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I am Fed up ...


Intimacy Hello there.. Since 2 years .. i am looking for a girl... a nice decent one.. i am looking at the places which i assume are the right places.... i am trying to avoid all the "fishy" places and make it a respectful manner coz am serious about what i am looking for. Why all the good girls r very much hidden here in Dubai... or its only my eyes?!! :) or is it because i am looking for a life time partner ?!! its really confusing me :? i know its a sad-desperate question .. but...would anyone plz tell me where? Thanks
sniper420 my advise is take 3 pills of viagra and grind the first gal u see. Courtesy of Liban and his desperate gay group........ :lol: Andyba Just stop looking and live your life. Go to a salsa class.. yoga, climbing.. go for a vacation somewhere.. You will find her.. or she will find you. :) HP
[color=red]First be honest with yourself and think" do i deserve a decent girl?" Guys usually get serious after depriving dozen of gals from virginity. How do you define fishy places?
Finding a wife is different in East. In West usually girls and guys do ". Unlimited trial before wearing engagement ring". Even some people produce couple of kids before deciding about marriage .
You sound like typical Muslim hehehe :P Just use your network and try to find a girl ;0) !! [/color]

Thats problem everywhere . Man lot of tears are flowing across my eyes ,you are throwing salt on my injuries (crying wink) .

[color=red]Ask major pain !! to provide u pain killer or sad killer tablets .You should use them 3 times in a days with warm milk . Try to avoid eating Fish or other stuff , which adds fuel to fire at nite hehehe.
Just relax,God ll do better . Have you ever seen anyone , who was died before marriage? No ,look so many ugly people got married even Liban :P then why not u ?[/color] catarinasabina [color=blue][/color]
hi there...
im just looking for nice people
im latinamerican, friendly, and good person
tell me more about u if u want...
HP
[color=red]Mostly Troops come from USA in middle east but now girls[/color] .Congratulation Man ,at-last someone appeared here for u :P.Add her to MSN ,call her and show her around. elicec Hmmm.. well... :oops: Intimacy Thanks mate for the kind response and sorry for the late delay.. it was crazy at work.

[color=green]to answer your question, yes i do deserve that :) not because i am a super perfect man, but because i know i do :)[/color]

[color=green]Never mate, its not my style at all :), although i know many girls around me.. but i hate to start jumping and doing the typical male behavoir.. i am trying to control my self to and to be a true man :)[/color]

[color=green]thanks dude for the clarification, thats right and i do understand that, i have friends from Europe and US and some other place and .. ;) [/color]

[color=green]Yes bro i am a muslim :), but even in a place like UAE the concept about a true person has been changed by money, time, and many other factors. it tends to be more materialistic and superficial .. i am sorry guys .. no offence please :).[/color]

[color=green]hehe . its funny and painful at the same time.[/color]

[color=green]LOOOL, Man... i have been there for quite long time ;) stuff like panadoll is no longer working for me.... :P[/color]

[color=green]Thanks mate... its a precious reminder :)[/color]

heheheh ... Poor liban.
Thanks man for you time :)
Cheers easternjewel
[color=blue]hey, you sound like one of my friend! My belief is, 'do no haunt for a girl'
just like andyba mentioned. When the time is right, you will find the right person.[/color] tinkerbella Well i was in Dubai around August time this year and i wasnt looking for a holiday romance thing but this just happened...someone at the hotel that i was staying at i liked basically the first day i saw him i knew there was something about him...what im trying to say is they could be anywhere around the world and dont search to hard let things just flow and once you see the girl of your dreams then you will know shes the one for you!!! :D

