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Andyba wrote:What do you mean by calculating behavior? And what actually is true empathy?
Andyba wrote:Nucleus wrote: I don't think there is a question of how far it extends, as it is about not being hypocrite.
Well people don't like to consider them self hypocrites, so it is easier to talk about how far the rule can extend.
During war for example it's quite difficult to follow this rule even if you are usually not a hypocrite.
Flying Dutchman wrote:Calculating behavior in the sense that you intend to benefit from it. If a sick man is lying on the sidewalk, me or you helping him doesn't benefit me or you, still its empathic to do so. You might even say you lose time for example. He wins, you loose.
Flying Dutchman wrote:There are empaths out there that can read and even understand others emotions within a split second
Andyba wrote:I understand empathy as being able to imagine yourself in the place of someone else. That's it.
The highest level is (Ita'i Dhil-Qurba) - 'Kindred' - to treat others as you would treat family, i.e. give them love etc without any regard for how they actually behave towards you/others - as you would treat your child/parents/siblings.
Flying Dutchman wrote:You can imagine what you want and still purposely hurt the other.
kanelli wrote:What happens if too many people are lacking the capability to empathise? I have met several in my lifetime already, and it is quite scary.
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