say it doesnt work are fickle minded pea brained dogs giving in to temptation... well distance or no distance ,,,u would fall for the next joe or jane u meet.. i hope i am not being rude sweet mary [color=blue]plz move thiz to Dubai Romance. tnx[/color] kupsy Long distance? Mmmm... one help is to never stop communicating and keep youself occupied with things to do, not to the extent of letting yourself be vulnerable to temptation in falling to another person. Being far far away with the one you love sometimes lessen the fire, the sparks begin to dwilt in time, not because of emotional shortness or mental thoughts of him/her but the physical aspect of being there for your partner. Try to be happy and keep a positive sight in your relationship. laila k m i think i'm gonna puk all this lovey dovey things are making me sick sniper420
- laila k m wrote:
  i think i'm gonna puk all this lovey dovey things are making me sick
Cos u dont know what iz lobe! :lol: laila k m and u do sniper420 Ofcourse! I can teach u A to Z of love ! :D laila k m no thanks sniper420
- laila k m wrote:
  no thanks
My algo book says that u must be shy kind of girl. And shy gal's no= yes! :D So when do u wanna start? Pumpkin Escobar Wine em, Dine em, 69 em, that's snipers motto! Liban You forgot to mention that it is also Kilani's motto, but with Kilani it involves his chimp love... Kilana... sniper420
- Pumpkin Escobar wrote:
  Wine em, Dine em, 69 em, that's snipers motto!
well i have invite em, Dine em, drive em home is ma motto pump nezar33 it depends ..how long you will stay apart if its couple of month then you could do it ..if it is for couple of years then i think it is very very hard ...good luck nayr Love masters! :D YOUR VIEWS PLS.... insanely in love??? well, im married man when i met this girl, she's my crush then, i found a way to tell her how i felt 'bout her, then we dated until 6 months, she accepted my status, things are quite good when she left, we have not yet broke up, we are still communcating with each other, we talk often over the phone, chat, etc... The problem is, we're miles apart, i have a good job here and a family here. My relationship with my wife is another story. we're not in good terms lately. However, i am afraid in losing this girl, i think i'm madly in love with her and i cant get her out of freakin mind...I know distance relationship does not work. chances are she could find someone else there, thats what i'm afraid of. She wants security. for the meantime i cant give it to her since i have to settle 1st my prob with my wife and kid. She's always tellin me how she love me, miss me and she'll wait for and vise versa i told her also what i "TRULY" feel about her... The thing is, is this could last??? Is not that i dont trust her, but I dont want to expect much from her, because i know her situation there and the culture of OCW....loneliness, homesickness are the evil factors that tear relationships (correct me if i'm wrong)...And i dont want to get hurt in the end.... She's convincing me to go with her, i think i'am not ready for that, hence i have stable job here and pays me good...........Help she's driving me crazy... tinkerbella Long distance relationships can work if two people are prepared to go through with the long stuff lol if not then it wont work out! But its very hard as you cant see them from time to time and very frustrating! but also from my research from others who are going through with the long distant their relationship tends to be much stronger. But depends how much madly in love you are with the person? Good Luck!!! Funlover
- sweet mary wrote:
  [color=blue]you're pretty much understood! I gonna give you another medal as glory did!
  nyway,what a scenario!
  Well, i think i need to give up if and only if the fire of love has gone. Cuz if you considered yourself COMMITED you can't let go of this invisible tie, the bond which will always remind you that you are already 'TAKEN'. Just wishing my partner thinks the same way.
  still i wanna play dumb, lemme ask this question. thinking of those hundred of married peeps having undefined realtionship, those guys and gurls cheating with their partners(bfs/gfs) back home and the broken relationship and promises.... how difficult is it to resist temptation here?[/color]
I would say it is extremely difficult. I know some guys, very decent chaps really, who can't wait for that fortnight or month when their better half goes back home to visit her parents etc.
