Posted Jan 29, 2009
Good morning again, nice to hear from you, about the expact muslim that they live here and they away from wife(like Indian/Pakistan/Arab countries) yeah they don't get divorce automatically if you have one of the reasons(war, sick and you need treatment/job that you need feed your family/......more), this people are in category of job to feed the family, any other reasons it is not acceptable in Islam and sharia law, if you are away from your wife for more than 3 months and there is no acceptable reason than the both are automatically divorce, they have to remarried again, why? in this period can be happened lot of things, that is why it is called haram(prohibited), so they need remarried in mosque again, for E.g in ost of the Muslim countries like pakistan /india/egypt/........people married at mosque first. the imam has to sign the marriage certificate with all witnesses.
later they are going to the office to get another certificate for passport reason, there is 1000 people that they are not registered in office only in mosque or at home by imam , if you can not go to mosque the imam will come to your home, my parents they are married and they never had office registered marriage certificate, I am sure alot of people who read this one right now they know that parents don't have marriage certificate at all, just mosque nd imam is enough for them,
but in dubai, yes it is commercial city, everything should be on paper. you need lot of certificate(work/marriage/school) ,
about me, going to England doesn't help me at all, yes I can get divorce without her be present in mosque or by imam, but she should know and right down letter or make video/voice (small) as evidence to say yes I want divorce . but she need declare that she hasn't been abused or treated or forced to get divorce, she is healthy(mentally / physical) , if she is sick or pregnant she can not get divorce,
In Australia, you can get divorce, but you can not get remarried , till 1 year later, but that is inside Australia, you can have girlfriend straightaway but not wife, looks bit silly,anyway but in Islam man can remarried again in anytime, but woman after divorce they can not get remarried straightaway, they have to wait for 3 months(3x blood period).
luckily we don't have kids, and our finance are not connected together, she has own property I do my own as well, in our marriage certificate we declare no finance connection, that is mean later she/I can take her/my property(ripping each others off), so ours is very simple,
I am going to court marriage section today see what they say, but I do not need lawyer but i need witness, you need lawyer when you have kids/finance problem,
I don't know if you want be one of my witness for divorce,lol