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Intimacy
maybe you are right.. i am still waiting .. but am afraid that i will run out of fuel and then crash.. hehehe. lets see ;) Intimacy
what a lucky person you are :) tinkerbella I dont feel lucky as Im in UK - London and his in Dubai :cry: It kinda hurts that we cant see each other in person...who knows what the future holds??? sniper420
MMMMm I practiced some astrology and have some talent. I know what future is going to hold for you........ u are going to meet a guy like HP.. that will b the beginning and end of the story. Love story for 1sec.......
:lol: Francheska I have read a statistic which claims that only 27% of the population of Dubai is female and the rest not. So it is sort of understandable.
The other gender similar dilemma is more difficult. kanelli HP, as usual you are an ass. Not all Westerners are promiscuous, just like not all Muslims are suicide bombers. There is also a difference between people who marry of their own choice in a love match, not who select a stranger or whose family selects someone for them to marry. Also, some people don't have money for a wedding and they are the ones who pay for the wedding themselves, not their parents. If some people don't believe in marriage then that is their choice - also if they want to have kids without marrying. There are all kinds of people on this planet with differet pair bonding behaviour. What makes you so special to judge them HP? Intimacy, it depends on what kind of match you want. If you want a traditional Muslim woman, you might have to find a woman through a family network or introductions agency, or a social group with likeminded people of similar background. If you want to find a love match with woman, no matter what her religion or background, then go join some dance classes, sports clubs, theatre club or whatever kind of club you are interested in. Also, being on this forum could be useful, as well as going to other live social gatherings. Basically, if you get invited to a dinner party or desert safari you should go, because that could be a great place to meet a nice woman from a new social circle. kanelli
Aren't you the same person posting about group s.e.x. and s.e.x in the desert in yesterday's threads? Intimacy is a nice guy who is not interested in any women you have to offer him. His thread clearly states that he is looking for a girlfriend, not casual s.e.x. Don't pedal your wares in this thread any longer. chariza nice point! :D iNtiMacy, you are a nice and decent man...hmmm...i think :D you will find a right girl for you...just wait for the right time. Im just like you,(the other way around) i am looking for a decent and a very nice man who can accept me for who i am. but i dont look and haunt for it.. it will come sooner. ==================================================== "if you give your heart to a person, there should be no doubts or hesitations." Your heart is your treasure. Make sure it's given to whom it belongs :D yshimy Intimacy,
First, Welcome to the Club.
Although i'm 25, but my dream was to marry at 21 :D yeah crazy, but imagin you be 45 with a kid in the age of 20. ;)
Anyway, too late now, lets talk real life....
Well, when i was offered the job in dubai, i was well... it is great to start a life there and have someone to support and push me forward, a reason to grow and a reason to be a better person and enjoy my life with, but...
From people who have been here long time, Dubai is not the place to do that, or they think so, I was told Dubai is good for singles, and those who would like to stay single or best thing, have ONLY a GF.
For me, Dubai would be a great place to start a life with a wife.

EJ,
Well, been trying this for 4 years now... with no luck, but to be honest, it gave me a career boost as i was very focused on my career.
but... regreting it now, i would rather focus in finding my princess than career.
Problem that it is hard for decent guys to meet the right decent gurl they are looking for..... Or so i belive . (don't hail me, i'm not saying i'm "decent guy" but may be Intimacy is)
My experience is, girls see decent guys as "Good best friends" which i hate it because then it is very tricky trying to move from the "best friend" to the "boyfriend/lover" space. You will have to sacrifice the whole friendship telling her your feelings.
Anyway, [color=red] I'm Fed up [/color] Too
I wonder how our sarcastic DF friends didn't kill you till now, but don't worry you are not alone, i'll be tortured with you.
Check cadmus post
kanelli Don't worry yshimy, you will find someone. You just have to put yourself out there. Try to balance work and social life so that you do make time to be out in social circles where you have the possibility to meet someone. Believe me, there are women out there who like kind and sweet guys - and not just for friends. (Was Cadmus's thread about that - I know there was a thread on here about Bad Boys.) In any case, starting as friends first is a much better way to enter a possible marriage - the relationship may have a chance to last longer because it isn't just based on lust that might burn out rather quickly. Even if you do get married one day, it isn't necessarily easy. Marriage takes a lot of work, and it has its ups and downs. Liban Dude you are 25. You are still young. In any event, I know some women who you can meet. Dubai Knight Even if you do get married one day, it isn't necessarily easy. Marriage takes a lot of work, and it has its ups and downs.
Now THERE's an understatement!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
They say that marriage is an institution...but then again, so is an insane asylum! Here speaks someone who voluntarily walked through the door of the loony bin...twice!
Barking mad!
:wink:
Knight arniegang woof woof i say :lol: Dubai Knight
I nearly missed this post, the foam from my mouth had obscured the screen. Must go. Postmen to bite and a fascinating lampost awaits on the corner of the street!
Grrr...
:lol: :lol:
Knight arniegang giss a bone DK before ya go :lol: :lol: Intimacy Yshimy ... Mate... I dont know what to say.. but i think what you are talking about is something familier to me now.. i really wish you all the best of luck. I will try to catch up with you soon. :) Intimacy
Liban... i think you should be silent now... you are married dude.
I even didnt hear from you since you came back.
Leave the poor yshimy alone.. 25 is not old.. its the peak time for the man :D
You got married and you forgot about your pals..... wahahah
Dont worry mate.. i really understand :D
Wallak E7ki talaephone ya mo7taram .. Dubai Knight
If only I could remember where I buried it...?
:lol: :lol:
Knight Intimacy Kaneli, the New Avatar is cool :D

Are you talking about Dubai?!! LOL Where?! Liban
Dude thats what I am saying... 25 is not old at all... Its young...
Shoo habibi, we've spoken a couple of times :wink:
Also, since when are you my pal????? :lol: just kidding :D
Ba3atillak SMS al yom!!! Abl al duhr. Shoof mobilak. yshimy Guys, thanks for sharing, yeah i know 25 is still young, but if i'm stuck in dubai till 30, then... i should be really doing a good job to find my princess. Kanelli, Yeah, i know that there are gurls out there who like kind and honest guys...... BUT AM i one of them ;) Anyway, Intimacy, i thought we are talking the same language, i wonder how it is different !!! Anyway, Liban, keif 7ala al zawag man, plz make the world a favour and don't get us a Liban jr. now :D j/k dude, cheers rabena ye3tik al zoreya al sal7a, and a gurl as cute as the one in your photo, i'll make yshimy jr. go after her :D heheheheh Cheers mates Liban
Allah ya3tik al 3afya 7aboub :)
The thing is if I get a little girl like the one in the picture then she will either have a Liban jr. to defend her or her father's Kalishnikov... :lol: kanelli Tassa on englannin kieli nettisivu... please remember that. :) Liban
Yes thats nice.... Young grasshopper, how do you expect people to remmeber something they do not understand? Intimacy
LOOL .. i think you are right.. we are typing arabic words in english characters :D arniegang :? :? Liban
You understood that Intimacy? Intimacy
Nah man... no idea what was that.
But i think that Kaneli was trying to put it politely that we should make it in english :) Intimacy
LOL, i think that its my head.. its spining.. its a bad headache which is going on since couple of days.
But surely i am on the same page.
:) yshimy
Great man, i was doubting my understanding your post.
Liban,
Kanelli bet7awel te2olena manektebesh bel3arabi, fa katabet 2i kalam.
heheheheh, mota2aked enaha delwa2ti metday2a 2wi :D 2ana motawake3 enaha hateshtemni masalan :)
Translation:
Kenalli wrote "please stick to english"
cheers mates Liban :lol: kanelli I said that "This is an English website... please remember that." gamechee
let me add to it that of that 27%, 80% belong to the profession of ill-repute ... poor guys are left with a mere 20% :lol: Dubai Knight
"98% of statistics are made up on the spot" Vic Reeves
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight Corcovado
well obviously dear there is a problem in romance here in dubai ...its really hard to meet descent people . because its a take away city ...short cut to everything even relationships...and believe me once u stop looking around love will come ,till then enjoy La dolce vita Douce`Amere You may go to parties, clubs & agencies to meet the one... & there you can find a parnter. But love... it is not to search or pursuit... It`s a sort of Divine Accident. I`m also single. Never liked an idea of a relationship for mutual use, consumption, where I become "a suitable partner" & demand a certain level of decency, wealth & s e x-appeal in responce. I`m pathologically idealistic... Flowing from deep sadness to the feeling "fed up!"... I`m unhappy. irish vanessa Are you a virgo Douce'Amere????? Us virgos are too idealistic...we (i!) crave perfection... :angel11: Feck that though... Love will come when we lower our standards and give everyone a chance!! :lol: Sorry to break it to u, but its true... You'll probably find it in the most unlikely person, Good luck 8) Douce`Amere
Nope, I`m Aries. So an aspiration to perfection is not only Virgo`s “disease”. :wink:

Oh how often I hear something like “Love will come when we lower our standards and give everyone a chance!” but really it sounds absurd to me. How to do that? And for the sake of?.. I always give a chance for a person to be dignity, to enter my heart with understanding & consern. And this is enough reason to me to let the one into my life. I can accept certain imperfections. irish vanessa I think you need to take it less seriously Douce... :glasses7: You come across as very intense... "Que sera sera, whatever will be will be...the futures not ours to see..." :icescream: :iroc: :kermit: :tshirt: :thebirdman: :tongue2: :pottytrain2: :happy1: :rr: arniegang im sagittarius Vee zip zip grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ohhh i having a bad day , no i'm not its been rather good one, zip zip wizzzzzy weeeeeeeeeee :lol: :lol: :lol: irish vanessa Bad or good arnie???? What can i do to make you happy???? Dance :blob: Sing :occasion9: Eh.....cry??? :cry: Hope u ok pops x arniegang yer i cool babes its lush here today sun been out and not a cloud in the sky. :D irish vanessa Unusually 'lush' (as you would say) here today.... Chilly, but gorgeous sun all day... It only hit me the other night while i was having a few drinks with my best mate that im ACTUALLY emigrating to Dubai in 3&1/2 months if not before... Cwazy stuff! Im gonna miss people sooooo much....but gotta do it... Twill be an experience...i may be lonely, but sure if it doesnt kill you, it makes you stronger :) Douce`Amere
Lool I also console myself with this. Dubai Knight
Don't think you'll be lonely out here for long sweetie! You have all us loverly DF'ers (er...does that say 'Duffers'?) to look after you!
And if it doesn't kill you, it's probably not doing you any good either!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight Dubai Knight PS...I'm a Leo! Grrrrr! :wink: irish vanessa Yeah cant wait to meet you all... Can you really shoot lazer-beams from your hands..????? :notworthy: Wow.... :lol: Dubai really is a magical city.... :faroah: What powers will be graced on me when i land in the dessert??? Dubai Knight
If you are good, we will grace you with:
The power to remove your stilletto from the gap in the escalator at the airport without losing the heel or even the little plastic bit off the end...
The power to hail a cab without showing the sweat mark under your armpit...
The power to barter in Karama without feeling guilty particularly as you walk away thinking you have got the best bargain in town and turn around to see all the shop guys p*ssing themselves with laughter...
All these and other mysteries will be revealed to you when the big silver bird leaves skid marks on the tarmac...
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight irish vanessa Ha ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Thats brilliant knight!!!!!!!!!!!! I particularly like the hailing the cab one!!!!! Ill need that, no doubt, after moving from the arctic.... Brilliant! Dubai Knight
What are you doing in the attic? Oh, sorry, the Arctic! I apologise, I am hard of reading these days, I must go and get one of those 'Reading Aids'!
Nice new avatar...you look like you are standing in a high place about to ju....DON'T DO IT!!! STEP BACK FROM THE EDGE!!!!
:shock:
Knight irish vanessa Its the grand canyon! Waitor - writer Attic - arctic You need glasses man 8) Dubai Knight You need glasses man 8)
Thanks darlin' I'll have a pint of Guinness in mine!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight kanelli
Me too :) Intimacy LOL.. the comments went too far away from where it started :D kanelli Doesn't that always happen around here Intimacy? Par for the course. :lol: Intimacy
LOL.. thats Damn True :lol: arniegang
Does this mean you are taller than the grand canyon Vee or you got hugeeee stillettos on ??
