easternjewel
I m just one of those who belive in 100% commitment when in a relationship. That is why I am single :lol: I m scared of commitments & I wanted to know if i am the only odd one out here! ..... so simply vote!
ajb
Nope Im totally committed in relationships .... but I also have a few scorpio traits so that I am very tolerant until a certain point and then I cut all ties .... and I have been like that in relationships in the past :(
Jeevan
i would say commitment is the key to a relationship, i wouldnt like to be with someone who is not sure about what they want from the relationship in the future.mes an aerien its either yes or a total no:)
Jerry
Eros
Unless you are committed , the relationship does not feel real.
KeithL
- easternjewel wrote:
I m just one of those who belive in 100% commitment when in a relationship. That is why I am single :lol: I m scared of commitments & I wanted to know if i am the only odd one out here! ..... so simply vote!
I believe in 100% commitment too and Im single as well. We have so much in common
*PM Sent*
:wink:
dale
i aint scared of commitments as long as i feel i can fulfill them :D
though now i am single!
gLoBalTeCh
what kinda of commitment ? ok tell me what is the meaning of commitment in relationship.
raidah
ppl dont take commitments because they r not sure of their feelings. when u know u love him or her, u will commit and vice versa. u will know ur in love cos ull see the relation as exclusiv, no room for 3rd parts.
Corcovado
i believe in all or nothing , but i noticed i usually prefer guys that i know i could never end up with , and i totally run away when i feel something real is coming my way :( so i gues that commitment scares the hell out of me
PrettyPenny
Commitment is for those who fear adventure
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kanelli
Commitment is for those who value and enjoy commitment.
raidah
commitment is love. now i wonder who can deny wanting love...
easternjewel
- kanelli wrote:
Commitment is for those who value and enjoy commitment.
absolutely!
- raidah wrote:
commitment is love. now i wonder who can deny wanting love...
erm not too sure if commitment is always love !
easternjewel
- Corcovado wrote:
i believe in all or nothing , but i noticed i usually prefer guys that i know i could never end up with , and i totally run away when i feel something real is coming my way :( so i gues that commitment scares the hell out of me
Thats is exactly my case!
raidah
- easternjewel wrote:
- kanelli wrote:
Commitment is for those who value and enjoy commitment.
absolutely!
- raidah wrote:
commitment is love. now i wonder who can deny wanting love...
erm not too sure if commitment is always love !
cos we r probably talking about 2 different things :wink: . i was refering to emotional commitment. emotional commitment is love, even if 2 ppl cant be physically together.
easternjewel
- gLoBalTeCh wrote:
what kinda of commitment ? ok tell me what is the meaning of commitment in relationship.
Commitment is so many things in a relationship package. It means loyalty, obligation, giving your cent percent, doing things for your relationship (if you love the person, you’ll do it happily, otherwise you simply adjust) etc. It simply being committed!
easternjewel
- raidah wrote:
cos we r probably talking about 2 different things :wink: . i was refering to emotional commitment. emotional commitment is love, even if 2 ppl cant be physically together.
& what are the other types of commitments? :D
freza
- Eros wrote:
Unless you are committed , the relationship does not feel real.
:thumbright: Agree 100%
constantine
your title says it all...then again...its a personal choice and what stage of life you are at...
phunkhoney
TERRIFIED OF THE C WORD!
MaaaD
When you find yourself not accepting no excuses to let the relationship fail, and do anything in your power to make it work thats when you know you are comitted.
HP
- easternjewel wrote:
I m just one of those who belive in 100% commitment when in a relationship. That is why I am single :lol: I m scared of commitments & I wanted to know if i am the only odd one out here! ..... so simply vote!
E.J
Its not only you but almost all girls seek 100 % commitment , regardless if u r born in Sheikh Zahid hospital in Dubai , Hvidovre hospital in Denmark , or any mamaternity home in India.
I writing it wid blood , dont consider it red colour .
[color=red] I am 101% sincere , dedicated and committed . :oops: [/color]
ajb
- easternjewel wrote:
& what are the other types of commitments? :D
well theres the type with the straight jacket and padded walls :lol:
I-No-Jack
- ajb wrote:
- easternjewel wrote:
& what are the other types of commitments? :D
well theres the type with the straight jacket and padded walls :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
easternjewel
glad to know i m not the only freak here :lol:
freza
HP
ALL you seem to talk about is marriage, marriage and more marriage. You remind me of one of the chicks from that awful show S*e*x in the City.
ajb
- freza wrote:
HP
ALL you seem to talk about is marriage, marriage and more marriage. You remind me of one of the chicks from that awful show S*e*x in the City.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
dubai girl
I do believe in committment after 30 years of marriage! Takes two though, trust, and lots of hard work.