These guys really love their wife and children. But the Temptations. :shock: cadmus yep, thats true... i have seen my Colleagues throwing parties whenever their families go out...but i think thats the end of it...they dont do nething else...and i think its justified to do so...everyone misses their bachelorhood days...so what if they have some nice time with their friends the way it used to happen in college days...they stll love their families... mylunarcry what kinds of temptations are there that we should be prepared for? usually if the man is in dubai and the girl is left in her country that's more difficult. are there people out there who would stoop so low as to attract someone even though she knows that guy has a gf back home? constantine you know...for me...it worked out...but for 8 months she and i were visiting each other back and forth...(of course the distance wasn't much...4 hours flight away...diff countries though)...speaking from personal experiance...its real hard...and the fights you have over the phone...the amount of time you take making it upto the person...the dissapointments/anger/hope/love/frustrations...are like a rollercoaster every day...so my typical day would go like this :D :( :evil: :D :( ....it's real hard and you have to be Budda himself to actually not react to little things irrationally...for what it's worth...it did work out at the end!! mylunarcry thanks. that helps somehow. what i wanna know now is, where have some relationships failed? so that i can be prepared? constantine hey dont give up hope though...sometimes it does work out...in my case it did...after 8 months...she did move for me...we stayed honest to each other...sure there were a lot of temptations...as always will be...but the only advice i can give you the key...you have to talk it out...and when you are angry/frustrated/ready to slam the phone...talk some more...but dont let silence do the talking...as thats what kills it all...knowing is better than not knowing and imagining senarios...and hey, as in my case...if you are in nearby countries...it helps heaps...!!send letters...old fashioned way...flowers if possible...and get a inexpensive phone plan!!!... :D ...coz you'd probably run up quite a bill!! hmm on the flip side...where it can fail...lots of reasons... 1>temptation...temptation 2>not being true to each other 3>wasn't a strong one to begin with 4>you need physical presence (for all the hugs/kisses and fights!!) 5>any old excuse can set it off...if you live far off... 6>excuses are endless...if you want to create them 7>maybe its too early for anyone to really commit? ...as i said the list can go on and so can the excuses...but can you go on without him...or vice versa?.... Rosie Very nice words and for you im happy it worked out,,,, but honestly if a woman or man for that matter was offering themself up on a plate to you and your partner was out of sight ...your telling me you would decline??? Its just ..for me i would have trust issues and would not be able to keep a long distance romance going..... constantine hmm...rosie...to answer your question...i love the "chase"...rather than dealing with the consequences...so yeah i would flirt/charm...but leave it short of seducing...seems to work for me...and i walk away feeling like it was all innocent fun...has happened that people have been receptive towards more than flirting...and when you're at a club...drinks are flowing...its hard to keep it all in prespective...but as i said earlier...i did go and visit my gf...at least once a month...so it wasnt too bad...but i will agree...if one is really doing the long distance relationship over phone/email/letters...it can be really tough...but i've had another mate of mine...whos done it successfully...the idea is to get so "pished" ...that you get thrown into a cab and all you can remember is to go to bed!!! ALONE ...had to pay the cabbie soo many times for that ungrateful cad!!! XRW-147
- Rosie wrote:
  Very nice words and for you im happy it worked out,,,, but honestly if a woman or man for that matter was offering themself up on a plate to you and your partner was out of sight ...your telling me you would decline???
  Its just ..for me i would have trust issues and would not be able to keep a long distance romance going.....
Trust, to me, is the most important part of any relationship - long distance or not. And regardless of where your partner is if you can't resist an "offer" then you're not ready for a commited relationship. Rosie Look to each their own..it would be great to totally trust,but for me i guess im not ready for a commited relationship... Once bitten ,twice shy!!! aduberdu well nothin is impossible...........but it depends on both ppl.........till my experience loong distance relationships doesnt workout Rosie Welcome to my world my friend !!! easternjewel
- aduberdu wrote:
  well nothin is impossible...........but it depends on both ppl.........till my experience loong distance relationships doesnt workout
ur rite, no matter how hard you try! Jeevan May be it would work for some people, in my case tried for 3 years, but then the intensity just fizzled out and we mutually decided to part ways. but it dint hurt coz we gave it time to work out before we went our ways. Cheers, Jerry cutieara as for me, long distance relationship is not impossible...all u need to have is a good communication and trust and be honest with each other... Mila1000 We met each other via Internet, but before we had long time of loneliness. Population of the Earth is over 6 milliards, so it was enough hard to meet soul mate. We know it from own experience. A theory of probability shows that the more variant you will sort out the more precise result you will get. We sorted out many variants during long time, but Internet helped us meet each other really very fast.
- sweet mary wrote:
  [color=blue]My friends reminded me that long distance relationship is impossible to survive here in UAE. Is that so? :roll: [/color]
Mila
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site for singles cutieara ive been to that situation before but it didnt work out coz we lacked communication and we easily gave up...coz being far away from each other is not that easy...but i hope for u it will work out... reem Come on, have'nt you heard- DISTANCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER!!! well if your love is true and you believe in the relationship,no one can break it.Not even a distance of millions of miles becoz after all your lovedone stays in your heart.RIGHT!Don't get depressed! Defo
- reem wrote:
  Come on, have'nt you heard-
  DISTANCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER!!!
  well if your love is true and you believe in the relationship,no one can break it.Not even a distance of millions of miles becoz after all your lovedone stays in your heart.RIGHT!Don't get depressed!
True 8) Long distance relations are difficult, but nothing can beat true love :wink: pacificsurf619 I think that its pretty tough, especially if your younger. Definitely the best of luck, I thought for sure that my long distance relationship would work when I went to Irak, but it definitely fell apart pretty hard. I couldnt even give you advice on where it went wrong, it just really did. Sometimes the best thing to do is to end it with a kiss, and then if you cross paths again you didnt ruin your relationship with trying to force you, you *silently* sealed it with that kiss that will be there when you guys get back :cry: