alexandra
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
Douce`Amere
If you be unfaithful? God protect me, I don`t want even to think about it, & the more so be it.
sniper420
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
alexandra
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
i am not sure i got ur point? can u be more explicit?
sniper420
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
i am not sure i got ur point? can u be more explicit?
I was just joking. Seriously speaking relationships is like wheels of a car, if one of em has less air and is bumpy I guess u have to be frank and get it changed else it will be a bumpy ride. I know it's hard to confess but u have to deal with it else u r risking urself and ur mate's future. :D
alexandra
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
i am not sure i got ur point? can u be more explicit?
I was just joking. Seriously speaking relationships is like wheels of a car, if one of em has less air and is bumpy I guess u have to be frank and get it changed else it will be a bumpy ride. I know it's hard to confess but u have to deal with it else u r risking urself and ur mate's future. :D
i totally agree with u! although i always prefered to end it rather to cheat! i am not in that situation, i posted the topic only to get some opinions, that's all.
about me being from romania, i still didn't get the joke, but i am proud of being romanian and proud of who i am!
:wink:
easternjewel
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
unfaithfull ?:shock:
confess & run :lol:
sniper420
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
i am not sure i got ur point? can u be more explicit?
I was just joking. Seriously speaking relationships is like wheels of a car, if one of em has less air and is bumpy I guess u have to be frank and get it changed else it will be a bumpy ride. I know it's hard to confess but u have to deal with it else u r risking urself and ur mate's future. :D
i totally agree with u! although i always prefered to end it rather to cheat! i am not in that situation, i posted the topic only to get some opinions, that's all.
about me being from romania, i still didn't get the joke, but i am proud of being romanian and proud of who i am!
:wink:
hehe I didnt mean to be rude. I have romanian friends and most of them are in similar situation as u r. I guess they r more s*xually active! :D
vicky40_teach
all great alterations in human affairs are produced by compromise. BE READY to face the consequences of your actions...IT IS sufficiently clear that all things are changed, and nothing really perishes.the world is a scene of CHANGES! and to be constant in nature is INCONSTANCY.....admit or not....remember it is a mesirable state of human mind to have few things to DESIRE...but many things to FEAR....
:shock: :shock: :D
Chocoholic
Cheaters usually get found out anyway, so better to be honest about it and face the consequences of your actions.
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stuchil
if you are tempted to cheat, end one relationship first.
Do you want to be the one cheated on?
Corcovado
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
nothing justify cheating ... it is the worst thing u can ever do to urself or anyone ...so if u are feeling unfaithfull break the relation and be free
alexandra
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
- sniper420 wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
u r from romania that explains it all.
i am not sure i got ur point? can u be more explicit?
I was just joking. Seriously speaking relationships is like wheels of a car, if one of em has less air and is bumpy I guess u have to be frank and get it changed else it will be a bumpy ride. I know it's hard to confess but u have to deal with it else u r risking urself and ur mate's future. :D
i totally agree with u! although i always prefered to end it rather to cheat! i am not in that situation, i posted the topic only to get some opinions, that's all.
about me being from romania, i still didn't get the joke, but i am proud of being romanian and proud of who i am!
:wink:
hehe I didnt mean to be rude. I have romanian friends and most of them are in similar situation as u r. I guess they r more s*xually active! :D
once again i will mention that i never was and i am not in this situation...just couriouse to get some points of view.
p.s u were not rude, sniper :wink:
easternjewel
- alexandra wrote:
p.s u were not rude, sniper :wink:
Thats a compliment for sniper. Nobodys ever been so nice to him :lol:
Maia
what do you know about romanian women? you think that a handful of women that are there in dubai represent a whole nation? fyi: they are more faithful, clean, family-oriented, and committed to the relationship they're in than most of the other women i have ever met...women rock no matter the location..
directed to moi?
Maia
alexandra, are you romanian?
alexandra
- Maia wrote:
what do you know about romanian women? you think that a handful of women that are there in dubai represent a whole nation? fyi: they are more faithful, clean, family-oriented, and committed to the relationship they're in than most of the other women i have ever met...women rock no matter the location...
nice post Maia! 8)
and i totally agree with u, a bad or good example is not an enough reason to talk in general or to judge a nation, it's the character and the values u r guided by, not the nationality. for sure women rock! :lol:
alexandra
- Maia wrote:
alexandra, are you romanian?
romanian and so proud of it! :)
sniper420
- easternjewel wrote:
- alexandra wrote:
p.s u were not rude, sniper :wink:
Thats a compliment for sniper. Nobodys ever been so nice to him :lol:
hehe I smell something burning .......yeah nobody's been nice to me and that's the reason I became a mod! :lol:
raidah
well i don t agree with u guys. not that u cannot be nice to the poor cat with the machine-gun :twisted: , but about confession of cheating.
1st of all, its desgusting and humiliating for both. but than there r situation and situations. if smbody feels like continuously cheating on the partner, i don t get why not just brake up?
if its about a one night stand cheating, than its obviously about s.e.x. than why confess it? ill tell u why. not because u wanna be honest and all that bullshit, but cause u wanna feel better. its simple, most ppl have the sense of rightness and since cheating is not right(according to the morals of our societies), the cheater has its acts on his conscience and wants to get rid of it. confessing a mistake like that is just as selfish as doing it.
u might not lose the love of the other, but ull certanly lose his/her trust
Dacus
If you are in a relationship and it does not work anymore just stop it and find another one. You do not need to cheat anyone. Even you ask yourself about this possibility it is not a good thing. Just clear your mind.
Who are the Romanians? They are descendants of Dacians and Romans. And Romanian comes from the word Roman and means citizen of Ancient Roman Empire. Romania means the country of Daco-Romans.
alexlee1703
serious ????? :lol:
Palkid7
My suggestion would be that if u r sure that no way that the other (guy/girl) would find out u should keep to urself rather than hurting his/her feelings. On the other hand, if u knew that someday he will know about it !! i'd be better come from u than coming from someone else !
:?
makhan
whats wrong with u. why on earth u got to confess if u knew it ab initio that its wrong. just keep it and take it with u. bye to the world.
Moester
if you reach to the point that you need to cheat then there must be something wrong with your relationship, so better end it first and then go out with another, this way you won't be called a cheater you would be a player ;)
damn i'm good, i should write a book "Dr. Moe: love em or leave em"
kanelli
- Moester wrote:
if you reach to the point that you need to cheat then there must be something wrong with your relationship, so better end it first and then go out with another, this way you won't be called a cheater you would be a player ;)
damn i'm good, i should write a book "Dr. Moe: love em or leave em"
I agree. Break up first, then find someone else. Don't cheat trying to have your cake and eat it too, or keep someone around until you find someone better. That just sucks.
alexandra
- Moester wrote:
if you reach to the point that you need to cheat then there must be something wrong with your relationship, so better end it first and then go out with another, this way you won't be called a cheater you would be a player ;)
damn i'm good, i should write a book "Dr. Moe: love em or leave em"
well Moester i did say in one of my postreply that i prefer to end it rather then to cheat: it's fair and u can still keep ur head up! :wink:
good luck with ur book...i will buy it if u promiss to sign it! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Moester
i'll dedicate it to you if you want
alexandra
- Moester wrote:
i'll dedicate it to you if you want
:shock: :shock: :shock:
agreed than! when will it be published? :lol: :lol: :lol:
Moester
well i just thought of the title and that's all i got so far :D
so give it a year or 2 and i might pass the first page
alexandra
- Moester wrote:
well i just thought of the title and that's all i got so far :D
so give it a year or 2 and i might pass the first page
:? so by the time u will finish it, i will be an old lady :cry:
Moester
well it's not my fault that you're aging quickly, besides you can't rush a productive mind, you have to give it all the time it needs.
alexandra
- Moester wrote:
well it's not my fault that you're aging quickly, besides you can't rush a productive mind, you have to give it all the time it needs.
i guess u r right about this :roll:
Moester
8) it's a burden being right all the time
alexandra
- Moester wrote:
8) it's a burden being right all the time
and if u add up the modesty :shock: .......it's really a torture :lol:
BDSM_Dubai
- raidah wrote:
well i don t agree with u guys. not that u cannot be nice to the poor cat with the machine-gun :twisted: , but about confession of cheating.
1st of all, its desgusting and humiliating for both. but than there r situation and situations. if smbody feels like continuously cheating on the partner, i don t get why not just brake up?
if its about a one night stand cheating, than its obviously about s.e.x. than why confess it? ill tell u why. not because u wanna be honest and all that bullshit, but cause u wanna feel better. its simple, most ppl have the sense of rightness and since cheating is not right(according to the morals of our societies), the cheater has its acts on his conscience and wants to get rid of it. confessing a mistake like that is just as selfish as doing it.
u might not lose the love of the other, but ull certanly lose his/her trust
you are 100% right!!
and sniper: the romanian thing was rude, very rude and racistic and not funny in any way.
Lupo
kamiahmed
the asnwer is simple....if U BELIEVE THAT TRUTH NEVER HIDES.....then spit it out before u fall harder eventually !!
sometimes...its a ways to gain the trust of ur partner.
But dont keep screwing around...iam sure a one time wont be that bad.....but anymore unfaithful fiddles and ur kicked in the balls.....royally !! 8)
coolfocker
i'd say just chill out...don even think tht ure cheating on him/her...let things go well..have fun with both...and whenever your partner finds out...he/she will stop talking to you himself or herself...damn confusing :wink:
zam
Cheated on a 3 yr boyfriend before....it sucks...destroyed the whole damn relationship. What am I thiking anyway? And worst, somebody told somebody and then he learned.
End of story...I wouldnt find my "the one" if I didnt cheated on that guy. If it's destiny..it will happen. :lol:
alexandra
- zam wrote:
Cheated on a 3 yr boyfriend before....it sucks...destroyed the whole damn relationship. What am I thiking anyway? And worst, somebody told somebody and then he learned.
End of story...I wouldnt find my "the one" if I didnt cheated on that guy. If it's destiny..it will happen. :lol:
u know what somebody once saied to me: that ppl who cheat r the ones who r affraid to be cheated on!
so it's kind of: i would better do it first and not be fool in the story!
and there is always somebody that will tell somebody... :wink:
stil i see no point in cheating1 if u r unhappy than end it so u will spare some suffering, this if u r enough aware that it might happen to u
FeiPo
Depends on what kind of cheating you are talking about!! If you talk about having s_e_x with other men/women, unless you want to end your relationship with your partner otherwise of course you do not confess.
XRW-147
- zam wrote:
Cheated on a 3 yr boyfriend before....it sucks...destroyed the whole damn relationship. What am I thiking anyway? And worst, somebody told somebody and then he learned.
End of story...I wouldnt find my "the one" if I didnt cheated on that guy. If it's destiny..it will happen. :lol:
I'm not sure many girls grow up thinking "cheating slut" would be their destiny.
XRW-147
- FeiPo wrote:
Depends on what kind of cheating you are talking about!! If you talk about having s_e_x with other men/women, unless you want to end your relationship with your partner otherwise of course you do not confess.
That's just cowardness FP - honesty should alwayz be first. If your relationship is meant to be and the guy is right for you then things will have a way of working out. If you go on with a lie and end up growing old with the person you cheated on what will you have to reflect on but a life based on lies. Not a life worth living, thats for sure.
^ian^
If a partner cheated on me, I'd be not very happy about it. Put simply, the relationship would end right then and there, and there would be no forgiveness and no turning back.
Honestly, I don't know how you could be intimate with a partner without those thoughts flashing through your head everytime, it's best not to put yourself through the torture.
I wouldn't seek revenge, but I would cut that person out of my life like a tumor.
Having said that, I haven't been the nicest guy to grace the earth, but when I have crossed the line I have ended the relationship I was in immediately. There's no point trying to be a phony about these things.
If I didn't know, well then I wouldn't know. I'm a very trusting partner (I'm not one of those psychos that goes through emails or sms messages), and I'd just wallow in my ignorance. Of course, if I found out... well, see above.
zam
- XRW-147 wrote:
- zam wrote:
Cheated on a 3 yr boyfriend before....it sucks...destroyed the whole damn relationship. What am I thiking anyway? And worst, somebody told somebody and then he learned.
End of story...I wouldnt find my "the one" if I didnt cheated on that guy. If it's destiny..it will happen. :lol:
I'm not sure many girls grow up thinking "cheating slut" would be their destiny.
OMG.... UR SO NARROWMINDED....YOU IMMEDIATELY LINKED CHEATING TO SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY! GOSH.... :evil:
^ian^
- zam wrote:
OMG.... UR SO NARROWMINDED....YOU IMMEDIATELY LINKED CHEATING TO SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY! GOSH.... :evil:
Meh... up until that point it's just heavy petting.
XRW-147
- zam wrote:
OMG.... UR SO NARROWMINDED....YOU IMMEDIATELY LINKED CHEATING TO SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY! GOSH.... :evil:
You're so childish if a 3 year relationship ended because of anything less. Unless you're talking about high school and you pashed your bf's mate. Then again... once a cheater, alwayz a cheater!
zam
- XRW-147 wrote:
- zam wrote:
OMG.... UR SO NARROWMINDED....YOU IMMEDIATELY LINKED CHEATING TO SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY! GOSH.... :evil:
You're so childish if a 3 year relationship ended because of anything less. Unless you're talking about high school and you pashed your bf's mate. Then again... once a cheater, alwayz a cheater!
I will prove that wrong.... :lol:
XRW-147
- zam wrote:
I will prove that wrong.... :lol:
Fingers crossed :wink:
zam
- XRW-147 wrote:
- zam wrote:
I will prove that wrong.... :lol:
Fingers crossed :wink:
LOL :lol:
FeiPo
- XRW-147 wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
Depends on what kind of cheating you are talking about!! If you talk about having s_e_x with other men/women, unless you want to end your relationship with your partner otherwise of course you do not confess.
That's just cowardness FP - honesty should alwayz be first. If your relationship is meant to be and the guy is right for you then things will have a way of working out. If you go on with a lie and end up growing old with the person you cheated on what will you have to reflect on but a life based on lies. Not a life worth living, thats for sure.
defferent between a lie and not to tell. everyone has a secret not to tell. I will look at it as a secret more than a lie. what would you do if your gf told you that she slept with someone??? <--- sad, angry, leave her or kick her out????
FeiPo
- zam wrote:
- XRW-147 wrote:
- zam wrote:
Cheated on a 3 yr boyfriend before....it sucks...destroyed the whole damn relationship. What am I thiking anyway? And worst, somebody told somebody and then he learned.
End of story...I wouldnt find my "the one" if I didnt cheated on that guy. If it's destiny..it will happen. :lol:
I'm not sure many girls grow up thinking "cheating slut" would be their destiny.
OMG.... UR SO NARROWMINDED....YOU IMMEDIATELY LINKED CHEATING TO SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY! GOSH.... :evil:
Cheating is bad, doesn't matter you are seeing other guys or sleeping with them. It is all in your mind, if you are going out with a male friend (pure friend) but don't want your boyfreind to know coz he might get jealous and thinking you like him, I think this is not cheating. However, if you are going out with a guy you know you have feeling for him, then in my opinion, even tho you don';t sleep with him, you are cheating on your boyfriend. This is the way I see it. I have been going out with male friends many many time in the past without telling my bf, that's because he would not like me going out with male freinds, for the fact I knew it would cause a big fight. So I choose not to tell.
Note: the bf I mentioned above is my ex-bf not the current one!!!
KeithL
- FeiPo wrote:
Note: the bf I mentioned above is my ex-bf not the current one!!!
I wonder why :lol:
arniegang
nice one Keith
:lol: :lol: :lol:
yorky500
[quote="FeiPo]
Note: the bf I mentioned above is my ex-bf not the current one!!!
Good recovery babe :lol: :lol:
sniper420
- yorky500 wrote:
[quote="FeiPo]
Note: the bf I mentioned above is my ex-bf not the current one!!!
Good recovery babe :lol: :lol:
hehehe So u dont mind if Feipo goes out with hunk ie moi eh?
yorky500
- sniper420 wrote:
- yorky500 wrote:
[quote="FeiPo]
Note: the bf I mentioned above is my ex-bf not the current one!!!
Good recovery babe :lol: :lol:
hehehe So u dont mind if Feipo goes out with hunk ie moi eh?
Yo Snipes, where ya been.
yes, I do mind! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Rami
sometimes, we do some things and after do thee things we just feel it's wrong -focus on "feel"- and when we do so - "feel" they are wrong- we start to regret those things, and keep on regreting till we reach a level where we "think" our regrets are based on true events and true "bad" acts we did in the past...
ok in examples lagnuage now
i saw a hot girl and i was like wow she's hot, if i felt bad about it, and kept feeling bad about it till i reached the point where i regretted that and started regretting it, i'll end up telling my GF that i cheated her because if i had a chance with this hot girl i saw i won't miss it! while this's so untrue!...
what i mean in all this post is, what you consider cheating, might not be cheating at all!, and if it's 100% cheating, like sleepin with someone else, then you should confess but don't go with the details, details are killers, just put the outlines, and insted of wasting your emotions on regret, try to waste them on how to fix things up, and how to say sorry, and how to gain your partner's trust and love again..
XRW-147
- FeiPo wrote:
defferent between a lie and not to tell. everyone has a secret not to tell. I will look at it as a secret more than a lie. what would you do if your gf told you that she slept with someone??? <--- sad, angry, leave her or kick her out????
Concealing the truth still violates trust - foundation of any relationship. The initial feelings of being told your partner/lover has cheated on you is of course sadness and anger but some people can find comfort in knowing and manage to reconcile.
Personally, I haven't stayed with and never could stand to be with anyone who violates my trust. In my view if a person violates my trust its my right to know so and the person who keeps such 'secrets' from me is being nothing more than deceitful and selfish. One must be willing to bare the consequences of one's actions.
raidah
- Rami wrote:
sometimes, we do some things and after do thee things we just feel it's wrong -focus on "feel"- and when we do so - "feel" they are wrong- we start to regret those things, and keep on regreting till we reach a level where we "think" our regrets are based on true events and true "bad" acts we did in the past...
ok in examples lagnuage now
i saw a hot girl and i was like wow she's hot, if i felt bad about it, and kept feeling bad about it till i reached the point where i regretted that and started regretting it, i'll end up telling my GF that i cheated her because if i had a chance with this hot girl i saw i won't miss it! while this's so untrue!...
what i mean in all this post is, what you consider cheating, might not be cheating at all!, and if it's 100% cheating, like sleepin with someone else, then you should confess but don't go with the details, details are killers, just put the outlines, and insted of wasting your emotions on regret, try to waste them on how to fix things up, and how to say sorry, and how to gain your partner's trust and love again..
i see ur point. but there are situations and situations in actual cheating also. and very important, that there is a big difference between the cheating of men and women. these days there r many women too who sleep around just for the fun. but if in a relationship, when women cheat, it means smthing is very wrong, when men do it, they do it mostly just for the fun.
anyway, what im trying to say is that even thou id never forgive cheating, this all is by far from being black and white.
one question to u. u said the cheater should try to fix things and say "sorry". so to me this means u think even in the case of 100% cheating, things can be fixed. would you say the same if the woman was the cheater?
FeiPo
- XRW-147 wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
defferent between a lie and not to tell. everyone has a secret not to tell. I will look at it as a secret more than a lie. what would you do if your gf told you that she slept with someone??? <--- sad, angry, leave her or kick her out????
Concealing the truth still violates trust - foundation of any relationship. The initial feelings of being told your partner/lover has cheated on you is of course sadness and anger but some people can find comfort in knowing and manage to reconcile.
Personally, I haven't stayed with and never could stand to be with anyone who violates my trust. In my view if a person violates my trust its my right to know so and the person who keeps such 'secrets' from me is being nothing more than deceitful and selfish. One must be willing to bare the consequences of one's actions.
So, if she tells you you are going to break up with her, if she is not, when you found out you are going to break up with her..... so, why bother to tell you at the first place? might as well keep it secret.
^ian^
- FeiPo wrote:
So, if she tells you you are going to break up with her, if she is not, when you found out you are going to break up with her..... so, why bother to tell you at the first place? might as well keep it secret.
Wonderful thing being human. If you can't tell someone about it, there's no point doing it. There's no such thing as a secret.
FeiPo
- ^ian^ wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
So, if she tells you you are going to break up with her, if she is not, when you found out you are going to break up with her..... so, why bother to tell you at the first place? might as well keep it secret.
Wonderful thing being human. If you can't tell someone about it, there's no point doing it. There's no such thing as a secret.
sometime sh*t happened!! that means no one want it to happen. Beside, human being make mistake. Not all mistakes are acceptable, but what to do when you have made a mistake already??? 2 anwsers <--- confess or no to confess. I chose not to confess on this subject.
XRW-147
- FeiPo wrote:
So, if she tells you you are going to break up with her, if she is not, when you found out you are going to break up with her..... so, why bother to tell you at the first place? might as well keep it secret.
I mentioned that personally I would not tolerate it - some suckers out there do....
Why bother? Ever heard of decency? You are in control on your own life and just because you have decided to make a mistake doesn't mean you have to let someone else live their life with one.
Corcovado
- XRW-147 wrote:
- FeiPo wrote:
So, if she tells you you are going to break up with her, if she is not, when you found out you are going to break up with her..... so, why bother to tell you at the first place? might as well keep it secret.
I mentioned that personally I would not tolerate it - some suckers out there do....
Why bother? Ever heard of decency? You are in control on your own life and just because you have decided to make a mistake doesn't mean you have to let someone else live their life with one.
thats a bit extreme dont u think? People sin and sometimes do crazy things but if they were Sincere enough to admit it and ask for forgivness i think one should...To Sin Is Human To Forgive Is Divine ...i think u should have more tolerance
kanelli
I could never keep it a secret - it would eat away at my conscience. Knowing me, I'd tell if I ever cheated. However, also knowing me - I would never cheat in the first place. :)
Behemot_80
To Sin Is Human, completely agree with Corcovado.
After all, what is sin and what do you mean by cheating?
XRW-147
- Corcovado wrote:
...To Sin Is Human To Forgive Is Divine ...i think u should have more tolerance
Quote:
- We are never closer to God's grace than when we admit our sins and cry out for pardon...
For one to forgive one must first hear the cries for pardon.
Corcovado
- XRW-147 wrote:
- Corcovado wrote:
...To Sin Is Human To Forgive Is Divine ...i think u should have more tolerance
Quote:
- We are never closer to God's grace than when we admit our sins and cry out for pardon...
For one to forgive one must first hear the cries for pardon.
ur not easy to please or forgive r u?
XRW-147
- Corcovado wrote:
ur not easy to please or forgive r u?
You don't get what it means? - You can't forgive what you do not know.
shanya
I was angry ... now I feeel pity for him.
shanya
the most important thing in love is to be faithfull...if your BF/GF is unfaithfull he/she doesn't deserve your love, if you are attract by someone else that means there is a real problem you should tell the truth
dale
- shanya wrote:
the most important thing in love is to be faithfull...if your BF/GF is unfaithfull he/she doesn't deserve your love, if you are attract by someone else that means there is a real problem you should tell the truth
I second that! 8)
shanya
even with cries of pardon I won't forgive...
shanya
- XRW-147 wrote:
- Corcovado wrote:
ur not easy to please or forgive r u?
You don't get what it means? - You can't forgive what you do not know.
OK XRW, if you cheat you tell ?
Corcovado
- shanya wrote:
- XRW-147 wrote:
- Corcovado wrote:
ur not easy to please or forgive r u?
You don't get what it means? - You can't forgive what you do not know.
OK XRW, if you cheat you tell ?
hmmmm
shanya
- Corcovado wrote:
- shanya wrote:
- XRW-147 wrote:
- Corcovado wrote:
ur not easy to please or forgive r u?
You don't get what it means? - You can't forgive what you do not know.
OK XRW, if you cheat you tell ?
hmmmm
What do you think Corco? :wink:
Corcovado
:!:
shanya
if your BF cheat and tell you the truth you forgive or you break ?
Corcovado
- shanya wrote:
if your BF cheat and tell you the truth you forgive or you break ?
i dont know really .cos non of my exs ever cheated on me ... and i dont think i will forgive ,i will set him free and find myself a better man ....cos i cant stand lies :x
shanya
humm
produndownmusician
Before breaking up with him, ask yourself why he cheated on you:
If he is a s@x drivin guy dump his sorry a#@
But if he is an ok guy and cheated on you ask why...
Dream Catcher
- alexandra wrote:
if u will be unfaithfull in a realtionship what would be the reasons, and will u confess it or not???
Whats the meaning of a relationship if there is unfaithfulness on anyone's part?
Faith is what brings about a relationship and holds it strong and if thats not what you can give to a relationship ... might as well not have one.
So if you cant be faithful - might as well opt out of the relationship.
Greekman
You may cheat for revenge, you may cheat because you have the opportunity, you may cheat because you can't control your lust.
What i believe it's an option you may take it or not, in everything we do we always have an alternative,
we choose not the others.
The other thing is when someone cheats in an affair then most probably the other part has something to do with it, nobody cheats on thin air.
But you have to face your man/woman right in the eyes and take the responsibility of your actions.
For me, if i feel that something's wrong in my relationship i find a polite excuse and i brake up with my GF, there's no need to feel guilty or to hurt someone's feelings.
This is something that differenciates the true man from the boy we all have inside. This is my way and i follow it wether is right or wrong....
sara_uk
i will never forgive cheating and i do not think anyone should. if you are not happy in relationship then walk away and do what you like. why hurt someone?? it is very painfull to be cheated on
MaaaD
- sara_uk wrote:
i will never forgive cheating and i do not think anyone should. if you are not happy in relationship then walk away and do what you like. why hurt someone?? it is very painfull to be cheated on
you can't really generalize like that, i am not saying you should condone cheating but you will never know how you react till you are in the situation itself and can assess all the different factors that went to it. So i dont think anyone should put an absolute answer to this question.
sara_uk
- MaaaD wrote:
- sara_uk wrote:
i will never forgive cheating and i do not think anyone should. if you are not happy in relationship then walk away and do what you like. why hurt someone?? it is very painfull to be cheated on
you can't really generalize like that, i am not saying you should condone cheating but you will never know how you react till you are in the situation itself and can assess all the different factors that went to it. So i dont think anyone should put an absolute answer to this question.
it is absolute for me, cheating is not worth forgiven for as i said if someone want to cheat they can walk away first. i think the thought of living with a cheater will kill me. i know myself and i know i can not forgive cheating.
