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Hmm I think I got it but I still dont!!


Unknown Devil Unfortunately in Dubai theres no place for uniqueness. Face it!! It's a superficial place with ppl somehow looking down on you as if he or she is better than u. Believe me it's true when your working or clubbing or whatever. I am a guy who kinda goes crazy and come out with stupid comments like say if a I wanted to see a new born baby who is basically my friends son. and he really wants me to see him but cant as he is in the hospital I would say no prb dude!! Just put him in the pc and email him to me. I know thats a stupid comment that I just made but I believe that every guy or girl would like to do something stupid at times. But reality check ppl in todays world specially in Dubai u do something like that ur considerd an outcast or plain stupid. I am 23 and damn proud of it. Another example the college I went to. Unfortuantely the college was filled with Indian people. I am not a racist against Indian ppl but the thing is when they listen to that ever crap Bhangra music. I rather get shot in the head than listen to that crap and the worse part was it was filled with Sindhis (a cast in India). They always had calculate everything like once a girl lost 50 bucks which is her dads money end of the day. She started crying in the middle of a show. wtf was that all about!! u gotta think!! Now these Sindhis liked a lot of Bhangra music which I seriously despised and very few liked rock music. hehe so what I did was with those few ppl we decided to play PUDDLE OF MUD - SHE HATES ME and CORNERSHOP - BRIMFUL OF AHSA. Now u gotta understand it was like 80 to 90 percent Sindhis, and the rest were arabs, sub continent ppl and all. What I did was really new and u really needed guts to do that crap. I wore a torn black tshirt from of jon bon jovi, with torn jeans from the knee plus with shoes who knows when I last washed em, with all my chains and skull and stuff. Hehe, I painted my face Half black and Half white like in the pics. On the black side wrote OM (Peace in Hindi) and on the white side wrote 666 (sign of the devil). with a pure blood red colour bass and with a bandanna of Nirvana with a KFC BUCKET ON MY HEAD!! I played that day to my hearts content. I wanted ppl to appreciate me and all. Plus even thought chicks would dig me for my gutsy ness and maybe who knows get some digits. But that day I think the only ppl who appreciated me was the representatives who came down from U.S.A as in our college ppl like the dean, vice principal etc. They told me I got them few memories of their child hood back to them. But other than that I got nothing. Maybe thats cuz I never had a gf for my crazy antics like these in a place like Dubai!! and most probably I love music more than anything. Believe me when I say this I am damn bloody shy around any girl!! I mean yeah sure talk to them on the net but get them infront of me then it gets my tongue all twisted. hehe. The thing was after my recent trip from a cool musical place like Bangkok. My friend hooked me up with a date!! Not exactly a blind date but somewhat like it. I mean hardly I knew the girl just a Hi, hello basis and next thing my friend was like why dont u guys go out together. Obviously this girl aint realy hot like drop dead or real ugly like ugly duckings sis or something!! The only thing I knew about this girl is she digged rock music like me! So I did go out with her and stuff!! She never ordered much which mostly I did. ME was having the usual, Jd with coke. I drank, kept on listening to her and I tried to converse with her but never could as I didnt know what to talk about. But I did listen to her and not only that some guys would put their arms around a girl or even dance with her. I didnt even do that cuz I dont know what she would think and dance!! Puh leeze!! if I started to dance then they will be like okay ppl go home!! I didnt even do something crazy even though I went a bit tipsy cuz my freind was like dont do anything crazy and mind it!! it was hard to control. Though I had to leave early cuz another friend of mine was coming down so I left and all and trust me not even a kiss when I left her. I mean usually u kiss and all sorta like a good bye kiss, to make it special, but not even that!! I know what you guys have been thinking, that maybe am a sissyboy and stuff, and believe me when I went home I thought the same thing. Next day my friend, who hooked me up he called and said. Dude wtf u did? I was like why? I know I screwed up!! He was like No dude!! she spoke to me and said she had an amazing time last night and said she wouldnt mind again. He told me I did great when I told him the whole thing what happened!! I was thinking I did score after 23 yrs. I mean I aint a playboy or casanova but atleast I did something. Maybe she liked me for as I was listening to her or maybe cuz I didnot act all woozy and cracked, or maybe I respected her. Dont know actually!! But I really want a girl and like me for who I am even if I act crazy!! I think that'll be hard to find speacially in dubai. I mean if I want them cyclone girls thats not what am talking about. I mean someone who can be trusted or atleast there cuz in Dubai. I dont seem to find any.
bushra21 and the moral is... gtmash So...what's the punchline? Tropic23 I don`t get the point :scratch: Bleakus you need to get a gf bad dude Galactico what is your point :?: bushra21 his point is that he thinks hes a loser and that no one will like him here because everyone else is superficial and could never like a loser like himself..... thats what i understood... it was boring as hell though to read... Tropic23
:lol: :lol: :lol: Tropic23
He is already desperate....
:clock: Time is running.... iceman Get over it... :roll:

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Unknown Devil
A metal head knows another metal head!! hehehehehehehe Tropic23
Bleakus has also problems?? :shock:
Ok, come to my therapy section. I will try to help :wink: Unknown Devil
I dont think everybody else is superficial. there are ppl who will arent. But fact is how many are there. and what conclusion did u derive that I was a loser. cuz i act strange or the events I told u about. Just because I dont wear flashy clothes or dine in the best of places but I do dig my nose doesnt say am a loser. Thing is what I did was never appealing to people cuz its like only sane ppl live in the society. Atleast I got the guts to something less expected. What ppl think is not normal. Unknown Devil
I never said he did!! hehe Bleakus
i guess im not ashamed of asking for help ;) Bleakus
HAR HAR DE HAR HAR HAR Tropic23
:wink: ......of course not..... Bleakus what do you think is the solution to this problem devil? Tropic23
Ok.....tell me......what`s wrong?? :wink:
Tropic23
Why are you asking him??
I`m the DF shrink :wink:
When he would have a solution, he wouldn`t write a loooong posting....
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Think about it.... Galactico Maybe Unknown Devil can be your assistant :wink: Bleakus
im not sure i wanna speak in public Galactico
I read some of it I got bored :lol:
but thanks for the analysis
bushra 8) Tropic23
But both have problems......that isn`t a good idea :wink: Galactico
you can cure them and pick the best 1 :wink: Tropic23
Ok,....well....privat therapy? :wink: Unknown Devil hmm solution if u ask me are to be found on these questions for me How do u overcome stupidty?? How do u overcome the highness over music which is better than any women in this planet?? U listen to tracks whichever it might be, u feel sleepy but yet u keep on listening but dont go to sleep. Cuz u need to feel high?? How do u overcome the shyness about walking up to a girl and jus talk to her?? How do u overcome thinking about death every moment like its just beside u sitting with u but not engulfing u?? How do u overcome chorus in a song which u wrote which goes like O my darling Bride I have to Kill U tonight But what to do O' you are my sacrifice How do u overcome the tension when ur moms having cancer but you are helpless to do anything?? How do u overcome the frustration of getting a job and living here?? How do u overcome this place which has got a two sided mind where uniqueness is not appreciated?? Tropic23
hahahah :lol:
Why not :wink: Tropic23
It sounds, that you are sitting in a big black hole.....
Come on, cheer up!!
Is that true with you mom?? If yes, I`m really sorry :(
Well, I know how it is to have cancer in the family.....
You will find a girlfriend. I`m sure. Do you have female friends?
It would help, when you are talking to gals without the date pressure. Unknown Devil
Happiness is just a mere word as it exists. Yes its true she does!!
LMAO. ME and girlfriend or even ask a girl for a date. Hahahahahhahahahaha Even if I come infront of u I would be like what do I say. Sorry no female friends.
Just to say no friends at all only one best friend where I exist as a mere solitary soul just waiting for something which I dont know. It's been two months as a matter of fact just sitting at home and not going out and just getting all in the music about 8 hrs a day continous on music and sleep. Bleakus listen dude, no matter what your situation is, there are thousands out there that are not as better off then you just thank god you are alive and go on with your life Galactico
Man you need to use your Initiative go out try make some friends music and just sleep cant be good for you.
its not hard making friends but you have to make some sort of effort Tropic23
:shock:
You are kidding, right?
Go out......my god!!!
Why are you sitting at home? Do you think your life will get better?!
Only you have the control to change your life.
Do it!! 8) Unknown Devil
I never disagreed with that and I will never think my life is worse than theirs. But sometimes it makes me wonder Unknown Devil
No I am not kidding. I just went every possible place in Dubai. I just came from Bangkok and all I can say I am still bored!! Galactico Blekues organises paintball I heard its a lot of fun. Why dont you join that it would be a good start to get to know some of the people on here and maybe you might even make some friends 8) Unknown Devil
I do understand that Galactico and I tried but it brings to the first question overcoming stupidity. No offence I am proud for what I do whether it's stupid or not. I mean if I am not drunk but yet I act all high and stupid and make give the most stupidest comments and I tried it stopping but yet I cant. So I am forced to be in a hole just with all them music and sleep. Unknown Devil
Thanks for the invite and I might even come but thats a big might cuz that brings me to the second last question about how do I overcome the frustration of getting a job and living here. Mind it I dont want charity from ppl or something. Since being in df I just put a post and probably the most stupidest one to be already branded as a loser. But possible that I might find an answer about me lookin through u ppl Galactico The best thing you can do is just go with follow like everyone else we all have good days we all have bad days at the end of the day we survive and move on thats life. Man stopping worrying about everything nobody is perfect whatever is written is written. You alive you have your health and you will get your fair share of luck or make your own luck. Just dont give up keep believing your time will come. :wink: Life is a challenge just take it as that 8) Tropic23
Amen!!
Good luck Devil :thumbright: ^ian^ With all the advice given I think they guy just wants someone to feel sorry for him or something. Make the effort... Dubai is somewhere you need friends... I don't know how you can live a solitary live. As for stupid people, 90% of the population think they're smarter than the average. Go figure. Bleakus ^^but i am smarter than the average ian, i just cant do math to save my life emurella i can't do math either....that just means maths is stupid not me :D ....anyway back to the very depressing subject in hand, you've got yourself in a rut a total catch 22 situation your lonely and depressed. first off if your proud of your uniqueness then stuf what others think, plenty of people don't like mine but there are also plenty who do, don't let the sheep drag you down. second as much as i love metal and depressing emo music listerning to it for 8 hrs a day is enough to make mr happy want to slit his wrists turn it off. thirdly you've just had people inviting you out on here who are giving you a chance knowing that your strange it says a lot about them so give them a chance go to paintball. also all those questions you had arn't gonna get answered all at once deal with them one at a time i promise it'll be easier. chin up dude there are many people out there who have felt the same all you can do is not let it win keep smiling :D Not_Sure I have a much simpler solution then the complicated one provided above. Get urself a so called (working girl)



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