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IS GOOD GUYS STILL EXISTING IN DUBAI OR IM JUST NOT LUCKY


janet67 ITS SEEMS THAT THERE ARE NO DECENT GUYS EXISTING IN THIS COUNTRY (DUBAI) OR MAYBE IM JUST NOT LUCKY TO FIND THEM. I WISH THIS DUBAI FORUM CAN HELP IF THERE ARE STILL EXISTING.. CURIOUS & UNLUCKY
kanelli Well, there are some single guys on here complaining that there are no good women, or they are all married - so maybe you'll have some luck finding romance with a DF member? :) Moester well i'm not in dubai right now but i consider myself as a good guy :D so this question really doesn't concern me :? ok i'll just be quiet then alexandra
haha :lol:
got it! will keep scrolling :lol: :lol: :lol: ajoy define decent.. :) alexandra
janet, i get that u r dissapointed with the men in dubai, but still i think it's not good to generalise cause not all men r the same. i think it's impossible that all men over there r loosers and pervs...keep ur hope and hey...MOester is there for u (he's a good guy, but don't tell him i told u, ok? :roll: ) :lol: :lol: :lol: Moester 8) Liban
1) Using CAPS LOCK is extremly impolite in online culture. It is synonymous to screaming.
2) Dubai is not a country.
3) Why would a forum know whether a decent guy exists who is willing to date a girl that has no clue if Dubai, the place she lives in, is a city or a country? alexandra
and Liban has spoken! :twisted:
Liban, i got the feeling that u would have loved to write the 3) using CAPS LOCK....am i wrong ???? :lol: ajoy
all these days i was under the impression that there are no DECENT gals existing in dubai and most seem to agree.. :roll:

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fayz
Loosly translated, you ain't gonna find any decent men here :lol: kanelli Liban is suffering from male PMS obviously. Cranky pants! :evil: Liban :twisted: Sara1983
Oh man lol u keep meetin those bit**y ones....etcetcetcet
jst don't lose hope I guess, don't give up on MEN here!!!! kanelli Go eat some chocolate Liban :lol: raidah
Moester baby, just because ur obviously on a hunt, it doesn t mean u need to keep quiet, or that keeping quiet would fade ur aims :D Dubai Knight I seem to recall asking the same question in reverse a while ago...so perhaps there is a definition required of the word 'decent'. Do you mean: 'A guy who is not after your body and is a nice decent chap who is well presented and groomed and fun and polite'? Well there are a lot of them over here, unfortunately they tend to hang around with other guys who are well presented, groomed, fun and polite...which is the reason they are not after your body! Those that are after your body...are the rest of us! Of course you want him to be rich, good looking, drive a nice car, be able to buy you lots of things and take you to nice places? If you are blonde and attractive then you are going to be fighting off all the a$$holes in town who will promise you this and then treat you like dirt. They outnumber the good guys 10/1. Choose carefully! What you need to decide is what real attributes you want your guy to have. Do you want a shy quiet introverted type or an outgoing dynamic sort? They are around...some of them are here on this forum. Start here and then ask questions. :lol: :lol: :lol: Knight Liban
Ooooohhh.. Chocolate... I like chocolate... White chocolate from Cadbury... YUMMY!!!! fayz
hmmm first we find out you get your hair cut at a salon called Diva's, then drastic mood swings, then this post above???? it is all adding up to Dude looks like a lady :lol: :lol:
Liban Only in your dreams Fayz :P raidah
its kinda interesting how we scream for decent guys/girls, but when they show up, we don t want them. for some reason women tend to be attracted to bad boys, who have something dangerous about them, and men like more the "bitchy" type of women. (im not talking about her being a whore, just some sort of femme fatal)
i guess its all about our most elementary, most primitive instincts. women want dominant males, guys want females to dominate, but fight back and make it fun.
civilization has brought a lot of artificial behaviours. like this one too, looking for decent ppl to date. oh come one! :lol: . u go on a date because eventually u wanna have s.e.x. now s.e.x has nothing to do with decency, politeness or anything of the kind. decency won t turn u on. :wink:
if we all would follow our god given instincts, we would not be blinded by things like how much money he has, or is he decent enough to go out with.
follow ur nose :wink: Dubai Knight
Careful Fayz...Liban IS Freddie Kruger!
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Knight Sara1983
that is my problem I always meet up with a$$holes who r jst after
my body, they jst want sex, not sum1 2 luv :X
"a nice decent chap who is well presented and groomed and fun and polite'?" SEEMS HARD 2 FIND these days!
