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I can't remember which swear word gets changed to 'tasty' but that's quite funny!

Chocoholic wrote:I can't remember which swear word gets changed to 'tasty' but that's quite funny!

The temptation now is to test the filter - but ill resist as there are'meek' eyes on this forum.

Test it in Fight Club because no-one will care in there anyway.

I'm a few posts short of mailbag so as to speak, I thought you need 100 posts?

Oh you do, and then you'll have to request permission to enter.

yeah one of the most occuring problem it may happen if the gal is not much fun loving and most of the time a guy will always crack jokes or tell some funnt things bt if the gal ends up just laughing it wont get a right feed back... both shud understand wat the other likes toi speak about if not then the one wont feel like calling back...
the gal also shud be aware that she doesnt expose much during dating as most of the guys will only look for s..x and later will ditch the gal by avoiding

no apologies Choc, you've done it before to me and others. Don't ask me to research either, not all have the time you do.

keyper wrote:i often hear women complaining that the guy they went out with the other night or the guy they have been dating for some time now have stopped calling them.

And they would unendingly ask, "why isn't he calling me?"
Well, who knows? Guys out there, what would be your main reason why would you give this kind of torture to women? Can't you just tell the women straightly what's happening?

I thought women are difficult but I found men more difficult & more complicated in this case.

after readin a couple of your posts ,,, i've come to the conclusion of this ... that almost everything you've posted here on the forum is most probably things that have happend to you baby...

though im still in the assumption stage of what i've just said above ... im gonna have to continue assuming,, so as to provide a more accurate answer to your question..

with that said ... the answer is this .... he stopped callin cause you been bitchin alot .... so get your act right , an belive me you gonna be serv'd right.

Ouch Jamal - harsh!

Dawg - continue living in your delusional world hey

Well Jamal, you've got me with your answer- very blunt.
I like blunt and frank people for they make conversations interesting.
But you disappoint me with the way you dropped it – very shallow, provoking, & morbid.

With your frivolous assumption,” that almost everything you've posted here on the forum is most probably things that have happened to you baby
I do not wish to spoil your delusions (thanks for your description, chocs.) but unfortunately, you didn’t actually hit the spot my dear jamal. Don’t forget that aside from the words “own experience”, there exist other words like “from other’s experience”, heard from others”, & spoken by others”.

I’d be a crook if I’d say that I haven’t asked this question to myself. I occasionally do. But not to the extent that it’s gonna eat me. Do you know what really bothers me, it’s “why doesn’t he just stop calling me?”

So, I hope, I have enlightened your assumption.

Yet I like your answer. You’ve given something from a new angle.
Please elaborate your answer like “been bitchin’ alot?”
How do you say that a woman is ‘bitchin’ alot?”

Hi,

there are only two things in this scenario

1) boy has lost interest in her
2) may be he wants her to become little more aggressive because girls just wait for things to happen and after certain time period if girl is not responding as per boys expectation boys tends to back off a little to see what girls are upto

tell me what you thing about this
thanks

keyper wrote:Well Jamal, you've got me with your answer- very blunt.
I like blunt and frank people for they make conversations interesting.
But you disappoint me with the way you dropped it – very shallow, provoking, & morbid.

With your frivolous assumption,” that almost everything you've posted here on the forum is most probably things that have happened to you baby
I do not wish to spoil your delusions (thanks for your description, chocs.)
" im assumin that describtion by choco was meant for the poster above me ( smokedawg) , but if my assumption is wrong again , then i shall forever cease to assume about things"

but unfortunately, you didn’t actually hit the spot my dear jamal. Don’t forget that aside from the words “own experience”, there exist other words like “from other’s experience”, heard from others”, & spoken by others”.

I’d be a crook if I’d say that I haven’t asked this question to myself. I occasionally do. But not to the extent that it’s gonna eat me. Do you know what really bothers me, it’s “why doesn’t he just stop calling me?”

So, I hope, I have enlightened your assumption.

Yet I like your answer. You’ve given something from a new angle.
Please elaborate your answer like “been bitchin’ alot?”
How do you say that a woman is ‘bitchin’ alot?”

well girl , firstly thank you for appreciatin my answer .

an sometimes things need to be explained in a shallow provokin manner .. especially when the intention is to get ur point across in a blunt way , as you put it .. ... an also i aint no shrink , i cant pamper my words to suit.

an im glad to know that your problem is that he keeps calling an not that he aint callin ...

an as far as my assumption goes ... yep you very brightly enlightened it. thank you


an elaboration on my answer aint necessary ,,, especially since you already like'in it from all directions ...

razi_sc wrote:Hi,



1) boy has lost interest in her


tell me what you thing about this
thanks

"lost interest"
Okay, truth is, when a guy stopped calling, the first thing that would cross women's mind is that, "he has lost interest in me". but because women are from venus, they won't entertain that thought and instead give the guy some benefits of the doubt. they would rather think that maybe "he's busy" (which is the lamest excuse). And even if a womn accept the fact that her guy has lost interest in her, that won't make her sit and relax - she would want to know why. So again, i'll throw the same question every woman i've encountered has been asking, why can't he just tell it?