:lol: :lol: :lol: irish vanessa Im taller than the grand canyon... they were shocked & awed when they measured me against it... Im truely a genetical miracle :lol: :naka: arniegang 36d ?? :P :P irish vanessa Ok....so you're definitely more of a Strumpet than a Capitalista!!! :lol: :lol: Without a doubt!!! arniegang :wink: :wink: :wink: Dubai Knight Strumpet? Ha Ha Ha!!!! That told ya! Good on you Vee! :lol: :lol: :lol: Knight Nucleus Intimacy, why don't you ask an elder in your family? easternjewel
urgh Yshimy ur looking too?? PM me my friend & mayb we can talk something over :lol: :lol: :lol:
lol sorry, just teasing you.. m in a flirty mood!! kanelli I think you guys should consider a dating service if you are really busy with work. It sounds cheesy, but it just might work. At least you can say up-front what you are looking for in a princess, so it might save time. Intimacy
Kaneli Seems to be pissed off :lol: :lol:
they have changed the whole topic and made it into many directions.. i think i need to have some previliges in order to control my post. :D kanelli
No, I'm not pissed off. My post sounds angry? Seriously, dating services work for many busy people. kanelli Ah, I think I see what the problem might be. Dating service does not mean sex service! When I say dating service I mean the kind where you make a profile that has your picture and a questionnaire where you explain the personality, background, etc. that you want in a mate. Then women read your profile and you read other women's profiles and then you go on dates to see if you like each other. Intimacy
We can start that by using the milk boxes for this services LOOOL
Just kidding :lol: yshimy Kanelli,...
A dating service is NO NO NO for me, and Intimacy.... don't think you need it. really. Man you never know when lightening will strike right on you.
What i can say is... just give yourself a chance with the gurls you know, if you liked one of them, keep you "Decent self" don't try to hide it but in the same time don't over do it, and try to express to the lady that you like her without saying it. i really works...
MAN,......... DON't GIVE UP.... Your princess is out there waiting for you.
For me..... I'm NOT FED UP ANYMORE , I got my princess now :D
EJ,
I would have been stalking you :D so don't throw invitations around, if you were in a flirt mood, we guys... are always in a flirt mood. hheheheheh
Intimacy, man, really you never know when or where, it will just happen, but keep your eyes open and don't give it up, don't look for it, but keep ur eyes open Intimacy Whahahaha.. First of all .. congrates mate.. wallah happy for you :D thanks mate..Dont worry about me ;) yshimy heheheheh,,, Thanx man, No i'm not worried about you, you will do just find i'm worried about the poor lady who is gonna be your princess :D hehehe JK Good luck man kanelli
:lol: Then you'd have to go missing first before we'd get permission for that :)
yshimy, congrats! I hope she is sweet and treats you right. Be good! Intimacy
Breakning news.. Kaneli to become to the Godmother soon :lol: yshimy :D Tanks Kanelli, will try to be good, but not promise. :twisted: J/k if i tried not to be good, :violent1: i know she will straighten my manners back. hehehe BTW, the milk boxes joke, Intimacy just explained it to me. :D kanelli Respect your elders gentlemen :lol: (I've got about 5 years seniority on you.) :wink: arniegang
You seem to be well clued up on internet dating Auntie K
:lol: :lol: Intimacy
5 years only!! give me a break kaneli.. you have a walking stick in your avatar :D with rinkels in ur skin ...
/me drops on the floor laughing HP I am planning to get married next year but i couldnt find any sweet honey bunny for me :oops: If anyone of you , who can introduce me with any girl :oops: I have so many female Pakistani friends and they are bitches because whenever i ask them to introduce me wid someone. They always bring up the names of their ugly sisters :cry: I am not kidding here and its became nightmare for me. When i was kid , i used to dream for princesses but now i kept my expectations quite low. :oops: sad HP :cry: yshimy heheheeheheheh