Luv urself better, yeeeeah I Luv myself :P :D Dubai Knight
In my experience, we look at the body first and then what is inside the head second. It depends where and how you meet guys. If you are fit (and I assume you are!) then the a$$holes will be the first to try it on. Sensible guys often think that a fit girl is so 'up herself' that they don't want to talk to her anyway. Once the s.e.x thing has worn off, the true measure of a guy is if he finds you a mentally interesting person as well as a very attractive physical person.
The well presented and well groomed chaps...tend to be the gay ones!
Interested to know more about the 'loving yourself' bit! :wink:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight Sara1983
Well thats wat generally most of we human do, we all want nice beautiful stuff when it comes 2 anythin n this life that belongs 2 us yeah.... human nature I guess!!!!
I am mentally interestin, I'm crazy :P
I'm smart n school u c, when guys
know that, they're like oh so u're smart
too, that is good!!! lalalallaaaaa
but I confess there're times when I'm more dumb than
the dumb :P, sumtimes I'd like 2 pretend as f i didn't
get wat is said, jst 2 ignore the whole thing f its annoyin 2 me. smthn that might get on my nerve, I'm very cool tempered! Or f it doesn't interest me will keep pretendin & walk away!
yeah I do luv myself & I think every1 should do so no matter wat happens.... it ain't about looks, its the beauty inside, I luv every1 & respect 'em too. Coz I believe we all have an angel deep inside :) Moester
on a hunt?? of course i'm on a hunt, i'm always on a hunt, it's not something to be ashamed of and i am man enough to say it.
but there is something called knowing my boundaries, so i try to stay within them. alexandra
sara, it's also about the image of urself "u sell " them.men love bad girls, cause they will have fun with , but eventually they will end up choosing a sweet and decent girl, cause she is more likely to be faithfull than a bad girl who likes to flirt.
it's easy to seduce a man only using ur body or nice face and even if u end up with the one of ur dreams u have to know how to keep him. there is no end for seduction: u can never say he is mine and i can relax, u have to seduce him everyday, with small gestures u make, with the way u think or act. Sara1983
yeah I totally agree with wat u said....
to me no matter wat I'm always good & am good 4 myself
U know I am really a good person. but bcoz of those
several bad guys, I began 2 think that there might b smthn
wrong wi'me, thinkin, is it wat I wear or waaaaat... but then no I know myself.... & I talked 2 a frnd
about it, she said no Sara u're a very good person I know u well, yeah she knows
me best, she's my best frnd.
When it comes 2 sum1 who becomes special, then thats
a whole different story 2 follow :) ;) kanelli Sara, can you please write your words out in full and create full sentences - it is much easier to read. Thanks. :) Liban
I asked her the same thing.... I got some response from her in jibberish... :) Sara1983
okay thanks I'll take it from you,
Liban wasn't being very nice! :P kanelli No probs - thanks Sara! ;) It helps us read more easily, because some posts are long on here, unlike SMS messages you'd send on a cell phone. ajb
u have to seduce him everyday, with small gestures u make, with the way u think or act.
Daily seduction! I like the way you think! :lol: :lol: :lol: kanelli But should the women be doing all the work? Maybe they want to be seduced once in a while too :evil: alexandra
sure K, this must be mutual! 8) alexandra
u have to seduce him everyday, with small gestures u make, with the way u think or act.
Daily seduction! I like the way you think! :lol: :lol: :lol:
well, thank u! :roll: Dubai Knight
We try darling, but then we get accused of being s.e.xual predators or just plain horny! I actually like the whole seduction and being seduced thing but a lot of girls expect the guy to take the lead and then get all scared when it gets to the 'moment of truth' because there is a decision to be made.
Once two people are together, then the girls tend to be a little more relaxed about seducing a guy, because they know him and are familiar with him and won't be afflicted by any 'freaks'.
Knight kanelli
Well, married people need to seduce each other too. There is no moment of truth or akwardness in that case. It is something people need to keep the marriage alive and interesting. Dubai Knight I could definitely get into the 'daily seduction' thing! Would be tired though! :shock: :shock: 8) 8) :lol: :lol: Knight ajb
So give us guys some tips ... what are you girls favourite ways of being seduced? raidah
if there is chemistry, u don t need any special trick. still there is smthing most women like. that is if the guy is really good at smthing. ajb Would seduction not be the art of creating chemistry though :?: Sara1983
no problem at all!!!!!
Ok its just something that I'm used
to do, using the shortcuts i mean...
reason is, I'm used 2 write this when
it comes to my notes & yeah i have
online journal & I'm "used to" write
in it with shortcuts!
ok so I'm trying hard not to write with
shortcuts here, since some are finding 'em
difficult to read!! I respect that! kanelli
This advice is for being seductive with a woman you are in a relationship with. Doing this on early dates might work for some women or they might run for the hills because you are moving too fast.
