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Meat heads - lol true, too many knocks to head followed by copius amount of alcohol lol.

I think in part it can be true that you find love when you least expect it. Trying too hard smacks of desperation anway.

why its difficult to find a decent guy in dubai... a hindu proverb says if u search God with true dedication he will come infront of u and so searching a guy wont matter much think positive and there is nothing called perfect in every1 they will have sum or the other defect in each and evry human being.. to find sum decent guys go and sit near abra creek side u will find many who r looking for life time relationship u may even find me there bt not always
i told creek side cos i dnt knw any other silent place as i am new here

Roadtester wrote:Meat heads - lol true, too many knocks to head followed by copius amount of alcohol lol.

I think in part it can be true that you find love when you least expect it. Trying too hard smacks of desperation anway.

Well as I said, it's more an opportunity to meet new people and that's always cool. It's true that if you go looking then nothing ever really happens, but there's nothing wrong with putting yourself in social situations which encourage something - lol

wilfred wrote:why its difficult to find a decent guy in dubai... a hindu proverb says if u search God with true dedication he will come infront of u and so searching a guy wont matter much think positive and there is nothing called perfect in every1 they will have sum or the other defect in each and evry human being.. to find sum decent guys go and sit near abra creek side u will find many who r looking for life time relationship u may even find me there bt not always
i told creek side cos i dnt knw any other silent place as i am new here

What? er no!

A tip for the guys. Google Mystery Method Erik von Markovik. I'm a true believer and convert works 110% and I say this from personal experince

From being a social outcast when it came to women to having almost date ( a with a new woman I might add ) every other day

I know the women research or read will refuse to believe it can be true and they can't be so predictable or gulliable

But I've retired now and happily married.

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LOL - I would have thought that was all pretty obvious!

Unfortunately, clubs and bars are the venues for people to go to in the hope of meeting someone. From what I have seen in the clubs, and by what I have heard men say, it comes down to the message you send. The way you dress and behave sends a message. This applies to both male and female, but more so for women.

If you dress like a tart and behave like a tart what message do you think you are sending out? What do you expect guys to think? If you dress and behave cheap, that's how you are going to be perceived and treated.

When sitting with a group of people and listening to the comments made by the guys about females, I'm embarassed for those girls. They can be the nicest and sweetest people, but the message they send screams "I get around". Men sit there and say "I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole." This is said based on appearance. When you don't get the "respect" you are looking for you blame the man, rather than consider it may have something to do with you. Your behavior, the way you dress - the message you send!!

Rarely do you see girls in clubs dressed in a manner that sets them apart from the rest. That's what attracts men - setting yourself apart from the rest. Dressing cheap and drinking like a fish and getting sloppy is not at all attractive. What it does attract is the very sort of guy you aren't looking for, yet settle for at the end of the night. On the other hand, the same guy may have a whole different agenda if he met someone who sends a different message. Its the first impression that determines what direction that man will go. Usually men can't or don't even want to get past the first impression.

I know its not the best analogy but: high class call girls are just that - high class! They have rich clientele who actually respect these women because they dress with class, behave classy and can be taken to the best places anywhere without advertising their profession. These women, and their clientele, know there is a world of difference between a streetwalker and a high class call girl. What I'm trying to say is, appearance and behavior counts for alot!! If you dress and behave like a lady, you will be treated like one. If you dress like a tart, you should know what to expect.

So Bora are you saying if a women is wearing a short dress you treat her like a prostitute?

I don't think Bora is saying that, but if you put it all on show, leaving little to the imagination, well then there's no mystery is there. In all honesty if I go to a club, then I dress for dancing not to pick up guys. But it is true many women can be totally off putting, potty mouth, drinking like there is no tomorrow, looking slutty, it's all not very attractive really is it. It has a little more to do than the length of your hemline, otherwise where would we have been in the 60's!

