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I think, you think men do not know what they know but i know, I know what I know and what I do not know so I don't think I know, I actually do know !

Phew...

I don't think guys know what they want, and they don't want others to know that they don't know that they don't know what they want, so they pretend to know what they want!

melika969 wrote:but for men all these things have their seperate space, they think about all seperately and can focus on each alone...

don't you think actually it is better like this? we don't screw things from other things. women with their changing emotions tend to do this, mixing things up. probably you're upset on one thing (office, friend, bad hair, weight gain, etc etc) but blame it to your man. that's another reason why men can't stand.

but even though sometimes we don't talk about our life/problem outside the relationship/family, it doesn't mean we don't want to share. we do want to share and expect the woman to support too. but just don't tell us what to do, don't be possesive/controlling. actually it's not arrogant but rather pride. let them be "the man". we want to be "the man". we want to be needed.

^^^well it's not about our decision, women's mind is like that and that s how we are different from men. I dont think each of these is better than the other, it s just the way it is and each if these way of thinking has their own pros and cons

about the being possessive as i said before, in my own relationships as I started to need they just get away! so for me I should always be independent with no needs!

xty wrote:

dubailife wrote:Yes,correct.They dont anderstend what we need from them.

But do you understand what we (men) need too? Men also have needs but mostly being overlooked because most women tend to focus on themselves (when saying men are selfish is not all true) or being passive (e.g. everything should be men first, men should know all).

ok,tell me what he need if he live with me 10 years,he love me to mach,I give him everefing what I can and what i can not,never I not have any thing with over mans,but he always have small romance with ladis and after he jast told me that he need freedom and he living party life but till now teleng me about his love to me.ARE YOU UNDERSTEND THIS?

^^^feel sad for you dubailife

dubailife wrote:ok,tell me what he need if he live with me 10 years,he love me to mach,I give him everefing what I can and what i can not,never I not have any thing with over mans,but he always have small romance with ladis and after he jast told me that he need freedom and he living party life but till now teleng me about his love to me.ARE YOU UNDERSTEND THIS?

i'm with you. i too had 8 years of serious relationship, but she changed and had affairs with some guys. first i blamed and questioned myself, just like you now, as i never had done anything considered bad. then i stumbled upon this:

One thing that psychologists know about cheating that the general public seems to ignore is: cheating is never about the relationship… it’s not about the partner who was cheated on not being good enough. Cheating is about something wrong inside of the person who cheats, plain and simple.

therefore, no need to blame yourself and regret whatever happened in the past. don't worry, time will go by. there will be time you will understand that you don't need to understand why all of this is happening. you can't change someone. you can't change the past. you just need to accept and move on.

keyper wrote:i often hear women complaining that the guy they went out with the other night or the guy they have been dating for some time now have stopped calling them.

And they would unendingly ask, "why isn't he calling me?"
Well, who knows? Guys out there, what would be your main reason why would you give this kind of torture to women? Can't you just tell the women straightly what's happening?

I thought women are difficult but I found men more difficult & more complicated in this case.

very difficult ... sometimes we do like to hurt your feelings ... other times we do not want extra complications in our lives

Men know exactly what they want, but just like women, we change our minds sometimes

smokedawg wrote:Men know exactly what they want, but just like women, we change our minds sometimes

not only we know what we want, but with all due respect, women are just too too romantic, loyal, affectionate, considerate...

RAMO wrote:

smokedawg wrote:Men know exactly what they want, but just like women, we change our minds sometimes

not only we know what we want, but with all due respect, women are just too too romantic, loyal, affectionate, considerate...

Good qualities I would say if she is to be the mother of your children.

Bora Bora wrote:

RAMO wrote:

smokedawg wrote:Men know exactly what they want, but just like women, we change our minds sometimes

not only we know what we want, but with all due respect, women are just too too romantic, loyal, affectionate, considerate...

Good qualities I would say if she is to be the mother of your children.

I assure you that I know that very well ... good nite

There are three reasons a guy is not calling
1. Your not philipina.

2. You don't look philipina

3. You don't act like a philipina

Hi! I think if he doesn't call, you can set your ego aside and make that call! What have you got to lose anyway? I think you should just avoid overdoing it! I hope that helps!

haha .. i had fun reading this forum. yea, i think he just lost the interest and jump to another one who can fulfill his needs. huhu. experienced it.
but its just cool with me, the next time he saw me in the gym, he became so sweet, cool and asking me how am i. but thats just all. cos i also stop sending him msgs when i sense that he responds lil late. i think we just had an icecream date in baskin, a movie, we watched blended of adam sandler which was very funny, i really like him, and he said to me that he also like me. but i was too careful that he might just playing around, so i just dont know what happen with us. hehe. anyway, thats life.. just get over and think of it as a friendly date. waaaaaaaaaaah. its okay.. im okay. hehe.

ohhh dubai, i never thought it will be like this. im currently dating someone again, hope itl work out. Mr. Curiousity, Find me. -Jason Mraz enjoy ur day guys!

Hmm... when I was dating... btw, dating for me means going out together in public, not making out. It means dining, strolling, sightseeing. Anyway, when I was dating, I couldn't care less if the guy would call because I was very busy. I have a full time job and I have hobbies not to mention house chores. I just let things flow. Some of them I never met again, some we dated again.