shanya
IF YOU CHEAT GO OUT !! no matter the reason ...if your BF cheats he does it because he is a looser and an a**h*** that's it ! he is not enough courageous to act like a man and face the truth! OUT OUT OUT
Corcovado
- shanya wrote:
IF YOU CHEAT GO OUT !! no matter the reason ...if your BF cheats he does it because he is a looser and an a**h*** that's it ! he is not enough courageous to act like a man and face the truth! OUT OUT OUT
someone is upset :shock: :shock: :shock: easy now
sniper420
- shanya wrote:
IF YOU CHEAT GO OUT !! no matter the reason ...if your BF cheats he does it because he is a looser and an a**h*** that's it ! he is not enough courageous to act like a man and face the truth! OUT OUT OUT
easy girl eaaaaaaaaaaasy what did I say? bury the topic and turn the page and start a new life......no use to depress urself for somebody's mistake
bubble world
it's easier to confess and tell the other party that you have cheated and everyone can just called it a day. But when a cheater doesn't wish to hurt the innocent party, concealing the fact that you have once cheated perhaps is easier for everyone to face each other again. That's what i called the white lie.
noni
anyone seen Closer? Makes me think this world is just full of psychological phunked people who choose infidelity as their hobby. What a way to spend your free time huh....?
Here's a good quote from the film:
"Oh, as if you had no choice? There's a moment, there's always a moment, "I can do this, I can give into this, or I can resist it", and I don't know when your moment was, but I bet there was one."
Scare Face
I think if its a random non-planned thing that just somehow happen when consuming a large amount of alcohol, why hurt the person you true love, i dont think its worth hurting them over an uncalculated mistake.
However for those players out there i dotn believe in having a long term relationship behind the back of your loved one
^ian^
- Scare Face wrote:
I think if its a random non-planned thing that just somehow happen when consuming a large amount of alcohol, why hurt the person you true love, i dont think its worth hurting them over an uncalculated mistake.
Because you have to admit to yourself then that you don't love them, because when you love someone, it generally means you don't go around getting drunk and screwing other people.
If anyone cheated on me, I would want to know straight away, because I wouldn't want to spend one more second with a person who cheated on me.
Quote:
However for those players out there i dotn believe in having a long term relationship behind the back of your loved one
So it's ok to get pissed and root around, but not OK to have an affair. Personally, if I was the person being cheated on, I'd rather the affair. At least I wouldn't be shit scared about having The Aids.
panaghoy
- olivertwisted wrote:
On a more sober note .... before u label all men as horny minks u should perhaps dwell on the probability that maybe if a person cheats it could very well be due to a particular emotional shortcoming from the female partner... not everything is about dipping the wick... Maybe before you 'drop his sorry @rse' u should stop and think about the reason.. root cause.. maybe then ul find its your own @ss that needs dropping.... :twisted:
this is absurd! now u putting the blame on us? just becoz u have this itch to screw around.
and is that the way to treat ur partner? if something is wrong with her, why dont u tell her and sort it out... i think that is a lame excuse or is just very sick!!
alexandra
- English Girlie wrote:
I have to say..... I know A LOT of girls that have cheated!
Many of them because they were fed up with being taken for granted by there fella's, admittedly!
Women have lustful thoughts too and some do carry through with it!
Not all the blame can lay with the boys!!
i agree with u its absurd to blame only the men. it takes 2 in a relationship therefore ( except the cases when the man simply cant keep his .... in his pants) it would not be fair to blame only 1 if there is "trouble in paradise".
alexandra
- olivertwisted wrote:
my my such an outburst at a single post .... looks like Ive hit a nerve ... As far as the horny mink part goes you couldnt have been more right... I wake up and look at myself in the mirror .... sure enough I do have the six o clock in the morn hard on 8) and as for the sympathy Im touched by your ever so tender personality. From the looks of it its you that needs help sister. You sound exactly like some of the pig headed girls who Ive dated ...... Just cant accept that anything is your fault ..... how typically feminine. Didnt expect anything else. Predictable and vain... and in response a futile and pathetic attempt about my frustration. Is that the best u could come up with ... :D. Take my advise U could be a tad less tight @ssed I see where ur coming from ... as any guy would cheat on you if you react like this.... take a chill pill sister or all you'll be doin is eating dust from guys sneakers.
By the way I was having a bad day But uve just made Mine!!
that;s a lot of crap...even for a limp d.i.c.k like u :lol: :lol:
typical attitude from an impotent who is trying so much to appear a macho :roll: like anyone in here gives a S.h.i.t about ur fantasies of having erection in the morning......RIGHT :lol:
:thefinger:
Esma
Quote: ''Behavioural studies support the physical evidence that humans are not monogamous''!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thats the reason why I do NOT believe in monogamy.
Why does almost no one in the world accept this fact and deal with it??????
Anyway I did accept it and try to deal with it, its very hard to accept men like this kind of creatures but there are TOO many evidences that show a man is NOT a monogamous creature(neither females but they have less need to have more partners), so why are we trying soooo are very best to stay monogamous and try to live up to these so called morals humans have created????? So we are 'killing' our basic instincts while they are essential to us and this is what nature has given us!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is it because of love???? Dont get me wrong I DO BELIEVE in love, i just do not believe in sexual monogamy and even in some cases i also do not believe in emotional monogamy, i also do not believe in settle down for less but that is a other topic ;)
What has love to do with monogamy????????
