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easternjewel thank God I am lucky
easternjewel edited. sowwy! Legendkiller flip a coin.. Burken Take the one who is best to you. And besides, the one who is not even settled and not living in Dubai; how is your relationship with him? Are you two officially together and how often do you meet? Think about how the differences are and decide from that. noni Guy B sounds like the obvious choice, but what exactly are you holding onto with Guy A? Is Guy B being settled down a big factor for you? In the end, you have to be with the person. Maybe he is making a lot of money, but there is some personality clashing. And maybe he's not exactly settled yet but you just get along great. I know in this desi culture how important the settled guy is...but just make sure that's not the ONLY thing. But in my opinion if Guy B has the right personality, plus all those other things, he's a good choice. Did I just contradict myself? :oops: guga [color=blue]If you can't choose between these two you love none of them! :roll:
Better to wait for the RIGHT guy! :!: [/color] Burken Yeah that was my first thought, but then I knew she might answer something like "but they are so perfect, exactly what I want" or something near to that. noni
I love it Jamal Jamal aint no one person's heart can love two ppl the same .. that just cant happen .. yea true you can love someone for that quality an the other person for this quality ... but end of the day .. ur heart gonna love one person just alittle more then the other .. u jst gots to sit down close em eyes an look deep inside to see whom that person is .. an dont be going runnin around lookin for money .. or a settl'd down nigga .. dont allow those kindda things to be an influence ... u heard. so baby .. u already know who the one you want is .. all u gots to do is have the courage to let go of the other ... but since J always says it like it is .... i personally think u aint the right girl for neither of them .... cause u playin them ... simple an plain .. so u better let go of both of them an look for another man an this time be true to him .. an thats for ur own good . why cause once u choose one of these guys .. an start revealin all ur feelings to him .. u are eventually gonna tell him bout the other guy .. cause u girls always reveal everything ... so then when he gets to know that .. he probably aint gonna react .. but he gonna go round ur back an lay someother hoochie .. cause u know yall be allover the place .. so keep it real mami .. Palkid7
That's easy dear,
PICK ME
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Problem Solved 8) 8)

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weary_heart Either you choose one or lose both... Jeevan EJ, if i am not mistaken this is still the "i like the guy" phase, hasnt developed to "i love the guy" thing. For me its not possible to be emotionally attached to two people at the same time. If you can do that i am amazed:), i would say they are not the true feelings.I wouldnt move on to someone else unless i know its over with the current person. But if you want me to take a pick it would be guy B if you are thinking of life long commitment, based on the facts that u have quoted. Cheers, J Bleakus
thats the wisest post i have ever read
keeping it real homie freza Alina hacked into EJ's account??? Who knew she had that kind of skills... Just date them both or keep one in the freezer while the other one thaws out. abdalrasheed
You are in a very bad situation. very difficult to decide. one can realize who is in. very easy to say to choose one. keep continue with both of them and give it some more time may be you yourself come to conclusion. easternjewel thank you peeps. Thanks Jeevan, for getting it right, ITS NOT LOVE YET duh! Love is a very strong word. Jamal, thanks, your post did make a lot of sense...this time the financial part does not bother me... If i let go guy A for that, it would be unfair to him. Freza There is a lil Alina in all of us :lol: I really like the "date both of them until you find out which is good" deal.... Thanks :wink: No harm in doing that since hey, I havnt committed to any of them... just healthy flirting. the_anomaly
you're lucky i'm not there or there would be a Guy C for you to be thinking about (A) scarlet EJ its obvious that you prefer Guy A more. Cos you alwyas want what you cant really have (not in Dubai) And the only reasonmthat B dude is still in the picture is beacuse he s in Dubai. But to be really sure and test my theory Ask yourself this question.. If they had both fallen over the edge of a cliff and you were holding their arms, but could only hold one of them so had to let the other go and he would certainly plunge to his death. Which one would you save? Dubai Knight
:shock: :shock: :shock:
I am not going for any clifftop walks with you sweetie!
