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I hate myself


Misery Called Life
You've been feeling this way for a week? Thats not depression your probably just sulking. Now quit moping about like an overgrown teenager, :lol: and do some dune bashing!
Chocoholic I wouldn't say serious depression, that would be upto a medical professional to determine that. But you have to look at the reasons why you're down, do the things that make you happy. xero_ hello, it seems you have a serious case of depression. its not a laughing matter. i suggest you visit a psychiatrist. you could try Dr. Dhar from Prime Medical Centre at Jumeira Beach 1, its a small mall and you could find the medical centre at the first floor. he has treated my alcoholism, and till date i still have problems with alcohol so i still visited him last sunday. depression has been gone though, he gave me prozac for it. DO SEE A DOCTOR NOW. Chocoholic Actually Ruskie, I would disagree totally with your recommendation. Sometimes taking time out from the world and having time and space to yourself is exactly what you need to resolve the issues troubling you. Going out and being with others are temporary solutions, temporary highs, but the underlying issues still exist, and these are what have to be addressed. Everyone needs to take time by themselves every now and then. Ruskie My magical cure to to depression is the sun. But also, being with friends is porbaly number one. I can only imagine how lonely it gets there if you don't have a wife or really good friends. But the worst thing to do is stay home by yourself cause it only leads for more isolation and more of you talking to yourself. Just go out and meet people, if anything visit back home see a few of your old friends. desertdudeshj
Oh Crap you serious KK !
Well I guess shit can get to the best of us man. Maybe you need time off , go visit your family back home. Get away from this Slave to the grind routine here. As far as I know you don't have family here other that a few naughty friends !
I know it can get tedious man. Work home work home work home. I've felt crappy many times here aswell. If you can't get time off work. Go hang out with your good friends and buddies. Sitting at home and staring at the wall will juat make it worse.
You shoudn't have stopped going out to the desert man. I wouldn't call it a hobby. Its a great stress buster.
Best advise I can give you is get closer to the man upstairs. Start attending congregational prayers or start praying to start off with If you don't. Get to know your religon better and in detail.
If there was someone who deserves to be depressed its me :) but I'm not . I have no means of steady income for over a year now. Wife lost her job a few months back. We are really down to dimes and quarters to be honest. But I'm not depressed or overly worried. If you met me you would'nt know I was hanging on from the skin of my teeth. But I have good friends a like minded life partner and god. I live in the now not the past or the future and am still having a blast. ( Maybe these are the things you are missing )
So get it with KK. Count your blessings be thankfull your a good lookin fella ...well reasonably ..sorta ...( just kidding :) ) you have your health and your alive and kicking with your whole life in front of you.
You should really head out to the desert this weekend man. I know you were recently promoted to marshall so go put up a trip. If your bored with the regular spots go do some exploring in new areas Or if you want a change of company your most welcomed to join me this friday. OR maybe just head out on your own pick a nice quite spot and just stare at the beauty of the rolling dunes. I know I can never get enough and always puts me in a peacefull and tranquill mood.
Take care buddy call me if you need to talk, you have my number. Don't call me in the morning I'll be Zzzzzzz 8) off-road Really , I started to feel lost , I hate my self , my life , my job , even my bloody hobby . I don't know what to do or what I want anymore . Bora Bora What's going on that has made you feel this way? Chocoholic You should never feel like this. Everyone goes through bad times, but everything is a challenge and the tough times just make you stronger. Misery Called Life Yea my friend, your Misery is called Life!

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Misery Called Life But on a more serious note, dude we all feel helpless at times! Don't worry just keep a positive attitude and you will came out of ur depression alrit! Speak out on this forum, tell us what ails you......... I don't know if I could offer you any advice, but I can most certainly lend you a ear! kanelli It sounds like you could be a bit depressed. You definitely need to talk to some friends about how you are feeling, and don't be shy to talk to your doc about it. Depression can become a very serious matter... RobbyG
Well you might be a bit off the road now! But one way or the other, the future should bring some promising things for you then, since they can't get any worse in your mind today.
