Okay Okay People!! Let the devil speak!! lol
First of all as few people mentioned is a the social structure in dubai. How!! hmm!! I dont mean to offend anyone at all!!
Been living here since I was born and all. Now before the white expats and asians like filipinoes and all. This place was filled with less of arabs as in u have the locals and few migratory ones and the whole place was filled with sub-continent asians like Indies, Pak, Sri lankans, Bangladeshi etc. We worked ourselves like anything and got this country where it stands and all. But since then us asians are very conservative and all and still few people are.
Because of which if its like preferable to have a relationship with people in our community and all. U hardly find a sub continent asian with an arab or a white expat husband or vice versa.
Then when the so called development hit Dubai. U go to any bar where mostly u find hooke.rs or u find the place is filled with males mostly than females. Cuz every guy wants one thing which is the reason females are more reluctant.
Mr M. u might be one of those genuine cases which exists in one in a thousand who would wanna have a serious relationship with a female. But u need to approach her right. Cuz other wise the female thinks u just lookin for a one night stand.
I know there are lot of females who also have fun which infact is not with any or every guy. Either the guy is loaded or is damn good looking or knows how to talk to her.
The percentage of male population here in dubai is not equal to the female population I believe and which makes guys thing stand up and if he cant find a female he rather go get himself a Hook.er. And face it!! its a fact in Dubai. And pretty difficult to find. Plus the nice so called clubs in Dubai are so racist they wont let u enter specially sub continent asians.
Because they have a notion us asians are dirty and stuff!! Bloody hell the club was built by us and not like every guy out there is dirty. I go to clubs for the music cuz I can't live without it. Everytime I get stopped even if I am dressed right attire. And the worst part is in all the white folks around me they always for some damn reason had to pick me and much worse the security guy after he catches me and all makes another asian check me like I am some kind of trash!!
Due to which say u look for a chick like u wanna hit on in the club, u cant, cuz she just say u outside getting caught to enter illegally or something. This has happened to me so many times even when I am with my white colleagues.
There are so many factors which needs to be straight to cause a relationship first and then go for the later part. But if the first impression sucks then ur screwed.
I went to bangkok. I had the money and I was treated like a king or something and I met girls, hooked up with them, went out partying, para sailing and loads of things. I couldve easily made a relationship.
But Dubai doesnt give u the chance to do that. Its is so artificial that even puke looks better!! U just gotta wait thats all I can say unless u get lucky!! And frankly speaking since ur white u have a better chance!!
Neways happy hunting!! I hope u get someone for a serious relationship though I myself believe in none because of Dubai!!