think about it :scratch:
Here is one of the many sources that can be found on internet about this topic :
Imagine the world like this: we females accept the NATURAL behavior of men........I think there will be ALOT less pain and depressions, and a lot of less men who are sexually frustrated :protest:
Ciao
alexandra
Imagine the world like this: we females accept the NATURAL behavior of men........I think there will be ALOT less pain and depressions, and a lot of less men who are sexually frustrated protest
Ciao
natural behavior????????? hell no . i am not so noble to accept a man cheating on me only to save him for his sexual frustrations :evil:
humans r not animals to act only on instinct and if he cant have self control i will drop his sorry @ss in a heartbeat and with no regrets whatsoever :twisted:
olivertwisted
I believe that everyone has skeletons in their closets.. some obviously a lot more than others... I also believe that the world has a sinister way of justice in that what goes around comes around and bites you in the hindside. Bearing all that in mind I suppose it would be a good idea to keep your pants on at all times and drown your sorrows over a JOINT!! :twisted:
olivertwisted
On a more sober note .... before u label all men as horny minks u should perhaps dwell on the probability that maybe if a person cheats it could very well be due to a particular emotional shortcoming from the female partner... not everything is about dipping the wick... Maybe before you 'drop his sorry @rse' u should stop and think about the reason.. root cause.. maybe then ul find its your own @ss that needs dropping.... :twisted:
Esma
- olivertwisted wrote:
On a more sober note .... before u label all men as horny minks
Hey, I am NOT putting any labels on no one, I just say that ALOT of studies, tests and proven facts has shown us that we are NOT monogamous!!!!! Dont blame me, i did not create humans just saying its a fact, and i rather accept it and deal with it then the rest of my life be worried if my partner cheats on me yes or no, and if he does so what???? its not the end of the world and also not the end of a maybe great relationship!!!!!
I do however agree with you that a person cheats most of the time because of the partner, but if everything is going good in the relationship i am not going to be botherd with paranoja if he cheats on me yes or no, its a waist of time imo, and if it happens for some reason i will forgive my partner, simple as that and move on with our lives.
At one stage in our relationship i will suggest a 3some with a other women and try to have also some 'fun' in life with my partner instead of being worried all the time like a lot of my female friends!!!! they say: The wurst thing he could do to me is cheat on me :shock:
Well not in my relationship, there are MUCH wurser things he could do to me and in those cases (beating, abuse, hurt our children, mental abuse) i will drop his @ss, but if he treats me like a queen why should i not let him from time to time have some 'fun' in life with a other women(because it is a proven fact he wants it). If he does not treat me like a queen then why should i be with him in the first place then it is not the type of partner for me!!!!
English Girlie
I have to say..... I know A LOT of girls that have cheated!
Many of them because they were fed up with being taken for granted by there fella's, admittedly!
Women have lustful thoughts too and some do carry through with it!
Not all the blame can lay with the boys!!
alexandra
- olivertwisted wrote:
On a more sober note .... before u label all men as horny minks u should perhaps dwell on the probability that maybe if a person cheats it could very well be due to a particular emotional shortcoming from the female partner... not everything is about dipping the wick... Maybe before you 'drop his sorry @rse' u should stop and think about the reason.. root cause.. maybe then ul find its your own @ss that needs dropping.... :twisted:
olivertwisted u sure have a way to twist words...where in my post was I "labeling all men"??? u should learn how to read before u post a comment. it;s not my fault that u see urself as a horny mink :twisted: if that's what u saw in the mirror when u woke up in the morning it is ur own business :roll: :roll: :roll: but if u need some sympathy dont worry u got it....i feel for u :) no need to be so sad :!:
oh and one more thing: dont u worry about my @ss will ya? better go out and get urself a woman, that will help u to deal with ur frustrations
have a nice day :D :wink:
olivertwisted
my my such an outburst at a single post .... looks like Ive hit a nerve ... As far as the horny mink part goes you couldnt have been more right... I wake up and look at myself in the mirror .... sure enough I do have the six o clock in the morn hard on 8) and as for the sympathy Im touched by your ever so tender personality. From the looks of it its you that needs help sister. You sound exactly like some of the pig headed girls who Ive dated ...... Just cant accept that anything is your fault ..... how typically feminine. Didnt expect anything else. Predictable and vain... and in response a futile and pathetic attempt about my frustration. Is that the best u could come up with ... :D. Take my advise U could be a tad less tight @ssed I see where ur coming from ... as any guy would cheat on you if you react like this.... take a chill pill sister or all you'll be doin is eating dust from guys sneakers.
By the way I was having a bad day But uve just made Mine!!
Unknown Devil
Lets get ready to Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuumblllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllle. Bring out the pop corns. This is getting way intersting than I thought.
olivertwisted
limp dick ... lolol this just keeps getting better and better..... somehow just when I feel u couldnt possibly say anything more retarded u go ahead and prove me wrong.... Its funny how people after you have seen light in my arguments and have responded by either countering or corroborating my statements in a sane or controlled manner. Its only u that seems obsessed with my supposedly limp dick and declining testosterone levels. Kind of goes a long way to describe your rudimentary intelligence. You should know something about me by now sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never fcuk me. Something tells me ur some skinny teeny bopper who thinks your some intellectual twat. Truth of the matter is no ones really put you in your place..... yet. Pussy is a dime a dozen... all varieties and your just another one with the brains of an ants left bollock.... This whole argument is flawed due to the mere fact that even if anyone cheats no one would be stupid enough to leave ridiculous comments on this daft post for their mums to find out would they!!
