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Easiest Way To get Over with the Man/Woman you LoVe?


femme What is the easiest way to get over him/her? You love this man/woman, then something came up that you dont expect, you broke up with him/her but still you love him/her? You want to forget him/her instantly, what is the easiest way? :cry:
Bleakus you can try to go for a short vacation somewhere nice alone. Helps you clear your mind a bit, plus you might meet someone on the way Sport helps too....:D English Girlie Tell yourself - 'Everything happens for a reason'!....... AND SMILE..... about how wonderful the future will be! :D :D :D I agree with Bleakus - Sports also help!! netgeek2k2 i wish i knew!!! it would make my life so much easier :-) Bleakus i dont know girlie, if i say to myself "everything happens for a reason", so what do i do wrong this time ;) English Girlie
Somethings 'things just aren't meant to be' No-ones fault!
:lol: :lol: femme
yes, its true...i agree with you dudes...
everything happen for a reason...
because it happen to me, the thing is...its really hard to get over...it will really take time especially when you have this intense relationship with him. Anyway, thats life you have to deal with it.... checkerscom2000 I am going through the exact same thing right now, it's really really hard to deal with. Especially now since it's still recent for me. I just hoping time heals wounds and everything happened for a reason. I know it happened for a reason but it's just hard to see the reason right now. femme this is a good quote that i somewhat realized...when things go wrong... "You have to let go when you feel you're hurting too much. You have to give up when love is not enough. You have to move on when things aren't like before. Because there's someone out there who'll love you even more." sad but true.... Tropic23
Big hug for you!! I know how you feel :(
It needs time to get over your love.

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shatooi You will heal....People can sit here all day and tell you what you may or may not want to hear, but you just need to go through the emotions. It's a process that sucks donkey nuts, but is a life lesson that will only make you stronger and wiser. I will leave you with a little something that helped me even when i was at my worst with my breakup 6 months ago. I'm not 100% over my ex, but i'm living my life again and it feels great. I hope it helps you too: TO LET GO To let go doesn't mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else. To let go isn't to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another. Rather than to enable...it is to allow learning from natural consequences. Letting go is to admit powerlessness. Meaning the outcome is not in my hands. It is not to try to change or blame another; but knowing that I can only change myself. Instead of caring for, it is to care about. It is to be supportive instead of to fix. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. To allow others to effect their own outcomes, instead of being in the middle arranging all the outcomes. It is not to be protective but to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny but to accept. Not to nag, scold or argue, but rather to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my own desires but to take Each day as it comes and to cherish each moment. Not to criticize and to regulate anyone, but to try to become the dream I can be. Instead of regret for the past... It is to grow and live for the future, To fear less and to love more. -Author unknown LeYa Hey, know how u feel, i've been through it n : 1) time really helps 2) u can move on only if u won't look back all the time ---> it will hurt ur neck :-) 3) try to get new friends/go 2 new places/be with ppl who love u guess thats it... n just like u got used to that person , u'll get used to be WITHOUT that person.. all da best... English Girlie
Donate 24 hours to that person.... go through all the photos, things, have lunch at your favourite restaurant the two of you had!
Basically spend the whole day, CRYING!!!!!
At 7pm burn all the stuff!
Have a shower
Get REALLY beautiful
Go to a club with some friends, or alone!
Let your hair down..... dance, have some fun, drink if you drink!
Then wake the next morning a NEW women!!!!
Starting a new life!
Don't cry anymore, just smile! :D
NEVER LOOK BACK..... JUST FORWARD!
There's someone out there for everyone..... he wasn't the one..... because the REAL one would NEVER want you to hurt this much!
Good Luck..... tell me what club you are at, will be there!! :lol: femme sure... looking forward to meet you.... where do you usually hang out girl? English Girlie
You are going to be fine femme! :P
Not in Dubai yet..... arriving end of this month!