But it cuts both ways, men that sink beer like it was going out of fashion acting like Jack the lad, wearing jeans with a crotch down to their knees or ill fitting clothes and being crude is sooooooo unattractive too.

Bora Bora wrote:I know its not the best analogy but: high class call girls are just that - high class! They have rich clientele who actually respect these women because they dress with class, behave classy and can be taken to the best places anywhere without advertising their profession. These women, and their clientele, know there is a world of difference between a streetwalker and a high class call girl. What I'm trying to say is, appearance and behavior counts for alot!! If you dress and behave like a lady, you will be treated like one. If you dress like a tart, you should know what to expect.

It's hardly right even for sluts because after the first impression should be the second and third but lack of education and poor childhood somewhere in Bronx are almost impossible to hide.

Roadtester wrote:So Bora are you saying if a women is wearing a short dress you treat her like a prostitute?

No, that's not what I am saying. I guess you don't quite understand my reply. Please re-read it. What it boils down to is if you go to a club or bar dressed a certain way, expect to attract a certain element. If you go for a job interview, do you wear your party clothes?? Do you wear your beach clothes?? You wear what you think is your best so as to impress.

Chocoholic wrote:I don't think Bora is saying that, but if you put it all on show, leaving little to the imagination, well then there's no mystery is there. In all honesty if I go to a club, then I dress for dancing not to pick up guys. But it is true many women can be totally off putting, potty mouth, drinking like there is no tomorrow, looking slutty, it's all not very attractive really is it. It has a little more to do than the length of your hemline, otherwise where would we have been in the 60's!

But it cuts both ways, men that sink beer like it was going out of fashion acting like Jack the lad, wearing jeans with a crotch down to their knees or ill fitting clothes and being crude is sooooooo unattractive too.

Thank you!!!!! It does cut both ways. It's nice when you put yourself in a position to have options, rather than having to settle.

Red Chief wrote:

Bora Bora wrote:I know its not the best analogy but: high class call girls are just that - high class! They have rich clientele who actually respect these women because they dress with class, behave classy and can be taken to the best places anywhere without advertising their profession. These women, and their clientele, know there is a world of difference between a streetwalker and a high class call girl. What I'm trying to say is, appearance and behavior counts for alot!! If you dress and behave like a lady, you will be treated like one. If you dress like a tart, you should know what to expect.

It's hardly right even for sluts because after the first impression should be the second and third but lack of education and poor childhood somewhere in Bronx are almost impossible to hide.

Well if that's the case, there are alot of women from the Bronx with a Russian accent right here in Dubai.

I'm sure you make sure your women always dress appropriate. A potato sack made of hemp will definitely keep your women safe.

A few years ago I remember there was a woman who started up a "group meeting" where you would register with her, and she would arrange dinners where 10 people - all strangers - would meet up. A way to meet people. People would join and she would make the dinner arrangements, circulating people so that you got to meet different people at each dinner. Great concept. Don't know what happened to it. They have these group meeting organizations in the states and was very popular.

Bora Bora wrote:Well if that's the case, there are alot of women from the Bronx with a Russian accent right here in Dubai.

I'm sure you make sure your women always dress appropriate. A potato sack made of hemp will definitely keep your women safe.

Bronx accent is something that is not possible to mix up with anything, especialy with Russian.

As for dress It should be rather stylish than expensive and expresses some personality and taste, if they are available.

Red Chief wrote:

Bora Bora wrote:Well if that's the case, there are alot of women from the Bronx with a Russian accent right here in Dubai.

I'm sure you make sure your women always dress appropriate. A potato sack made of hemp will definitely keep your women safe.

Bronx accent is something that is not possible to mix up with anything, especialy with Russian.

As for dress It should be rather stylish than expensive and expresses some personality and taste, if they are available.

The Bronx may have just been a stopover for them. But the accent is definitely Russian. I understand they say "vun dulla" instead of one dolla" when negotiating.

As far as dress goes, their "employers" do tend to lay out money on clothing, which is merely a "loan". I'm sure that in order to cover the cost of the clothing they "work" to pay the loan off.

Bora Bora wrote:The Bronx may have just been a stopover for them. But the accent is definitely Russian. I understand they say "vun dulla" instead of one dolla" when negotiating.

And over here in Nasr Square they Khabibi One khAndred !

Bora Bora wrote:The Bronx may have just been a stopover for them. But the accent is definitely Russian. I understand they say "vun dulla" instead of one dolla" when negotiating.

Probably it was temporary for them, not for you, darling.

By the way what did you negotiate for?
You wanted some unusual service from them or another client wanted a mixed nationality threesome?

Only just for information Russians would have never said "dulla". Probably you heard girls of another nationality.

Red Chief wrote:

Bora Bora wrote:The Bronx may have just been a stopover for them. But the accent is definitely Russian. I understand they say "vun dulla" instead of one dolla" when negotiating.

Probably it was temporary for them, not for you, darling.

By the way what did you negotiate for?
You wanted some unusual service from them or another client wanted a mixed nationality threesome?

Only just for information Russians would have never said "dulla". Probably you heard girls of another nationality.

First: I said "I understand" not "I heard" - they say vun dulla. Comes from approaching people who they think may be potential "clients", when they weren't.

Second: I wouldn't know about negotiating in that trade. That seems to be their area of expertise.

I guess their "Big Dada" in the US had a sale and some "Big Papa" bought them in bulk and shipped the goods to Dubai.

And why do you keep insisting that I lived in the Bronx? I have never even got close to it! Possibly because I didn't have the right passport for entry.

Stop smoking, dear. Your pot plant is almost bald. I have never insisted that you are from Bronx. So your attack was absolutely misplaced as usual.

It's probably your childish fears.

Possibly because I didn't have the right passport for entry.

As you cannot understand any word in Russian correctly you DID and DO have.

Choc - update? how'd it go?

I think choc may find her soul mate and has gone to the honey moon already!

Red Chief wrote:Stop smoking, dear. Your pot plant is almost bald. I have never insisted that you are from Bronx. So your attack was absolutely misplaced as usual.

It's probably your childish fears.

Possibly because I didn't have the right passport for entry.

As you cannot understand any word in Russian correctly you DID and DO have.

Then maybe it would help if you stopped speaking to me in Russian. And you are always referring to me coming from the Bronx. And my plant wouldn't be bald if you stopped climbing through my window when I'm not home and picking the leaves off of it!!!

desertdudeshj wrote:

Bora Bora wrote:The Bronx may have just been a stopover for them. But the accent is definitely Russian. I understand they say "vun dulla" instead of one dolla" when negotiating.

And over here in Nasr Square they Khabibi One khAndred !

LMAO!!!!

Nasr Square?? Then that must be one khandred fils they are asking for.

LOL - well it was nice actually. Everyone moved around the table to get a chance to speak to one another. No guys there that were really my type, but it was good in the respect that it was nice to meet knew people in a civilized manner.

A few numbers were exchanged from what I gather.

We have another one on Sunday night - lol

Bora Bora wrote:Then maybe it would help if you stopped speaking to me in Russian. And you are always referring to me coming from the Bronx. And my plant wouldn't be bald if you stopped climbing through my window when I'm not home and picking the leaves off of it!!!

How good you started but in the end it's the same game "I ain't stupid! You are stupid yourself".

Anyway I was delighted especially with your trick about right passport. It was really hillarious.

Have a nice day.

Chocoholic wrote:LOL - well it was nice actually. Everyone moved around the table to get a chance to speak to one another. No guys there that were really my type, but it was good in the respect that it was nice to meet knew people in a civilized manner.

A few numbers were exchanged from what I gather.

We have another one on Sunday night - lol

Wow another on sunday lol, good to hear it went well. Well you never know choc - someone who comes along might have a best mate!