Its funny u should have that ridiculous emoticon.... I bet u have a big smile just like that when ur using ur fingers
:twisted: Must come in handy in your deprived state
Youve just made my day again :lol: :twisted:
olivertwisted
and further more later you agree to the fact that a girl could be at fault ..... but only when another girl says that she feels a girl could be at fault... wonder .... r u schizophrenic
alexandra
- olivertwisted wrote:
and further more later you agree to the fact that a girl could be at fault ..... but only when another girl says that she feels a girl could be at fault... wonder .... r u schizophrenic
u r such a pathetic moron...where in my posts did i say it;s only men who cheat or it;s only their fault???
the comment that put ur ass on fire was not directed to u, it was to the girl who said women should accept that men r cheaters by nature...so go f.u.c.k urself
:roll:
alexandra
- olivertwisted wrote:
limp banana ... lolol this just keeps getting better and better..... somehow just when I feel u couldnt possibly say anything more retarded u go ahead and prove me wrong.... Its funny how people after you have seen light in my arguments and have responded by either countering or corroborating my statements in a sane or controlled manner. Its only u that seems obsessed with my supposedly limp banana and declining testosterone levels. Kind of goes a long way to describe your rudimentary intelligence. You should know something about me by now sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never fcuk me. Something tells me ur some skinny teeny bopper who thinks your some intellectual twat. Truth of the matter is no ones really put you in your place..... yet. Pussy is a dime a dozen... all varieties and your just another one with the brains of an ants left bollock.... This whole argument is flawed due to the mere fact that even if anyone cheats no one would be stupid enough to leave ridiculous comments on this daft post for their mums to find out would they!!
Its funny u should have that ridiculous emoticon.... I bet u have a big smile just like that when ur using ur fingers
:twisted: Must come in handy in your deprived state
Youve just made my day again :lol: :twisted:
u make so much sense... "Dr. Freud" :lol: :lol: :lol:
olivertwisted
Freud was a retard as opposed to me luv........ I am as twisted as can be.... :twisted: Claircognizance is my forte.
olivertwisted
ur such a delight alexandra..... I think Im actually going to miss U... :sign10:
Esma
- alexandra wrote:
- olivertwisted wrote:
and further more later you agree to the fact that a girl could be at fault ..... but only when another girl says that she feels a girl could be at fault... wonder .... r u schizophrenic
u r such a pathetic moron...where in my posts did i say it;s only men who cheat or it;s only their fault???
the comment that put ur a#s on fire was not directed to u, it was to the girl who said women should accept that men r cheaters by nature...so go f.u.c.k urself
:roll:
Quote: but there are TOO many evidences that show a man is NOT a monogamous creature(neither females but they have less need to have more partners)
Its just about the natural instincts, yes females could have this need of more partners in the same time but LESS then men allready have this need by nature , thats it we done ;)
C'mon give me a break, i know its kinda heavy but so what if my way of thinking is making me happyer and my partner, i think its something positive, well yea thats my opinion, but the studies and tests what they have doing for years and years is a fact so nobody can't deny this!!!! I am not being Einstein I am just saying that these are facts that we are not monogamous creatures, eveybody deals with it there own way so do i by not stressing to much over what my partner is doing ;)
alexandra
C'mon give me a break, i know its kinda heavy but so what if my way of thinking is making me happyer and my partner, i think its something positive
if u can share ur man with other women and that makes u happy so good for u. it;s ur choice :D
regarding ur opinion i respect it even if i dont agree with this approach.
if 2 ppl r not ready or able to commit i dont see the point of a relationship and that is just my opinion. if u want to sleep with a different woman/ man each night so why bother to stay together???
it;s obvious that not everybody is guided by the same principles in life: maybe to u, my view on this is narrow but i wont live my life pretending that is acceptable for the man i love to cheat even if he crawls back feeling sorry for what he did
:twisted:
Unknown Devil
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
alexandra
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
u r soooooooo funny :lol: i would not marry that guy even if he is the last man on the planet :roll:
alexandra
- olivertwisted wrote:
ur such a delight alexandra..... I think Im actually going to miss U... :sign10:
now who is the schizo :roll:
p.s i am not ur "luv" :twisted:
Galactico
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
Unknown Devil
- Galactico wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
hehehehe. What can I say. Everything started with a normal question and then what do u know blaming each other. Thats one facet of life which married couples go through. I wonder if anyone gets the couch or no dinner for a week!!
alexandra
- Galactico wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
you too Brutus??
:lol:
alexandra
- Unknown Devil wrote:
- Galactico wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
hehehehe. What can I say. Everything started with a normal question and then what do u know blaming each other. Thats one facet of life which married couples go through. I wonder if anyone gets the couch or no dinner for a week!!
talking from experience, devil?? :wink:
Unknown Devil
- alexandra wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
- Galactico wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
hehehehe. What can I say. Everything started with a normal question and then what do u know blaming each other. Thats one facet of life which married couples go through. I wonder if anyone gets the couch or no dinner for a week!!
talking from experience, devil?? :wink:
Alas sadly speaking its not in my fate to have a girlfriend or a wife or even screw around with women cuz I really dont believe in love because I dont want to. Sorry I just dont. I rather sleep on my own on the couch gladly or I rather eat from outside. I just seen people and what I observed thats all. If u think that experience then yeah u can say that!!
Galactico
- alexandra wrote:
- Galactico wrote:
- Unknown Devil wrote:
They almost fought like they are married couple or something. Makes me wonder if they were married in a previous life that is, if it did exist. hmmmm.
I've been thinking that aswell :lol: :lol:
you too Brutus??
:lol:
What that mean :shock: :shock:
alexandra
see my PM :wink: