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single again Dec 08, 2008
why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll

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you asked a loaded question. Dec 08, 2008
men are born polygamous and therefore inclined to have a greater number of partners in their life time..although some men try control their polygamous nature (financial limitation,social moral, law and religion put a limit on men's polygamous nature) however fall back into their original nature from time to time.
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Dec 08, 2008
I don't believe it is human nature to be monogamous. It's fine for some people, others choose not to stay with one person, maybe they don't find 'the one' if such a thing exists.
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Dec 08, 2008
Men will always stray away for short bursts... you need to let them go... only to have them come back home like a happy puppy!!
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Dec 08, 2008
are you sure he will be back home before late nite .. unlike a puppy
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Dec 08, 2008
Dr Desmond Morris claims that the '7 year itch' is actually a female genetic phenomenon and that after a period of approximately 7 years with a partner, a woman will seek to find a new mate in order to spread variety to the human gene pool. She can't help it, its evolutionary conditioning.

The only itch men get, is from spending 7 minutes with a lady who works at the York!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: single again Dec 08, 2008
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll



i m wondering too why?? :roll:
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Dec 08, 2008
i didn't want anyone to make it that simple in one line..


speak out
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Re: single again Dec 08, 2008
Miss_lolly wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll


i m wondering too why?? :roll:



is someone out there
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Re: single again Dec 08, 2008
shorn77777 wrote:
Miss_lolly wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll


i m wondering too why?? :roll:



is someone out there



i don t think soo :roll: :roll: :roll:
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Re: single again Dec 08, 2008
Miss_lolly wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:
Miss_lolly wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll


i m wondering too why?? :roll:



is someone out there



i don t think soo :roll: :roll: :roll:


hey i have a question to you.. are there serious discussion on this web..
or do we have to wait a bit for every one's replys. what i have noticed here was, its pretty interesting but with time..

what do u say
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Dec 08, 2008
it s right :)
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Dec 08, 2008
Miss_lolly wrote:it s right :)


you didn't like i said about you did you..

apologies if i did wrong.
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Re: single again Dec 28, 2008
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll


it happened to me...just recently..so painful..too hard where to start living a life of being single again..

on the other hand, i got to do things on my own..i need not to ask permission or whatsoever..but still at the end of the day,,,something is missing..:(
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Dec 29, 2008
I recently became free and single once more (notice I did not say 'young'!) after a comparatively long term relationship. Its hard and yes, there is always a slight emptiness there, however if you are comfortable within your own skin and happy with your own company, then where is the problem.

Now I have the time to do the things I need to do that keep me sane and spend time with the friends who get neglected because you are 'committed' to someone and always seem to end up in couple's situations.

Don't see the situation as being 'single again' see it as an opportunity to re-evaluate your life and do the things you previously said 'one day' to.

Make new friends (with and without benefits)

Live a little! Have some fun!

8) 8) 8)

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Jan 01, 2009
some people don't understand the life
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Re: single again Jan 01, 2009
Hinata wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll


it happened to me...just recently..so painful..too hard where to start living a life of being single again..

on the other hand, i got to do things on my own..i need not to ask permission or whatsoever..but still at the end of the day,,,something is missing..:(

i have a solution,
tha's how i escaped from such situaiton..
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Jan 04, 2009
DPS wrote:Men will always stray away for short bursts... you need to let them go... only to have them come back home like a happy puppy!!

Most wives don't agree with this, that's why most men do "OVER TIME" excuse thingy...As a saying goes "When the cat is away, the mouse will play"...
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Jan 04, 2009
"When the cat is away, the mouse will play"...
thats because the cat makes the mouse's life as hell,
wish I won't have such a cat in my life....
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Jan 05, 2009
be happy as there are many people who are committed in a relationship and yet very lonly. Men are not worth the misery, one should find the emotional independence and stay happy :geek:
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Jan 05, 2009
queen of Sheba wrote:be happy as there are many people who are committed in a relationship and yet very lonly. Men are not worth the misery, one should find the emotional independence and stay happy :geek:


but still there are a lot many who are not alone right, i think its an energy which wants to get stabilize or neutralize plays in this . god knows.
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Jan 06, 2009
Ya...and out of these "lot many people who are not alone" 50 % are either dreaming of another partner or wish to get rid of relationship one day... Nothing is perfect, but if it did NOT work out??!-is it better (and worth?) to go on suffering or take a decision, change?

It's increadable pain....I know... but it's even more scary and frustrating to be, to share the LIFE with a person, who is NOT WITH YOU trully....

Take Dubai Knight's advice--make new friends, see ur old ones, go for dancing classes, work 13 hours a day-- do something, whatever!... analyze why it happened, why YOU let it happen, what's the message.... Once you realise it, the pain will cease, and higher the chances you won't meet the same type of person or situation in your life again.

Look at it as experience... not a Negative experience, but a useful one.
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Jan 07, 2009
it's a great advice! i'd agree forget the mistakes you've made so that they dun hurt u in the future but do remember the lessons they've taught, evalute the experiences that you've gained and this will lead u not to make the same mistakes in the future n will guide u in choosing a betta partner in the future!
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Jan 07, 2009
queen of Sheba wrote:Men are not worth the misery, one should find the emotional independence and stay happy :geek:


Lol. Do u know all men queen :queen: :queen: :queen:

Perhaps the ones in your queendom are bad :P
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Jan 07, 2009
lol... @ bedro! :P
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Jan 08, 2009
Lolly wrote:Ya...and out of these "lot many people who are not alone" 50 % are either dreaming of another partner or wish to get rid of relationship one day... Nothing is perfect, but if it did NOT work out??!-is it better (and worth?) to go on suffering or take a decision, change?

It's increadable pain....I know... but it's even more scary and frustrating to be, to share the LIFE with a person, who is NOT WITH YOU trully....

Take Dubai Knight's advice--make new friends, see ur old ones, go for dancing classes, work 13 hours a day-- do something, whatever!... analyze why it happened, why YOU let it happen, what's the message.... Once you realise it, the pain will cease, and higher the chances you won't meet the same type of person or situation in your life again.

Look at it as experience... not a Negative experience, but a useful one.


so which dance do you like, tango? salsa, which is popular here or that sexy one which pop should have banned instead of argentine tango, [with great respect]
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Jan 10, 2009
Being single is cool. No worrying about anyone, no obligations and best of all, no heartaches. But the truth is..if you will never get your heart broken, you will never know what great love really is...
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Jan 10, 2009
if you will never get your heart broken, you will never know what great love really is...


Himmmmmmmm....
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Re: single again Jan 12, 2009
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll



-men are polygamous.
-they havent found the right one yet
-you are boring in bed
-he is a dimwit who doesnt realize he already has a goddess :P
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Re: single again Jan 12, 2009
aisha7 wrote:
shorn77777 wrote:why dont people stick to one partner in life.

if that doesn't happen the above mentioned two words happen..

let me hear from you...had you been through this situation..

or.. do u have any idea how wil this situation be...


and ur advise to young ..people..

esp. to beautiful eyed..loll



-men are polygamous.
-they havent the right one yet
-you are boring in bed
-he is a dimwit who doesnt realize he already has a goddess :P


may b u havent got REAL DEAL yet! :)
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