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Ladies what do you look for in a man?


xty
wrong.
if you support the man, you'll have everything.
men, at least me, will automatically fulfill everything without being asked when they feel supported & loved like "the man". don't take it the wrong way, it's not one way effort only. make your man "the man", at the same time he will lay stars for you.
Sharp
Ohh!.. i was Just adding few line's of comedy, you can read my pervious reply i have said, male n female 're both so importent for the strong realtionship, male couldn't make it alone, n same goes for female, both of them need to support eachother n run this realtion for long n ever with trust, care support n offcourse love!.....

You wont get nothing untill you don't trust you're female, understand's her what she really need's from you, how her eye's wants you to be with her, how to keep her save from her fear's how to take her worrie's n give her smile, in rutren you need the same ... not becouse that's a give n take, Just it's like hand's to gather n make noise!.....
So both 're so importent for the realtion of love, no single party couldn't get succed if he/she take's all the right's!..... muyesser
Do you think that would mean a relationship only if one party takes it all on.. :?: Sharp
Very True!.. It start's with Man n it end's with Man!... Just!! Sharp
Oh so In love with these green n red paper's!!....... Nucleus None of the above beckah Aside from the make it or break it rules. 1. intelligence 2. honesty and integrity 3. attraction dodot I'm not a woman, but i think what woman wants from a man is : 1. Money = no woman want poor life. 2. Security = woman wants man that can protect her. 3. Attractive = woman loves man who is attractive. But i think the most important thing is money. Love don't make people alive, but money make people alive. Woman want their life to be guaranteed, so money is the most important thing. Nucleus
:shock: zahraufr28 women nowdays like security and reel love money is too important but not primordial

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Chocoholic What a load of BS! Money can't buy you love! And what's wrong with women working to earn their own money? DoubleDigit "can buy me luv"...thts the 60s beatles rant...today, its no MONEY no HONEY...;) RobbyG
You haven't looked at the news recently.
1. Japan's marriages increases during bad economy as women secure their financial stability with men earning 30 percent more than the average Japanese woman...
2. United Kingdom: more marriages and divorces. As marriages increase as women seek financial stability.
Did you lost track of historic perspectives? They are still there, largely overtaken by a quest for equal pay and opportunities though...
The world didn't shift one way suddenly. Its a legacy thing I suppose. gtmash The best bit is that when questioned, women say they want a nice guy who is dependable and gives them stability in life, and then they go and hook up with the first reckless binge-drinking bad boy they find. Green Eyes In this town it would just be nice to find a man who isn't married! :wink: Bora Bora For the woman who is confident, mature and self sufficient she needs to ask the question: "What can he give me that I can't give myself?" A woman should look for what she wants, not what she needs. Also age is a factor. Each decade (20, 30, 40, 50) the wants change. DoubleDigit you can want you want but in the end you will have to settle for what you get Misery Called Life I guess every woman wants someone who they are compatible with and inclusive of looks, intelligance, humour all the traits of that Mills & Boons hero! But every woman will settle for sumone with Money, Power( relative) a man who can provide her with security, all the traits of someone who would be a star on the Financial Times! Sharp Hmm!!........ we 're all somtime had bad experiance's in our live's with such female's who're keen to look only for mOney!.... Statuss!.... Security Offcourse!!.....BUT.. it Can be Optional for them!...... or Look Indeed!!.............. It's Just experaince's we all had in life!......n becouse of that we Couldn't call bad to Love n a female who realy Love's You!.... Female 're Kinda that when love's hit's in her heart for you!... Then she won't look at you're Money!.. Statuss!.... look n wallet!!.............. It's Just our Mind made Up for Women in that way!......BUT... Don't forget She is somwhere who Love you alot More then anyone!!.................. I belive we should alway's find out the sincer beautifull women Inside her!!!.......................