Don't yet have a hang out, but will find one and let you know! :lol: :lol: jini Hi, Its always difficult to get over people and situations, but whats important and gratifying to know is that you stood your ground to say no to somebody who never was worth you. So always look beyond your today hoping for a better tomorrow. Take care. Not_Sure Jump infront of a bus.... Donnabelle
keep yourself busy and if possible stop calling him and making a way to see him...disconnect yourself from him ....and think about something positive for yourself...enjoy your friends company and take time to open your door to new friendship. Avoid using someone as a scapegoat this wont help at all...remember always that you are beautiful so feel beautiful and have a positive outlook in life. (highly recommended to those who feel depress because of losing someone) :D Not_Sure meet someone better then him like me for example....and then start worrying how to forget about me until u meet the next one...i have a few friends i cud recommend...
bass_mekanik you know actually there is no right answer to this question because everyone is different. The mourning period after a relationship is over is almost always a journey of "re-discovery of one's self". Different people go through this experience in different ways. People turn to all sorts of things including (but not withstanding): -friends -family -alcohol -drugs -work -religion -sex -abstinence -sport -travel you get the general gist of it. Now I'm not saying ANY of those are right or wrong, what I do believe though is that you need to find what works for YOU. when you find something that helps you to both grieve and heal simultaneously along with a recovery process which you know will guide you down the path you want to be on then grab it with both hands and stick to it. And no matter what it is, dont let anyone tell you its wrong. Your healing process is yours to discover. Other people can guide you- but ultimately, you must walk the path yourself. raidah
i heared ur off the market :roll: , thou cant imagine what crazy woman would want you... Not_Sure csak a fiki fiki.... Which market we talking about here? The black market? xero_ for me its just find another someone. not just someone, but someone better ASAP :) femme
yah, i think so. But do you think that will be a good idea to find another man in your life asap....
i think its better to stop coz its always the same thing, you always hurt at the end of the day.....
i think im not really lucky with guys...i think i have to go with same s.e.x.... :lol: :lol: :lol: dave101 i can never let it go, the pain goes sure (after a looong time), but the memories dont. i wish they would leave, but the harder you try to forget conciously, the more it might bother you in your sleep. English Girlie Wow..... :shock: I hope I never hurt like you guys!! I kind of live by the everything happens for a reason rule. Maybe I just don't let myself feel the hurt! I wish you all the best of luck with healing, in your own way! Take Care and SMILE!!! :love1: olivertwisted What a load of mush.... feels like a sloppy highschool romance movie. The world is a harsh place. Shit happens if something tries to mow u down get right back up and give it the finger. Dont waste your time with all this 'Oh I love him so much bull shit' Couple of months down the line your gonna be thinkin of someone else. Besides time is so valuable.. theres so much u could do for yourself careerwise, studies, take up a workout regime, hang out with all the chick frinds you missed cos of your guy. Hell lady if I were u every night would be party night....... with copious amounts of grass of course :) Remeber... no such thing as CANT only WONT!! SuperStAr Hahahahahaha!! I so AGREE with OliverTwisted !!! ROMANCE another reason for Hollywoods directors to make chic flicks like TITANIC! 8) femme i just got this through others, i think this is a good advice to help me cope up... For those who also wanted to get over your ex, try it out...here it goes... 1) Cut off all communication: that means don't talk to them; delete/erase phone numbers, e-mail addresses, IM addresses, etc.; don't look up profiles or seek them out in any way, shape or fashion. This will keep you from that urge to contact them. 2) Get rid of any gifts, notes, letters, etc. that are sentimental to you: don't give them back to your ex. Give them away to Goodwill, whatever. Do not keep them. 3) Hang out with friends. 4) Don't jump into another relationship. This is unfair to a new partner if you are not over your ex. 5) Do something active: run, exercise, go see a movie, go shopping, etc. 6) Try to think about all the things you did NOT like about your partner. People break up for a reason. 7) Write your thoughts down in a journal or write a letter to your ex about how you feel about everything... DO NOT give it to them. 8) Remember to not be afraid to be alone. It's not the end of the world and you will always find someone else down the road. It is OK to be alone. 9) Do not try and be friends with your ex UNLESS you can get over them. Once you are over them, then you can think about being friends with them. If you are not over them and you continue with contacting them, you will not be able to get over them especially when they are dating someone new. 10) Do not wallow in alcohol. It will only make you feel worse... trust me on this one. 11) It takes time... olivertwisted Sweet heart u hit the nail right on the head as far as Im concerned, spot bollock......I think ur on the road to hapiness already. The first thing to do really is wake up tomorrow look outside breathe some fresh air and feel.... Im mean really FEEL deep down about how lucky we r. Theres so much in life Sooooooooooooooo much more than a guy or girl for that matter... NOBODY deserves your tears or sorrow. Its over tough thats life ... wake up next morning different day different xperiences. By the way u missed out one point in your summary ..... smoke some weed and trust me your ex will be the last thing on your mind. Just in case u need a quick FIX!!!!!!!!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Go Get em tiger!!!!!!!!!!!! femme
the thing is..its really not easy to forget....
