Dubai Knight wrote:OK, this is really one for he girls:
Was in a well known and very crowded Dubai watering hole and chill out venue by the beach last night. There was a fantastic ambiance about the place and lots of people just kicking back and having a good time.
The guy who was doing the music knows how to get the people up and dancing, playing live guitar and singing to a computerised backing track.
There were a number of delightful young ladies present (I won't hark back to the already discussed difficulties in breaking the ice with groups of girls, however it has highlighted the neccessity of learning a few introductory lines in Polish, Romanian and Uzbeki!) who were having a great time and letting their hair down.
Into this broke a pair of what I shall describe as 'middle aged European gentlemen' who proceeded to attempt to dance with the girls in question. Now I am not having a go at their obvious desire to break the ice, however their attempts at dancing and trying to appear young and trendy were absolutely hilarious to watch! The overall impression was: You sad muppets! It looked positively dangerous to their health as they soon became very flushed in the face and I was debating whether having an abulance on stand-by might be a good idea!
The question: If a guy sees a girl on the dancefloor, wiggling it all around on her own or with another female friend, is it a good idea to try and dance with her to attract her attention and then, hopefully when the music is not so lound, striking up a conversation and taking it from there?
If she speaks English that is!
Knight
my guess is, this is more a question of relationships and of how ppl of different ages relate to each other, than whether young women can or cannot be approached on the dancefloor.
if both the girl and the older man want to just have fun(that is, the man is paying for the illusion of being young, the girl gets a free night) than the scenario is totally irelevant.
romantic relationship is possible between a younger woman and an older man, but in this case neither the woman, nor the man will make the first move on a dancefloor. at least not ppl who belong to the "normal, common" cathegory. excentrics r another story.
either way, women give all the signes when they want a man to join their circle of dancers, regardless of the age of the man or men.
now it might be or sound discriminative, but a guy can brake the ice almost only if he is a good dancer and good looking