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Knight
kanelli :lol: ^ian^
ME NEITHER!!!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Bleakus
wow, i would probably let go of the heavier one ;) Bleakus why would anyone have clifftop walks anyway????? zam
Geez but lemme just say OUCHHHHHHHH! ^ian^
Ok, but why? Would you go walking on a clifftop with someone who is thinking about whether if you fall they should save your life or not? yorky500 EJ, Excuse me for being rather rrank and to the point but one word: BITCH! (it may be extreme, but i don't think playing two guys is fair) Think of how these guys will feel if they find out that you are seeing someone else. They obviously have strong feelings for you, which it appears have developed over a period of time and yet you are playing in two camps. I really don't think its fair, do you. If you do not choose NOW, then you may lose both of them, or if you chose 1, then you may lose a good friend in the other if you continue to lead them along. But, to answer your question, do you want a b/f here with you, who will always be there for you, or do you want a guy who is miles away and whilst can be there for you on the phone, cannot be physically? ^ian^ Right on brother 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) Bleakus yeah dude, fight the power i think your absolutly right yorky. I know EJ wouldnt like it if she was cheated on with another girl with a guy she likes....right? easternjewel scarlet, thank you, that was a very cool Hypothesis. I hope you never get in that situation...poor guys :lol: Yorky & others, why would I be a bitch if i like two guys, its completly natural.....only uncommon... but natural. I m not sleeping with them nor I m committed* ...... I dont find healthy flirting & expressing my feelings for them a bitchy factor... if I really do feel for them & not lying to get out something from them.. Anyhow, I have cleared this whole thing anyway, only because it is unethical, & I would hate if it would happen to me. asc_26
Clifftop could mean something else! gosh, i hate to be deep.
*checking some literature* MaaaD
:lol: :lol: :lol: ^ian^
I think if we gave awards for the most pathologically pathetic post, this would get it. scarlet ^^Why? It is a true dilemna. Most pathetic posts are game posts the_anomaly
shit eh, i just noticed your signature, haha ^ian^
No the thread, the post from the Anomaly. the_anomaly
the suggestion of giving that any sort of reward, in itself, is pathetic ;) MAC
i can help = have engagement ring already :oops: :oops: yshimy
EJ,
Just you gotta watch out for somthing...
If you kept hold of both...... Three of you will fall down.
watch out an best of luck vprince Hello, I think you should take a break.stay away from both and try to concentrate on your daily life.give some time to yourself.and then try to realise to whom you miss most in your daily life. and also find out who is more worried about you when you are not seeing them or not in touch . :) I am sure it will help you to find out whom you love . :) Have a nice day Prince easternjewel
awwwww that is soooo touchyyy, nice advice dude, thank u, did you register for me? hehe vprince who knows...may be.well i am new to this forum.saw this forum and got interested.well i suggested what i will do in this situation. :) hope it will be useful for u.life is beautiful and enjoy it,every moment the way it comes.cheers Jamal easy now homie .... you were already complimented ... dont go on about it .. u feel me ... pitbulero EJ is in the stage of exploring her capability of having two guy at the same time isn't it a real thrilling? All I can say as long as your still single you can admire as many as you want, I guess the feeling you have now is not what you call LOVE but it's kind of LIKE or ADMIRATION continue what you are doing and you'll learn from the experience. It's better for you to do this while your single than doing this if your already married. Every guy has it's own shortcomings and do you think they want that? no body is perfect and just a piece of advice for you my dear choose one of the guy and always keep in your mind that you'll love whatever he is, whoever he is.. because I'm telling you girl LOVE is accepting the person his/her good traits, bad traits, what he wants/likes. Tropic23
Take Guy B......
You are in Dubai, he is in Dubai. What do you want more?
Pity life? I would love to have the choice between two men!!!!
Good luck :thumbup: cyrix well guy B would be the 'practical' choice :D but of course...such matters are not decided in the head completely..make a list of pros and cons and eliminate one candidate :p! playing around with both of them would be unfair..it would be like leading them on and then..."...oops..did u fall off a clif dear?" :) rvp_legend A friend of mine recently gave his g/f her marching orders when he found out she was doing the same, before she made her choice. Maybe the best thing that could happen in this situation is for both Guy A & B to find out that you flirt with both of them and not serious about either....yet. Perhaps there wouldnt be a choice to make :wink: cyrix one things for sure....someones gonna loose in this 'competition' and they aint gonna be happy about it. so if you think you can manage that...make a choice...period. ISH just get wit me ugly bird 8) DON ISH easternjewel
& how good looking are you? cyrix
oh boy...person C is about to come into the picture....standby people...the plot thickens... :) easternjewel not even if he is the last person alive! :shock: cyrix
anti-climax :cry: jabbajabba I could not give to shoots what you do - but if anything.. 1, I would suggest you don't play them around whilst you get your ego flattered. 2, Post to the agony aunt in Best of luck. easternjewel ^ if you dont give a 'shoot' then there is certainly no need for the kind gesture of replying to my thread. Go away now. Jeevan Ej still not finalised who it will be ? :) jabbajabba
So only forums users who stroke your ego need apply then? jabbajabba
So only forums users who stroke your ego need apply then? easternjewel
if you insist. easternjewel
:) Hi jeevs,
Nah I m done with it long back, nice to read quality opinions flowing in though :wink: Jeevan
cool:) congrats :lol: let us know later who it was:) easternjewel sure, when we meet at one of the df meets hopefully. :wink: cyrix
wohoooo....we have a winner...hmmm...i wonder who won :) Jeevan
Exactly u used the right word hopefully :lol: HP
Guy A = Azzhole
He is azzhole because he is wasting his time on net and trying to hook up wid a girl who is very far from him.