aishamalik money money money lol Petrovic.Z Woman who just want the money and security from a man are usually the unsuccessful woman who cant stand on their own two feet which is pathetic in my opinion! GO INDEPENDANCE :) Misery Called Life
I would also like a nice girl, who is dependable blah blah.......n den I just like 99% of the guys out there, would go n 'try'(cuz guy's dnt always get lucky) to hookup with the first reckless binge-drinking bad girl in the vincinity!! BB Nothing.. :lol: :lol: :lol: rch Snow Is there anything to look for?????? There's nothing there! BB exactly... ha ha rch Adventure1 Girls dont want boys,they want cars and money,Girls have their bodies and Boys have Ferraris,Girls dont want boys they just want cars and money.Do you remember this song by Good Charlotte.Its Ok ladies I can handle the truth,sounds like a line Jack Nicholson used in a Officer and a Gentlemen.Woman look for security .The attraction will be either a financial stream or aesthetics These are the two main catalysts for relationships.Either one or both will drive relationships to form.Men are no different. Dubai Knight What is a girl looking for in a man? Depends how deep her knife goes! Could be a liver, some lungs, a kidney or two...but most likely a heart. Pass the fava beans! :shock: :shock: :shock: Knight RobbyG
There he is again! :wink:
Good ól' pirate is back. Done scavenging the Somalian waters? 8) Dubai Knight
I tried Somalian water once...shat rusty nails for a week!
Nah...been a little bit tied up recently. Started a new business (yeah, I know, need the head examining!) and have been somewhat busy. Work kinda interferes with the old social posting dontcha know!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight RobbyG
No, I rather admire that instead of implying the head examining thing!
Can you tell me some more about the new concept?
Not many 'events to market' is there? Dubai Knight
There are some knocking around. Doing most of our stuff in Abu Dhabi at the moment, but Gulf based so actually doing things GCC wide. As we have an industry reputation for coming up with kick-ass original ideas, we are still in demand and the government institutions and malls are still feeding our habit!
Thankfully, we never did real estate launches or work directly for the big government festival organisers. Anyway...off topic!
More chianti anyone?
Ffffffff Fffffffff Ffffffff!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight RobbyG
Finally a positive note in the downturn. Its what you make of it, thats for sure.
Indeed back on topic.... let see; What woman want!?
Simple, they need Passion.
When you marry her for the passion, the passion will soon be gone and your money also :lol:
No really a nice topic though... 8) Wonder why DK wanted back on topic...hmmm :twisted: Dubai Knight If a man ever really knew what a woman wants...he would be either a billionaire, or a woman in disguise! :lol: :lol: :lol: Knight RobbyG I'll remember that... :crybaby: You calling Me a woman! (in disguise ;)) Snow Men are not so different. Najla.S smartness :) freeneasy1
m smart...what next :wink: prettygal intelligence love care happiness money and security the list is endlesss............ :wink: rudeboy
MONEY and SECURITY???? why the hell dont u girls get ur OWN bloody money :S sheesh. and security :S invest in your own CCTV cameras :p
women and their bloody demands :S they keep on going and going. sometimes i wonder when they will get tired ;) Najla.S
cute 8) xty what woman want? a man whose bulky body, cute face, woman's mind & sensitiveness.... yep, that would be a gay or lady man :D portland well woman wants love, peace of mind and trust with their partners, 2nd security and money comes. prettygal dnt misunderstand me when i said money and security money because without money,,we cannot live good life and security means ...marrying a person who can always make me feel secured...not letting anyone to hurt me and some1 who never betrays and leaves me for any1 else.. deadlife lol I think these are the things females look in men from my point of view I have asked them 1-money-to make him look better 2-money-to but ourselves a lot of this and that 3-money-if he messes up we can sue him and get more money 4-money-so that we can start a research on how to build up trust or buy it and 5-more money miss manager religious,job and good looking!!! RobbyG
Why religious? Speedhump if you need to ask you won't understand! RobbyG
Hahaha provoking thoughts stun my mind :lol: raidah we want them cold and on the table, like beer. thats after a fat account was opened on our name :lol: RobbyG
Don't you just love this lady :lol:
;) my1nazzi [quote="beckah"]Aside from the make it or break it rules.
