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i really hope not, i don't want to be responsible for her relationship problems in the future.

I obviously totally disagree with K

Let him have his wicked way Janet.

well i said my opinion about the whole thing so it's up to janet now.

Oink! oink! Arnie

stop piggin around K

kanelli wrote:Let's let the pigs go out and have a mud bath for a while. A woman will now answer your question in a more helpful way.

Do not offer to sleep with him and hope to get him to like you that way.

Guys might try to hang out with you more, or show little signs of affection like putting their arm around you, or always leaning towards you. Having said this, guys can like you but not come out and say it. They will be doing a lot of nice things for you, which is confusing because you think he is just being a good friend. Sometimes, if you think a male friend is being too attentive or helpful, just ask him if he likes you more than a friend. This happened to my sister - she didn't know the guy liked her, but he got severely pissed off when she started dating another guy. It was only then that she knew. He told her, "Didn't you know I liked you? Why else would I have fixed your computer etc. etc." Personally I think that is rude of him to blame her and be so hostile. SPEAK UP or LOSE OUT! She's married to that other guy now, and the male friend is still single. Go figure.

hmm, many things u wrote r true.
BUT u can sleep with a guy on the very first night and give the impression of an easy bit.h, and u can also do the same and still frustrate him to hell by being the first who walks out the room instead of waiting for him to hug and kiss u until u calm down. u took what u wanted, bye bye, have a nice life.
men love to be studs who fool around with women, but cannot stand the idea of them being a one night stand for a woman and being treated just like they treat us. so even if not for more, but to regain their own self respect, they will come back to u. now from that on, its totally up to u if u give him the chance to "get even" with u, or u tease him and drive him nuts.

about the other thing, of how u know if he likes u...if he is a shy guy, provoke him. act as if u make a move on him and if he gets embarassed, u know where he comes from. if he is the se.xually aggressive type, the best is to look through him as if he wasn t even there. he will be like a 5 year old from who u just took his favourite toy

but the easiest if u just look into his eyes and listen to ur own female se.x.ual instincts.

oh, and smtimes their interest is more than visible

as in

"am i pleased to see you or is that a Canoe in my pocket" ??

body language is important. the way he looks at you, checks out your figure, how into the conversation is he, if he is focusing on you he is most likely into you. Will he call? well that needs a whole new thread

if i a guy likes u , he will do anything to be with u in the same room. notices u in a large group of people. and tries anything to get close to u or have abit of body contact. he smiles alot. looks at u most of the time and doesnt pay attention to the rest.

Just general paying more attention. Guys are weird creatures at the best of times. I have this one bloke at work who insists on bringing me little treats everyday and making excuses to come to my office to see me, he's really annoying the hell out of me.

Chocoholic wrote:Just general paying more attention. Guys are weird creatures at the best of times. I have this one bloke at work who insists on bringing me little treats everyday and making excuses to come to my office to see me, he's really annoying the hell out of me.

but he not actually making any move on u right? nothing to give u the chance to say "sorry, im not interested"... that is what makes it annoying

No chick, I'm happily attached, but the way he follows me around sometimes like a little puppy is creepy.

Chocoholic wrote:No chick, I'm happily attached, but the way he follows me around sometimes like a little puppy is creepy.

exactly what im talking about regardless of u being single or attached, if he made a move, and not just follow u around, u would have the chance to tell him to back of. but if he is "only" being attentive, a rejection from u could turn out right on reverse and he could bring u in an unpleasant situation by saying u imagined it all...