And also a GREEN skin...

yeah, sure, with the description above and got a man trapped in her web for this long.... She should be really VERY clued up ;)
LMAO "Antie K" kanelli arniegang, I wasn't talking about internet dating. :lol: <- see, this is what you gentlemen will look like in 5 years, especially if you've been married that whole time! :lol: HP, I have no clue why you can't keep a girl... only you know why. fayz Okay I've tried several times to read this thread but work keeps getting in the way, Dude, first off sorry i haven't been in contact, we'll hook up again soon, i should only have to work 12 hours tomorrow because it is a stat :shock: Anyway bro, don't have time to write so just watch this: replace the word Asian with Jordanian, White with other guy, you are the star of the play, and I’m the Indian guy at the end. Replace, Dance Dance Revolution, with an Arab game like trix and all will make sense. &q=yellow+fever&pl=true Read After Watching…. Ask yourself out of the 3 women that said "Hey look at me" in this thread, how many of them did you talk to?? arniegang
as they say in the panto
ooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yessssssssss you wereeeeeeeeeeee
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: kanelli No, I wasn't :) arniegang ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yesssssssssssssssss you wereeeeeeeeeeeeee :lol: :lol: :lol: Dubai Knight
Don't know that everyone understands the panto humour!
Behind you!!! :shock:
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight constantine intimacy how are ya mate...was nice meeting up with you and fayz at fujeirah...have you tried "table for six"...heard its quite a nice way to meet new people...its a 3/4 course dinner with 6 strangers with similar backgrounds...never tried it...but might be worth a shot to meet people outside your daily circle...which for me happened to be mostly work people... arniegang
Behind you :lol: :lol:
i agree not many will get panto, assume they dont exist in dxb
love em though arniegang
here ya go
/ irish vanessa id love a table for six with a few of you guys :wink: :wink: :wink: constantine
haha..i am sure arniegang and DK would definately be up for that...now from what i understand all except DK are outside of dubai...when are you guys (irish and arnie) gracing dubai :lol:
then we can definately meet up! irish vanessa Ill be importing my life 15th august if not before! (Depends on if i get a second job offer) I couldnt think of anything better than sharing a dinner table with you 3 boys! :lol: :lol: :lol: arniegang i'm over the end of the month to get my car serviced and to top up my tan :D :D :D irish vanessa Ahhhh...the feel of the sunshine bronzing your body...there are few feelings better than that :glasses2: :glasses7: :headbang: Dubai Knight
The cool and soothing feeling of squirting Boots apres sun all over your raw, scorched, swollen, skin after a couple of minutes in the sun here in August! Vee, luvvy, its like a feckin grill out here then!
Look...even the bloody smiley has gone pink! :oops:
8) 8) 8)
Knight arniegang you lightweight DK i spent weeks last July and August sizzling by the pool yummy scrummy :D :D :D Dubai Knight
...and September and October in casualty?
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight arniegang na bud, i can sit in 45/50c all day no probs 8) 8) 8) Dubai Knight
Do you have one of those dead s.e.x.y all in one blue boiler suits, a hard hat, caterpillar boots, no socks, and a striking aroma that follows you around like an obedient dog then? Only ever seen gentleman dressed like that hanging around in the sun all day!
In the words of the immortal Noel Coward: "Mad dogs and Englishmen..."
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight sniper420 oh. This thread has 6 pages of unrelated crap. Locked cos of digressing. Locked in the name of Poseidon, the sea God!



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