Is it too difficult?

razi_sc wrote:Hi,

2) may be he wants her to become little more aggressive because girls just wait for things to happen and after certain time period if girl is not responding as per boys expectation boys tends to back off a little to see what girls are upto

tell me what you thing about this
thanks

“Really?” guys stopped calling to make the lady become aggressive and just to see what the girl is up to? That’s, I think, another side of men which is not so obvious. As far as I know, you can’t make a woman more aggressive in this way – but instead, you would make them weaker.

And may I just say something about “girls just wait for things to happen”, - not absolutely true. Girl’s just like playin’ on the safe road.

But anyway, your answers could help girls out there to understand more guys’ non-verbal actions!

no its not that difficult unless girl has made it

explanation is if you put too much pressure on the boy and keep arguing on every small things like why you late ?, why you watching other girl, etc you know what i mean. then guys tends to back off they

then they keep their feeling to them only

what you say?

first of all i am not trying to make any woman aggressive its about those guys who does that

i am just sharing my thoughts

and as for safe road is concern girls are right but if they find a love of their life i think then road is already safe for her

according to my thoughts both boy and girl are equally responsible for this situation

Just read the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' - explains everything.

Chocoholic wrote:Just read the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' - explains everything.

Sometimes I wonder what's the purpose of reading this kind of book. To understand more about opposite s3x? Sometimes we tried so hard to understand and fulfill other but forget what we deserve and be ourselves. It's perfect when things work both ways, but in reality it is rarely happening (e.g. one being taken for granted).

i agree to the guy who said that he is just not that into you.

think of it this way:
you are in a shop and there is this gorgeous shoes that you wanted to buy
you are now contemplating which one to gey - red or gold?
note that both have the same style, price and brand
but you can only buy one

now, if he stopped calling --- you have to stop thinking about it and stop asking why he hasnt called anymore? that only means that he had lost interest on you. dont feel bad about it or to yourself. nothing is wrong with you - these things happens to everyone.

what you should next is go out and have fun! meet new friends and get back in the game

Chocoholic wrote:Because guys just think differently. Whereas we sit checking our phones for calls and messages every two seconds, they're off doing stuff and don't really give it much thought.

Yes,correct.They dont anderstend what we need from them.

dubailife wrote:

Chocoholic wrote:Because guys just think differently. Whereas we sit checking our phones for calls and messages every two seconds, they're off doing stuff and don't really give it much thought.

Yes,correct.They dont anderstend what we need from them.

Not when we truly love. We re good when we truly love.

dubailife wrote:Yes,correct.They dont anderstend what we need from them.

But do you understand what we (men) need too? Men also have needs but mostly being overlooked because most women tend to focus on themselves (when saying men are selfish is not all true) or being passive (e.g. everything should be men first, men should know all).

xty wrote: (e.g. everything should be men first, men should know all).

yeah, casue when women start to care, men will go in to their cave! they always need to be ignored to get out! ( not all men of course, but this is typical between them!!)

melika969 wrote:

xty wrote: (e.g. everything should be men first, men should know all).

yeah, casue when women start to care, men will go in to their cave! they always need to be ignored to get out! ( not all men of course, but this is typical between them!!)

Have you beewn reading 'men are from mars, women are from venus' too?

LOL - I laughed so much when I read that book - all so so true!

^^^No I didnt read the book, I talk based on experience!

coz. the guy isn't getting what he wants !

or coz lots of the guys dont know what they want!!

I think that's closer to the truth!

^^^Chocs is that u talking trough my name again?!!

i m sure I didnt write the second sentence above!!!!

melika969 wrote:yeah, casue when women start to care, men will go in to their cave! they always need to be ignored to get out! ( not all men of course, but this is typical between them!!)

there's a difference between being caring/supporting and possessive/controlling. being the latter for example the husbands who are afraid of their wives. do you really want your men to be like that? no wonder some of those men try to get out

^^^oh I think the problem is the difference between definitions of caring/supporting and possessive/controlling! Of course vital issue!

By "get out" i meant get out of their cave not get out of therealtionship!