anyway, i will let you know if your advice work out for me.."smoke some weed"... :roll: :roll: xero_
lmao pass that chroni... hmm nvm. :lol: Unknown Devil Thats easy I was in love and stuff but there is an alternative to it is be busy in the one thing whatever it maybe. It can be as people directed sports, or pick a hobby. My soul lives in music. I was always immersed in it inorder to get high rather than weed which I dont give a dam what she might be doing and trust me I even wrote a song how much I hated her!! Be crazy and paranoid!! it worked for me. quatroporte
This is the best thing to do...
I am going through the same issue, forgetting the person I used to be used to!!!
and your advice did make a difference. thank you JMK whatever happened to a simple and quick remedy as "to get over one, need to get under... etc etc" ? Captain Sirus Black its never easy .. you cant get rid of the memories .. they are haunting .. sleepless nights .. tears .. pain .. insomnia .. i dont think its possible to let go .. n its impossiable to not fall in love .. it happens .. without reasons .. instead of thinking of geting over love .. i think we should think and look for staying with love if you happen to find it or it finds you .. bonbonboi
Even though your world may appear to have collapsed around you, strangely enough, you also notice that most things still remain the same.
But why do you suddenly feel so out of place? You feel totally out of sorts. For the moment, it may even feel like that you're never going to emerge from your sadness. You might feel that life is over and there's no meaning left for you.
It's a matter of time. It's a matter of time before normalcy returns. Though the love is lost, but your love will carry on and please remember that you do have the capacity for greater love.
It's never too late, you still have chances in your life. You'll get up once again. You'll laugh again. You'll live again. And you'll love again...


mysterious girl just feel the pain until its get over. . :D have u heard the song "The Art of Leting Go"? its a nice song just listen to it and sing it over and over and 1 day ull find that ur now ok. trust me :D hope it will help THE ART OF LETTING GO!!!!!!!! Put away the pictures, put away the memories I put over and over through my tears I've held them 'til I'm blind, they kept my hope alive As if somehow that I'd keep you here Once you believe in a love forevermore How do you leave it in a drawer Now here it comes, the hardest part of all Unchain my heart that's holding on How do I start to live my life alone Guess I'm just learning, learning the art of letting go Try to say it's over, say the word good bye But each time it catches in my throat You're still here in me and I can't set you free So I hold on to what I wanted most Maybe someday we'll be friends forevermore Wish I could open up that door Now here it comes the hardest part of all Unchain my heart that's holding on How do I start to live my life alone Guess I'm just learning, learning the art of letting go Watching us fade, what can I do But try to make it through the pain Of one more day without you Where do I start to live my life alone I guess I'm learning, only learning Learning the art of letting go e-lad
Yes that is it.. simply ,, it like u get injured, can't do anything till the wound get recovered by itself, as long as the body working on... :D mysterious girl
ABSOLUTELY! ! ! ! ! ! :D



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