Guy B = Bulllshhit
He is Bullshit because he is not able to get you fully.
You should protest , if a man can marry wid 4 women in Islam then why not a woman can get married wid 4 men :P .
Well you can get married to both of them but only give license to "produce kids " to one of them :P . swesner If you love someone, then there is NO OTHER. You shouldn't have thoughts of being with someone else if you have a true love. swesner
HP means JA in this post. I met someone online in another country and we connected like I never could have imagined. We met in person after 4 months and then every 6 weeks, we took turns flying to the other person's home and spent 1-2 weeks together. 1 year after we first met in person, the other permanently moved to be together all the time. It worked for us, because we had that connection and knew there was no one else. We came from different countries and different religions, but there was no comparing how we complimented each other's life. If it is love, it will work. If the connection is there, it will work. Distance doesn't matter if there is love...and how is it wasting time if you are looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? Time spent looking for the "right" one instead of just "any" one is well spent when you have that person with you until the end. If there is no love, the relationship will fade over time, even if you live next door to the person. I always liked the saying "Don't try to find someone you can live with, fall in love with someone you can't live without..."
I feel for EJ cuz she wants productive criticism. Best I can say is that if she found someone that is everything she wants, then where is the dilemma? Maybe she isn't looking for a soul mate, but rather just a good friend to talk to (since they both seem to have that quality). Money and looks should be a non-issue cuz they both come and go with time. Maybe she should really define what qualities she really wants in a guy, things she won't settle for if a guy doesn't have... It also takes time to really get to know someone for the real them. In the beginning, everyone is looking their best and going out of the way to be sweet. But when you see each other every day, staying together or living together and no makeup is involved, job stress sets in...and you spend more and more time together...that is when you figure out who is beneath the surface. Unknown Devil All I gotta say Dont believe in a thing called love Your soulmates gonna come from god above All them men think from down below (99.9 percent does even though they say they are friends) So take that love and shove it out the back window I am a man myself and this is the reality And dubai is a place where u can see it with your eyes All them men filled with deciet and lies But true it is, a genuine man, Is hard to find. Bottom line dont believe in love and s.h.i.t Cuz one day hes gonna send a prince charming who'll swipe u off yer feet So I say: Wait!! cuz its better than getting fast than getting late. swesner I expected a comment like that from a person who admits they never had success with females because he says himself that he acts whacked in the head and says he is still a virgin. Coincidence :?: I doubt it. How can you believe in love if females don't like you? It couldn't possibly be you that is the problem...could it? :roll:
Sure, your soulmate comes from God above, but does that mean you will ever meet this person? nope That's not God's job, you have to find them yourself and how do you do that if you think from "down below"? Not all guys think from below...only the ones that call themself a man but never matured in the brain department. Unknown Devil
I never said I did &start=15. Plus I know that aint gods job its just a metaphor when u like find someone u'll know he or she is perfect person for u as if god sent that person only for u. And speaking of down below, I even clarified by saying 99.9 percent think like that. There are good ppl in this world but hard to find thats what I meant. I practically dont believe in love cuz I dont need it. It aint like music. I was trying to say my point of view for someone looking for a bit of help. As for me being whacked yes I am whacked, I admit it. When I mean whacked acting really stupid, or passing stupid comments during a conversation that is when around ppl besides an office meeting, so ppls are like is he allright, of course I am but ppl dont understand it. They think am whacked in the head plus I dont think from down below I said max of the guys do that cuz I got better things in life that is my sleep and music, so I dont need love to justify that I believe in it. KeithL EJ when i read the subject line of this thread I thought you were undecided between HP and me. :lol: :lol: But seriously, choices cannot be made on forums... you need to think as to who you really love, care about, ready to spend your life with, ,.. more importantly..who loves you more...blah blah actually forget this idle chatter and lets you and me hook up ! :wink: HP Bushra took my heart when she wrote at the second picture of her Hi5 profile : " Can i be more cute than this" :oops: I go for Bush-ra :roll: Not_Sure Genuine men?? hard to find? are u saying A REAL man...a GENUINE MAN...doesnt think of se>< from down below?? u guys nutts or what...healthy young men NATURALLY think and will persue hanky panky...only retards or handicapped guys such as urselves will sit down quietly and do nothing! Bow wow wow yippi yow yippi yey... emron lolzzzzzzzzzzz Ooops!~ i think i just intrruped a serious discussion .. did i ? Pals Just choose a one and kill the other :shock: In your heart I mean :twisted: St.Lucifer EJ are you around? How did u solve this? liveindubai hi do you speack french please my name is Mark form paris email dubaifr@yahoo.fr rrkk that's very normal, just make hay while the sun shines ... enjoy



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