Oh dear - then I've answered your questions on the first page of the thread if you're quoting the OP.
The NT is not categorical in saying that the Jews killed Jesus - Paul blames the rulers in power for Jesus' death in a verse that neither you nor your rabbi you quoted were aware of before you both began pontificating on the Bible. Additionally, Paul elsewhere says that Pilate, not the Jews, crucified Jesus.
Matthew does not say the Jews are to be blamed for Jesus' death - Matthew records a group of Jews in a crowd who make that statement (that's just poor reading on your part and the Rabbi probably can't be blamed for that).
A full reading of the New Testament makes it rather absurd to claim that the NT is any more anti-Semitic than the Hebrew Bible - the Bible blames the Hebrews for all sorts of things, etc:
Amos 2:6-16 (New International Version)
Judgment on Israel
6 This is what the LORD says:
"For three sins of Israel,
even for four, I will not turn back {my wrath}.
They sell the righteous for silver,
and the needy for a pair of sandals.
7 They trample on the heads of the poor
as upon the dust of the ground
and deny justice to the oppressed.
Father and son use the same girl
and so profane my holy name.
8 They lie down beside every altar
on garments taken in pledge.
In the house of their god
they drink wine taken as fines.
9 "I destroyed the Amorite before them,
though he was tall as the cedars
and strong as the oaks.
I destroyed his fruit above
and his roots below.
10 "I brought you up out of Egypt,
and I led you forty years in the desert
to give you the land of the Amorites.
11 I also raised up prophets from among your sons
and Nazirites from among your young men.
Is this not true, people of Israel?"
declares the LORD.
12 "But you made the Nazirites drink wine
and commanded the prophets not to prophesy.
13 "Now then, I will crush you
as a cart crushes when loaded with grain.
14 The swift will not escape,
the strong will not muster their strength,
and the warrior will not save his life.
15 The archer will not stand his ground,
the fleet-footed soldier will not get away,
and the horseman will not save his life.
16 Even the bravest warriors
will flee naked on that day,"
declares the LORD.
Now, since all of your misconceptions/questions have been addressed (since the first page), I'm left wondering what you are still griping about.