Berrin dont take offense at it - the problem is that Islam and some of its leaders pretend to believe it can be like the west, when it can't be, just be honest and upfront. The case of the drunk pakistani girl is a case in point.
The cartoons too, a guy draws a harmless cartoon and people go crazy burning buildings etc, a man tries to blow up a plane in the name of islam - where is the same outcry?
Islamic countries just need to be honest and say "this is how it is, if you come to our country women must cover up, dhimmitude" etc.