Well, it has to be honest seduction - meaning that you shouldn't just be going through the motions, but really want to seduce her. For example, if you are going out together for an evening with friends, start the flirting before you are out with everyone. Tell her how hot she looks and mean it. You can touch her on a non-sexual part of her body, e.g. her hands or arm or back. Then when you are out, you can make little comments to her when you get a chance, and keep up the touching. Giver her a "You're in a good kind of trouble later." kind of look from time to time and you will definitely start to see the s.e.x.ual tension building. You can get more daring later by touching her under the table, or if brushing past her touch her bum - no else can see these actions so it is like a little secret for the two of you. Don't go overboard and make your seduction to noticable to everyone else or she will feel embarrassed and your friends will tease the hell out of you and tell you two to get a room. If done correctly, all of this attention makes the woman feel very desirable, and when the two of you leave the group and she gets you alone, she should be ready to pounce on you. :)

I can't believe I just wrote this and pressed the send button. :oops: Moester
not a dating expert eh??
what the hell do you do on a real date? kanelli Sorry, I don't get your meaning. What do you mean by "real date"? Moester well if you do exactly what you say here, then you must have had the most perfect dates ever. you have a nice prespective about the whole idea and i really admire that kanelli Well, to be honest, I was very practical about dating. I dated to find a boyfriend who would possibly become my husband - no flings for me. It makes life much simpler to avoid getting involved in mind games and relationships with people who aren't respectful or honest with their intentions. Those kinds of guys steered clear of me anyway because they knew they wouldn't get anywhere with me. So, I dated a lot less, but managed to find a nice guy who didn't play games and was married by 25. I've seen some of the crazy relationship turmoil that my friends have experienced, and knock on wood I won't have to experience anything like that ever. (Well, there is always turmoil in marriage, and it is hard work - but that's another thread.) DonDiego5876 mmm... ur all right in some way or another, atleast that is what i think. Now, we all are humans, and it is in our nature to seek the best for ourselves and the people we care about. The Decent guy / gal issue is a relative issue, it depends on ur personal standards, beliefs, culture and taste. Which is a relative issue that cannot be judged except by the person/ people involved. so we will leave it at that. As for the attraction between opposite nature of human beings, well moderation is a very good way to go around things. No one gets what they want exactly, so u have to aim high but be moderate and thoughful about ur choice. Right? Dating; well that is a tricky thing, we all seek our soul mates, and in that quest we meet people and date people. But at the end of the day, what is right is right. U as a person have been gifted by God with 5 senses (Seeing, Hearing, Touch, Smell and Taste). These senses give u a feeling of something / someone which aids ur decision. so i believe that it would go like this: 1st Step: See someone u like 2nd Step: u try to contact them, talk to them, hear them 3rd step: touch, smell and taste (u can put them in the order u prefer) Now this explains why We Guys observe a girl's looks, and a girl observes a guy's looks. The important thing is for u to have ur prioroties lined out infront of u, and use ur senses to judge that person, especially the Seeing and Hearing, cause they will tell u the most part about the person infront of u. Finally, Online Dating: well, i for one would not mind it at all, but i would suggest to be very truthfull with the other person (a lie will show itself at the end of the day, and u would be branded as a liar). and u have to be open minded too, talk, get to know each other on the net, that is fine, but u have to understand that when u meet, u have to be very honest and just have a good time over coffee (most preferably a public place and no alcohol to think straight) and tell each other openly if it is ok to go on dating and seeing each other. No need to be disappointed if it turns out that u would not like each other, u would be still friends, friends who understand each other atleast. right? Sorry to have made it lengthy, i hope that my contribution is worthwhile to all of u. Wish u all the best in finding ur decent (i prefer Perfect) match, as i am in the quest for the same. Wish me luck :wink: Cheers Dubai Knight
Define 'smthing'...I think I know what you are referring to...some of us are artists!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight Dubai Knight
Wow! K!!
I am going to follow your advice to the letter here...I said you were a dating expert, I had no idea you were a seduction expert also!