What I suggest is; just tell us a bit more about yourself and your situation, your hobbies, your pro's and con's and some serious guys here on the forum will try to help you a bit if possible.
I would say, fire it off. You're not alone my friend. :wink: WhiteJade It can only get better if it's already the worst. howdy this post is exactly what i was about to write. its the same case with me here. i also have the worst stage in my life, very bad work, full of tension, the worst managers on earth, i can't find my soul mate, no proper friends,not enough money, .....etc. headache and insomnia are my close friends. :? RobbyG If you guys/girls don't tell us what's wrong, none of us is able to give some form of support. Just let it out. It helps and you even have a few listening ears ready to take on the troubles in your minds. I surely would take that opportunity since there aren't many people around that are open to one another's troubles in life. Empty those buckets!! desertdudeshj
Shut up KK what is fookin' wrong with you ! What did you break this time jumping your pajero. Or trying to keep your wrangler road worthy is taking its toll on you !
I know what will cheer you up a good drive in the dunes :D
Guys I know this fool personally. He routinely does this when getting extremely bored at the office so ignorez him plz 8)
P.S : be prepared for more weird antics from him
UNLESS......KK was being serious this time. :roll: RobbyG Aha, I thought we had a serious issue here with a potential breakdown on the road! Boy this guy surely got me. Having said that, every time I don't respond to serious requests for help in the future is caused by this moron who spoils it for the people that really feel alone and need some form of help/support. I will not show him my middle finger yet... Ruskie Mid-Life Crisis?
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for a start stop visiting dubai forums , that should help. off-road DD , I've never complained in public before .............. this time it's real , well, I didn't break anythin .... I stopped dune bashing a week ago as I don't feel like I wanna do it again , I don't know why which could be an indicator of something ......... Something is wrong ...... I am not kidding , It's been like a week , all what I am doing is going to work , coming back home and staying there , I lost the desire for life , sometimes I stay home or go to sleep and simply I start crying , I don't know why . I simply don't know . off-road Any way , It seems like some of you might consider it a joke , It's not . Sorry Ladies and Gents for wasting your time . RobbyG Its the DesertDude that made me crumble. He pointed out you could be a fake. And he's not really the average bullcrap-Joe, I sense... So I'm backing off here. Got enough exposure already :lol: Any professional psychologists in the house? 8) Keep it up Off-Road. Cheers zahraufr28
that is a depression , you have to take a rest I had it and it took me long time to ride off ; try to talk to a friend that you trust Chocoholic Everyone goes through ups and downs. But it's how you handle it that makes the difference. Chocoholic If you really feel that bad, then it might help to go and talk to someone, I know it helps me. desert surfer to be frank yes it may be depression, I may ask ou to head to psy for TEMPORARY relief.... but if you want PERMANENT relief, you gotta be honest with yourself most prob YOUR LIFE. Are your relationships with ppl healthy? Do you have deep connection with friends? Is there something from past life you wanted to achieve that has been bugging you? Do you like your job or you are doing for sake of doing? Can you name atleast 5 friends who will help you in times of your need? What are your passions? What are you doing to keep them alive? These are some of the long term questions you have to face and change the mindset you are leading... to begin with read some self-help books. I highly recommend "power of Now" by Echart Tolle. Dune bashing, taking pills , drinking etc can temporarily divert your mind from real problems but if you want to make your life enjoyful solve your problems and try to take away noise in your head and be present, be in your body and be in the moment....then you will be free. rudeboy heheh sorry cant help the rudeness in me but this was funny :P bruv i think u need friends and u can go dune bashing together. or u need to find a new hobby. ever dried radio control helis :D Chocoholic Well you would find it funny, because you're an unfeeling, heartless git! Depression is nothing to joke about! Depression and manic depression are serious issues that have to be dealt with properly. andz_zmzn KEEP ME POSTED---U CAN COUNT ON ME---AS A rudeboy
by writing about it on the forum???? lol the guys probably having a laf rite now watching how many ppl have taken him serious heheh :D
next post will be. I am going to die. chocoholics will say honey dooon t u will only hurt urself :D off-road
well dude , I really don't know what to say .
It seems like you really deserve the neck , I really apprecaite the feed back from different people , different minds , different ways of thinking .... It's not a shame to scream when you feel that you're totally fed up , It seems like you've never suffered in ur life or it might be the other way around , you could be using the irony and sarcasm as a method of defence .
truely , I don't know what to say ...... I wish you shall never ever be in my shoes . rudeboy
bro if u r in a mess i suggest u go see a phsycastric cos posting on THIS forum will not help ya. ppl here are nice but it doesnt mean they are right all the time. go get yourself professional help. if u ask me u need a holiday. instead of dune bashing go snow bashing or something :D Chocoholic Exscuse me! RB, you are totally out of line! No more of your crappy comments in this thread! Or I will edit you! FYI, forums and help groups can be very useful for people who are experiencing these things for the first time and don't know how to deal with it. Reaching out and asking for help, is the first step in getting help! I suffer from manic and clinical depression myself so am VERY qualified to offer advice and help! Now piss off and let those of us who have something to offer do so! rudeboy
sorry RobbyG
Good post Choc's. rudeboy
am still trying to figure out why this post is in the Dubai Romance :S i guess if u are going nuts or depressed its a romantic thing. RobbyG
You're obviously not the smartest of souls out there, but if you think about a depression. People have the tendency to feel alone, lost people in their lives, don't have any compassionate friends or family that supports them and they seek it elsewhere.
Where on a forum you find a better place for a bit more affection and compassion then on the Romantic forum !!! The best place around in the public eye.
If it was placed in General, you still would have closed your blinders, since 'generally' nobody cares.
Any bells ringin' now perhaps!? 8) rudeboy
yeh but why not in the general room. the guy asked for help. it should be in the expat help area not in the romantic forum where he can get jiggy with it :D RobbyG I just told you, you immature piece of jiggling jelly pie... 8) rudeboy
yes i got u u mature dropplings of rudeboy pudding pie :D RobbyG
Good, now I expect you to not ask again why he posted this in the Romantic forum. Because you just acknowledge your understanding of it, following my explanation of his reasoning.
Will RB ever stand up and straighten that spinal chord of him?...Nahhh Bora Bora It took alot for the OP to put his feelings out there. This is a call for help and in this case, if you can't say something of value then one must keep quite. As he said, he hopes you are never in his shoes. But the fact of the matter is, one day you will be in his shoes because you just never know when life is going to kick you in the a$$. And when it does, hopefully you will have someone to turn to. gtmash the dude needs to go hang with his buddies more. A bit of bromance is all that is needed. rudeboy
well thats wot i said and i got licks :S :(
honestly speaking the guy just needs a hug :D a hug can do wonders :D Misery Called Life Hey Rudeboy I totally agree with you.....A hug can work wonders! We had this dramatic group in Canada, and every once in a while, we would go out on the streets with placards( A hug For Free) and go around hugging people....And you shoul've seen the joy we spread! Misery Called Life I also have roots in Goa(India) and I did sometin similar there......It was certainly a wonderful feeling! Offcourse some idiots though we were hippies, some more idiots though it was a $exual thing........But by and large it was nice! desertdudeshj Bromance...LOL...WTF ! Now a good thing sounds totally gay. Bora Bora MCL, are you a former Hari Krishna? Misery Called Life
What is that? kanelli I think with these kinds of threads people should give the benefit of the doubt and be kind. There have been so many cases of people reaching out online when troubled and they didn't get the support they needed and it ended badly. If this is a wind up and the original poster is having a good laugh, who cares? I'm not ashamed of being kind to someone, are you? rudeboy
its an indian version of spice girls. theres hari spice, hari sporty, hari ginga, hari baby, hari posh. :D
and they came up with a song called hari raam which has been a hit in all the temples across india. Chocoholic Okay I'm locking this thread beccause people are just being idiots and I'm tired of it.



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