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irish vanessa wrote:If she looks at you twice she's interested...1st time, she's checking you out - the second says she's attracted
About brushing by, don't make it a sleazy light brush. Do a 'genuine' bump, spill a bit of your drink on yourself & she'll laugh at you. I guarantee this will work...
It does on me anyway
irish vanessa wrote:If she looks at you twice she's interested...1st time, she's checking you out - the second says she's attracted
About brushing by, don't make it a sleazy light brush. Do a 'genuine' bump, spill a bit of your drink on yourself & she'll laugh at you. I guarantee this will work...
It does on me anyway
irish vanessa wrote:Definitely!!!!
Thats the best move you could do....
I would laugh hysterically and fall in love with you at first sight
I love a guy who can laugh at himself
Hopefully someone will pull this move on me tonight!!
Dubai Knight wrote:irish vanessa wrote:Definitely!!!!
Thats the best move you could do....
I would laugh hysterically and fall in love with you at first sight
I love a guy who can laugh at himself
Hopefully someone will pull this move on me tonight!!
Hey Arnie...it'll be easy to spot Vee down the pub! She'll be the one dripping in the corner!!!!
Knight
arniegang wrote:Bleeding good job K not online, cos i know what she will say.
Get a Sauna
I still havent forgiven K and Mr K
Dubai Knight wrote:Er...ridicule? Embarassment? Being thought of as a complete jerk?
These things are sensitive for a guy. We see someone we like the 'look' of and would like to know if she is as nice as we would hope in terms of personality, but the initial impetus is almost always going to be physical.
To see a really nice girl on the dance floor is great, however opening that first conversation and keeping it going to find out if she is as 'real' as she looks...is a huge barrier.
Crashing and burning hurts!
There are some guys who have absolutely no feelings and will spend an evening being rejected and really not care. They are shallow and just move on to the next girl and try again. These are the ones you girls have radar to avoid, but unfortunately we all end up branded as one gender, so when a genuine guy walks up...your first, and sometimes second impression, is 'jerk'.
The question of doing this on a dance floor is even more sensitive as looking or appearing to be a jerk is possibly better than trying to dance and actually proving the point!!! So we can't win!
The places where it is quiet enough to actually sit and have a chat and show how nice we are are not the places girls tend to go, unless they are attached and want to spend time chatting with their special other. Catch 22!
Still confused!
Knight
Douce`Amere wrote:Dubai Knight wrote:Er...ridicule? Embarassment? Being thought of as a complete jerk?
These things are sensitive for a guy. We see someone we like the 'look' of and would like to know if she is as nice as we would hope in terms of personality, but the initial impetus is almost always going to be physical.
To see a really nice girl on the dance floor is great, however opening that first conversation and keeping it going to find out if she is as 'real' as she looks...is a huge barrier.
Crashing and burning hurts!
There are some guys who have absolutely no feelings and will spend an evening being rejected and really not care. They are shallow and just move on to the next girl and try again. These are the ones you girls have radar to avoid, but unfortunately we all end up branded as one gender, so when a genuine guy walks up...your first, and sometimes second impression, is 'jerk'.
The question of doing this on a dance floor is even more sensitive as looking or appearing to be a jerk is possibly better than trying to dance and actually proving the point!!! So we can't win!
The places where it is quiet enough to actually sit and have a chat and show how nice we are are not the places girls tend to go, unless they are attached and want to spend time chatting with their special other. Catch 22!
Still confused!
Knight
From my side, I have a similar question... OKay, "Ladies 1st". But to take the initiative & to show herself attracted & interested is extremely difficult for a shy girl... & can be even misinterpreted... so how to do that? Look at him twice? Loool
arniegang wrote:Dubai Knight wrote:irish vanessa wrote:Definitely!!!!
Thats the best move you could do....
I would laugh hysterically and fall in love with you at first sight
I love a guy who can laugh at himself
Hopefully someone will pull this move on me tonight!!
Hey Arnie...it'll be easy to spot Vee down the pub! She'll be the one dripping in the corner!!!!
Knight
i laffed so much i nearly spat my mocha out, nice one DK
Yea Vee probably in the one in the corner, next to the table with 10 full pints on it
When we all meet up, we will both look at each other and shout "there's Vee"
Chocoholic wrote:, what is it with guys and a lack of rhythm?
irish vanessa wrote:All in all, i get the impression that meeting people is alot more difficult than it was in previous generations...
I dont know why, but me and most of my friends & most of the people i know struggle to find long term relationships...
Not that we should be looking cus thats desperate
The irony of partner-finding!
constantine wrote:Chocoholic wrote:, what is it with guys and a lack of rhythm?
who would blame us if you go to a club and the norm of the day is raising your hands like you're doing a version of "hail hitler" and turning around like a pug chasing its tail...or an native "indian" on the war path...though i've been guilty of jumping up and down on the same path...close yer eyes for long enough...and they all go away...
arniegang wrote:Na mate not the pogo, the best dance to look cool was at a S£x Pistols gig, near the front with head and arms everywhere doin the V, whilst spitting at Sid and Johnny
arniegang wrote:DK we may well we may have too if EMI or God Save the Queen ( we mean it man) is playing
or Tenpole Tudor - Whooooooo Killed Bambiiiiiiii
although we could get Pretty Vaccant
PrettyPenny wrote:
A more definite, less painful approach, would be to make eye contact and smile. And smile again, and again I suppose. IF she smiles back she's interested. Meet up with her at the bar, or on the way to the rest rooms, or any time she's away from the dance floor. Just go up to her and introduce yourself .... and don't be shy! A woman likes a man with b.a.l.l.s!
PrettyPenny wrote:What can I say HP? You gotta give some to get some!
