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It really doesn't sound as though she's interested in their credentials as a life partner, m8

Looks like another abused wife in the making.

i love men and woman of all colors!

hi i'm new here, i found this place by accident

but i'd just like to comment on this cos i notice there's alot of talk of this sort of thing, i'm with an asian girl, and i have a few asian friends also so i think i can give a bit of insight into this asian men with european women, there's 2 sides to the reason why you dont see quite as many asian men with white women, there's a superficial side and a social perception one

(i'd like to say before hand, that i'm a white, british guy, my opinion has been formed only by talking to people that i know, so if you think i'm wrong maybe its because i dont know the same people that you do, and i welcome any additional views or perspectives on what i'm saying)

the first one is, european guys tend to be taller, bigger physically, that has to be an initial influence as to whether a girl fancies a guy, add to that the european women are also taller and larger... i'm talking in averages here, i know there are some big asian guys.

the second thing here, is a social thing. asian men seem to expect certain things from thier partner, and european women dont like being told what to do! by contrast asian women are more accomodating. i work with an indian guy and the way he talks about women... i can see why he doesnt date many white women dispite the fact he's very attracted to blonde hair and big boobs! for a superficial relationship he has a hight disadvantage and for a more meaningful relationship he has a cultural disadvantage.... very old fashioned and sexist! plus indians can be mummies boys! they always answer to their mother! (please note i'm not saying all asian or indian boys are like this but its the cultural norm) i mean in indian culture when a guy gets married to a woman, they move in with his mother and the rest of the family! the thought of this is abhorrent to a western woman! european couples on the other hand tend to embark on lives that are a little more independant of thier family which women appreciate more (nobody wants to be bossed around by thier mother in law thier whole life)

i know the indian guy example is an extreme one, but my point is, asian men can be a bit more conservative

the final factor in this equation, and i saved the best for last is asian womens perspective of european men; most asian girls that i've spoken to, when asked, will say they think that european men treat thier wives better! whether its true or not, that was thier opinion. also a european man is less likely to try to make his wife change her religion or culture (my partner is roman catholic... i'm christian other, and although i dont agree with her beliefs, i fully support her attempts to be closer to God, even if they are misguided from my perspective)
a european woman wont want to cover her hair all the time, she wont want you telling how long her skirt has to be or how revealing her cloths can be, she wont want you telling her not to socialise with her girlfriends and she doesnt want to live with your mother! and given half a chance i think most asian women would choose not to do those things too!

like i said... before you all shoot me down in flames, my opinion is formed only by observation, and what i know, if anything i've said is horribly incorrect, please feel free to correct me, but do so politely

In my opinion, non-Asian women need to come clean and stop dodging around the topic so they don't imply themselves as racists. From my experience, when I hung out at a girl's house, who was friends with these white and mexican guys I knew, she hardly acknowledged me, and I tried to show interest, but she didn't have that same twinkle in her eye like she did with the other guys. American girls are really a mixed bag. They want equal rights with men(e.g. in the workplace, etc), but they love assholes or ones that aren't nice guys, which is considered too feminine, or doesn't tell a good story or build up drama. Now, this is on average, and does not apply to all women, as there are extremes and outliers.

It's strange cause in our culture, we consider big square jaws and chiseled cheekbones masculine, which northeast asians have, and a less wide nose, but African men, mostly the ones in the sub-sahara don't exhibit these features. I think people need to study and educate themselves more.

Also, Asia is more of a patriachical society, and we've followed biblical principles, because we've carried the religion of Noah in one of the sacred books. Ideally, God likes variety which is why he separated the races. We have culture and have invented some key items that changed the world. It's funny how we are considered the lowest of the mating pool. So in my opinion, we have more discipline than women, and women need to confess about basing their mating choices upon looks. Because most women seem embarrassed to be around an asian man cause he isn't a rebel or anarchist enough and let's himself go stupid for the sake of keeping a woman. That and we're family oriented like one guy said. Women on average don't like to be in public with another person's family, they'd rather go act wild and stupid with their friends. Now please bow.

BillyLee wrote:From my experience, when I hung out at a girl's house, who was friends with these white and mexican guys I knew, she hardly acknowledged me, and I tried to show interest, but she didn't have that same twinkle in her eye like she did with the other guys...........but they love assholes or ones that aren't nice guys, which is considered too feminine, or doesn't tell a good story or build up drama. Now please bow.

Rejection issues???

So, you are not an a$$hole (an opinion which I can't agree with), and since are a nice guy meaning you are feminine, can't tell a good story, and have no drama, what do you expect????

I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Dubai Knight wrote:I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Is'nt it supposed to be the other way round? Old aged European men with nubile young Asian women....off-course in it till death do them part!

Misery Called Life wrote:

Dubai Knight wrote:I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Is'nt it supposed to be the other way round? Old aged European men with nubile young Asian women....off-course in it till death do them part!

Well if she dies, she dies!!



Knight

er isn't it down to personal taste? Some people ust don't find others attractive - end of really.

From my point of view, the western people have a good physique and appearance, so they attract each other... Asian people just don't fit that profile. No hard feelings people, I'm an asian too!

KateGarden ,hi kate im looking white women can u help me

Chocoholic , ooo really so what is your type I am Pakistani height 6.2 body athletic any one want me ??

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