Corcovado
- freza wrote:
HP
ALL you seem to talk about is marriage, marriage and more marriage. You remind me of one of the chicks from that awful show S*e*x in the City.
she is not Awful. :shock: plus this is my favorite show and i just love carry 8)
ajb
- Corcovado wrote:
- freza wrote:
HP
ALL you seem to talk about is marriage, marriage and more marriage. You remind me of one of the chicks from that awful show S*e*x in the City.
she is not Awful. :shock: plus this is my favorite show and i just love carry 8)
Maybe we should call HP Carre from now on :wink:
freza
yeah I think S*e*x in the City is an awful show. Is Carrie the desperate brunette?
ajb,
hehe, Carre
I-No-Jack
commitment, nah
one night stands work best
HP
I dont like marriage but it is a tool for having s.e.x in life . As i accepted the Islam last year , i dont have any option but to have my own real wife fulfill my requirements :roll:
I am planning to close the mouth of my kids with tap , so they dont awake me or disturb me at night :P
IMJ
- freza wrote:
yeah I think S*e*x in the City is an awful show. Is Carrie the desperate brunette?
ajb,
hehe, Carre
no, she is a blond one and it is a funny show
I-No-Jack
- HP wrote:
I dont like marriage but it is a tool for having s.e.x in life .
man you are so wrong about this one - its a tool to stop having s.e.x any married person would tell you. luckily i wouln't know.
ajb
- I-No-Jack wrote:
- HP wrote:
I dont like marriage but it is a tool for having s.e.x in life .
man you are so wrong about this one - its a tool to stop having s.e.x any married person would tell you. luckily i wouln't know.
But you gotta remember being single hasnt worked that well for HP yet either :cry:
easternjewel
- HP wrote:
I dont like marriage but it is a tool for having s.e.x in life . :P
you mean marriage is license for s.e.x ;)
Corcovado
- freza wrote:
yeah I think S*e*x in the City is an awful show. Is Carrie the desperate brunette?
ajb,
hehe, Carre
Carrie is the funny blond with fabulous sense of fashion ..
zam
what happened to the subject on this thread??
Commitment is the topic guys!!! It really shows you cant live with this.... :oops:
freza
zam
You're right, the topic is about commitment and we went off track. Well, I agree with the two sides of opinions presented here. I think that easternjewel should not be afraid of being commited if she has a serious and loving relationship. But at the same time I don't think that she should be in a rush to fall in love or into a commitment. If she doesn't feel it, she should not worry about it; it might not be the time for her. I think that sometimes and for some people, it's better to be guarded rather than to be on the constant pursuit of commitment. Some people are so anxious for a serious relationship that they think of nothing else and they might end up being desperate and needy - just look at Mr. HP!
Behemot_80
Yes, I am afraid of commitment.
hack88
i know a gal who failed in school, family got fed up with her.. . . didnot hav other friends .. just coz she was comitted.....
XRW-147
- hack88 wrote:
i know a gal who failed in school, family got fed up with her.. . . didnot hav other friends .. just coz she was comitted.....
Weak excuse for laziness.
Corcovado
- XRW-147 wrote:
- hack88 wrote:
i know a gal who failed in school, family got fed up with her.. . . didnot hav other friends .. just coz she was comitted.....
Weak excuse for laziness.
:cyclopsani: ur a magician
bushra21
Im not afraid of commitment, but I do find that I need to stop myself from sabotaging any relationship that I am in....friends, family, dating. I think there was only one friend relationship I never tried to sabatoge...still figuring out how I did it. For dating, the guy Im with is helping me out with that problem and puts up with my stupid antics....which are becomming less frequent thankfully...well its only been around 3 times in a 6 month period.
Oh and when i say sabotage , i dont mean like cheating or anyting, i just argue about something i know i shouldnt...but im stopping that, or at least working at stopping that. personal problems.
i guess its in my best interets that i got my degree in psychology, analyze myself and figure out how to deal...lol