1. intelligence
2. honesty and integrity
3. attraction[/quo my1nazzi The one thing I look for in a Man is there Trust and Love, Money will come after. If you have a Man that is by your side to give you Support anytime then you have everything that you need. Your Man will be there for you till you die. That's all you need everything else is right behind you... Love your Man if you have his Support anytime anywhere. Life is too short. Hannie
All of them!!! my1nazzi Attraction is not everything in a Man. NoWoRrIeS Attractiveness, sex appeal, enough money NoWoRrIeS I wrote s*x appeal, but I guess the word s*x is not allowed??? RobbyG
The latter remark is the ones where we say: Thats a golddigger.
You earn it yourself. Or at least prove you can do it. NoWoRrIeS Wanting to be financially secure doesn't make one a gold digger now does it? RobbyG
True, but you can also start earning it yourself 8)
Men have their own savings for cars and your presents....occasionally
Not a credit card for a daily ful withdrawal :lol:
If you know what I mean ;) NoWoRrIeS Been there and done that Robby..What if it's time to settle down and have babies? Someone needs to provide, and Dubai is expensive.. NoWoRrIeS You must be dutch... :wink: RobbyG
You are soooo mine right now.
I'll remember you said that. :lol: NoWoRrIeS hahaha, well let's stick to the topic... Don't worry.. Ik ben zelf ook Nederlands..maar al 11 jaar in Dubai..dus verwend ;-) RobbyG
Na ja zeg, dat had ik echt niet verwacht. ;)
Het zal wel aan je goede engels liggen denk ik. :lol:
Voordat ze hier helemaal gek worden omdat wij hier niet engels praten, even dit; Ik zit nog in NL, maar ben op zoek naar een leuke internationale carriere. Dubai lijkt me wel wat.
Back to english 8) james111 money money money hidnick yep, money~~~ jordanaian
what was that?!!cant believe this come from a woman lives in 2009!!!
money will buy house but not home.!!poor baby if u think this way !! :roll: muyesser Trust and love will buy everything for us I believe.. 8) someone also said it somewhere previously that if you have the support of the man, you have everything; well said.. 8) Bora Bora Look for a man who can give you the four animals you should own: A Jaguar - parked in the garage A Mink - to wear on your back A Stallion - to have in your bed A Donkey - to pay for it Speedhump :D RobbyG
I now see what you look for in your Camel, dirty Ranger ;)
:lol: Speedhump hell, that makes THREE remarks now... read my new thread, smuttster!!! Speedhump and in the romance forum too, that's just TOO much :D RobbyG
Humpin' pumpin' US Rangerboy... shootin' the pistol in his empty desert whore....
:lol: Bora Bora
Rob, don't be judgmental. To each his own. Speedhump and she never has a headache... Speedhump
maaaaate cut DOWN on the caffeine..... :o RobbyG
I'll bet its a major hole you're in today. Might want to practice her muscles abit so she can squeeze you a bit on occassion 8) Speedhump
Major/minor, probably not much difference there....
:shock: worldguy In UAE it is very tricky as most of the population is on the move every few years. Some guys and gals have been lucky to find a true partner and for rest it is just one night stand!!! RobbyG
Just take example of Speedhump.
Pick-up a camel on the streetscorner and you'll be fine for some years. You do have to buy a little stool to stand on. But that's not a problem in the Middle East, right? :lol: worldguy You seem to enjoying yourself with all the imagination. Sadly I am still old fashioned and would stick to humans. You Dutch are famous for nothing. :) RobbyG
S.A.R.C.A.S.M. isn't you're game obviously.
I wonder what the Dutch have got to do with this. Never heard of Palm Jumeirah, Palm Jebel Ali and Palm Deira before have you? :lol:
The foundation of these is one of the reasons for you to get on the knees f@cker :lol: ;) worldguy whatever mate. As I said, you need to see the world as you did not get what I meant and not spoon feeding you pal. Speedhump back to your corners guy! 1 point deducted each :P The Dutch have contributed MASSIVELY to the offshore developments here, their dredging muscle is used worldwide and the UK has used Dutch dredgers for many years to shore up their coastlines and contribute to harbour developments etc etc.. And leave my lady love out of this, she doesn't deserve your comments.....either of you. It'll be pistols at twenty paces if you carry on I'm warning.... worldguy lol .... all good banter, though Robbie G does take things personally as well and gets all defensive. Lighten up mate. RobbyG
I see you are obviously new around here. Otherwise you knew I am always playing with serious stuff.
Just look at the abundance of smileys around.
C'mon worldguy, I'm not a fool. I know better ;) Bora Bora
What??!!! You don't have an idea of what good banter is. And talk about taking things personally and getting defensive! You are the most thickheaded person on this forum since Bangleboy left.
Maybe Rob's sense of humor is too over your head to get it, as well as others who have a true sense of humor. obituary07 Money thats it. osp_ishamayrub hahahaaa only money and intellligence Sharp SiP SiP!.... Puff Puff!.... a beautifull, Sweet, So Much preety, Ohh too Much gourges Only Need's Money n look's I gues!.... LoL!!.... bonbonboi Right, but can love make money! lol seriously when it comes to money, love , relationships women tend to think or to feel shallowly, so do not give a woman the CHOiCE... you are the man and you guide her to the end. Sharp Off-course You have to Guide her, She know's nothing.... LOL!!........ Ruggedblond From what I observe and I work within an industry with 95% women the first thing is sheer attraction. If a guy is very aesthetically attractive then you should see them falling over themselves to get his attention. For mere mortals who don't look like a GQ model then I guess whatever the guy lacks in the looks department there has to be an equal measure of either (or) a combination of humour, charisma, success, common interests and personality. A friend recently updated her Facebook status which read: IS SEEKING 6,0 and above handsome guy, with chizelled good looks, athletic build ,grt personality sucessful career ,blue eyes, ONLY with hair no baldies please.... great white teeth no FALSEYS .... great sense of humor and is willing to wine and dine me ..... {it's a shame u can't buy one.}..... !!!!. Now if I'm being honest I would have to throw that back at her and ask 'what do you have to offer in return' knowing the answer ain't all that is the reason she hasn't attracted such a man and this is the paradox right here which explains why there are so many single people. As we know Dubai is an odd transient place. I arrived in Dubai with two averagely attractive women and the attention they received from men is on a different scale to what they are used to from their home country. The B*tch shield is common place in the clubs C0ck blocking the many desperate men who either stare strangely from a distance or do some odd Bollywood Peacocking dance hoping to woo the herd! A woman who is attractive has had years of experiences where men treat them differently because of their attractive looks. High maintenance irrational personalities can develop because they can behave in a way not so attractive women can't get away with. In a similar way you notice that men and women who are hilariously funny often aren't blessed with amazing looks and this is no coincidence. Unfortunately, first and foremost, it often comes down to the fickleness of looks. A stunning friend of mine once said she 'wished she could meet a nice guy' and the truth is she was in a training college full of them. Clearly a blind eye was adopted as in her eyes they weren't attractive to go with it. In a fickle place like this you better be in a good position in the right environment to show off your qualities. Clearly, not all woman are the same and neither are men but all too often the more beautiful of the species realise 'their worth' and attracting attention in this town is a dime a dozen but whether it's reciprocated is a different matter. Misery Called Life RuggedBlond Fab Post, It's like a food chain. Survival of the fittest. Only here the fittest are the best looking. People tend to be rather vain...It's their folly! It's your last line that really caught my attention. Ultimately it's all about self worth. Unfortunately most men only realize their real self worth late , late in life. How far are looks gonna take you? These days every second person is attractive. It has to be looks + something else maybe charisma, humor watevr. Ultimately it all boils down to compatibility. Off course if lust is all one seeks than looks should suffice. Good looking people tend to act a little high maintenance. I think it's nice...I like the confidence. I think every man atleast once in his lifetime must feel absolutely powerless in front of his woman. And men tend to fell quite powerless in front of beautiful women. Personally I am always overwhelmed when with older, intelligent women. I've got loads of women friend and say what they may, looks are an important part of their prerequisites in addition to loads of other traits and qualities. And they are forever searching,... The smart ones realize that you take what you get! bonbonboi "External beauty is what we see, and internal beauty is what we feel by experience, both have power to attract. External appearance drives immediate attention, on the other hand internal beauty attracts when we experience" Any way, in the conclusion, your principles and aims are the most factor when you deal about that, if you are a man and looking for just fun then go for it, and u will find the woman whose looking for fun as well, same if you are a woman and into fun only then go for the shallow stuff. once you are a man and looking for real serious relationship with a woman to be your wife, your childrens mom then your insight will go in a different way, and will find that woman whose ready for the serious family relationship. same applied for women. If you say who cares about serious stuff in uae as all just expats, then you are wrong. there are people looking for serious relationships as well as there are people just into shallow and fun stuff. There are many choices out around, and you the mind to decide whats fit you and whats good or not. bonbonboi
funny but might be true somehow.
let's face it. if you didn't pay any attention they will call you g\ay, if you pay attention they will call you cheap.
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Why Do Lonely Men and Women Want to Break Each Other's Hearts? Ruggedblond
You're completely right about self worth and men realising it later in life (perhaps as they have grown older they have worked out the many myths of life) and what they once perceived to be important they've either given up as folly of youth or realised they haven't achieved it yet and are therefore unlikely to do so and they kinda give up the ego a little which is a humbling experience.
What I really meant by 'their worth' was in relation to women. Very attractive women who attract a lot of male attention (through men randomly hitting on them) and are smart to go with it must realise it's because of their good looks and realise 'their worth'. Women who are very attractive but aren't so smart and have issues with how they perceive themselves (e.g body dismorphia) have low self confidence and don't realise how attractive they are. They just think all men are the same and don't realise men don't behave this way with averagely attractive women.
I thought your point about men feeling powerless in front of beautiful women is an excellent point and there are some beautiful women who give this 'yes I am now F*** Off' vibe. Unless the guy is very attractive an opening friendly 'hello' just isn't going to cut it and you better have something to get her interest and keep it before she looks away and catches the gaze of another desperado in the bar looking over. judith09 just love Scorpion King [color=blue]
:wink: Wow....I can give all the love one can ask for :wink: [/color].....but if you actually mean & believe what you say.....Hats off.. :P xty
what is "love" for you? Kissy no honey without money no attraction without attention Ruggedblond
Agreed with the attraction/ attention. No Honey without Money ... How low principles have stooped. Kissy
well how could i live with a man who has no money or low budget!!! :P
if you assume it as low principles then everyone has his/her point of view and principles due to their lifestyle. you may consider it as low principles but others nop ! :) Misery Called Life
True......What's love without diamonds and Louis Vuitton :D Kissy
you just decode my phrase as your point of view
:wink:
when looking for a man it is important to plan it as a long term relationship, so what his budget is that can save me and my kids, what his culture and how he trusts respects me :)
no woman want a poor man to starve her :shock: or you do ? :?
money doesnt mean as RICH no , but at least he related to the same financial standard as me becuase i used to live with a level of financial standard Misery Called Life
Hey just kiddin :D
I totally get what you say.
I think the point that Rugged Blond made was that women will always fall for the wealthier man. We're not talking about starvation here. For eg take two men one a Millionaire and the other a Filght Steward. The millionaire will always have the affection of more women thanks to his bank balance.
But you've made ur stand clear. You ain't looking for the wealthiest man just someone who can keep you happy. That's how it should be Nice and Balanced! :D jhbsnoopy God-fearing smart with ambition in life sweet Sharp
Now that's come out real!...... alot said the same!.. no honey with out money!... Ohhh!... God we guy's really need to earn money if you need honey in home!............ LOL...... bonbonboi you can earn that money while a wife in your life, when you get sons thats a big boost to go on... Chris7ian Def money!!! silent aside from all things. 1. FEELINGS. Feel my sadness, happiness, worries, silent, and really show this. 2. Support my ambitions. DivineMaisDangereuse When I am in love, it’s making me tickles in my belly when I see of think about this person. After that, I don’t expect anything from a man except that he loves me to … What about you guys ? Speedhump
Best post I yet read in this thread. Metaphor79
After sometime the tickles in ur belly will be caused by HUNGER.
Love is not enough, emotions cant feed you. Hunger or any kind of deprivation digs up troubles.
You need the twin; love and money.
Metaphor



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