Nice post...very brave of you...love it!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight arniegang
Neither can i K :shock: :shock: :shock:
Love you to bits babes - go girl go
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: ajb
one of the best posts Ive read on this forum to date! Will definitely try that one this weekend with my gf SpyCee69 Now here's a topic I find discussed most often amongst my close friends (many of them girls)!!! The girls want "The Decent Guy" and tend to end up with the guys that give the decent ones a bad name... there are 2 extremely similar dilemmas: No offence to eanyone at all please, but too often I hear: Lebanese guys are sleezy Emirates Airlines chicks are slappers Now I find those 2- in fact 3 (including the missing decent guy) arguments holly EXAGGERATED! Now in every socially defined stereotype, it is the common perception to believe that the dirtbags amongst their social sterotypes are the norm for that group. That means there isn't much chance for anyone else of that 'group' to prove the opposite. It's the sensationalist within us that looks for the most negative. Instead, why doesn't everyone open their hearts and minds and evaluates everyone on their own merits. Of course a healthy skepticism is in order to protect oneself, but for crying out loud, give everyone a chance... read the signs and actions, not the gossip and heasay! BTW I have some very decent friends in Emirates, who are not 'slappers'. I also know some Lebanese guys, that girls would die for if they knew how nice they are. And you know what? Most guys I hang out with tend to be decent! deepineyez It Depend how do you define the term decency. Honest in relationship True from Heart and Soul Dedication Trustworthy. Self respect. I know some one in the mirror swandiave
i consider my self "a perfect guy " but this also goes for the other party and what his interests .. good luck Corcovado
Rude like always :evil: naruto
i went to may (map ball) to see if there is a country called DUBAI and i didnt find one ..i think thats y DECENT GUYS DNT EXIST IN DUBAY CUZ THE COUNTRY OF DUBAI DNT EXIST ON THE MAP :idea: Nick81
You're funny, you know that?! Liban
Dear Corcovado,
On behalf of the management of the DFM, we would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your wonderful comment.
We hope you keep on enjoying your stay with us at the DF and wish you all the best.
Kindest Regards,
Liban naruto
no i dnt ?? Corcovado
Dear Liban
On Behalf of ALL the nice people on planet earth ,we would like to thank you for trying to thank me for my reply ... and i enjoy DF ...especially the nice people around :twisted: Liban Dear Corcovado, I have received your reply and it has been an honor to read it. We in the DFM feel especially thrilled and delighted that you thanked me for thanking you and we wish to thank you in return. Thanks, Liban Moderator & DFM Executive Member Nick81 Dear all, I have been known to be a patient, non-violent person. But it's at times like these that I feel strong urges of taking my saw blades (kindly provided by the poor bastard who tried to sell them on the forums) and commiting a genocide here. Kind regards, Nick81 Liban Dear Nick81, Your words ring of pain and desolation. We in the DFM would like to take this time to tell you that you are a friend to the DF. We beleive we are truely blessed to have kind souls like you and Corcovado in our midst. May the glory of the DF shine its light on your wonderful path to omnipotence. Kindly, Liban - DFM Executive Board naruto Dear all i will copy and paste what my friend Nick81 said befor . have been known to be a patient, non-violent person. But it's at times like these that I feel strong urges of taking my saw blades (kindly provided by the poor bastard who tried to sell them on the forums) and commiting a genocide here. Kind regards, Nick81 thanx naruto Corcovado Liban
Moderator & DFM Executive Member
hmm Are you bragging about ur title? Or trying to abuse it??? 8) Liban
hmm Are you bragging about ur title? Or trying to abuse it??? 8)
A little of both :P naruto dear all If you no longer wish to watch this topic you can either click the "Stop watching this topic link" found at the bottom of the topic above, or by clicking the following link: &unwatch=topic take care Corcovado hehhehe :lol: :lol: its not working that much but keep on :wink: Liban Your posts made me feel quite titalated :) Corcovado
come on ur like the Agony aunt of the forum :lol: :lol: :lol: Corcovado
Nickey why? whats going on?????? Nick81
It's just one of those days at work :P It's been raining all day long, gave a training in the morning, have 1 in a few minutes (one of the persons being a 70+ yrs old guy who's a little on the "slow" side). So yeah I am having fun :lol: Corcovado oooh poor guy... aaaaah go to ur happy place ... the day will end the day will end :shock: :shock: :shock: 8) Nick81
*takes fetal position*
:lol: :lol: sniper420
hehehe well abt that annoying private msg Corcovado did u try dsiabling notifying reply in ur profile? it doesnt work at times....so only way is to filter ur mails
ok guys tis is going too offtopic than the title which is grammatically WRONG! :shock: so plz stick to topic Nick81 dude is your only purpose here to ask ppl to stay on-topic? sniper420
yeah dude that is one of my responsibilities ....i know it sucks....but would u like to take my post and try it urself? Nick81
Do I get a badge and a gun with the post? sniper420
Badge!!!! hehehe well it's voluntary and u dont even get a kudos .....abt gun, u get put cant shoot cos other mods have guns too...so it bcomes like wild wild west....u know what i am referring to......damn i am going off-topic...now stick to topic if u have questions nick u can pm moi or post in suggestions section. Corcovado
what? what private msg? ? :roll: :roll: sniper420
well u see a girl and a boy icon below the post saying "PM" use it sometimes! Corcovado
ooh i didnt know i thought its for decoration :shock: thanks for telling me sniper :roll: plus why would i want o use it if i dont want to say anyting private to anyone dear?? Do the Math :twisted:



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